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Thomas Bender, L.P.C.
Thomas Bender, L.P.C.
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
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Thomas Bender, L.P.C.

Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC

Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
Paonia, CO 81428
Let's Connect (505) 681-1140
Come, Come Whoever You are. Ours it not a caravan of despair. (Rumi) Many of us are looking for greater meaning and purpose in our lives. Often we look outside ourselves for answers instead of inwards, towards our own resilient hearts. For 26 years I've worked with people seeking support and more fulfillment in their lives and relationships. Whatever challenges you are facing, you don't have to do it alone. This is your time to awaken and to become the person you were meant to be.
I work with individuals and couples seeking deeper connection and more fulfilling relationships. I am certified in Terry Real's "Relational Life Therapy" model and also use EMDR and mindfulness techniques to assist in trauma recovery. Along with my training and experience as a therapist, I bring 15 years of marriage and parenthood from which to draw.
I bring compassion, direct honesty, and a sense of humor into the counseling room. My goal is to meet you where you are and help you get to where you want to be. While my physical practice is based on the beautiful Western Slope of Colorado, I work online with clients around the world.
Call or Thomas Bender, L.P.C. now for a free 15 minute consultation - (505) 681-1140

Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Paonia, CO 81428

(505) 681-1140
I work with people in-person or via tele-therapy. I'm available weekdays and Sundays.
I specialize in Marital and Premarital, Anxiety and Men's Issues 
$100 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals, couples and groups  
Let's Connect (505) 681-1140

Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Paonia, CO 81428

(505) 681-1140
I work with people in-person or via tele-therapy. I'm available weekdays and Sundays.
I specialize in Marital and Premarital, Anxiety and Men's Issues 
$100 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals, couples and groups  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $100
  • Couple Sessions $130
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible
  • Pay by Cash, Check, Paypal

Insurance

  • Anthem | Elevance
  • Blue Cross
  • BlueCross and BlueShield
  • Out of Network
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I am a provider for Blue Cross/Anthem. Please contact your patient relations person to find out if you have a deductible for mental health services. PayPal invoices are sent out for private pay clients and copays.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (505) 681-1140
Thomas Bender, L.P.C.
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
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I am a provider for Blue Cross/Anthem. Please contact your patient relations person to find out if you have a deductible for mental health services. PayPal invoices are sent out for private pay clients and copays.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (505) 681-1140
Thomas Bender, L.P.C.
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC

Qualifications

    Licensed Professional Counselor: Tom Bender
  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Colorado / 0013088 Tom Bender
  • In Practice for 28 Years
  • Certificate from The State of Colorado--DORA LPC 0013088 / 2016
  • Certificate from Relational Life Institute 2018
  • Attended Naropa University, Graduated 1996
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I am formally certified in Terry Real's "Relational Life Therapy" model.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (505) 681-1140
Thomas Bender, L.P.C.
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
"
I am formally certified in Terry Real's "Relational Life Therapy" model.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (505) 681-1140
Thomas Bender, L.P.C.
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Marital and Premarital
  • Anxiety
  • Men's Issues
  • Depression
  • Infidelity

Expertise

  • Bipolar Disorder
  • Cheating and Affair Recovery
  • Codependency
  • Divorce
  • Domestic Abuse
  • Family Conflict
  • Grief
  • LGBTQ+
  • Life Coaching
  • Mood Disorders
  • Narcissistic Personality (NPD)
  • Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
  • Parenting
  • Personality Disorders
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Spirituality
  • Stress
  • Thinking Disorders
  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Veterans
  • Women's Issues
Do these issues align with your needs? or (505) 681-1140
Thomas Bender, L.P.C.
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Do these issues align with your needs? or (505) 681-1140
Thomas Bender, L.P.C.
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC

Client Focus

Age

Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Group

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
Lesbian Allied
Single Mother

Ethnicity

Native American
Other Racial or Ethnic Background

I also speak

Un poco Espanol

Age

Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Group

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
Lesbian Allied
Single Mother

Ethnicity

Native American
Other Racial or Ethnic Background

I also speak

Un poco Espanol

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • 1) Relational Life Therapy 2) Spiritual Support
  • Attachment-based
  • Compassion Focused
  • Eclectic
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Experiential Therapy
  • Family / Marital
  • Imago
  • Interpersonal
  • Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
  • Person-Centered
  • Relational
  • Strength-Based
  • Transpersonal
  • Trauma Focused
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. or (505) 681-1140
Thomas Bender, L.P.C.
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. or (505) 681-1140
Thomas Bender, L.P.C.
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC

Groups

Location

Primary Location

Paonia, CO 81428

(505) 681-1140
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I work with people in-person or via tele-therapy. I'm available weekdays and Sundays.
Call for a free consultation now - (505) 681-1140
Thomas Bender, L.P.C.
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
"
I work with people in-person or via tele-therapy. I'm available weekdays and Sundays.
Call for a free consultation now - (505) 681-1140
Thomas Bender, L.P.C.
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Last Modified: 29 Apr 2024