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John Stewart Hale
Psychologist, EdD, LADC, CCS
Verified Verified
Bangor, ME 04401  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
I provide brief, targeted treatment to help couples take responsibility for their own actions.
Dr. Hale focuses on marital therapy with a special interest in fostering couple intimacy as well as addressing potential problems with communication, attachment, and sexuality. A major treatment goal is to offer new strategies in resolving persistent relationship problems and conflicts. Treatment tends to be brief, highly focused, and direct. It requires clients to be open to new perceptions of their behaviors as well as new perceptions of the problem. This is treatment directed to couples committed to their relationship, who recognize each contribute 50% to the problem, and who will focus on changing their own behavior.
I provide brief, targeted treatment to help couples take responsibility for their own actions.
Dr. Hale focuses on marital therapy with a special interest in fostering couple intimacy as well as addressing potential problems with communication, attachment, and sexuality. A major treatment goal is to offer new strategies in resolving persistent relationship problems and conflicts. Treatment tends to be brief, highly focused, and direct. It requires clients to be open to new perceptions of their behaviors as well as new perceptions of the problem. This is treatment directed to couples committed to their relationship, who recognize each contribute 50% to the problem, and who will focus on changing their own behavior.
(207) 618-8856 View (207) 618-8856
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Allen Shamon
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Bangor, ME 04401  (Online Only)
Hello, and welcome! I specialize in working with individuals working through difficult trauma, complex relationship issues, and the LGBTQ+ community. I work closely with individuals struggling with different forms of mental disorders and help my clients forge a new path forward toward healing and wholeness. My passion is in therapy, and I am humbled and grateful when people invite me to play a meaningful role in their lives.
Hello, and welcome! I specialize in working with individuals working through difficult trauma, complex relationship issues, and the LGBTQ+ community. I work closely with individuals struggling with different forms of mental disorders and help my clients forge a new path forward toward healing and wholeness. My passion is in therapy, and I am humbled and grateful when people invite me to play a meaningful role in their lives.
(207) 280-8698 View (207) 280-8698
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Kaleigh McAfee
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, LMFT-C
Verified Verified
Bangor, ME 04401  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
I have supported individuals, couples, and families on a variety of issues including sexual trauma, depression, death/dying/grief, identity issues, premarital counseling, infidelity, relational ambivalence, life transitions, and marital conflict.
If you’re ready for change, I’m ready to be with you through it. I'm client-led and allow expansive space for your growth. I value humor, honesty, direct communication, and deep personal connection in the therapeutic relationship. While I’m trained in many types of therapy to provide treatment unique to each client, I gravitate to the deep internal work performed with Internal Family Systems, Emotion-Focused, Experiential, and Narrative therapies. I am an iRest Yoga Nidra meditation teacher and yoga teacher, and can use this style of meditation or movement collaboratively for self-exploration and/or regulation during sessions.
I have supported individuals, couples, and families on a variety of issues including sexual trauma, depression, death/dying/grief, identity issues, premarital counseling, infidelity, relational ambivalence, life transitions, and marital conflict.
If you’re ready for change, I’m ready to be with you through it. I'm client-led and allow expansive space for your growth. I value humor, honesty, direct communication, and deep personal connection in the therapeutic relationship. While I’m trained in many types of therapy to provide treatment unique to each client, I gravitate to the deep internal work performed with Internal Family Systems, Emotion-Focused, Experiential, and Narrative therapies. I am an iRest Yoga Nidra meditation teacher and yoga teacher, and can use this style of meditation or movement collaboratively for self-exploration and/or regulation during sessions.
(207) 204-3248 View (207) 204-3248
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Healing Tree Therapy LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Bangor, ME 04401  (Online Only)
Welcome to the start of your healing journey! I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker specializing in psychotherapy for adults in Maine and New Hampshire. I offer evidenced-based practices to include cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, motivational interviewing, acceptance and commitment therapy, and trauma focused therapy. Additionally, I provide supervision for fully and conditionally licensed counselors.
Welcome to the start of your healing journey! I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker specializing in psychotherapy for adults in Maine and New Hampshire. I offer evidenced-based practices to include cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, motivational interviewing, acceptance and commitment therapy, and trauma focused therapy. Additionally, I provide supervision for fully and conditionally licensed counselors.
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Tammy Day
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-S, LCDC, C-DBT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bangor, ME 04401  (Online Only)
Are you in need of a life reset? Does it appear to others that you have it all together but inside you are struggling? Chances are you’ve tried to resolve these issues by yourself and you feel like running into numerous obstacles in life. The time has come to change the narrative. I would love to help you explore the obstacles in your life, identify changes that want or need to be made and work on providing the tools to do so.
Are you in need of a life reset? Does it appear to others that you have it all together but inside you are struggling? Chances are you’ve tried to resolve these issues by yourself and you feel like running into numerous obstacles in life. The time has come to change the narrative. I would love to help you explore the obstacles in your life, identify changes that want or need to be made and work on providing the tools to do so.
(254) 249-3724 View (254) 249-3724
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Behavioral Health Center
Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Verified Verified
Bangor, ME 04401
Not accepting new clients
Behavioral Health Center is a Maine licensed outpatient mental health facility. BHC offers outpatient therapy to children, adults, couples and groups. Our educated, highly respected and professional staff are committed to utilizing evidence-based best practices to provide counseling and psychotherapy for numerous treatment needs.
Behavioral Health Center is a Maine licensed outpatient mental health facility. BHC offers outpatient therapy to children, adults, couples and groups. Our educated, highly respected and professional staff are committed to utilizing evidence-based best practices to provide counseling and psychotherapy for numerous treatment needs.
(207) 613-4844 View (207) 613-4844
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Megan Cullen
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, MSEd
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Bangor, ME 04401
Not accepting new clients
Sometimes, folx are concerned that their therapist is going to make them lie on a couch while they say nondescript and cryptic things like "hmmm" and "I see" and "how does that make you feel?" While I do ask the last question, I can promise that my client work is not that of the 1920s. I believe that you are the best expert on yourself and my role as your therapist is to help you uncover what you already know and put it into action. Reaching out to a therapist can be scary, but I hope you'll take that moment - perhaps after a few deep breaths - to give it a shot.
Sometimes, folx are concerned that their therapist is going to make them lie on a couch while they say nondescript and cryptic things like "hmmm" and "I see" and "how does that make you feel?" While I do ask the last question, I can promise that my client work is not that of the 1920s. I believe that you are the best expert on yourself and my role as your therapist is to help you uncover what you already know and put it into action. Reaching out to a therapist can be scary, but I hope you'll take that moment - perhaps after a few deep breaths - to give it a shot.
(720) 571-4423 View (720) 571-4423

More Therapists Nearby

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Charles McKay
Counselor, LCPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Brewer, ME 04412
Waitlist for new clients
I offer both individual and relationship healing, particularly in context of trauma recovery, anger management, burnout, and addiction. Usually all of those issues connect and we all can find layers of work to do in each area. I can't promise to fix your relationship or heal all your wounds, but I can offer support, encouragement, and honest feedback about the challenges and opportunities you are facing.
I offer both individual and relationship healing, particularly in context of trauma recovery, anger management, burnout, and addiction. Usually all of those issues connect and we all can find layers of work to do in each area. I can't promise to fix your relationship or heal all your wounds, but I can offer support, encouragement, and honest feedback about the challenges and opportunities you are facing.
(207) 464-2598 View (207) 464-2598

Online Therapists

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Michael Scheib
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, C-DBT, MS Ed
Verified Verified
Augusta, ME 04330  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
I often work with individuals that are struggling with Eating Disorders, Borderline Personality Disorder, OCD, Depression, Anxiety, PTSD, Intimate relationship issues, Sexual issues, and Autism.
Hello! I am glad you have taken a step to better your mental health! I am primarily working with Adults at this time, but will work with children 14+. I use goal-oriented therapy that involves the individual in every step of the process. The modalities of therapy I use, are evidence-based (CBT, ACT, DBT, etc.), which aim to decrease interfering thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, as well as increase happiness and success in life. We will also work together in a holistic manner to insure we are addressing all aspects of your life that could affect mental health!
I often work with individuals that are struggling with Eating Disorders, Borderline Personality Disorder, OCD, Depression, Anxiety, PTSD, Intimate relationship issues, Sexual issues, and Autism.
Hello! I am glad you have taken a step to better your mental health! I am primarily working with Adults at this time, but will work with children 14+. I use goal-oriented therapy that involves the individual in every step of the process. The modalities of therapy I use, are evidence-based (CBT, ACT, DBT, etc.), which aim to decrease interfering thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, as well as increase happiness and success in life. We will also work together in a holistic manner to insure we are addressing all aspects of your life that could affect mental health!
(207) 501-3392 View (207) 501-3392
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Mark Holbrook
Counselor, PhD, PE, LCPC
Verified Verified
Brunswick, ME 04011
I work with individuals & couples to solve challenges associated with anxiety, depression, divorce/separation, sexual issues and life transitions.
At present, my practice is limited to men and women in the law enforcement community and their families.
I work with individuals & couples to solve challenges associated with anxiety, depression, divorce/separation, sexual issues and life transitions.
At present, my practice is limited to men and women in the law enforcement community and their families.
(207) 518-7502 View (207) 518-7502
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Carrie Louise Roberts, LCSW
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Yarmouth, ME 04096
Waitlist for new clients
Hello, I provide both individual & couples therapy. You might be curious about couples therapy because… you are in a new relationship and want to build solid skills for the future, or you and your partner are at a crossroads. Couples may seek a trained therapist for many reasons, but ultimately to support their relationship and learn new skills. As an individual, you may be struggling with anxiety, depression, the impact of trauma, or relationship conflict and longing for a space to put yourself first and work on your growth.
Hello, I provide both individual & couples therapy. You might be curious about couples therapy because… you are in a new relationship and want to build solid skills for the future, or you and your partner are at a crossroads. Couples may seek a trained therapist for many reasons, but ultimately to support their relationship and learn new skills. As an individual, you may be struggling with anxiety, depression, the impact of trauma, or relationship conflict and longing for a space to put yourself first and work on your growth.
(207) 560-0439 View (207) 560-0439
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Luna Aurelia Colt
Pre-Licensed Professional, LCPC-C
Verified Verified
Brunswick, ME 04011
I currently have openings for in-person coaching work in my office in Brunswick, or via Telehealth. I work with individuals and couples who are navigating experiences of anxiety, OCD, life transitions, grief, heartbreak, shame, relationship issues, trauma, belonging, and self-worth. Together we will try to make sense of how you’re feeling, discern what you’re needing, and work towards harmonious, courageous, and honest relationships. We might discover limiting beliefs and attempt to release them. We will look at your story, your past, and your dreams, and make connections as we slow down, investigate, unscramble, feel, and heal.
I currently have openings for in-person coaching work in my office in Brunswick, or via Telehealth. I work with individuals and couples who are navigating experiences of anxiety, OCD, life transitions, grief, heartbreak, shame, relationship issues, trauma, belonging, and self-worth. Together we will try to make sense of how you’re feeling, discern what you’re needing, and work towards harmonious, courageous, and honest relationships. We might discover limiting beliefs and attempt to release them. We will look at your story, your past, and your dreams, and make connections as we slow down, investigate, unscramble, feel, and heal.
(207) 492-7514 View (207) 492-7514
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Advanced Counseling and Therapy Ctr
Counselor, MA, NCC, LCPC, LPC, BCPC
Verified Verified
Belgrade, ME 04917
Caring, competent and effective counseling, A Trauma Relief Center for Couples and Individuals with Anxiety, PTSD, Performance Anxiety, depression, couples power struggles & alienation; career and business issues. Feeling Lost? I can help you meet your most challenging issues. Feel connected and joyful again. Manage stress from PTSD, trauma, anxiety, unresolvedcircular issues, depression, anger infidelity. As your coach / therapist we work together to help you find Your way back to loving your life again. "With courage and new skills you CAN do anything!" Wonderful help for couples, families, individuals, veterans. Confidential
Caring, competent and effective counseling, A Trauma Relief Center for Couples and Individuals with Anxiety, PTSD, Performance Anxiety, depression, couples power struggles & alienation; career and business issues. Feeling Lost? I can help you meet your most challenging issues. Feel connected and joyful again. Manage stress from PTSD, trauma, anxiety, unresolvedcircular issues, depression, anger infidelity. As your coach / therapist we work together to help you find Your way back to loving your life again. "With courage and new skills you CAN do anything!" Wonderful help for couples, families, individuals, veterans. Confidential
(207) 358-4004 View (207) 358-4004
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Benjamin Borkan
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Belfast, ME 04915
I have worked with individuals, couples, families, and groups since 2012 and brings both my professional experience, training in relationship therapy, and direct, lived experience to best support couples towards their goals.
I am passionate about working with couples to achieve a more intimate and satisfying relationship. In therapy, I work with each individual to identify issues that are interfering in achieving these and use a strengths-based approach to support clients to develop better ways of relating. I believe that the best way to get to the root of the issue is through being open and direct with clients.
I have worked with individuals, couples, families, and groups since 2012 and brings both my professional experience, training in relationship therapy, and direct, lived experience to best support couples towards their goals.
I am passionate about working with couples to achieve a more intimate and satisfying relationship. In therapy, I work with each individual to identify issues that are interfering in achieving these and use a strengths-based approach to support clients to develop better ways of relating. I believe that the best way to get to the root of the issue is through being open and direct with clients.
(207) 386-9883 View (207) 386-9883
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Lori Hobart
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Phippsburg, ME 04562
I will be on vacation until 2/19/23. I bring warmth, compassion and years of experience, in my work as I help people heal, acquire skills and live with more ease in their lives. I have extensive training in couples counseling and parenting work. I have over 26 years of experience helping people with anxiety, depression, trauma, substance misuse, sexual issues, chronic illness, work issues, friendships, etc. I believe in continuing to grow and learn so that I may be of the most benefit to my clients. I work in an inter-actional, relational framework with people from 17 to 100 as individuals, couples, and families.
I will be on vacation until 2/19/23. I bring warmth, compassion and years of experience, in my work as I help people heal, acquire skills and live with more ease in their lives. I have extensive training in couples counseling and parenting work. I have over 26 years of experience helping people with anxiety, depression, trauma, substance misuse, sexual issues, chronic illness, work issues, friendships, etc. I believe in continuing to grow and learn so that I may be of the most benefit to my clients. I work in an inter-actional, relational framework with people from 17 to 100 as individuals, couples, and families.
(207) 389-7401 View (207) 389-7401
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Joel Lavenson - Advanced Counseling and Therapy
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, NCC, LPC, LCPC, BC
Verified Verified
Belgrade, ME 04917
Serving Connecticut and Maine with a love for helping others, A Caring, Competent and Effective counseling approach. Board Certified PTSD Clinician Board Certified Professional Counselor NEW OnLine Video Remote EMDR treatment for PTSD Certified Clinical IMAGO Relationship Therapist Certified Clinical EMDR Specialist Advanced Counseling and Therapy Center, is a powerful and compassionate counseling approach that works when other treatments, approaches and protocols have not. Stuck in power struggles, depression, anxiety and unresolved issues? Certified IMAGO Relationship Therapist. 20 years of experience helping people Find Their Way. A Veteran and love to be of value in helping individuals, families, and couples with the most challenging issues .
Serving Connecticut and Maine with a love for helping others, A Caring, Competent and Effective counseling approach. Board Certified PTSD Clinician Board Certified Professional Counselor NEW OnLine Video Remote EMDR treatment for PTSD Certified Clinical IMAGO Relationship Therapist Certified Clinical EMDR Specialist Advanced Counseling and Therapy Center, is a powerful and compassionate counseling approach that works when other treatments, approaches and protocols have not. Stuck in power struggles, depression, anxiety and unresolved issues? Certified IMAGO Relationship Therapist. 20 years of experience helping people Find Their Way. A Veteran and love to be of value in helping individuals, families, and couples with the most challenging issues .
(207) 835-3525 View (207) 835-3525
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Leslie Mulligan
Counselor, MS, EdS, LCPC, LCMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
Machias, ME 04654  (Online Only)
Anxiety; depression; grief; pain; mood disorientation, relationship, sleep and life changes; and work/life balance improve when honest and clear understanding is present and supported to change.
I am a creative humanist. As an experiential psychotherapist, I join with you in your life-in-process to support your self-awareness, healing, and growth. I engage with your whole person - body, mind, being - your unique "me". Life change, moods, relationships, work, health, recovery are my focus. Rather than lean into pathology, I value your intelligence, ways of expression, learning and strategies. Using facts, metaphor, lived experience, humor, honesty you'll see your own best way through. I tailor my tools to your person/couple/family's needs. You gain objective and compassionate insights, and new tools for thriving.
Anxiety; depression; grief; pain; mood disorientation, relationship, sleep and life changes; and work/life balance improve when honest and clear understanding is present and supported to change.
I am a creative humanist. As an experiential psychotherapist, I join with you in your life-in-process to support your self-awareness, healing, and growth. I engage with your whole person - body, mind, being - your unique "me". Life change, moods, relationships, work, health, recovery are my focus. Rather than lean into pathology, I value your intelligence, ways of expression, learning and strategies. Using facts, metaphor, lived experience, humor, honesty you'll see your own best way through. I tailor my tools to your person/couple/family's needs. You gain objective and compassionate insights, and new tools for thriving.
(207) 843-9672 View (207) 843-9672
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Psychology Specialists of Maine
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Brunswick, ME 04011
We have October openings in person and tele-health! Our intake specialists will help match you with one of our experienced and caring Maine psychologist with whom you can begin your journey toward meaningful change. We are a local, women-owned therapy center offering specialized therapy for anxiety, depression, trauma, ADHD, OCD, bipolar, grief, eating disorders, personality disorders, health concerns, chronic pain and illness, sleep problems, relationship concerns, and couples counseling. Please visit our website to learn more about our services.
We have October openings in person and tele-health! Our intake specialists will help match you with one of our experienced and caring Maine psychologist with whom you can begin your journey toward meaningful change. We are a local, women-owned therapy center offering specialized therapy for anxiety, depression, trauma, ADHD, OCD, bipolar, grief, eating disorders, personality disorders, health concerns, chronic pain and illness, sleep problems, relationship concerns, and couples counseling. Please visit our website to learn more about our services.
(207) 747-3311 View (207) 747-3311
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Cheryl Krawietz
Counselor, LCPC, CADC, CSOTP
Verified Verified
Lincoln, ME 04457
Living with mental health issues restricts the quality of life. I work with individuals, couples, families, groups, adults, adolescents, and children to combat the effects of trauma, stressors, and factors that prevent them from living the life they want to lead. This is my mission.
Living with mental health issues restricts the quality of life. I work with individuals, couples, families, groups, adults, adolescents, and children to combat the effects of trauma, stressors, and factors that prevent them from living the life they want to lead. This is my mission.
(207) 417-4594 View (207) 417-4594
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Innerguidance Counseling
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW
Verified Verified
Blue Hill, ME 04614
Waitlist for new clients
I specialize in assisting with symptoms reduction for depression, anxiety, trauma, grief, and relationship struggles.
Hello! Welcome to your healing journey. I am glad you are taking the time to read this. Let me tell you a bit about me, so that you can see if I may be a fit for what you are seeking. My expertise is in holistic based therapy. This means I like to look at the whole picture; mind, body and spirit. I am trained in ACT, EMDR, NET, past life regression, meditation, guided imagery. I am a certified herbalist, and can assist in finding natural options for symptom reduction and optimal health. I provide clinical supervision for other mental health therapists. I am currently seeing clients and supervisees both virtually and in person.
I specialize in assisting with symptoms reduction for depression, anxiety, trauma, grief, and relationship struggles.
Hello! Welcome to your healing journey. I am glad you are taking the time to read this. Let me tell you a bit about me, so that you can see if I may be a fit for what you are seeking. My expertise is in holistic based therapy. This means I like to look at the whole picture; mind, body and spirit. I am trained in ACT, EMDR, NET, past life regression, meditation, guided imagery. I am a certified herbalist, and can assist in finding natural options for symptom reduction and optimal health. I provide clinical supervision for other mental health therapists. I am currently seeing clients and supervisees both virtually and in person.
(207) 515-8402 View (207) 515-8402
Couples Counseling Therapists

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.