Gottman Method Therapists in Brainerd, MN

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Kari Silverberg
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CHT, EAS-C
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Brainerd, MN 56401
Did you know that when you experience conflict in your relationship, the issue is usually not what it seems? We engage in struggles with our partner for reasons that are often unknown--even to ourselves. By exploring some of the hidden reasons we chose the person we are with and learning the true nature of our conflicts with one another, we can ultimately grow toward a more satisfying, rewarding relationship. Your partner doesn't want to join you? That's OK. You might be surprised how much can change by the things you learn on your own.
Did you know that when you experience conflict in your relationship, the issue is usually not what it seems? We engage in struggles with our partner for reasons that are often unknown--even to ourselves. By exploring some of the hidden reasons we chose the person we are with and learning the true nature of our conflicts with one another, we can ultimately grow toward a more satisfying, rewarding relationship. Your partner doesn't want to join you? That's OK. You might be surprised how much can change by the things you learn on your own.
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True Balance Counseling
Psychologist, MS, LMFT, PhD, LP, RPT-S
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Brainerd, MN 56401
Anxiety? Depression? Just sick and tired of being sick and tired? We get it. Life can be a pain in the .....well.... a pain. Sometimes we just have to let it all out. Our team of experienced therapists get it. Trauma? YEP! ADHD? YEP! Military and public service? YEP! Let us help. We can offer you an alternative, non- doctory, take of your shoes and be comfy, place to let it all start to heal. We work with children, adults, couples, and families. Let us help you, help yourself.
Anxiety? Depression? Just sick and tired of being sick and tired? We get it. Life can be a pain in the .....well.... a pain. Sometimes we just have to let it all out. Our team of experienced therapists get it. Trauma? YEP! ADHD? YEP! Military and public service? YEP! Let us help. We can offer you an alternative, non- doctory, take of your shoes and be comfy, place to let it all start to heal. We work with children, adults, couples, and families. Let us help you, help yourself.
(320) 632-5524 View (320) 632-5524
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Ted Cooper
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, MA, LPCC
Verified Verified
Brainerd, MN 56401  (Online Only)
I focus on my client's strengths and core values, and collaborate with them to find their own answers. I believe in the power of choice, and that learning how to make good choices is key. Clients often say after working with me that they feel encouraged, empowered and able to face their fears, and they understand that fear is a choice, not a necessity. I assist clients in working through their personal barriers, so that they can be successful, present and happy in their lives and the lives of their families.
I focus on my client's strengths and core values, and collaborate with them to find their own answers. I believe in the power of choice, and that learning how to make good choices is key. Clients often say after working with me that they feel encouraged, empowered and able to face their fears, and they understand that fear is a choice, not a necessity. I assist clients in working through their personal barriers, so that they can be successful, present and happy in their lives and the lives of their families.
(651) 504-8914 View (651) 504-8914
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Wishing Well Therapy Services
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Brainerd, MN 56401
Dedicated to women's holistic well-being, I specialize in addressing the unique challenges faced by women aged 15 and up. Through a blend of compassion, understanding, and a touch of humor, I focus on the complexities of life through the female lens. I work to support clients in navigating different life stages, learn strategies to help improve relationships, process trauma, break unhealthy generational patterns, understand our own mental health and how it may change throughout the course of our lifetimes all while gaining healthy coping skills and working to find the true meaning of love for ourselves and others.
Dedicated to women's holistic well-being, I specialize in addressing the unique challenges faced by women aged 15 and up. Through a blend of compassion, understanding, and a touch of humor, I focus on the complexities of life through the female lens. I work to support clients in navigating different life stages, learn strategies to help improve relationships, process trauma, break unhealthy generational patterns, understand our own mental health and how it may change throughout the course of our lifetimes all while gaining healthy coping skills and working to find the true meaning of love for ourselves and others.
(218) 203-4048 View (218) 203-4048

Online Therapists

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Danielle Glen
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sartell, MN 56377
I am a licensed marriage and family therapist with additional training in Emotionally-Focused Therapy, Level 1 & 2 Gottman Method Couples Therapy, and Prepare-Enrich Facilitator.
Reaching out for help is the first step towards meaningful change. I work with individuals, couples, and families to help resolve distress, remove barriers, and improve relationships. Working with clients I employ systemic, structural, and experiential perspectives with an attachment lens. Extensive life experience tailors my approach towards being a good listener and approaching transformation with confident gentleness.
I am a licensed marriage and family therapist with additional training in Emotionally-Focused Therapy, Level 1 & 2 Gottman Method Couples Therapy, and Prepare-Enrich Facilitator.
Reaching out for help is the first step towards meaningful change. I work with individuals, couples, and families to help resolve distress, remove barriers, and improve relationships. Working with clients I employ systemic, structural, and experiential perspectives with an attachment lens. Extensive life experience tailors my approach towards being a good listener and approaching transformation with confident gentleness.
(320) 613-2727 View (320) 613-2727
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Robbie Deering
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Isanti, MN 55040
I am trained in Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT), Perinatal Mood & Anxiety Disorders, and have completed Level 1 Training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy and EFT Externship.
I believe the most important factor in successful therapy is the therapist-client relationship. I bring humor, honesty, and authenticity into my sessions, while creating a safe and supportive space for clients to be who they are. My role in the therapy process is to provide support and encouragement to clients as they explore the changes they desire. I enjoy working with adults, new parents, new or engaged couples, and families to address concerns related to depression, anxiety, trauma, conflict, relationship challenges, parenting challenges, and life transitions.
I am trained in Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT), Perinatal Mood & Anxiety Disorders, and have completed Level 1 Training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy and EFT Externship.
I believe the most important factor in successful therapy is the therapist-client relationship. I bring humor, honesty, and authenticity into my sessions, while creating a safe and supportive space for clients to be who they are. My role in the therapy process is to provide support and encouragement to clients as they explore the changes they desire. I enjoy working with adults, new parents, new or engaged couples, and families to address concerns related to depression, anxiety, trauma, conflict, relationship challenges, parenting challenges, and life transitions.
(763) 878-8625 View (763) 878-8625
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David Berg, MA, LMFT, LADC
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, LADC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Park Rapids, MN 56470  (Online Only)
***ONLINE COUNSELING THERAPY AND TELE-HEALTH AVAILABLE-NOW ACCEPTING NEW DAY and EVENING CLIENTS. My passion is helping people improve their lives, relationships, and find greater fulfillment. I help people help themselves. I've had the pleasure of a career of many years practicing counseling, therapy, coaching, and social work with individuals, couples, groups, and families in multiple settings. I am a Certified Clinically Trained Gottman Method Level 1 Couples Therapist.
***ONLINE COUNSELING THERAPY AND TELE-HEALTH AVAILABLE-NOW ACCEPTING NEW DAY and EVENING CLIENTS. My passion is helping people improve their lives, relationships, and find greater fulfillment. I help people help themselves. I've had the pleasure of a career of many years practicing counseling, therapy, coaching, and social work with individuals, couples, groups, and families in multiple settings. I am a Certified Clinically Trained Gottman Method Level 1 Couples Therapist.
(218) 453-7020 View (218) 453-7020
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Jack Anderson
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA
Verified Verified
Chisago City, MN 55013  (Online Only)
As a Certified Prepare/Enrich Facilitator and Gottman Method Couples Therapy Level I&II provider, I bring evidence-based approaches to our sessions.
Imagine a space where you can freely explore your thoughts and feelings, build resilience against anxiety and depression, and enhance your communication skills for healthier relationships. It's all possible when we work together. I specialize in individual, family, and couples therapy for clients aged 10 and above. I'm dedicated to helping you overcome a wide range of concerns, from managing day-to-day stress, to navigating the challenges and transitions that come with raising a teen. Additionally, if faith plays a significant role in your life, I have extensive experience in faith integration within therapy.
As a Certified Prepare/Enrich Facilitator and Gottman Method Couples Therapy Level I&II provider, I bring evidence-based approaches to our sessions.
Imagine a space where you can freely explore your thoughts and feelings, build resilience against anxiety and depression, and enhance your communication skills for healthier relationships. It's all possible when we work together. I specialize in individual, family, and couples therapy for clients aged 10 and above. I'm dedicated to helping you overcome a wide range of concerns, from managing day-to-day stress, to navigating the challenges and transitions that come with raising a teen. Additionally, if faith plays a significant role in your life, I have extensive experience in faith integration within therapy.
(651) 504-1971 View (651) 504-1971
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Kimberly Carroll
Counselor, MA, LPCC, LADC
Verified Verified
Bemidji, MN 56601
Some days you may not want to feel so weighted; your head to not race; your intimate partner to not be that passing ship; or so moved by compulsion. You may just need some safe space to figure it all out. This can be your sorting place. My goal is to help you better identify and understand your symptoms and improve overall coping. You are an individual, not a cookie cutter, so your treatment approach will be unique to your needs, and each person's journey is individual. Through goal setting, we can help you to develop decisions congruent with the life you want. I use CBT, ACT, mindfulness, & Gottman Method (completed Level 1 & 2).
Some days you may not want to feel so weighted; your head to not race; your intimate partner to not be that passing ship; or so moved by compulsion. You may just need some safe space to figure it all out. This can be your sorting place. My goal is to help you better identify and understand your symptoms and improve overall coping. You are an individual, not a cookie cutter, so your treatment approach will be unique to your needs, and each person's journey is individual. Through goal setting, we can help you to develop decisions congruent with the life you want. I use CBT, ACT, mindfulness, & Gottman Method (completed Level 1 & 2).
(218) 316-6246 View (218) 316-6246
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Jennifer Knapp
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Rogers, MN 55374
We are not meant to live in isolation. From the moment we are born, our identity and sense of self is tied in with those around us. Over time, it may shift from parents to peer groups to intimate partners, but how we interact with others is at the core of our emotional well-being. Parenting comes with a unique set of questions, self-doubt, and high stakes. For many of us, it may activate unresolved hurt or resentment from our own childhood or invite feelings of inadequacy and uncertainty. Our intimate relationships are another significant part of our lives. Clients can learn how to connect, improve understanding, and strengthen their intimate relationships by moving past the cycles that break down communication and build walls of hurt and defensiveness. Couples can re-establish that “spark,” share a vision of a connected future, and feel both valued and validated by their partners. Experiencing trauma impacts our ability to connect with and receive connection from others. Sometimes we get so stuck in that trauma that it shifts our view of the world and can permanently alter our perception. Therapy is a place to process through this experience, so you can move forward with life.
We are not meant to live in isolation. From the moment we are born, our identity and sense of self is tied in with those around us. Over time, it may shift from parents to peer groups to intimate partners, but how we interact with others is at the core of our emotional well-being. Parenting comes with a unique set of questions, self-doubt, and high stakes. For many of us, it may activate unresolved hurt or resentment from our own childhood or invite feelings of inadequacy and uncertainty. Our intimate relationships are another significant part of our lives. Clients can learn how to connect, improve understanding, and strengthen their intimate relationships by moving past the cycles that break down communication and build walls of hurt and defensiveness. Couples can re-establish that “spark,” share a vision of a connected future, and feel both valued and validated by their partners. Experiencing trauma impacts our ability to connect with and receive connection from others. Sometimes we get so stuck in that trauma that it shifts our view of the world and can permanently alter our perception. Therapy is a place to process through this experience, so you can move forward with life.
(763) 334-6512 View (763) 334-6512
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Ondrea Lee Bryans
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Plymouth, MN 55446
It is my pleasure to work with individuals and families who have the desire to improve their situation in this life. My therapeutic experience and education have given me an understanding of brain development and its correlation to anxiety, trauma, and issues within family relationships. This is why I use brain science to make sense of mental health struggles.
It is my pleasure to work with individuals and families who have the desire to improve their situation in this life. My therapeutic experience and education have given me an understanding of brain development and its correlation to anxiety, trauma, and issues within family relationships. This is why I use brain science to make sense of mental health struggles.
(763) 317-0822 View (763) 317-0822
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Richard Chandler
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
Elk River, MN 55330  (Online Only)
Have you experienced infidelity, loss of trust, low intimacy, low sex or sexless marriage, hurtful arguing, silent treatment, anger, or threats of separation and divorce? I have helped couples improve their communication & intimacy. I seek to bring clarity to your relationship and, if possible, help you renew the attraction & romance that first brought you together. Couple's transformation packages for anger, divorce & infidelity. I specialize in strength-based, online teletherapy for couples & individual counseling. Please text, call, or email for a short phone or online conversation to see if working together is right for you.
Have you experienced infidelity, loss of trust, low intimacy, low sex or sexless marriage, hurtful arguing, silent treatment, anger, or threats of separation and divorce? I have helped couples improve their communication & intimacy. I seek to bring clarity to your relationship and, if possible, help you renew the attraction & romance that first brought you together. Couple's transformation packages for anger, divorce & infidelity. I specialize in strength-based, online teletherapy for couples & individual counseling. Please text, call, or email for a short phone or online conversation to see if working together is right for you.
(763) 265-6058 View (763) 265-6058
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Karissa Rooney
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, BSP
Verified Verified
Osseo, MN 55369
Do you feel stuck, spiraling with anxiety, & overwhelmed right now? The overwhelming feelings of depression, anxiety, and the "what-ifs" of life can feel debilitating at times and all you want to know is that everything will be ok. You want to bring your true self back again. If you are scared, depressed, worried, & unsure, or feel like you lost yourself, I want to tell you that there is hope & a future for you & your relationships. Together we can get to the root issues and release them so that fear and pain no longer control your life. You can create positive coping skills to navigate anxiety and depression & process past trauma.
Do you feel stuck, spiraling with anxiety, & overwhelmed right now? The overwhelming feelings of depression, anxiety, and the "what-ifs" of life can feel debilitating at times and all you want to know is that everything will be ok. You want to bring your true self back again. If you are scared, depressed, worried, & unsure, or feel like you lost yourself, I want to tell you that there is hope & a future for you & your relationships. Together we can get to the root issues and release them so that fear and pain no longer control your life. You can create positive coping skills to navigate anxiety and depression & process past trauma.
(763) 284-8814 View (763) 284-8814
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Trilogy Counseling Services, PLLC
Verified Verified
Princeton, MN 55371
Trilogy Counseling is a group counseling practice located in Princeton, Roseville and Elk River, Minnesota. We also offer services online in Minnesota and Florida. We currently have eight Counselors who work with children, teens, adults, families, and couples. Trilogy Counseling providers offer unique individualized experiences for all clients we work with.
Trilogy Counseling is a group counseling practice located in Princeton, Roseville and Elk River, Minnesota. We also offer services online in Minnesota and Florida. We currently have eight Counselors who work with children, teens, adults, families, and couples. Trilogy Counseling providers offer unique individualized experiences for all clients we work with.
(763) 284-8233 View (763) 284-8233
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Jill Kuca- Gottman Couples, Family, Individual
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, Gottman, SIP, CCHt, MDiv
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Saint Cloud, MN 56303
Stuck? Alone? Why do I do the things I don't want to do, and don't do the things I want to do? Struggling to trust or feel worthy of love? Failed attempts to connect on repeat and overwhelming you? Tired of fighting with no resolution? Dealing with past relational trauma you can't break free from? I am here to help you better connect with others, and even with your own sense of self, even your spirituality if you desire. Find your authentic self and discover you can love that person, and, you are worth being loved. I am here. Lets journey together.
Stuck? Alone? Why do I do the things I don't want to do, and don't do the things I want to do? Struggling to trust or feel worthy of love? Failed attempts to connect on repeat and overwhelming you? Tired of fighting with no resolution? Dealing with past relational trauma you can't break free from? I am here to help you better connect with others, and even with your own sense of self, even your spirituality if you desire. Find your authentic self and discover you can love that person, and, you are worth being loved. I am here. Lets journey together.
(605) 702-6687 View (605) 702-6687
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Chris Anderson
Psychologist, PsyD, LP, SAP
Verified Verified
Maple Grove, MN 55369
At Innovative Psychological Consultants most clients coming are anxious and worried about being judged. They believe they are somehow different, their problems unique, and wonder if they can even be helped. After 25 years of practice, you have to work really hard to surprise us. The reality is that people are people and there problems do not differ nearly as much as they perceive. Where it's relationship problems, stress, anxiety, depression, or trauma; we have a plan to help you achieve the results you are looking for.
At Innovative Psychological Consultants most clients coming are anxious and worried about being judged. They believe they are somehow different, their problems unique, and wonder if they can even be helped. After 25 years of practice, you have to work really hard to surprise us. The reality is that people are people and there problems do not differ nearly as much as they perceive. Where it's relationship problems, stress, anxiety, depression, or trauma; we have a plan to help you achieve the results you are looking for.
(763) 401-7462 View (763) 401-7462
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Aspen Counseling
Psychologist, MA, LP
Verified Verified
Osseo, MN 55369  (Online Only)
Send me an email to schedule a free virtual consultation. I work with people who are dealing with anxiety, depression, family issues, parenting and behavioral problems, work stress, trauma and abuse issues, autism spectrum disorders, family therapy, adoption issues, infertility, and self esteem issues.
Send me an email to schedule a free virtual consultation. I work with people who are dealing with anxiety, depression, family issues, parenting and behavioral problems, work stress, trauma and abuse issues, autism spectrum disorders, family therapy, adoption issues, infertility, and self esteem issues.
(763) 888-8947 View (763) 888-8947
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Bill Sieben
Marriage & Family Therapist, DMin, MDiv, LMFT
Verified Verified
Isanti, MN 55040
Bill focuses on helping you to access different ways of internal understanding in order to come through experiences such as grief, loss, shame, relationship challenges, spiritual crisis, physical health issues and trauma; ultimately developing an original sense of self that may have been lost in the narrative or story of life. This original self is who you were meant to be, and it often requires identifying and removing survival strategies which may have worked for time but have now become a barrier to your ability to feel fully embodied, connected and whole.
Bill focuses on helping you to access different ways of internal understanding in order to come through experiences such as grief, loss, shame, relationship challenges, spiritual crisis, physical health issues and trauma; ultimately developing an original sense of self that may have been lost in the narrative or story of life. This original self is who you were meant to be, and it often requires identifying and removing survival strategies which may have worked for time but have now become a barrier to your ability to feel fully embodied, connected and whole.
(763) 373-7297 View (763) 373-7297
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Terri Lynn Jorstad
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Rogers, MN 55374
Waitlist for new clients
"Have you felt Distant or Disconnected from your self or your relationships? Do you struggle with Barriers to achieving goals? All of us have biological, psychological, sociological and spiritual components to our mental health. My approaches in therapy match this philosophy; I want people to feel integrated with themselves and the world around them. I have 14 years experience in treating individual adults and children, couples, and families experiencing; Anxiety Disorders, Depression and Long Term Management of Symptoms, Autism Spectrum and ADHD, Couples Issues- Understanding Attachment and Temperament, Family Adjustments, and Co-occuring Chemical Dependency.
"Have you felt Distant or Disconnected from your self or your relationships? Do you struggle with Barriers to achieving goals? All of us have biological, psychological, sociological and spiritual components to our mental health. My approaches in therapy match this philosophy; I want people to feel integrated with themselves and the world around them. I have 14 years experience in treating individual adults and children, couples, and families experiencing; Anxiety Disorders, Depression and Long Term Management of Symptoms, Autism Spectrum and ADHD, Couples Issues- Understanding Attachment and Temperament, Family Adjustments, and Co-occuring Chemical Dependency.
(763) 600-7321 x104 View (763) 600-7321 x104
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Margot Storti-Marron
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, LICSW
Verified Verified
Maple Grove, MN 55369
Are you making a big change in your life like changing jobs/careers, divorce, experiencing a loss or retirement? Maybe it's a change you should be happy about....but you're not. Did you know Anxiety and Depression encourage negative thoughts that stall changes, isolate people, effect career growth and challenge supportive relationships? I can help you learn how to combat the negative voices of Depression and Anxiety. Learn how to be your best "you" and enjoy life more.
Are you making a big change in your life like changing jobs/careers, divorce, experiencing a loss or retirement? Maybe it's a change you should be happy about....but you're not. Did you know Anxiety and Depression encourage negative thoughts that stall changes, isolate people, effect career growth and challenge supportive relationships? I can help you learn how to combat the negative voices of Depression and Anxiety. Learn how to be your best "you" and enjoy life more.
(763) 316-3861 View (763) 316-3861
Gottman Method Therapists

How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.