Sex Therapists in Denver, NC

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Juliya Eileen Whitley
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Denver, NC 28037
Waitlist for new clients
So, you are here, which means you are looking for a therapist or counselor that can actually help you. You have been struggling with your symptoms for so long that you don’t want to risk picking someone that is not going to understand you, much less help you find the relief you’ve wanted. Whether you are looking for mental peace, motivation to resume being you, relief from the negative thoughts and images in your mind, the feeling of being present in your life, healing or growth in your relationships, or success in your weight loss journey, I can help you!
So, you are here, which means you are looking for a therapist or counselor that can actually help you. You have been struggling with your symptoms for so long that you don’t want to risk picking someone that is not going to understand you, much less help you find the relief you’ve wanted. Whether you are looking for mental peace, motivation to resume being you, relief from the negative thoughts and images in your mind, the feeling of being present in your life, healing or growth in your relationships, or success in your weight loss journey, I can help you!
(980) 689-6352 x1 View (980) 689-6352 x1
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Crystal N Hulett
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
11 Endorsed
Denver, NC 28037
You are feeling that you’ve tried everything you can think of to feel peace in your life again. You aren’t even sure how you’ve gotten here, but you know you are here, looking for help outside of yourself to figure this out. You are frustrated, confused, overwhelmed, and exhausted. I am here to help you not only work on the issues at hand, but help you to uncover the core reason why you are no longer feeling like yourself. I am here, I get it, and I am passionate about helping with any and all issues that arise in the lives of my clients.​
You are feeling that you’ve tried everything you can think of to feel peace in your life again. You aren’t even sure how you’ve gotten here, but you know you are here, looking for help outside of yourself to figure this out. You are frustrated, confused, overwhelmed, and exhausted. I am here to help you not only work on the issues at hand, but help you to uncover the core reason why you are no longer feeling like yourself. I am here, I get it, and I am passionate about helping with any and all issues that arise in the lives of my clients.​
(704) 216-1037 View (704) 216-1037
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Memorie Metzler MacLeod
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MS, LMFTA
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Denver, NC 28037
Ready for a change that sticks? I don't just offer a listening ear—I bring a toolkit of innovative techniques to our sessions. I tailor my approach to fit your unique needs, ensuring our work together is effective and transformative. Let's break through barriers, unleash your potential, and create a life that's authentically yours. Life is too short to have to carry the weight of stressors, anxiety, depression, conflict, or navigating complicated relationships. My goal is to help you discover your purpose and thrive, because you deserve the happiness life has to offer.
Ready for a change that sticks? I don't just offer a listening ear—I bring a toolkit of innovative techniques to our sessions. I tailor my approach to fit your unique needs, ensuring our work together is effective and transformative. Let's break through barriers, unleash your potential, and create a life that's authentically yours. Life is too short to have to carry the weight of stressors, anxiety, depression, conflict, or navigating complicated relationships. My goal is to help you discover your purpose and thrive, because you deserve the happiness life has to offer.
(704) 946-8756 View (704) 946-8756

More Therapists Nearby

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Mike Tanis
Marriage & Family Therapist, DMin, LMFT-S, CSAT, NCC
Verified Verified
16 Endorsed
Cornelius, NC 28031
Waitlist for new clients
I’m intensively trained in sex therapy, trauma, sexual addictions, LGBTQ population.
Currently have a waitlist for evening clients.I enjoy working with and have extensive training in working with persons experiencing a variety of life's challenges. I tend to see a lot of adolescents, couples and families, as well as individuals that are having challenges in the following areas: anxiety, depression, separation/divorce, trauma and abuse, infidelity, spiritual concerns, career challenges, sexual addictions, sexual intimacy issues, loss and grief, blended family issues, issues of sexuality, parenting, ADHD & focus challenges, oppositional and/or entitled adolescents and overall relationship challenges within families.
I’m intensively trained in sex therapy, trauma, sexual addictions, LGBTQ population.
Currently have a waitlist for evening clients.I enjoy working with and have extensive training in working with persons experiencing a variety of life's challenges. I tend to see a lot of adolescents, couples and families, as well as individuals that are having challenges in the following areas: anxiety, depression, separation/divorce, trauma and abuse, infidelity, spiritual concerns, career challenges, sexual addictions, sexual intimacy issues, loss and grief, blended family issues, issues of sexuality, parenting, ADHD & focus challenges, oppositional and/or entitled adolescents and overall relationship challenges within families.
(704) 751-0173 View (704) 751-0173
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Grace Healing Journey, PLLC
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LCMHC, EFT, CST, CSAT tr
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Huntersville, NC 28070
Specialities include premarital assessment and counseling, marital, discernment counseling, affair recovery, intimacy issues, sexual dysfunction, sex addiction/trauma recovery, and spiritual formation, direction, and healing.
The typical clients I work with are like you and me, usually have successful careers, have a faith orientation, although not always, and have a tremendous longing to find, repair, or revitalize something gone wrong in themselves or in relationship with those closest. They are individuals and couples who are hurting at their core, who want more than just a quick fix, a few techniques, or merely a listening ear. They want answers, real, deep, transforming answers. They realize deep down that it is probably going to take longer than they want or expect. But, they are longing and willing to do whatever it takes to get to a better place
Specialities include premarital assessment and counseling, marital, discernment counseling, affair recovery, intimacy issues, sexual dysfunction, sex addiction/trauma recovery, and spiritual formation, direction, and healing.
The typical clients I work with are like you and me, usually have successful careers, have a faith orientation, although not always, and have a tremendous longing to find, repair, or revitalize something gone wrong in themselves or in relationship with those closest. They are individuals and couples who are hurting at their core, who want more than just a quick fix, a few techniques, or merely a listening ear. They want answers, real, deep, transforming answers. They realize deep down that it is probably going to take longer than they want or expect. But, they are longing and willing to do whatever it takes to get to a better place
(704) 870-0802 View (704) 870-0802
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Dr. Erica A Merrill
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, PhD, LCMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
Cornelius, NC 28031
Elevated Wellness Counseling, LLC is founded on helping people develop a working definition of wellness through a multifaceted lens, incorporating personal development, confronting fears, identifying strengths, and increasing capacity for problem solving and meaning making in life. Often, the human experience leaves us feeling burnt out, disconnected, and looking for meaning. Seeking therapy is the first step in building the skills necessary to thrive. Areas of expertise include: Anxiety, depression, coping with transition, relationship issues, sex therapy, religion and spirituality, achieving wellness, and professional development.
Elevated Wellness Counseling, LLC is founded on helping people develop a working definition of wellness through a multifaceted lens, incorporating personal development, confronting fears, identifying strengths, and increasing capacity for problem solving and meaning making in life. Often, the human experience leaves us feeling burnt out, disconnected, and looking for meaning. Seeking therapy is the first step in building the skills necessary to thrive. Areas of expertise include: Anxiety, depression, coping with transition, relationship issues, sex therapy, religion and spirituality, achieving wellness, and professional development.
(704) 270-3615 View (704) 270-3615
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Lisa Terrell
Counselor, DHS, LCMHC, BSN
Verified Verified
Huntersville, NC 28078
I offer counseling, therapy, and online resources for your life, relationships, and sex. I am an experienced individual and couples therapist. I work in office or online and am the founder of Sensovi Institute. Sensovi Institute is an online campus the offers classes, assessments, remedial programs, and resources for relationships and sex-related issues. If you want to start, reset, or revive your relationship and sex life the Sex Revive Masterclass will help you (and your partner) work through to the kind of relationship and sex life you want. All at your own computer and at your own pace.
I offer counseling, therapy, and online resources for your life, relationships, and sex. I am an experienced individual and couples therapist. I work in office or online and am the founder of Sensovi Institute. Sensovi Institute is an online campus the offers classes, assessments, remedial programs, and resources for relationships and sex-related issues. If you want to start, reset, or revive your relationship and sex life the Sex Revive Masterclass will help you (and your partner) work through to the kind of relationship and sex life you want. All at your own computer and at your own pace.
(704) 216-4068 View (704) 216-4068
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Todd Malloy
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CST, CSE
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Huntersville, NC 28078
As a Licensed Therapist, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, and AASECT Certified Sexuality Educator using an interactive and integrative therapy method, I join with couples, families and individuals to rebuild relationships, address sexual dysfunction issues, foster emotional trust and tackle life challenging circumstances to lead clients to a life worth celebrating.
Believing life is to be celebrated with compassion and understanding we partner to help build on your strengths. In our partnership we join in achieving your goals as they lead you to an empowered you. Having an added 18 years of faith based experience, I am effective in respecting and integrating your spirituality as a part of the change process. My areas of focus include Individual and family distress, abandonment, infidelity, sexuality dysfunction and grief and loss. Also, with 25 years of corporate management experience, I identify with the struggles of balancing the many branches of life.
As a Licensed Therapist, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, and AASECT Certified Sexuality Educator using an interactive and integrative therapy method, I join with couples, families and individuals to rebuild relationships, address sexual dysfunction issues, foster emotional trust and tackle life challenging circumstances to lead clients to a life worth celebrating.
Believing life is to be celebrated with compassion and understanding we partner to help build on your strengths. In our partnership we join in achieving your goals as they lead you to an empowered you. Having an added 18 years of faith based experience, I am effective in respecting and integrating your spirituality as a part of the change process. My areas of focus include Individual and family distress, abandonment, infidelity, sexuality dysfunction and grief and loss. Also, with 25 years of corporate management experience, I identify with the struggles of balancing the many branches of life.
(704) 937-2286 View (704) 937-2286
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Judy Scheel, Ph.D., LCSW, CEDS
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW, CEDS
Verified Verified
Davidson, NC 28035
Treating eating disorders or sexuality issues require understanding psychological & interpersonal issues underlying conditions while addressing symptoms & behaviors via Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy.
With years of training & personal analysis, I am solidly qualified to treat individuals/couples/families for mental health issues like anxiety & depression & interpersonal issues. I am certified as an EATING DISORDER expert (CEDS) & provide treatment for SEXUAL ISSUES with training from NYU Langone Medical. I am an Associate Member of SSTAR (Society for Sex Therapy & Research.) My approaches are fueled by many years of training in psychological theories. I am licensed in NC, NY & CA with offices in Charlotte, NC, New York, NY & offer video sessions for CA residents. I write two Blogs for psychologytoday.com on Sex & Eating Issues
Treating eating disorders or sexuality issues require understanding psychological & interpersonal issues underlying conditions while addressing symptoms & behaviors via Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy.
With years of training & personal analysis, I am solidly qualified to treat individuals/couples/families for mental health issues like anxiety & depression & interpersonal issues. I am certified as an EATING DISORDER expert (CEDS) & provide treatment for SEXUAL ISSUES with training from NYU Langone Medical. I am an Associate Member of SSTAR (Society for Sex Therapy & Research.) My approaches are fueled by many years of training in psychological theories. I am licensed in NC, NY & CA with offices in Charlotte, NC, New York, NY & offer video sessions for CA residents. I write two Blogs for psychologytoday.com on Sex & Eating Issues
(914) 352-5131 View (914) 352-5131
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Zachary Rothwell
PMHNP
Verified Verified
Davidson, NC 28036
I work with adults struggling with relationship issues, addiction, depression, anxiety, and PTSD. Many of my clients are high performers who have become successful despite a difficult childhood. If you are curious how therapy can help you reduce your suffering, improve your relationships, and help you heal from past traumas, I encourage you to reach out for a free consultation. I use elements of EMDR therapy in my approach. I am kink allied and sex positive. I invite you to come as you are. I will respect, support, and encourage you during our time in therapy.
I work with adults struggling with relationship issues, addiction, depression, anxiety, and PTSD. Many of my clients are high performers who have become successful despite a difficult childhood. If you are curious how therapy can help you reduce your suffering, improve your relationships, and help you heal from past traumas, I encourage you to reach out for a free consultation. I use elements of EMDR therapy in my approach. I am kink allied and sex positive. I invite you to come as you are. I will respect, support, and encourage you during our time in therapy.
(332) 244-3936 View (332) 244-3936
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Natalie Murray
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHCS
Verified Verified
Huntersville, NC 28070
We specialize in couples counseling, relationships and sex therapy. The broad umbrella of sex therapy includes sexual abuse, sexual addiction, sexual dysfunctions and polyamory. We are Safe Zone trained and an LGBTQ ally.
We specialize in couples counseling, relationships and sex therapy. The broad umbrella of sex therapy includes sexual abuse, sexual addiction, sexual dysfunctions and polyamory. We are Safe Zone trained and an LGBTQ ally.
(704) 908-6630 View (704) 908-6630
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Kris Kawulok
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MA, NCC, LPC, CSAT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Huntersville, NC 28078
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor with a broad background to help you face relational, occupational, sex addiction and clinical challenges.
Seeking support for life's difficulties can be daunting. Partnering with others as they walk through these difficulties is one of my lifelong passions. Let's begin to investigate your own particular story and see how it can be rewritten. The most important benchmark for each session is establishing an environment of trust and openness. From there, we can work to break through barriers. My goal is to support, educate, counsel and guide you through it all.
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor with a broad background to help you face relational, occupational, sex addiction and clinical challenges.
Seeking support for life's difficulties can be daunting. Partnering with others as they walk through these difficulties is one of my lifelong passions. Let's begin to investigate your own particular story and see how it can be rewritten. The most important benchmark for each session is establishing an environment of trust and openness. From there, we can work to break through barriers. My goal is to support, educate, counsel and guide you through it all.
(704) 457-7724 View (704) 457-7724
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Bluestone Psychotherapy, PLLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, LCMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cornelius, NC 28031
I am trained in EMDR, a Provisional Sex Offender Treatment Provider (PSOTP) and LCMHC-Supervisor.
I am passionate about helping adults and children through trauma. I value the innate potential each client has to gain insight and make the commitment to change their life when they are both ready and willing. I use compassion and accountability to provide a genuine platform for clients to reveal themselves without fear of judgments. In my therapeutic approach, I believe that each individual is unique. My treatment approach is customized to bring greater self-awareness, psychological healing, and inner satisfaction.
I am trained in EMDR, a Provisional Sex Offender Treatment Provider (PSOTP) and LCMHC-Supervisor.
I am passionate about helping adults and children through trauma. I value the innate potential each client has to gain insight and make the commitment to change their life when they are both ready and willing. I use compassion and accountability to provide a genuine platform for clients to reveal themselves without fear of judgments. In my therapeutic approach, I believe that each individual is unique. My treatment approach is customized to bring greater self-awareness, psychological healing, and inner satisfaction.
(704) 766-8362 View (704) 766-8362
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L. JoAnn Mullinix
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Cornelius, NC 28031
I specialize in working with couples, children, intimacy/sexuality, and spiritual exploration.
At Sanctuary Counseling Group, we believe in creating therapeutic relationships with our clients that promote the healing of heart, mind, and soul. Therapy is a Sacred Space. As a systemic therapist, I welcome individuals, couples, children, and family systems into the room. I believe in creating a non-judgmental and open context that will often draw from Emotionally Focused Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Experiential Therapy, and Mindfulness-based strategies. I received my Master of Arts degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from Pfeiffer University and was selected as the Student of the Year by the faculty.
I specialize in working with couples, children, intimacy/sexuality, and spiritual exploration.
At Sanctuary Counseling Group, we believe in creating therapeutic relationships with our clients that promote the healing of heart, mind, and soul. Therapy is a Sacred Space. As a systemic therapist, I welcome individuals, couples, children, and family systems into the room. I believe in creating a non-judgmental and open context that will often draw from Emotionally Focused Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Experiential Therapy, and Mindfulness-based strategies. I received my Master of Arts degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from Pfeiffer University and was selected as the Student of the Year by the faculty.
(980) 326-5034 View (980) 326-5034
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Michael Gebelein
Counselor, MA, LCMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Mooresville, NC 28117
Life can feel overwhelming and exhausting. You are seeking balance and calm in your life so that you can be the person that you have always wanted to be. You have tried other ways of coping, but now you have taken the courageous step of finding meaningful and intentional ways of achieving those goals. I believe in you, and I’m here to help you.
Life can feel overwhelming and exhausting. You are seeking balance and calm in your life so that you can be the person that you have always wanted to be. You have tried other ways of coping, but now you have taken the courageous step of finding meaningful and intentional ways of achieving those goals. I believe in you, and I’m here to help you.
(980) 217-8816 View (980) 217-8816
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Randi Reichel
Marriage & Family Therapist, DMFT, LMFT, MEd
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sherrills Ford, NC 28673
I love to work with individuals, couples, and families of all ages. My previous career as a teacher provides me with great understanding of stages of development and how to connect with children and teenagers. I can help your child and you to better understand behavioral changes, self-esteem, difficulty communicating, depression, anxiety, and stress. I have a nonjudgmental way of exploring what children and adolescents are experiencing by using their individual interests, perspectives, and solution-focused goals so that their time in therapy feels natural.
I love to work with individuals, couples, and families of all ages. My previous career as a teacher provides me with great understanding of stages of development and how to connect with children and teenagers. I can help your child and you to better understand behavioral changes, self-esteem, difficulty communicating, depression, anxiety, and stress. I have a nonjudgmental way of exploring what children and adolescents are experiencing by using their individual interests, perspectives, and solution-focused goals so that their time in therapy feels natural.
(828) 293-4898 View (828) 293-4898
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Thrive Counseling and Wellness
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, LCSW, LPC, LCAS
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Mooresville, NC 28117
Are you feeling overwhelmed, depressed, anxious, or just not like "you?" Does it feel like extra work to just get through the day? We get it. We're here to help you feel at peace, calm, and hopeful - no matter what is happening in your world.
Are you feeling overwhelmed, depressed, anxious, or just not like "you?" Does it feel like extra work to just get through the day? We get it. We're here to help you feel at peace, calm, and hopeful - no matter what is happening in your world.
(704) 228-9626 View (704) 228-9626
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Dr. Sarah Stuchell
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cornelius, NC 28031
Although you may feel alone in your problem, I guarantee that you are not, and will help you develop individual and relationship skills to overcome your problem(s). I am an avid proponent of examining the systemic nature of problems, which includes taking inventory of the mental, physical, spiritual, societal, and relational aspects that may be effecting you. I will help you deconstruct your life and experiences, and help you reconstruct a healthy psychological paradigm that heals you and brings meaning and purpose to your life. You will ultimately feel more alive, genuine, and hopeful about yourself and your future.
Although you may feel alone in your problem, I guarantee that you are not, and will help you develop individual and relationship skills to overcome your problem(s). I am an avid proponent of examining the systemic nature of problems, which includes taking inventory of the mental, physical, spiritual, societal, and relational aspects that may be effecting you. I will help you deconstruct your life and experiences, and help you reconstruct a healthy psychological paradigm that heals you and brings meaning and purpose to your life. You will ultimately feel more alive, genuine, and hopeful about yourself and your future.
(949) 337-1360 View (949) 337-1360
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Monica L Mouer
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LCMHCS, CSAT, EMDR
Verified Verified
15 Endorsed
Davidson, NC 28036
Life is meant to be enjoyed, not endured. If you lack satisfaction in your life, counseling can help. I have a passion to see individuals live to their full potential with peace of mind, purpose in action and joy for everyday living. With over 15 years experience in counseling, education and pastoral ministry combined, I offer an educated perspective on many life issues. I am a trained in many trauma based and relational/family approaches to wholeness. I have extensive experience in working with teens and their families, couples and women's issues especially trauma, anger, emotional regulation, anxiety & depression.
Life is meant to be enjoyed, not endured. If you lack satisfaction in your life, counseling can help. I have a passion to see individuals live to their full potential with peace of mind, purpose in action and joy for everyday living. With over 15 years experience in counseling, education and pastoral ministry combined, I offer an educated perspective on many life issues. I am a trained in many trauma based and relational/family approaches to wholeness. I have extensive experience in working with teens and their families, couples and women's issues especially trauma, anger, emotional regulation, anxiety & depression.
(704) 869-2018 View (704) 869-2018
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Preston Counseling, PLLC
Counselor, MA, LCMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Huntersville, NC 28078
Do you feel sad, anxious, stressed, frustrated or angry? Would you like to think and feel better? Would you like to realize more of your full potential. Speak with a Licensed Counselor with over 28 years experience coaching and helping people learn the tools to succeed in this challenging world! He uses an eclectic approach with an emphasis on CBT/Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. He also helps people with substance abuse and addiction problems.
Do you feel sad, anxious, stressed, frustrated or angry? Would you like to think and feel better? Would you like to realize more of your full potential. Speak with a Licensed Counselor with over 28 years experience coaching and helping people learn the tools to succeed in this challenging world! He uses an eclectic approach with an emphasis on CBT/Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. He also helps people with substance abuse and addiction problems.
(704) 750-8039 View (704) 750-8039
Sex Therapy

Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.