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Autumn Schleis
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Green Bay, WI 54311
I am qualified to work with general mental health concerns and hold certification in sex therapy.
"Did you ever get the feeling the world was a tuxedo and you were a pair of brown shoes?" George Gobel. Life is tough, sex should be good! I am an LPC specializing in sex therapy. I know seeking someone to share a taboo topic with can be daunting, but once you get there it's worth it! I provide a comfortable and judgement free space where I work with clients to reflect on their sexual experiences throughout the lifespan. We start with a simple question; "When was the last time you had sex, and how was it?"
I am qualified to work with general mental health concerns and hold certification in sex therapy.
"Did you ever get the feeling the world was a tuxedo and you were a pair of brown shoes?" George Gobel. Life is tough, sex should be good! I am an LPC specializing in sex therapy. I know seeking someone to share a taboo topic with can be daunting, but once you get there it's worth it! I provide a comfortable and judgement free space where I work with clients to reflect on their sexual experiences throughout the lifespan. We start with a simple question; "When was the last time you had sex, and how was it?"
(920) 477-0318 View (920) 477-0318
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Cherie A Katt
Mental Health Counselor License, LMHC
Verified Verified
Milwaukee, WI 53211  (Online Only)
As a certified sex therapist, rooted in soul work and a psychology of women, I will help you reclaim a sense of vitality, a sense of being at home in your own skin.
Therapy is a place for you to name areas of pain, a place to feel without judgment, and a place to reclaim what is yours. Shame is the source of so much of this pain and judgment, convincing you that you are broken. Shame is often so intertwined with sexuality because of the societal silence around the topic. Perhaps sex is painful, perhaps you are more aware of others desires than your own, perhaps you feel empty from running on fumes and enjoyment is the last thing on your mind. Whatever the reason, engaging your sexual health can help overall wellness, and ultimately be the way back into relationship with yourself!
As a certified sex therapist, rooted in soul work and a psychology of women, I will help you reclaim a sense of vitality, a sense of being at home in your own skin.
Therapy is a place for you to name areas of pain, a place to feel without judgment, and a place to reclaim what is yours. Shame is the source of so much of this pain and judgment, convincing you that you are broken. Shame is often so intertwined with sexuality because of the societal silence around the topic. Perhaps sex is painful, perhaps you are more aware of others desires than your own, perhaps you feel empty from running on fumes and enjoyment is the last thing on your mind. Whatever the reason, engaging your sexual health can help overall wellness, and ultimately be the way back into relationship with yourself!
(414) 441-5247 View (414) 441-5247
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Zoë Whaley
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Sauk City, WI 53583  (Online Only)
Other focus areas include: sex/sexuality, healthy boundaries, and inner child work.
I specialize in working with individuals who have been impacted by traumatic and/or distressing life experiences and circumstances. Attachment wounds as well as single incident traumas are ruptures that result in a sense of disconnection from ourselves, others, and the world. This is an adaptive reaction to abnormal events. In time, you may realize that living life in ‘survival’ mode is no longer serving you. You may feel disengaged from those around you, numb or empty, or feel ‘too’ sensitive, emotional, or reactionary. Connecting with others may feel overwhelming. You are deserving and capable of growth, connection, and healing.
Other focus areas include: sex/sexuality, healthy boundaries, and inner child work.
I specialize in working with individuals who have been impacted by traumatic and/or distressing life experiences and circumstances. Attachment wounds as well as single incident traumas are ruptures that result in a sense of disconnection from ourselves, others, and the world. This is an adaptive reaction to abnormal events. In time, you may realize that living life in ‘survival’ mode is no longer serving you. You may feel disengaged from those around you, numb or empty, or feel ‘too’ sensitive, emotional, or reactionary. Connecting with others may feel overwhelming. You are deserving and capable of growth, connection, and healing.
(608) 200-2458 View (608) 200-2458
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Jennifer Webster
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Milwaukee, WI 53208  (Online Only)
I also have experience working with anxiety, depression, exploring sexuality and gender identity, trauma work, significant life changes, and supporting individuals from the polyam, LGBTQIA+, and kink communities.
I believe it is my role as a therapist to help support you in facilitating change in a nonjudgmental environment that offers accountability. We are a therapeutic team - you being the expert of your own experience and me being a sounding board for thoughts, feelings, and emotions. My therapeutic approach combines person centered therapy with aspects of cognitive behavioral (CBT), solutions focused, and dialectical-behavioral (DBT) therapies. This means we will implement skills for emotion regulation, communication, and facing anxiety while also making space to talk about your experiences.
I also have experience working with anxiety, depression, exploring sexuality and gender identity, trauma work, significant life changes, and supporting individuals from the polyam, LGBTQIA+, and kink communities.
I believe it is my role as a therapist to help support you in facilitating change in a nonjudgmental environment that offers accountability. We are a therapeutic team - you being the expert of your own experience and me being a sounding board for thoughts, feelings, and emotions. My therapeutic approach combines person centered therapy with aspects of cognitive behavioral (CBT), solutions focused, and dialectical-behavioral (DBT) therapies. This means we will implement skills for emotion regulation, communication, and facing anxiety while also making space to talk about your experiences.
(414) 207-6837 View (414) 207-6837
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Ashley Floyd
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Madison, WI 53711  (Online Only)
You deserve a space you can feel comfortable talking about all aspects of sex and relationships.
My clients often want to gain deep insights into themselves and use these insights to see shifts such as greater self-compassion, less anxiety, and more fulfillment and authenticity. Whether processing trauma or difficult relationships, navigating their sexual identity (queer, non-monogamous, kinky, etc.), or working through everyday struggles, my clients seek an understanding, informed, and non-judgmental place that can help them truly get to know themselves.
You deserve a space you can feel comfortable talking about all aspects of sex and relationships.
My clients often want to gain deep insights into themselves and use these insights to see shifts such as greater self-compassion, less anxiety, and more fulfillment and authenticity. Whether processing trauma or difficult relationships, navigating their sexual identity (queer, non-monogamous, kinky, etc.), or working through everyday struggles, my clients seek an understanding, informed, and non-judgmental place that can help them truly get to know themselves.
(608) 447-6997 View (608) 447-6997
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Katie Maedke-Hall
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, APSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Milwaukee, WI 53202
I help those living with the impact of trauma, depression, anxiety, life transitions, identity formation, and gender/sexuality development, experience more fulfilling relationships and understand themselves better.
Asking for help is hard, and it’s when we feel heard, seen, and understood, that healing and growth are most accessible. I am here to hold space for you, or you and your partner(s), to explore and challenge yourself in pursuit of greater truth and authenticity. By addressing troubling thoughts and feelings, self-sabotaging behaviors, and traumas, life can be made more manageable, productive, and fulfilling. Feelings such as grief, shame, anxiety, sadness, and anger often signal that something needs to change. Listening to and working through these feelings can propel you forward. Allow me to help.
I help those living with the impact of trauma, depression, anxiety, life transitions, identity formation, and gender/sexuality development, experience more fulfilling relationships and understand themselves better.
Asking for help is hard, and it’s when we feel heard, seen, and understood, that healing and growth are most accessible. I am here to hold space for you, or you and your partner(s), to explore and challenge yourself in pursuit of greater truth and authenticity. By addressing troubling thoughts and feelings, self-sabotaging behaviors, and traumas, life can be made more manageable, productive, and fulfilling. Feelings such as grief, shame, anxiety, sadness, and anger often signal that something needs to change. Listening to and working through these feelings can propel you forward. Allow me to help.
(414) 895-0710 View (414) 895-0710
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Amanda Mathy
Counselor, MS, LPC-IT
Verified Verified
Milwaukee, WI 53207
I'm Amanda and I'm excited to meet you! I provide Queer and Neurodivergent affirming and informed therapy. I'm a good fit for people struggling with life transitions, coming out, platonic/romantic/sexual relationships, sex, sexuality, self-advocacy, ADHD and anxiety. My passion is working with the queer community and neurodivergent people. I also find joy in working with relationships of all structures, including ethical non-monogamy and polyamory. Those looking for relationship counseling should seek me as an added layer of support in building communication, empathetic conflict management, and authentic connections.
I'm Amanda and I'm excited to meet you! I provide Queer and Neurodivergent affirming and informed therapy. I'm a good fit for people struggling with life transitions, coming out, platonic/romantic/sexual relationships, sex, sexuality, self-advocacy, ADHD and anxiety. My passion is working with the queer community and neurodivergent people. I also find joy in working with relationships of all structures, including ethical non-monogamy and polyamory. Those looking for relationship counseling should seek me as an added layer of support in building communication, empathetic conflict management, and authentic connections.
(414) 246-8286 View (414) 246-8286
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Brenda Lovick
Marriage & Family Therapist, MDiv, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Cambridge, WI 53523
Waitlist for new clients
I am interested in the intersection of spirituality and sexuality.
I appreciate adult clients who want growth and change. They are open to a broad spectrum of human experiences and value honesty and safety as they go deep into their emotional processes. With youth, I appreciate clients who are ready to claim their identities and explore a world that's full of possibilities.
I am interested in the intersection of spirituality and sexuality.
I appreciate adult clients who want growth and change. They are open to a broad spectrum of human experiences and value honesty and safety as they go deep into their emotional processes. With youth, I appreciate clients who are ready to claim their identities and explore a world that's full of possibilities.
(608) 655-6049 View (608) 655-6049
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Stefanie Palmer
Counselor, LPC, CSITP, CDBT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Racine, WI 53403
I am a certified sex informed therapy provider and a certified DBT therapist.
Are you looking to build better neuropathways to decrease negative thinking? If so, you've come to the right place! Looking to decrease perfectionism or perfectionist/all or nothing thinking, I can help! Working with a variety of individuals over the last 14 years has provided me with a wealth of knowledge/experience to help you on your journey!I am a self-pay psychotherapist, dedicated to cultivating a safe space for clients to feel seen/heard/validated. I incorporate many therapeutic modalities based on client needs/goals.Helping people redefine themselves is what sparks joy for me!I can't wait to embark on your journey with you!
I am a certified sex informed therapy provider and a certified DBT therapist.
Are you looking to build better neuropathways to decrease negative thinking? If so, you've come to the right place! Looking to decrease perfectionism or perfectionist/all or nothing thinking, I can help! Working with a variety of individuals over the last 14 years has provided me with a wealth of knowledge/experience to help you on your journey!I am a self-pay psychotherapist, dedicated to cultivating a safe space for clients to feel seen/heard/validated. I incorporate many therapeutic modalities based on client needs/goals.Helping people redefine themselves is what sparks joy for me!I can't wait to embark on your journey with you!
(262) 218-4695 View (262) 218-4695
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Heather Meggers-Wright
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Madison, WI 53714  (Online Only)
I work with clients in a wide variety of problem areas including sex and intimacy (either couples or individual therapy), anxiety and fear, weight and self-esteem, depression and bipolar, and trauma (sexual;combat), among others. My clients find me to be warm and caring, with a tendency to bring in humor. We work together to create achievable goals and take active steps to reach them. I can see clients in person, or on a telemental health platform to eligible clients in Wisconsin.
I work with clients in a wide variety of problem areas including sex and intimacy (either couples or individual therapy), anxiety and fear, weight and self-esteem, depression and bipolar, and trauma (sexual;combat), among others. My clients find me to be warm and caring, with a tendency to bring in humor. We work together to create achievable goals and take active steps to reach them. I can see clients in person, or on a telemental health platform to eligible clients in Wisconsin.
(715) 802-4584 View (715) 802-4584
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Tiffany L Verhasselt
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Montello, WI 53949  (Online Only)
As a Board Certified Sexologist, I specialize in relationships, intimacy, and sex therapy.
Working completely online, I create a safe space for individuals and couples to navigate life changes with an emphasis on intimacy and sexual concerns. I work to empower individuals and couples to explore intimacy and sexuality in a positive way to instill self-understanding and help clients to adopt new attitudes and feelings towards life, intimacy, desire, passion, and sex. I work from the approach that you are a whole person and the aim of therapy is dive into all aspects of who you are and the intersects that shape your perception of self and the world.
As a Board Certified Sexologist, I specialize in relationships, intimacy, and sex therapy.
Working completely online, I create a safe space for individuals and couples to navigate life changes with an emphasis on intimacy and sexual concerns. I work to empower individuals and couples to explore intimacy and sexuality in a positive way to instill self-understanding and help clients to adopt new attitudes and feelings towards life, intimacy, desire, passion, and sex. I work from the approach that you are a whole person and the aim of therapy is dive into all aspects of who you are and the intersects that shape your perception of self and the world.
(608) 597-2693 View (608) 597-2693
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Lynn A. Vice
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Milwaukee, WI 53211
As a clinical psychologist and certified sex therapist, my specialty is sex and marital therapy. In my practice I specialize in working with individuals and couples experiencing a variety of sexual problems. These include orgasmic dysfunction, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, sexual pain disorders, vaginismus, lack of interest in sex, and sexual addictions. I also do general marital therapy and general psychotherapy.
As a clinical psychologist and certified sex therapist, my specialty is sex and marital therapy. In my practice I specialize in working with individuals and couples experiencing a variety of sexual problems. These include orgasmic dysfunction, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, sexual pain disorders, vaginismus, lack of interest in sex, and sexual addictions. I also do general marital therapy and general psychotherapy.
(414) 979-9995 View (414) 979-9995
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Rhea J Lyons
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Madison, WI 53704
I offer individual and relationship therapy and am poly, kink, and alt-sex affirming.
You deserve to heal. You deserve to be supported, respected, and seen for all you have been, all you will be, and all you are in this moment. I trust you to be the expert on yourself and your own experiences within the body, identities, and relationships that inform your ways of knowing yourself and your world. Our work together will not focus on identifying what’s “wrong” with you, and won’t aim to “fix” you. Together, we will explore areas of distress, discomfort, or questioning through a systemic lens. I will support your intentions toward transformative change and growth from perspectives that matter to you.
I offer individual and relationship therapy and am poly, kink, and alt-sex affirming.
You deserve to heal. You deserve to be supported, respected, and seen for all you have been, all you will be, and all you are in this moment. I trust you to be the expert on yourself and your own experiences within the body, identities, and relationships that inform your ways of knowing yourself and your world. Our work together will not focus on identifying what’s “wrong” with you, and won’t aim to “fix” you. Together, we will explore areas of distress, discomfort, or questioning through a systemic lens. I will support your intentions toward transformative change and growth from perspectives that matter to you.
(608) 200-3213 View (608) 200-3213
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Cedar Lake Counseling
Verified Verified
Mequon, WI 53092
Additional clinical focus areas include men's and women's issues, co-dependency, anger, panic disorder, marriage and family issues, life transitions, career, addictions (substances, pornography, sex, gambling), personality issues, divorce recovery, grief/loss, ADHD, school and social adjustment and more.
FREE PHONE CONSULTATIONS WITH DR. BLOEMER* will help establish your appointment with a best-fit therapist among our twelve therapists, who possess up to 30 years of experience. Specializations include Advanced Therapies (Brain-based treatment) for complex trauma, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, emotional pain, addictions and more. As symptom relief is achieved as quickly as possible, we assist in helping you improve your significant relationships and support your efforts toward achieving holistic awareness, life balance, and meaningful, personal growth.
Additional clinical focus areas include men's and women's issues, co-dependency, anger, panic disorder, marriage and family issues, life transitions, career, addictions (substances, pornography, sex, gambling), personality issues, divorce recovery, grief/loss, ADHD, school and social adjustment and more.
FREE PHONE CONSULTATIONS WITH DR. BLOEMER* will help establish your appointment with a best-fit therapist among our twelve therapists, who possess up to 30 years of experience. Specializations include Advanced Therapies (Brain-based treatment) for complex trauma, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, emotional pain, addictions and more. As symptom relief is achieved as quickly as possible, we assist in helping you improve your significant relationships and support your efforts toward achieving holistic awareness, life balance, and meaningful, personal growth.
(262) 947-4378 View (262) 947-4378
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Jeanine M Swenson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MD, LMFT
Verified Verified
Mequon, WI 53092
Are you feeling stuck in your personal or professional life? Are you missing closeness or comfort that has wained ? I am trained and licensed in Marriage & Family Therapy (systems) and enjoy helping patients and their families work on relational issues. My work is relationship & sex positive, and my focus is strength-based and solution-focused. I look forward to meeting you and hearing your unique story.
Are you feeling stuck in your personal or professional life? Are you missing closeness or comfort that has wained ? I am trained and licensed in Marriage & Family Therapy (systems) and enjoy helping patients and their families work on relational issues. My work is relationship & sex positive, and my focus is strength-based and solution-focused. I look forward to meeting you and hearing your unique story.
(844) 513-7879 View (844) 513-7879
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Stephanie Larsen
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, CST, E-RYT
Verified Verified
Racine, WI 53403
I am a sex therapist and licensed psychotherapist. Sexual health issues I address include: intimacy avoidance, low desire, shame and embarrassment, sexual trauma, negative body image, recovery from infidelity, open relationships, infertility, and performance issues. Other psychological issues I work with include: interpersonal conflicts, depression, bipolar, anxiety and thought disorders. Life circumstances that might bring you to call include: divorce, separation, breakups, life transitions: going away to college, entering the workforce, welcoming a child into the family, feeling stagnant or unsatisfied with a job or relationship.
I am a sex therapist and licensed psychotherapist. Sexual health issues I address include: intimacy avoidance, low desire, shame and embarrassment, sexual trauma, negative body image, recovery from infidelity, open relationships, infertility, and performance issues. Other psychological issues I work with include: interpersonal conflicts, depression, bipolar, anxiety and thought disorders. Life circumstances that might bring you to call include: divorce, separation, breakups, life transitions: going away to college, entering the workforce, welcoming a child into the family, feeling stagnant or unsatisfied with a job or relationship.
(262) 205-6701 View (262) 205-6701
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HappinessNow Wellness
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
Verified Verified
Neenah, WI 54956
Welcome to HappinessNow Wellness! We all struggle at times as we face challenges in life and it is my hope to help the struggle become less of a burden and more of an experience that you will overcome. I have a wealth of experience working with individuals, groups, couples, sex offenders and families. I have the uncanny ability to use an array of innovative plans, therapy styles, and resources to develop ideal solutions for many therapeutic, community and systematic problems in order to empower a vast client base.
Welcome to HappinessNow Wellness! We all struggle at times as we face challenges in life and it is my hope to help the struggle become less of a burden and more of an experience that you will overcome. I have a wealth of experience working with individuals, groups, couples, sex offenders and families. I have the uncanny ability to use an array of innovative plans, therapy styles, and resources to develop ideal solutions for many therapeutic, community and systematic problems in order to empower a vast client base.
(920) 247-2151 View (920) 247-2151
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Nia Delgado
LPC Intern, MS, LPC-IT, SAC-IT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Racine, WI 53403
I am a licensed sex positive and affirming psychotherapist who is passionate about helping people reconnect to others in meaningful and intentional ways. Specific areas I help individuals and couples tackle are: trauma, depression, anxiety, porn addiction, sexual incompatibilities, desire discrepancy, shame and embarrassment, low desire and pain during sex, emotional difficulties, conflict and communication resolution. Therapy can provide a safe, supportive and thriving environment for you to reach your desired goals in life, connect with the people who matter most to you, and cultivate purpose.
I am a licensed sex positive and affirming psychotherapist who is passionate about helping people reconnect to others in meaningful and intentional ways. Specific areas I help individuals and couples tackle are: trauma, depression, anxiety, porn addiction, sexual incompatibilities, desire discrepancy, shame and embarrassment, low desire and pain during sex, emotional difficulties, conflict and communication resolution. Therapy can provide a safe, supportive and thriving environment for you to reach your desired goals in life, connect with the people who matter most to you, and cultivate purpose.
(262) 279-1354 View (262) 279-1354
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Victoria Rose Dietz
Pre-Licensed Professional, BSW
Verified Verified
Madison, WI 53703
I have experience within maternal/perinatal mental health, LGBTQIA+ affirming care, anxiety disorders, trauma, and relationship & sex therapy.
Hi! My name is Victoria (she/they) and I am a queer therapist at Love Psychotherapy here in Madison. Within my practice, I have a passion for uplifting and empowering individuals by meeting them where they are and holding space for them during our sessions. This includes providing a trauma-informed and identity-affirming environment within the therapeutic space. Fun fact: I am also a birth doula, which I believe positively impacts my approach, particularly with perinatal clients!
I have experience within maternal/perinatal mental health, LGBTQIA+ affirming care, anxiety disorders, trauma, and relationship & sex therapy.
Hi! My name is Victoria (she/they) and I am a queer therapist at Love Psychotherapy here in Madison. Within my practice, I have a passion for uplifting and empowering individuals by meeting them where they are and holding space for them during our sessions. This includes providing a trauma-informed and identity-affirming environment within the therapeutic space. Fun fact: I am also a birth doula, which I believe positively impacts my approach, particularly with perinatal clients!
(608) 336-5197 View (608) 336-5197
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Lori Hall
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
Verified Verified
East Troy, WI 53120  (Online Only)
Not feeling like your sex life is what it used to be? Are you experiencing less or no desire at all? As we age, so do our bodies and with that comes changes in hormone function and other physiological changes that can (and do) impact our sex drive and overall sexual functioning and satisfaction. On top of the physiological changes are the multiple stressors we are faced with daily. Life is busy and stressful and let’s face it, we are exhausted by the end of the day. Let's work together to address the obstacles that keep you from feeling fulfilled in your sexual experiences.
Not feeling like your sex life is what it used to be? Are you experiencing less or no desire at all? As we age, so do our bodies and with that comes changes in hormone function and other physiological changes that can (and do) impact our sex drive and overall sexual functioning and satisfaction. On top of the physiological changes are the multiple stressors we are faced with daily. Life is busy and stressful and let’s face it, we are exhausted by the end of the day. Let's work together to address the obstacles that keep you from feeling fulfilled in your sexual experiences.
(262) 332-4306 View (262) 332-4306

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Sex Therapy

Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.