Sex Therapists in Mendham, NJ

Photo of Beverly Zagofsky, Licensed Professional Counselor in Mendham, NJ
Beverly Zagofsky
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, LMHC, CST, AASECT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Mendham, NJ 07945
My practice is devoted to Couples, Sex & Relational Therapy. All Couples experience difficulties during marriage or during long term relationships. Helping Couples work to resolve these conflicts, develop trust & reconnect is the most satisfying work that I do. We commonly address issues of trust, sexual issues, pornography, commitment, infidelity, communication, destructive patterns, stress, parenting, illness, trauma & passion. I work with couples to rekindle the spark, passion and desire that they once had and deepen a strong solid connection. Whatever you and your partners unique issues, my goal is to give you the hope and help to achieve the support & love that you both long for.
My practice is devoted to Couples, Sex & Relational Therapy. All Couples experience difficulties during marriage or during long term relationships. Helping Couples work to resolve these conflicts, develop trust & reconnect is the most satisfying work that I do. We commonly address issues of trust, sexual issues, pornography, commitment, infidelity, communication, destructive patterns, stress, parenting, illness, trauma & passion. I work with couples to rekindle the spark, passion and desire that they once had and deepen a strong solid connection. Whatever you and your partners unique issues, my goal is to give you the hope and help to achieve the support & love that you both long for.
(908) 955-0263 View (908) 955-0263
Photo of Larisa R. Wainer, Psychologist in Mendham, NJ
Larisa R. Wainer
Psychologist, PsyD, MA
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Mendham, NJ 07945  (Online Only)
Are you feeling anxious or depressed? Experiencing challenges in relationships? Problems with marriage or sex life? Whether you are adjusting to a recent stressor or dealing with a long-standing issue, talking with a doctoral-level professional can help you finally get some relief! If you are looking for an experienced, empathic psychologist who can help you have a better understanding and relationship with yourself and others, I am looking forward to meeting you! I specialize in individual as well as couples/marital therapy and work with a variety of age groups, from high school students to older adults.
Are you feeling anxious or depressed? Experiencing challenges in relationships? Problems with marriage or sex life? Whether you are adjusting to a recent stressor or dealing with a long-standing issue, talking with a doctoral-level professional can help you finally get some relief! If you are looking for an experienced, empathic psychologist who can help you have a better understanding and relationship with yourself and others, I am looking forward to meeting you! I specialize in individual as well as couples/marital therapy and work with a variety of age groups, from high school students to older adults.
(973) 947-8118 View (973) 947-8118
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Risa Simpson-Davis
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Mendham, NJ 07945
Do you feel frustrated, powerless or stuck in repeated arguments with your partner? Do you long for the love and connection you use to feel? Do some of your concerns include lack of trust, infidelity, intimacy issues, life transitions (e.g. parenting), communication breakdown or managing conflict? You want to see positive change in your marriage or relationship, but you don't know where to begin. No matter how big or small your issues are you can't seem to resolve them on your own. I can help you navigate the complexities of your relationship and help you build a stronger more reslient bond.
Do you feel frustrated, powerless or stuck in repeated arguments with your partner? Do you long for the love and connection you use to feel? Do some of your concerns include lack of trust, infidelity, intimacy issues, life transitions (e.g. parenting), communication breakdown or managing conflict? You want to see positive change in your marriage or relationship, but you don't know where to begin. No matter how big or small your issues are you can't seem to resolve them on your own. I can help you navigate the complexities of your relationship and help you build a stronger more reslient bond.
(732) 800-2470 View (732) 800-2470
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Tamsen Thorpe
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Mendham, NJ 07945
Does it seem like anxiety rules your life? Are you and your partner constantly fighting? Have there been broken promises? Do you feel lonely, more like roommates than partners? If so, you’ve come to the right place. My two areas of expertise are anxiety counseling and couples therapy/marriage counseling. I have more than 20 years of experience helping hundreds of individuals and couples lead happier, more fulfilling lives. Currently I’m conducting sessions online via Zoom and in person.
Does it seem like anxiety rules your life? Are you and your partner constantly fighting? Have there been broken promises? Do you feel lonely, more like roommates than partners? If so, you’ve come to the right place. My two areas of expertise are anxiety counseling and couples therapy/marriage counseling. I have more than 20 years of experience helping hundreds of individuals and couples lead happier, more fulfilling lives. Currently I’m conducting sessions online via Zoom and in person.
(973) 317-8022 View (973) 317-8022
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Meredith M Keller
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, ACS
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Mendham, NJ 07945
We specialize in helping people improve their intimate relationships. What makes us different is: our therapists are experts in working with couples and individuals on relationship issues. In session, we act as a neutral third party helping you and your partner to navigate your way through tricky situations. Ultimately, this arrangement transforms your marriage into be a place where you can talk about anything with your partner. If you are ready to do whatever it takes to create a healthier, happier relationship, you should start with us.
We specialize in helping people improve their intimate relationships. What makes us different is: our therapists are experts in working with couples and individuals on relationship issues. In session, we act as a neutral third party helping you and your partner to navigate your way through tricky situations. Ultimately, this arrangement transforms your marriage into be a place where you can talk about anything with your partner. If you are ready to do whatever it takes to create a healthier, happier relationship, you should start with us.
(908) 977-6067 View (908) 977-6067

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New Jersey Center for Sexual Wellness
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, CST
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Morristown, NJ 07960
Welcome to the New Jersey Center for Sexual Wellness, central New Jersey's only comprehensive resource for men, women, and teens seeking to enhance their sexual health, relationships, pleasure and knowledge. We provide evaluation of sexual problems, dysfunctions and concerns of both women and men. In addition to specialized and expert medical and psychological treatment, we offer educational consulting and programs on topics related to sexuality.
Welcome to the New Jersey Center for Sexual Wellness, central New Jersey's only comprehensive resource for men, women, and teens seeking to enhance their sexual health, relationships, pleasure and knowledge. We provide evaluation of sexual problems, dysfunctions and concerns of both women and men. In addition to specialized and expert medical and psychological treatment, we offer educational consulting and programs on topics related to sexuality.
(201) 817-6523 View (201) 817-6523
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Steven Rego
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Morristown, NJ 07960
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker who works with individuals and couples. I use an eclectic mix of therapeutic modalities like EMDR, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and Existential Psychotherapy to help get at the root of psychological issues. I specialize in sex therapy, trauma, PTSD, depression, anxiety, OCD, and many other issues. I work extensively with couples. I am in the dissertation phase for a PhD in Clinical Sexology and see individuals and couples experiencing sexual issues.
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker who works with individuals and couples. I use an eclectic mix of therapeutic modalities like EMDR, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and Existential Psychotherapy to help get at the root of psychological issues. I specialize in sex therapy, trauma, PTSD, depression, anxiety, OCD, and many other issues. I work extensively with couples. I am in the dissertation phase for a PhD in Clinical Sexology and see individuals and couples experiencing sexual issues.
(973) 257-9000 x204 View (973) 257-9000 x204
Photo of Donna German Klein, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Mendham, NJ
Donna German Klein
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Green Village, NJ 07935
Areas of competence include but are not limited to sexuality and gender.
I am offering compassionate, solution focused and at times existential therapy for those struggling with life transitions of identity and meaning. Whether identifying as transgender or gender non-conforming, the conversation in my office will assist you in how to move forward, regardless of age. It is not unusual that depression and anxiety is tied into ones gender and sexual identity. Sexual health is part of our being. Come explore what hasn't been discussed prior regarding your sexual self, whether alone or with your partner/spouse.
Areas of competence include but are not limited to sexuality and gender.
I am offering compassionate, solution focused and at times existential therapy for those struggling with life transitions of identity and meaning. Whether identifying as transgender or gender non-conforming, the conversation in my office will assist you in how to move forward, regardless of age. It is not unusual that depression and anxiety is tied into ones gender and sexual identity. Sexual health is part of our being. Come explore what hasn't been discussed prior regarding your sexual self, whether alone or with your partner/spouse.
(973) 816-2920 View (973) 816-2920
Catherine Buttner
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LSW
Verified Verified
Chester, NJ 07930
Communication, naming your desires, and building healthy relationships are not topics we're taught yet are what you'll hear repeated as the exact thing needed to live a life you want. Finding a therapist you can connect with, someone you trust to support you in this learning, can be a challenging task. As a trained sex therapist, I work to help you listen to your body, understand what is holding you back, and provide active feedback on how you can gain confidence.
Communication, naming your desires, and building healthy relationships are not topics we're taught yet are what you'll hear repeated as the exact thing needed to live a life you want. Finding a therapist you can connect with, someone you trust to support you in this learning, can be a challenging task. As a trained sex therapist, I work to help you listen to your body, understand what is holding you back, and provide active feedback on how you can gain confidence.
(908) 224-5011 View (908) 224-5011
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NJ Center for Sex Therapy
PhD, DHS, LCSW
Verified Verified
Chester, NJ 07930
In this highly specialized field of sex therapy, our certified and credentialed professionals with many years of combined experience provide treatment for sexual dysfunction, impulsive and compulsive sexual behaviors, survivors of trauma and sexual abuse, intimacy issues.
Sexuality is an important part of people's lives. When there is a sexual challenge or difficulty, it often spills over into other aspects of our lives. Ignoring it or trying to figure it out on our own is rarely effective. The professionals at The New Jersey Center for Sex Therapy are here to offer solutions. Our caring and compassionate professionals are ready to help you and to support your search for answers. We offer the key skills which you can acquire in order to attain confidence and gain insight into your sexual issues.
In this highly specialized field of sex therapy, our certified and credentialed professionals with many years of combined experience provide treatment for sexual dysfunction, impulsive and compulsive sexual behaviors, survivors of trauma and sexual abuse, intimacy issues.
Sexuality is an important part of people's lives. When there is a sexual challenge or difficulty, it often spills over into other aspects of our lives. Ignoring it or trying to figure it out on our own is rarely effective. The professionals at The New Jersey Center for Sex Therapy are here to offer solutions. Our caring and compassionate professionals are ready to help you and to support your search for answers. We offer the key skills which you can acquire in order to attain confidence and gain insight into your sexual issues.
(862) 766-6473 View (862) 766-6473
Photo of Dorian L Head, Licensed Professional Counselor in Mendham, NJ
Dorian L Head
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, ACS
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Morristown, NJ 07960
My areas of focus are: Anxiety, Depression, Relationships, Gender and Sexuality (LGBTQ2S+), Sex and Intimacy Therapy for Couples and Individuals, Erectile Dysfunction, Female Sexual Pain, Self Esteem and Body Confidence.
Sometimes we can feel like we're stuck, lost and have to try to figure it out alone. I'm here to support you in redefining who you are and what you want. Create the life you truly deserve by working through the tough stuff and embracing your unique abilities. I believe that connection is what helps us to heal and grow. My practice is based on building an authentic connection with you in order to help you become empowered to reach your goals. I offer a safe space for traditionally marginalized groups including BIPOC and First and Second Generation Immigrants, to feel seen and heard.
My areas of focus are: Anxiety, Depression, Relationships, Gender and Sexuality (LGBTQ2S+), Sex and Intimacy Therapy for Couples and Individuals, Erectile Dysfunction, Female Sexual Pain, Self Esteem and Body Confidence.
Sometimes we can feel like we're stuck, lost and have to try to figure it out alone. I'm here to support you in redefining who you are and what you want. Create the life you truly deserve by working through the tough stuff and embracing your unique abilities. I believe that connection is what helps us to heal and grow. My practice is based on building an authentic connection with you in order to help you become empowered to reach your goals. I offer a safe space for traditionally marginalized groups including BIPOC and First and Second Generation Immigrants, to feel seen and heard.
(973) 419-5904 View (973) 419-5904
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Sexual Addiction Sex Misbehavior Infidelity Expert
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, SOTS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Morristown, NJ 07960
Absolute sexual addiction elite level expert 27 years + 45,000 hours sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy provided, faster recovery evidence based research oriented treating of Infidelity / Cheating /Affairs, Prostitution Use, "Seeking Arrangements", Sugar Daddy, Sex Apps, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Sex Misconduct, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs utilizing highly effective clinical models. I use most up to date understanding to have you change your thinking and you learn how to end self destructive actions and love yourself and the great life you have. All I do is these cases.
Absolute sexual addiction elite level expert 27 years + 45,000 hours sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy provided, faster recovery evidence based research oriented treating of Infidelity / Cheating /Affairs, Prostitution Use, "Seeking Arrangements", Sugar Daddy, Sex Apps, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Sex Misconduct, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs utilizing highly effective clinical models. I use most up to date understanding to have you change your thinking and you learn how to end self destructive actions and love yourself and the great life you have. All I do is these cases.
(201) 379-6085 View (201) 379-6085
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Debra Yeager
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Denville, NJ 07834
My practice is filled with clients with a variety of needs, however, I specialize in Sex Therapy, Intimacy Issues, and Marriage and Couples Counseling, I am an ally to the LGBTQ+ community and am kink-friendly.
The most important thing I want to convey to you is that I am really excited to meet you. I am being handed an opportunity to connect with another person. I am often struck by how powerful this journey can be. You are bringing a host of emotions with you. Please know that I will do everything in my power to make you feel welcome, connected, understood and safe so you can openly share your feelings and frustrations. My office is the place for you to be you, with no judgments and nothing but a warm, listening and caring professional.
My practice is filled with clients with a variety of needs, however, I specialize in Sex Therapy, Intimacy Issues, and Marriage and Couples Counseling, I am an ally to the LGBTQ+ community and am kink-friendly.
The most important thing I want to convey to you is that I am really excited to meet you. I am being handed an opportunity to connect with another person. I am often struck by how powerful this journey can be. You are bringing a host of emotions with you. Please know that I will do everything in my power to make you feel welcome, connected, understood and safe so you can openly share your feelings and frustrations. My office is the place for you to be you, with no judgments and nothing but a warm, listening and caring professional.
(201) 625-1709 View (201) 625-1709
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Wendi L Dumbroff
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
Madison, NJ 07940
The decision to go to therapy is not an easy one, but it is a courageous step for someone who is having difficulty in some area of their life or in their relationships. I am a caring, culturally competent therapist who works with individuals, couples, and families around many issues, including: marital problems, sexual issues, raising adolescents, depression, anxiety, and how all mental health issues impact our lives and relationships. I have specialized training in couple and family therapy which I obtained through the Ackerman Institute for the Family In New York City. I am also currently pursuing certification in sex therapy.
The decision to go to therapy is not an easy one, but it is a courageous step for someone who is having difficulty in some area of their life or in their relationships. I am a caring, culturally competent therapist who works with individuals, couples, and families around many issues, including: marital problems, sexual issues, raising adolescents, depression, anxiety, and how all mental health issues impact our lives and relationships. I have specialized training in couple and family therapy which I obtained through the Ackerman Institute for the Family In New York City. I am also currently pursuing certification in sex therapy.
(973) 425-5071 View (973) 425-5071
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Allison Guilbault
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Morristown, NJ 07960  (Online Only)
I specialize in anxiety, trauma and sex & intimacy, but my true passion is helping people, particularly women, let go of guilt and shame, say goodbye to anxiety and live a life that is lead by passion and purpose, rather than from pressure.
You have already invested in personal growth, learned mindfulness, meditate, focus on your wellness... and yet... you still feel stuck. You find yourself apologizing to the waitress when you ask for more salad dressing. You have trouble speaking up to your partner for fear of being called dramatic, too much or over-sensitive. You hate when people post your picture without showing you first. You hear whispers of the old you who wanted big things and know that it is your intuition calling. You want to stop feeling small. You want to make peace with old wounds. ​ You are ready to take up space without apology.
I specialize in anxiety, trauma and sex & intimacy, but my true passion is helping people, particularly women, let go of guilt and shame, say goodbye to anxiety and live a life that is lead by passion and purpose, rather than from pressure.
You have already invested in personal growth, learned mindfulness, meditate, focus on your wellness... and yet... you still feel stuck. You find yourself apologizing to the waitress when you ask for more salad dressing. You have trouble speaking up to your partner for fear of being called dramatic, too much or over-sensitive. You hate when people post your picture without showing you first. You hear whispers of the old you who wanted big things and know that it is your intuition calling. You want to stop feeling small. You want to make peace with old wounds. ​ You are ready to take up space without apology.
(201) 423-6785 View (201) 423-6785
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Elise Robinson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LICSW, CCATP, CSTIP, CAGCS
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Bernardsville, NJ 07924  (Online Only)
I help clients with anxiety, relationship issues, self esteem, sex & more with neurodivergent & queer affirming care.
Do you wish life would slow down so you can take a breath? Stuff has been piling up and now your relationships are strained, your social life isn't what you want, and you don’t even really know who you are. However things got to this point, you know you want life to be different and don't want to wait anymore. Many of my clients are hesitant to start therapy or have had trouble connecting with other therapists. I get it! Let's be real, vulnerability is scary as hell. Together we’ll discover or reconnect with your truest self, cultivate healthy habits, identify unhelpful patterns & gain tools to go through the changes of life.
I help clients with anxiety, relationship issues, self esteem, sex & more with neurodivergent & queer affirming care.
Do you wish life would slow down so you can take a breath? Stuff has been piling up and now your relationships are strained, your social life isn't what you want, and you don’t even really know who you are. However things got to this point, you know you want life to be different and don't want to wait anymore. Many of my clients are hesitant to start therapy or have had trouble connecting with other therapists. I get it! Let's be real, vulnerability is scary as hell. Together we’ll discover or reconnect with your truest self, cultivate healthy habits, identify unhelpful patterns & gain tools to go through the changes of life.
(908) 827-6450 View (908) 827-6450
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Dana Kaspereen
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPC, LCADC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Morristown, NJ 07960
I also specialize in addictions counseling and provide such services to individuals in recovery, family members of addicts, gambling problems, and sex addictions.
I provide a supportive, warm, and empathetic atmosphere in order to help each person find peace, happiness, and comfort in their lives and relationships. I provide services to children, adolescents, adults, couples, and families and offer individual therapy, marriage and couples counseling, family systems therapy, substance abuse and addiction counseling and assessments.
I also specialize in addictions counseling and provide such services to individuals in recovery, family members of addicts, gambling problems, and sex addictions.
I provide a supportive, warm, and empathetic atmosphere in order to help each person find peace, happiness, and comfort in their lives and relationships. I provide services to children, adolescents, adults, couples, and families and offer individual therapy, marriage and couples counseling, family systems therapy, substance abuse and addiction counseling and assessments.
(973) 310-2155 View (973) 310-2155
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Advanced Learning Behavioral Center, LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, BCBA, PhD, BBS
Verified Verified
Morristown, NJ 07960
Our approach is a whole person holistic emphasis in family, behavior, spirituality, bereavement, grief, couples, sex therapy, depression, anxiety, trauma, ADHD, and ABA services.
Thank you for contacting us for your counseling needs, we are glad you have reached out for us to help you. Our focus is to better understand how we can help our clients heal from depression, anxiety, PTSD, developmental trauma, couples' relationships and marriage issues, self esteem, smoking cessation, executive skills and social skills deficiencies. Menashe East, LCSW is a therapist with us treating: sexual issues, couples, grief, spiritual, and family issues. We use evidence-based therapies for children, adults, and couples. Please visit our website for an appointment with one of our therapists at: www.advancedlearningddb.net
Our approach is a whole person holistic emphasis in family, behavior, spirituality, bereavement, grief, couples, sex therapy, depression, anxiety, trauma, ADHD, and ABA services.
Thank you for contacting us for your counseling needs, we are glad you have reached out for us to help you. Our focus is to better understand how we can help our clients heal from depression, anxiety, PTSD, developmental trauma, couples' relationships and marriage issues, self esteem, smoking cessation, executive skills and social skills deficiencies. Menashe East, LCSW is a therapist with us treating: sexual issues, couples, grief, spiritual, and family issues. We use evidence-based therapies for children, adults, and couples. Please visit our website for an appointment with one of our therapists at: www.advancedlearningddb.net
(862) 260-8700 View (862) 260-8700
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Menashe East
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Randolph, NJ 07869
Connection is our basic human need. We need to be heard and understood. Loneliness, even when in relationship, isolates us from each other and from ourselves. I will work with you to help you find connection; to help you believe you have an inner voice that is worthy and to challenge you to see yourself differently than you have. I look forward to working with you
Connection is our basic human need. We need to be heard and understood. Loneliness, even when in relationship, isolates us from each other and from ourselves. I will work with you to help you find connection; to help you believe you have an inner voice that is worthy and to challenge you to see yourself differently than you have. I look forward to working with you
(862) 319-8682 View (862) 319-8682
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Ania Jarmulowicz
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Morristown, NJ 07960  (Online Only)
Therapy is like talking to your best friend, only better! I have more than fifteen years of experience working with individuals, couples and families using a whole-person approach tailored to the unique needs of each person. My work rests on the foundation of a honest, caring, nonjudgmental and compassionate therapeutic relationship. I am primarily Trauma Focused Psychodynamic. In my work, I consider physical, emotional, social and spiritual wellbeing utilizing mindfulness, religious/spiritual beliefs, CBT, medication, EFT and EMDR, as appropriate.
Therapy is like talking to your best friend, only better! I have more than fifteen years of experience working with individuals, couples and families using a whole-person approach tailored to the unique needs of each person. My work rests on the foundation of a honest, caring, nonjudgmental and compassionate therapeutic relationship. I am primarily Trauma Focused Psychodynamic. In my work, I consider physical, emotional, social and spiritual wellbeing utilizing mindfulness, religious/spiritual beliefs, CBT, medication, EFT and EMDR, as appropriate.
(727) 250-5347 View (727) 250-5347

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Sex Therapy

Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.