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Nyrisha Hall
Pre-Licensed Professional
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Fairfax, VA 22038
If you're facing mental health issues, substance abuse, or developmental challenges, I'm here to help. As Nyrisha Hall, I offer a personalized, empathetic approach to therapy, focusing on your unique needs and goals. My dedication to compassionate care and commitment to a nurturing environment stand me apart. Whether it's improving mental well-being, overcoming addiction, enhancing life quality, finding stable employment, or healing trauma, together we can navigate and achieve your desired outcomes. Choose to partner with me in your journey towards a healthier, happier life.
If you're facing mental health issues, substance abuse, or developmental challenges, I'm here to help. As Nyrisha Hall, I offer a personalized, empathetic approach to therapy, focusing on your unique needs and goals. My dedication to compassionate care and commitment to a nurturing environment stand me apart. Whether it's improving mental well-being, overcoming addiction, enhancing life quality, finding stable employment, or healing trauma, together we can navigate and achieve your desired outcomes. Choose to partner with me in your journey towards a healthier, happier life.
(703) 783-9450 View (703) 783-9450

Online Therapists

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Lynne B Einhaus
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Richmond, VA 23236
I am also passionate about working with divorcing couples as a Collaborative Coach within the Collaborative Divorce process.
Does life feel overwhelming and stressful? The good news is that therapy can help you better understand your unique life challenges as well as develop new, empowering perspectives and mindsets. I use findings from exciting research in neuroscience and mindfulness to help us customize powerful tools to help you feel better. I am passionate about working with my clients to help them develop life skills such as mindfulness, self-calming strategies, accurate beliefs about themselves and others and the courage to risk new behaviors. If you are ready to make a change, I would love to hear from you.
I am also passionate about working with divorcing couples as a Collaborative Coach within the Collaborative Divorce process.
Does life feel overwhelming and stressful? The good news is that therapy can help you better understand your unique life challenges as well as develop new, empowering perspectives and mindsets. I use findings from exciting research in neuroscience and mindfulness to help us customize powerful tools to help you feel better. I am passionate about working with my clients to help them develop life skills such as mindfulness, self-calming strategies, accurate beliefs about themselves and others and the courage to risk new behaviors. If you are ready to make a change, I would love to hear from you.
(804) 223-0917 View (804) 223-0917
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Claire Bartick
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Fairfax, VA 22032
I help people with anxiety/depression, grief & loss, people coping with a Cluster B personality disorder, & couples facing infertility & other issues.
As a Clinical Psychologist, I specialize in psychotherapy for individuals, couples, and families. People often come to me because, despite their efforts to change, they end up in the same cycles...cycles of anxiety, depression, disordered eating, relationship struggles, isolation, procrastination, workaholism...the list goes on and on. People often wonder "why can't I just change?" These cycles of behavior are driven by our life experiences and sense of ourself and others. Together, we will explore these ideas so that you can begin to create newer positive cycles of peace, calm, joy, contentment, intimacy, health, and fulfillment.
I help people with anxiety/depression, grief & loss, people coping with a Cluster B personality disorder, & couples facing infertility & other issues.
As a Clinical Psychologist, I specialize in psychotherapy for individuals, couples, and families. People often come to me because, despite their efforts to change, they end up in the same cycles...cycles of anxiety, depression, disordered eating, relationship struggles, isolation, procrastination, workaholism...the list goes on and on. People often wonder "why can't I just change?" These cycles of behavior are driven by our life experiences and sense of ourself and others. Together, we will explore these ideas so that you can begin to create newer positive cycles of peace, calm, joy, contentment, intimacy, health, and fulfillment.
(571) 217-5726 View (571) 217-5726
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Daniel Menely
Licensed Professional Counselor, LMHC, BCC
Verified Verified
Arlington, VA 22201  (Online Only)
I counsel many young to mid-career professionals and creatives, especially those navigating career and relationship challenges.
As your therapist, I'm here to provide a warm and supportive space where you can talk freely without being judged. I won't just sit quietly – instead, I'll ask questions, offer suggestions, and reflect on what you share. Together, we'll work on dealing with the things that might be bothering you in your everyday life, whether that be challenges with relationships, work, or family. Our goal is to help you feel better, be true to who you are, and improve your relationships. And along the way, you'll get valuable skills to reduce stress and move your life forward.
I counsel many young to mid-career professionals and creatives, especially those navigating career and relationship challenges.
As your therapist, I'm here to provide a warm and supportive space where you can talk freely without being judged. I won't just sit quietly – instead, I'll ask questions, offer suggestions, and reflect on what you share. Together, we'll work on dealing with the things that might be bothering you in your everyday life, whether that be challenges with relationships, work, or family. Our goal is to help you feel better, be true to who you are, and improve your relationships. And along the way, you'll get valuable skills to reduce stress and move your life forward.
(703) 596-2818 View (703) 596-2818
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Michael Searby
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
Falls Church, VA 22046
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor with extensive experience treating addictions, anxiety, obsessive thinking, depression, communication/ relationship issues, and life phase struggles. As a counselor, I am privileged to be able to share in my clients' journeys and to help them overcome difficulties. 20 years of practice have shown me that when faced with overwhelming struggles we must first acknowledge their existence, and only then can we reach for the help necessary to find achievable solutions. In the safety of a grounded, knowledgeable, and insight-oriented counseling experience I believe this is possible.
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor with extensive experience treating addictions, anxiety, obsessive thinking, depression, communication/ relationship issues, and life phase struggles. As a counselor, I am privileged to be able to share in my clients' journeys and to help them overcome difficulties. 20 years of practice have shown me that when faced with overwhelming struggles we must first acknowledge their existence, and only then can we reach for the help necessary to find achievable solutions. In the safety of a grounded, knowledgeable, and insight-oriented counseling experience I believe this is possible.
(703) 547-8353 View (703) 547-8353
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Erica T Chow
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
McLean, VA 22102
Erica Chow is a licensed clinical psychologist who specializes in working with school-aged children, adolescents, adults, and couples who experience anxiety, adjustment related difficulties (e.
Whether you are an adult, adolescent, or a child, life can be full of surprises and changes. Sometimes these surprises and changes are welcomed and embraced, while other times, they can be unexpected and difficult to navigate. Therapy can be a helpful avenue to unpack the curiosity, emotions, and uncertainty associated with these transitions.
Erica Chow is a licensed clinical psychologist who specializes in working with school-aged children, adolescents, adults, and couples who experience anxiety, adjustment related difficulties (e.
Whether you are an adult, adolescent, or a child, life can be full of surprises and changes. Sometimes these surprises and changes are welcomed and embraced, while other times, they can be unexpected and difficult to navigate. Therapy can be a helpful avenue to unpack the curiosity, emotions, and uncertainty associated with these transitions.
(571) 322-8646 View (571) 322-8646
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Mindful Innovations
Counselor, MA, LPC, CSOTP
Verified Verified
Charlottesville, VA 22903  (Online Only)
Entering a therapeutic relationship can be extremely rewarding.
I support a broad range of individuals, such as those with self regulation and impulse control, that impact their functioning and stability. I want to help you or your loved one in stabilization of mood, thinking, and behavior to live more freely without the burdens of past experiences. I believe strongly in one's motivation to change, and I will support you while you build belief in yourself and your goals. I can help you work through barriers that may inhibit your success or hold you back from taking the steps forward in your life. While the treatment journey can be a challenging one, I can help guide your path to stability.
Entering a therapeutic relationship can be extremely rewarding.
I support a broad range of individuals, such as those with self regulation and impulse control, that impact their functioning and stability. I want to help you or your loved one in stabilization of mood, thinking, and behavior to live more freely without the burdens of past experiences. I believe strongly in one's motivation to change, and I will support you while you build belief in yourself and your goals. I can help you work through barriers that may inhibit your success or hold you back from taking the steps forward in your life. While the treatment journey can be a challenging one, I can help guide your path to stability.
(434) 478-3048 View (434) 478-3048
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Marketa Campbell
Supervisee in Clinical Social Work, MSW
Verified Verified
Fairfax, VA 22030
I specialize in working with adults and young adults. I use short and long-term therapeutic approaches. If you are a person who is working through trauma, anxiety, depression, PTSD, borderline personality disorder, compulsions, or destructive relationship patterns; if you want to improve your well-being; whether this is a uniquely challenging time; or you are simply ready to take your life in a new direction, I am eager to help you achieve your goals.
I specialize in working with adults and young adults. I use short and long-term therapeutic approaches. If you are a person who is working through trauma, anxiety, depression, PTSD, borderline personality disorder, compulsions, or destructive relationship patterns; if you want to improve your well-being; whether this is a uniquely challenging time; or you are simply ready to take your life in a new direction, I am eager to help you achieve your goals.
(571) 556-5989 View (571) 556-5989
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Candace Fleming
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, LPC
Verified Verified
Manassas, VA 20109  (Online Only)
The relationship with your therapist has a significant impact on whether you will find therapy effective.
I provide a safe, non-judgmental environment where we focus on healing as we address issues with: Family, relationships, unresolved emotional issues, self-doubt and low self-esteem, guilt and shame, emotional intimacy and trust, anxiety and depression, parenting, substance use and addiction, processing traumatic or painful experiences that may have occurred during childhood, and fertility and pregnancy issues. I work with individuals, couples, and families to help them value, trust, and connect more deeply with themselves and their loved ones.
The relationship with your therapist has a significant impact on whether you will find therapy effective.
I provide a safe, non-judgmental environment where we focus on healing as we address issues with: Family, relationships, unresolved emotional issues, self-doubt and low self-esteem, guilt and shame, emotional intimacy and trust, anxiety and depression, parenting, substance use and addiction, processing traumatic or painful experiences that may have occurred during childhood, and fertility and pregnancy issues. I work with individuals, couples, and families to help them value, trust, and connect more deeply with themselves and their loved ones.
(703) 775-4518 View (703) 775-4518
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Mindy B. Loiselle LCSW
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Richmond, VA 23220
Waitlist for new clients
Whether you struggle with anxiety, depression, relationship issues, trauma, or other concerns, you can overcome barriers, and free yourself from recurring patterns that make life harder than it needs to be.
Do you want to experience greater freedom from anxiety, depression, or negative thoughts? Are you feeling frustrated, misunderstood, or unappreciated in your close relationships? Have you tried therapy before but did not get the results you were hoping for? With understanding and compassion for yourself, you can break free of negative thoughts, self-limiting beliefs, and harmful habits. You can learn communication methods to bring you closer to others, without sacrificing yourself. Together we will discover a deeper source of strength that is uniquely yours. I can help you tap this well to find joy, contentment, and harmonious relationships.
Whether you struggle with anxiety, depression, relationship issues, trauma, or other concerns, you can overcome barriers, and free yourself from recurring patterns that make life harder than it needs to be.
Do you want to experience greater freedom from anxiety, depression, or negative thoughts? Are you feeling frustrated, misunderstood, or unappreciated in your close relationships? Have you tried therapy before but did not get the results you were hoping for? With understanding and compassion for yourself, you can break free of negative thoughts, self-limiting beliefs, and harmful habits. You can learn communication methods to bring you closer to others, without sacrificing yourself. Together we will discover a deeper source of strength that is uniquely yours. I can help you tap this well to find joy, contentment, and harmonious relationships.
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Unity Counseling
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CCTP
Verified Verified
Reston, VA 20191
Deciding upon therapy for yourself, as an individual, a family member or significant other in a couple is daunting, to say the least. Confronting difficulties in relation to one's past, present or future requires courage, which is on its own, an initial therapeutic step in the right direction. My philosophy is that all beings are intrinsically, whole and worthy. Therefore, my therapeutic mission is to help individuals, couples and families connect to their innate wholeness. My approach is an integration of complementary models; including Attachment theory, DBT, Mindfulness and CBT.
Deciding upon therapy for yourself, as an individual, a family member or significant other in a couple is daunting, to say the least. Confronting difficulties in relation to one's past, present or future requires courage, which is on its own, an initial therapeutic step in the right direction. My philosophy is that all beings are intrinsically, whole and worthy. Therefore, my therapeutic mission is to help individuals, couples and families connect to their innate wholeness. My approach is an integration of complementary models; including Attachment theory, DBT, Mindfulness and CBT.
(571) 620-6458 View (571) 620-6458
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Kimberly C Pulley
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
I am licensed in Virginia, West Virginia, and Alabama, and I work with individuals, couples, and families, from teens to seniors.
The path of life can be full of twists and turns and it's easy to become overwhelmed, especially in times of change and transition. Do you find yourself at a crossroads, not knowing where to turn? I believe there is hope, even in the most difficult of circumstances. I enjoy helping others regain their sense of hope by developing insight and tapping into their strengths and abilities. In doing so, healthier, more successful ways of coping with life's challenges can begin to emerge.
I am licensed in Virginia, West Virginia, and Alabama, and I work with individuals, couples, and families, from teens to seniors.
The path of life can be full of twists and turns and it's easy to become overwhelmed, especially in times of change and transition. Do you find yourself at a crossroads, not knowing where to turn? I believe there is hope, even in the most difficult of circumstances. I enjoy helping others regain their sense of hope by developing insight and tapping into their strengths and abilities. In doing so, healthier, more successful ways of coping with life's challenges can begin to emerge.
(804) 885-4365 View (804) 885-4365
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Marianne Redmond Lopez
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
I've dealt with relationship issues, mood disorders, anxiety, addictions, DV, and personality quirks.
I'm all about equipping folks with the right tools to help them level up fast and in a good way. I get it—your time and money matter, so I aim to keep things organized and focused on goals. Over the years, I've worked with all sorts of people dealing with their own unique situations. My specialties? Well, I've got a knack for helping out healthcare pros, therapists, first responders, teachers, folks in high-stress gigs, couples, those facing professional challenges, and anyone going through major life shifts.
I've dealt with relationship issues, mood disorders, anxiety, addictions, DV, and personality quirks.
I'm all about equipping folks with the right tools to help them level up fast and in a good way. I get it—your time and money matter, so I aim to keep things organized and focused on goals. Over the years, I've worked with all sorts of people dealing with their own unique situations. My specialties? Well, I've got a knack for helping out healthcare pros, therapists, first responders, teachers, folks in high-stress gigs, couples, those facing professional challenges, and anyone going through major life shifts.
(540) 441-1374 View (540) 441-1374
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Danakristal Crone
Pre-Licensed Professional
Verified Verified
Richmond, VA 23223
Dana Crone is a Resident Clinical Social Worker. Her clinical experience includes work in inpatient hospitalization, community-based treatment, and outpatient treatment. As a queer-identified POC, she understands the unique issue of identity exploration and intersectionality. She is passionate about helping adolescents, adults, and couples address their unique challenges and live more fulfilled lives. Dana specializes in racial identity, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, life transitions, and borderline personality disorder.
Dana Crone is a Resident Clinical Social Worker. Her clinical experience includes work in inpatient hospitalization, community-based treatment, and outpatient treatment. As a queer-identified POC, she understands the unique issue of identity exploration and intersectionality. She is passionate about helping adolescents, adults, and couples address their unique challenges and live more fulfilled lives. Dana specializes in racial identity, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, life transitions, and borderline personality disorder.
(804) 376-5593 View (804) 376-5593
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Michael Tinsley
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Richmond, VA 23225  (Online Only)
I am a Graduate of Howard University and UNC Charlotte, I have a BA in Psychology and a Masters in Social Work. I have a passion for working with individuals, couples and families who seek change to become happier, healthier and gain control over obstacles that are weighing them down.
I am a Graduate of Howard University and UNC Charlotte, I have a BA in Psychology and a Masters in Social Work. I have a passion for working with individuals, couples and families who seek change to become happier, healthier and gain control over obstacles that are weighing them down.
(757) 801-3428 View (757) 801-3428
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Jennifer Parrella - Decoding Relationships, LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, LCMHC, NCC, CCTP
Verified Verified
Fairfax, VA 22030  (Online Only)
I specialize in relationship counseling, communication, behavior, affairs, conflict, fighting, & trauma.
I believe individuals, couples, & families can adjust their thinking, behaviors, & patterns to improve their lives and relationships. My approach is compassionate yet honest & straightforward. I teach healthy patterns to replace negative ones. I take a pro-relationship, trauma informed, approach to all relationships, helping people and their loved ones make changes in order to feel closer and happier together. Feel free to reach out via email or phone at any time w/ questions or to schedule an appt. I am accepting new clients and offer day & evening virtual hours M-F. Sessions & paperwork are facilitated via confidential web-portal.
I specialize in relationship counseling, communication, behavior, affairs, conflict, fighting, & trauma.
I believe individuals, couples, & families can adjust their thinking, behaviors, & patterns to improve their lives and relationships. My approach is compassionate yet honest & straightforward. I teach healthy patterns to replace negative ones. I take a pro-relationship, trauma informed, approach to all relationships, helping people and their loved ones make changes in order to feel closer and happier together. Feel free to reach out via email or phone at any time w/ questions or to schedule an appt. I am accepting new clients and offer day & evening virtual hours M-F. Sessions & paperwork are facilitated via confidential web-portal.
(703) 936-6326 View (703) 936-6326
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Relational Recovery Institute
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, CSAT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Leesburg, VA 20175
Relationship Issues: Many couples find themselves unable to create the emotional connection and fulfillment they most long for with their partner.
Are you or your partner struggling with the negative impacts from sexually compulsive behaviors, having difficulties in your relationship or experiencing limits in your ability to live the life you most deeply desire due to childhood trauma? If so, the clinical team at the Relational Recovery Institute (RRI) specializes in treating these issues through offering an individualized proven path and treatment program for relational recovery that will improve your relationships, help to resolve current and past traumas, and transform your life.
Relationship Issues: Many couples find themselves unable to create the emotional connection and fulfillment they most long for with their partner.
Are you or your partner struggling with the negative impacts from sexually compulsive behaviors, having difficulties in your relationship or experiencing limits in your ability to live the life you most deeply desire due to childhood trauma? If so, the clinical team at the Relational Recovery Institute (RRI) specializes in treating these issues through offering an individualized proven path and treatment program for relational recovery that will improve your relationships, help to resolve current and past traumas, and transform your life.
(703) 291-3712 View (703) 291-3712
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Zephyr Acosta-Lewis
Pre-Licensed Professional, MSW
Verified Verified
Richmond, VA 23229
I prioritize client agency and collaboration and the healing capacity of the therapeutic relationship.
I am passionate about supporting clients experiencing life transitions and serious mental health challenges in understanding their inner experience, navigating their trauma, and celebrating and reinforcing their strengths with a collaborative approach. I particularly enjoy working with teenagers, young adults, and families, folks with expansive experiences of gender and sexuality, neurodiversity, and those with histories of housing instability, complex trauma, and dissociative symptoms.
I prioritize client agency and collaboration and the healing capacity of the therapeutic relationship.
I am passionate about supporting clients experiencing life transitions and serious mental health challenges in understanding their inner experience, navigating their trauma, and celebrating and reinforcing their strengths with a collaborative approach. I particularly enjoy working with teenagers, young adults, and families, folks with expansive experiences of gender and sexuality, neurodiversity, and those with histories of housing instability, complex trauma, and dissociative symptoms.
(804) 429-1796 View (804) 429-1796
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Dominique Danquah
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LICSW, CSA, CCTP
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Alexandria, VA 22312  (Online Only)
, we provide virtual clinical individual, family and couples counseling (via Telehealth technology) with a focus on holistic faith-based Christian counseling.
Telehealth Therapy Only- It's a difficult task finding a therapist that you think will be able to understand and meet you where you are. That is why here at Renewed Journey, LLC we use a client centered approach, with a focus on holistic faith-based Christian counseling, tailored with evidenced based approaches around your specific wants and needs. We are extremely passionate about Mental Health and desire to support individuals who are committed to improving their lives. We believe counseling is a partnership to help you heal, change, and grow. This partnership is built on mutual trust and respect
, we provide virtual clinical individual, family and couples counseling (via Telehealth technology) with a focus on holistic faith-based Christian counseling.
Telehealth Therapy Only- It's a difficult task finding a therapist that you think will be able to understand and meet you where you are. That is why here at Renewed Journey, LLC we use a client centered approach, with a focus on holistic faith-based Christian counseling, tailored with evidenced based approaches around your specific wants and needs. We are extremely passionate about Mental Health and desire to support individuals who are committed to improving their lives. We believe counseling is a partnership to help you heal, change, and grow. This partnership is built on mutual trust and respect
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Tammie Howard
Resident in Counseling, M Ed, MSN, RN
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Manassas, VA 20110
Waitlist for new clients
We all encounter challenges along our life journeys. Healing can often feel overwhelming, difficult, and lonely. I want you to know that you are not alone. Allow me to partner with you to help you understand and navigate the challenges to make healing possible. I'm a Licensed Resident in Counseling, a military veteran, and a second career professional, with over 30 years of experience in healthcare. I enjoy working with clients of all ages and backgrounds, addressing issues related to trauma, life transitions, relationships, identity/cultural issues, disabilities, and the military/veteran community.
We all encounter challenges along our life journeys. Healing can often feel overwhelming, difficult, and lonely. I want you to know that you are not alone. Allow me to partner with you to help you understand and navigate the challenges to make healing possible. I'm a Licensed Resident in Counseling, a military veteran, and a second career professional, with over 30 years of experience in healthcare. I enjoy working with clients of all ages and backgrounds, addressing issues related to trauma, life transitions, relationships, identity/cultural issues, disabilities, and the military/veteran community.
(571) 489-0730 x730 View (571) 489-0730 x730
Couples Counseling Therapists

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.