Couples Counseling Therapists in Hawaii County, HI

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Kerith G. Edwards
Counselor, MA, MHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Volcano, HI 96785  (Online Only)
Welcome! I offer expert mental health counseling to women, men, teens, couples & families facing psychological and relational challenges. If you've been feeling anxious, low, tired, or overwhelmed, therapy can help you in real and lasting ways. Maybe you could use help with your relationship, family, sleep, work life, or future plans. We humans benefit greatly from being listened to, heard, and understood. I offer you safe space and deep knowledge in the areas of human psychology, mental health, and relationship dynamics. Sessions take place via video or out of doors. Reach out now with questions or to schedule an initial session.
Welcome! I offer expert mental health counseling to women, men, teens, couples & families facing psychological and relational challenges. If you've been feeling anxious, low, tired, or overwhelmed, therapy can help you in real and lasting ways. Maybe you could use help with your relationship, family, sleep, work life, or future plans. We humans benefit greatly from being listened to, heard, and understood. I offer you safe space and deep knowledge in the areas of human psychology, mental health, and relationship dynamics. Sessions take place via video or out of doors. Reach out now with questions or to schedule an initial session.
(808) 731-1126 View (808) 731-1126
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Gary Replogle
Counselor, MEd, LMHC
Verified Verified
Honomu, HI 96728
I have had a varied work experience, and I now specialize in working with teens and, young adults. I have been working with teenagers since moving to Big Island in 2004. Through the therapeutic relationship we can explore belief systems, challenges and needs presented by individual clients. I have been working in the addictions/mental health field for over a decade. I am familar with the addiction/recovery process. I can offer individual attention to the challenges and needs in the early stages of recovery in a confidential setting, in my private office. Working towards your individual goals will be the basis for the therapeutic relationship.
I have had a varied work experience, and I now specialize in working with teens and, young adults. I have been working with teenagers since moving to Big Island in 2004. Through the therapeutic relationship we can explore belief systems, challenges and needs presented by individual clients. I have been working in the addictions/mental health field for over a decade. I am familar with the addiction/recovery process. I can offer individual attention to the challenges and needs in the early stages of recovery in a confidential setting, in my private office. Working towards your individual goals will be the basis for the therapeutic relationship.
(808) 374-9297 View (808) 374-9297
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Rachel Leigh Lewis
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Pahoa, HI 96778  (Online Only)
I work with survivors of PTSD and Complex trauma, including relationship trauma and dissociation disorders. Common issues my clients present with include challenges with setting relationship boundaries with friends and family, coping with intense emotions, and an inability to be decisive in small or big life choices. Many are survivors of sexual or physical childhood abuse. Others say "childhood wasn't that bad," but have an intense inner critic and struggle with attracting and maintaining positive relationships and occupations, and are often unaware of the impact of emotional neglect and harsh criticism they experienced.
I work with survivors of PTSD and Complex trauma, including relationship trauma and dissociation disorders. Common issues my clients present with include challenges with setting relationship boundaries with friends and family, coping with intense emotions, and an inability to be decisive in small or big life choices. Many are survivors of sexual or physical childhood abuse. Others say "childhood wasn't that bad," but have an intense inner critic and struggle with attracting and maintaining positive relationships and occupations, and are often unaware of the impact of emotional neglect and harsh criticism they experienced.
(808) 201-5179 View (808) 201-5179
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Rebecca Keolanui
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Hilo, HI 96720
This life journey, so full of potential joy, grace and human intimacy, is a winding road. Exploring what keeps us from optimal positive relations and personal peace, health, and acceptance is what my work embodies. Each of us has unique strengths and challenges. My experience is working with depression, anxiety/stress, trauma/PTSD, relationship, parenting and family issues, grief and loss, life transitions, and spiritual crisis. I advocate and am available for premarital sessions for couples.
This life journey, so full of potential joy, grace and human intimacy, is a winding road. Exploring what keeps us from optimal positive relations and personal peace, health, and acceptance is what my work embodies. Each of us has unique strengths and challenges. My experience is working with depression, anxiety/stress, trauma/PTSD, relationship, parenting and family issues, grief and loss, life transitions, and spiritual crisis. I advocate and am available for premarital sessions for couples.
(808) 731-1634 View (808) 731-1634
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Justin Larkin
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Kailua Kona, HI 96740
I offer a supportive, empathetic, and encouraging relationship.
A’ohe pu’u ki’eki’e ke ho’a’o ‘ia e pi’i - No cliff is so tall it cannot be climbed. The demands of the world feel exhausting on your physical and mental health. Your past experiences lead you to feel depressed and hopeless, or anxious and irritable. Your work performance may be dipping. Your family may be suffering. Your relationships may be strained. You're trying... You're ready for change! My goal is to provide you with a relationship that you can utilize for your own personal growth. No cliff is too tall!
I offer a supportive, empathetic, and encouraging relationship.
A’ohe pu’u ki’eki’e ke ho’a’o ‘ia e pi’i - No cliff is so tall it cannot be climbed. The demands of the world feel exhausting on your physical and mental health. Your past experiences lead you to feel depressed and hopeless, or anxious and irritable. Your work performance may be dipping. Your family may be suffering. Your relationships may be strained. You're trying... You're ready for change! My goal is to provide you with a relationship that you can utilize for your own personal growth. No cliff is too tall!
(254) 556-4487 View (254) 556-4487
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Gina Faye Smith
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, IDHP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Papaaloa, HI 96780
It has been my experience that an important component of successful therapy is the therapeutic relationship that gets formed. I enjoy working with most people, and find that I am effective to the extent that a safe and trusting space can be created where my client is able to communicate whatever they need to without fear of judgement. I have also found that I am not able to be of any help at all, unless my client is invested in their healing process, willing to do the work that's involved, and is not looking for their therapist to tell them what to do.
It has been my experience that an important component of successful therapy is the therapeutic relationship that gets formed. I enjoy working with most people, and find that I am effective to the extent that a safe and trusting space can be created where my client is able to communicate whatever they need to without fear of judgement. I have also found that I am not able to be of any help at all, unless my client is invested in their healing process, willing to do the work that's involved, and is not looking for their therapist to tell them what to do.
(808) 556-8304 View (808) 556-8304
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Marvia Scott
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Hilo, HI 96720
I am a licensed therapist in the states of Alabama, Massachusetts, and Hawaii with 7 years of professional work experience. I have experience in helping clients with stress and anxiety, depression, family conflicts, relationship difficulties, trauma and abuse, and career difficulties. I believe that you are the expert of your story and that you have many strengths that will assist you in overcoming things that challenge you. Taking the first step to seeking a more fulfilling and happier life takes courage. I am here to support you in that process.
I am a licensed therapist in the states of Alabama, Massachusetts, and Hawaii with 7 years of professional work experience. I have experience in helping clients with stress and anxiety, depression, family conflicts, relationship difficulties, trauma and abuse, and career difficulties. I believe that you are the expert of your story and that you have many strengths that will assist you in overcoming things that challenge you. Taking the first step to seeking a more fulfilling and happier life takes courage. I am here to support you in that process.
(808) 201-2045 View (808) 201-2045
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Matthew D Brittain
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, DCSW, MA
Verified Verified
Hilo, HI 96720
I am the lead provider in a small group practice specializing in the following: ADHD (the only specialty ADHD clinic outside of Oahu, to our knowledge); psychedelics-integration therapy; Forensic (court-involved) clients; sexual issues of many kinds (identity, empowerment, experience enhancement, dysfunctions, etc.); medical cannabis certification; couples/relationship issues. Susan Cauley, MD Melanie Guerra (Clinical Aide), and myself are the team. Dr. Susan Cauley can provide medication coordination for our ADHD program, and is our Cannabis specialist.
I am the lead provider in a small group practice specializing in the following: ADHD (the only specialty ADHD clinic outside of Oahu, to our knowledge); psychedelics-integration therapy; Forensic (court-involved) clients; sexual issues of many kinds (identity, empowerment, experience enhancement, dysfunctions, etc.); medical cannabis certification; couples/relationship issues. Susan Cauley, MD Melanie Guerra (Clinical Aide), and myself are the team. Dr. Susan Cauley can provide medication coordination for our ADHD program, and is our Cannabis specialist.
(808) 731-1470 View (808) 731-1470
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Mary Elizabeth Alvior
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Hilo, HI 96720
I focus on building a relationship of trust from a non-judgmental perspective.
I am Mary Elizabeth Alvior. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and hold a Diplomate in Clinical Social Work. I am passionate about optimizing my clients' quality of life. I have over 30 years of experience working with adults and couples. I typically work with adults and have expertise in ADHD, anxiety, depression, self-esteem and trauma. I believe in providing each client with evidence-based care, matched to their specific goals. I use several forms of Cognitive Behavioral therapy as well as Solution Focused treatment and we will adjust our approach as needed to get the best outcomes.
I focus on building a relationship of trust from a non-judgmental perspective.
I am Mary Elizabeth Alvior. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and hold a Diplomate in Clinical Social Work. I am passionate about optimizing my clients' quality of life. I have over 30 years of experience working with adults and couples. I typically work with adults and have expertise in ADHD, anxiety, depression, self-esteem and trauma. I believe in providing each client with evidence-based care, matched to their specific goals. I use several forms of Cognitive Behavioral therapy as well as Solution Focused treatment and we will adjust our approach as needed to get the best outcomes.
(808) 320-1207 View (808) 320-1207
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Wilson Cheh Counseling Services
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LPCC, MAC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Kailua Kona, HI 96740  (Online Only)
Aloha! I am a bi-cultural engineer-turned-therapist with experience in several clinical specialties that enables me to provide effective, high impact, outcome-focused services to my clients. I welcome opportunities in supporting adults, young adults, couples & families to navigate through tough seasons of feeling overwhelmed, experiencing loss in transitions, or dealing with painful/complex circumstances. I tend to digest & integrate a wide range of information along with having a sensitivity to generational, cultural, & racial influences. My style is both conversational & experiential, advocating for empowerment & hope.
Aloha! I am a bi-cultural engineer-turned-therapist with experience in several clinical specialties that enables me to provide effective, high impact, outcome-focused services to my clients. I welcome opportunities in supporting adults, young adults, couples & families to navigate through tough seasons of feeling overwhelmed, experiencing loss in transitions, or dealing with painful/complex circumstances. I tend to digest & integrate a wide range of information along with having a sensitivity to generational, cultural, & racial influences. My style is both conversational & experiential, advocating for empowerment & hope.
(928) 550-6736 View (928) 550-6736
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Sarah Blechman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Hilo, HI 96720  (Online Only)
Feeling like you wish you could take a break from the constant inundation of thoughts of fear, shame, or even simply the constant "to do" list in your mind? I can help with that. I work well with folks who have been apprehensive or cynical about beginning therapy in the past. I will challenge you with authenticity and compassion. I have over a decade of experience in working with folks who struggle with anxiety, depression, existential angst, relationship challenges and more. I have a person-centered, trauma-informed approach to helping you gain clarity through life's challenges.
Feeling like you wish you could take a break from the constant inundation of thoughts of fear, shame, or even simply the constant "to do" list in your mind? I can help with that. I work well with folks who have been apprehensive or cynical about beginning therapy in the past. I will challenge you with authenticity and compassion. I have over a decade of experience in working with folks who struggle with anxiety, depression, existential angst, relationship challenges and more. I have a person-centered, trauma-informed approach to helping you gain clarity through life's challenges.
(808) 556-5606 View (808) 556-5606
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Dr. Danielle Zandbergen
Counselor, LMHC, LPC, PhD
Verified Verified
Hilo, HI 96720  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Whether you are seeking ways to strengthen your relationship to self or others, or experience growth in your development and well-being, I am here to help you navigate these issues and more. I specialize in adolescent and adult therapy with an emphasis on anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, relationship and identity concerns. I have worked in school-based settings, child welfare, foster and adoptive care, residential care, and private practice. I work primarily with individuals, but also enjoy working with couples whether it be premarital or marital counseling.
Whether you are seeking ways to strengthen your relationship to self or others, or experience growth in your development and well-being, I am here to help you navigate these issues and more. I specialize in adolescent and adult therapy with an emphasis on anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, relationship and identity concerns. I have worked in school-based settings, child welfare, foster and adoptive care, residential care, and private practice. I work primarily with individuals, but also enjoy working with couples whether it be premarital or marital counseling.
(808) 649-3454 View (808) 649-3454
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Kristen Hale
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Kailua Kona, HI 96740
Aloha, I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and have been practicing for over 18 years. My approach to therapy is to build trusting relationships that allow for honesty and authenticity. I assist those I work with to recognize their natural potential, and innate gifts to move past unhealthy patterns and heal old wounds. In the work, we focus on acquiring tools to live in our ever changing world, developing new narratives and cultivating increased awareness. I specialize in trauma related conditions both current and in childhood, as well as depression, anxiety, self-harm, parenting, couples and family conflict.
Aloha, I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and have been practicing for over 18 years. My approach to therapy is to build trusting relationships that allow for honesty and authenticity. I assist those I work with to recognize their natural potential, and innate gifts to move past unhealthy patterns and heal old wounds. In the work, we focus on acquiring tools to live in our ever changing world, developing new narratives and cultivating increased awareness. I specialize in trauma related conditions both current and in childhood, as well as depression, anxiety, self-harm, parenting, couples and family conflict.
(808) 793-4724 View (808) 793-4724
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Moani Silva
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Kamuela, HI 96743
She has experience working with sexual trauma, childhood trauma, relationship issues, depression, anxiety, PTSD, parenting struggles and mood disorders.
Moani Silva is an LMFT who was born and raised in Hawaii. She has experience working with people from all different ethnic backgrounds and believes in treating the whole being. She uses a conscious and holistic approach when working with individuals, families and children to help them thrive and experience living life to its fullest. She works to empower clients to awaken their self-guidance system, embrace their authentic selves, open to a life worth living, and step onto their own unique life-path.
She has experience working with sexual trauma, childhood trauma, relationship issues, depression, anxiety, PTSD, parenting struggles and mood disorders.
Moani Silva is an LMFT who was born and raised in Hawaii. She has experience working with people from all different ethnic backgrounds and believes in treating the whole being. She uses a conscious and holistic approach when working with individuals, families and children to help them thrive and experience living life to its fullest. She works to empower clients to awaken their self-guidance system, embrace their authentic selves, open to a life worth living, and step onto their own unique life-path.
(808) 278-9415 View (808) 278-9415
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Bryght Coaching & Counseling Services
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Hilo, HI 96720
I work with individuals, couples & groups as a psychotherapist, business coach, and energy intuitive since 1995. My work tends to the deep needs of the soul and addresses the most basic ego scripts so that you can shift cellular memories, rediscover your true voice, reconnect with your healthiest sense of self and remember your deepest callings--and then find the freedom to seek and find your best and highest self. I facilitate both Family Constellations and Organizational (business) Constellations on-line and in workshops that open you to engage with your deepest creativity and free you from repeating negative patterns.
I work with individuals, couples & groups as a psychotherapist, business coach, and energy intuitive since 1995. My work tends to the deep needs of the soul and addresses the most basic ego scripts so that you can shift cellular memories, rediscover your true voice, reconnect with your healthiest sense of self and remember your deepest callings--and then find the freedom to seek and find your best and highest self. I facilitate both Family Constellations and Organizational (business) Constellations on-line and in workshops that open you to engage with your deepest creativity and free you from repeating negative patterns.
(253) 200-6709 View (253) 200-6709
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Tyra Gardner
Pre-Licensed Professional, MS, MEd
Verified Verified
Hilo, HI 96720
Tyra S. Gardner is a Psychotherapist and CEO of At A Moments Notice, LLC. Tyra is a passionate scholar-practitioner in the field of mental health, who divides her time between clinical practice, training and business consulting. In her clinical practice, she delivers cognitive behavioral therapy and other evidence-based treatments to adults and adolescent clients with a range of emotional behavioral and adjustment problems including anger management, anxiety, stress, depression and relationship issues.
Tyra S. Gardner is a Psychotherapist and CEO of At A Moments Notice, LLC. Tyra is a passionate scholar-practitioner in the field of mental health, who divides her time between clinical practice, training and business consulting. In her clinical practice, she delivers cognitive behavioral therapy and other evidence-based treatments to adults and adolescent clients with a range of emotional behavioral and adjustment problems including anger management, anxiety, stress, depression and relationship issues.
(808) 400-7049 View (808) 400-7049
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Wally Shrinski
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT, CSAC
Verified Verified
Kailua Kona, HI 96740
Thoughts create feelings, feelings create behaviors, behaviors reinforce thoughts. Everyone deserves to be happy, enjoy peace of mind, nurturing relationships, and a chance to live life to its fullest. My approach to challenges that you may be experiencing in life is person-centered, trauma focused, evidenced based practices with individuals, couples, and families.
Thoughts create feelings, feelings create behaviors, behaviors reinforce thoughts. Everyone deserves to be happy, enjoy peace of mind, nurturing relationships, and a chance to live life to its fullest. My approach to challenges that you may be experiencing in life is person-centered, trauma focused, evidenced based practices with individuals, couples, and families.
(808) 518-6509 View (808) 518-6509
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Linda Anaya
Counselor, MA, MHC, AMFT, LPC
Verified Verified
Kailua Kona, HI 96740
I specialize in helping couples identify negative cycles change interaction patterns, and create new solutions to old problems.
Aloha, I am a Couples and Family Therapist. My approach emphasizes the importance of working with a couple and family as a system that influence one another. To restructure healthy relationships, I use therapies that promote positive interactions between individuals. My methods include trans-generational, structural family therapy, cognitive-behavioral approaches, and Gottman Therapy. I use exercises such as enactments to help clients set new appropriate boundaries, build love maps to improve interactions and establish loving communication.
I specialize in helping couples identify negative cycles change interaction patterns, and create new solutions to old problems.
Aloha, I am a Couples and Family Therapist. My approach emphasizes the importance of working with a couple and family as a system that influence one another. To restructure healthy relationships, I use therapies that promote positive interactions between individuals. My methods include trans-generational, structural family therapy, cognitive-behavioral approaches, and Gottman Therapy. I use exercises such as enactments to help clients set new appropriate boundaries, build love maps to improve interactions and establish loving communication.
(630) 478-8548 x3 View (630) 478-8548 x3
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Elemental Guidance, LLC
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, DMFT, PhDc
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Hilo, HI 96720  (Online Only)
Relationship skills; attachment; life skills; finding work-life balance; decision-making skills; stress management; trauma recovery; childhood abuse and family-of-origin issues; multicultural couples; couples trying to avoid separation/divorce; those seeking life purpose and learning to be themselves; and families struggling with life transitions.
EGLLC is a group telehealth practice in Hawai'i. Dr. John specializes in couples and family therapy. Deepa provides depth treatment, focusing on individuals healing from childhood trauma and seeking purpose in life. Mary is adept at supporting individuals with anxiety, depression, and relationship challenges. Christy works with deaf and hard of hearing individuals and their families, and offers holistic therapies. Call today to start living the life you've
Relationship skills; attachment; life skills; finding work-life balance; decision-making skills; stress management; trauma recovery; childhood abuse and family-of-origin issues; multicultural couples; couples trying to avoid separation/divorce; those seeking life purpose and learning to be themselves; and families struggling with life transitions.
EGLLC is a group telehealth practice in Hawai'i. Dr. John specializes in couples and family therapy. Deepa provides depth treatment, focusing on individuals healing from childhood trauma and seeking purpose in life. Mary is adept at supporting individuals with anxiety, depression, and relationship challenges. Christy works with deaf and hard of hearing individuals and their families, and offers holistic therapies. Call today to start living the life you've
(808) 784-7343 View (808) 784-7343
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Sophia Hoskins
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Kailua Kona, HI 96740
I enjoy working with individuals and couples.
Hi. My name is Sophia Hoskins, and I'm a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. My counseling style is pretty laid-back. I have been described as supportive, caring, and compassionate, with a pretty good sense of humor. I like to focus on identifying your strengths and helping you to maximize them to overcome your obstacles. I'm here to help you sort through the things that may be difficult right now and offer you a safe place to be open and honest without fear of judgment. I believe therapy is just support and everyone deserves support at some point in their lives.
I enjoy working with individuals and couples.
Hi. My name is Sophia Hoskins, and I'm a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. My counseling style is pretty laid-back. I have been described as supportive, caring, and compassionate, with a pretty good sense of humor. I like to focus on identifying your strengths and helping you to maximize them to overcome your obstacles. I'm here to help you sort through the things that may be difficult right now and offer you a safe place to be open and honest without fear of judgment. I believe therapy is just support and everyone deserves support at some point in their lives.
(564) 333-0050 View (564) 333-0050

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Couples Counseling Therapists

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.