Relationship Issues Therapists in Monmouth County, NJ

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Valerie McMillen, LCSW, LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Oakhurst, NJ 07755  (Online Only)
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with 20+ years of experience helping adults and adolescents suffering with depression, anxiety, chronic health issues, bereavement, and relationship and communication problems.
Do you or your teenager feel anxious or depressed? Are you overwhelmed by life events? Do you find it difficult to get through the day? Do you have chronic health issues? Are you grieving the loss of a loved one? Sometimes you may feel overwhelmed and may need someone to listen. I can listen to your problems and teach you skills that can help you to feel better.
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with 20+ years of experience helping adults and adolescents suffering with depression, anxiety, chronic health issues, bereavement, and relationship and communication problems.
Do you or your teenager feel anxious or depressed? Are you overwhelmed by life events? Do you find it difficult to get through the day? Do you have chronic health issues? Are you grieving the loss of a loved one? Sometimes you may feel overwhelmed and may need someone to listen. I can listen to your problems and teach you skills that can help you to feel better.
(732) 754-1359 View (732) 754-1359
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Frank Thewes
Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Verified Verified
Rumson, NJ 07760  (Online Only)
Are you experiencing anxiety, depression, life transitions, relationship issues, or feeling held back by past experiences? Do you feel like something is missing in your life or that you need to make important connections or breakthroughs to live your life more fully? Do you feel stuck in the past, afraid to live your life, or lack of motivation? Do you feel like low self esteem or insecurity are holding you back? Are there unresolved issues in your relationships with your parents or your partner? We can focus on what you need to break the patterns and move forward. Featured in Newsweek, HuffPost, FOX News, and Men’s Health.
Are you experiencing anxiety, depression, life transitions, relationship issues, or feeling held back by past experiences? Do you feel like something is missing in your life or that you need to make important connections or breakthroughs to live your life more fully? Do you feel stuck in the past, afraid to live your life, or lack of motivation? Do you feel like low self esteem or insecurity are holding you back? Are there unresolved issues in your relationships with your parents or your partner? We can focus on what you need to break the patterns and move forward. Featured in Newsweek, HuffPost, FOX News, and Men’s Health.
(848) 420-9806 View (848) 420-9806
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Sara Lewis
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Neptune, NJ 07753  (Online Only)
I believe that the client-counselor relationship is the most essential aspect of the therapeutic process.
I am a LCSW and certified School SW with over 10 years of experience working with children, adolescents and adults. The decision to ask for help takes courage and can be intimidating. My goal is to provide you with a safe, compassionate and accepting environment for you to comfortably share your thoughts and feelings. I will consistently engage and encourage you to do your best as we work together to develop your treatment plan and identify the important issues that have brought you to therapy.
I believe that the client-counselor relationship is the most essential aspect of the therapeutic process.
I am a LCSW and certified School SW with over 10 years of experience working with children, adolescents and adults. The decision to ask for help takes courage and can be intimidating. My goal is to provide you with a safe, compassionate and accepting environment for you to comfortably share your thoughts and feelings. I will consistently engage and encourage you to do your best as we work together to develop your treatment plan and identify the important issues that have brought you to therapy.
(732) 838-9014 View (732) 838-9014
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Jessica Bigelsen
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Tinton Falls, NJ 07753  (Online Only)
There is no on-size-fits-all approach to therapy. I will provide you with a safe, non-judgmental, culturally sensitive and trauma-informed space for you to feel comfortable and work collaboratively with me through psychodynamic approaches to individual and relationship therapy.
There is no on-size-fits-all approach to therapy. I will provide you with a safe, non-judgmental, culturally sensitive and trauma-informed space for you to feel comfortable and work collaboratively with me through psychodynamic approaches to individual and relationship therapy.
(732) 538-8673 View (732) 538-8673
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Legacy Consulting, LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Red Bank, NJ 07701
Legacy Consulting, LLC specializes in therapy for people struggling with relationship conflicts, grief and loss through divorce or death, depression, anxiety, alcoholism, and trauma.
Legacy Consulting, LLC is a practice providing treatment to adults, couples, adolescents and families to heal the past and create promising futures. Individual therapy focuses on the specific problems of each Client using modalities that treat unique issues. Couples therapy focuses on three key problem areas in partnerships: relationships, finances and sex. Family therapy works with the family as a whole to develop improved communication and mutual support among family members. Women's Recovery Group processes grief, divorce, alcohol/substance use and relationships.
Legacy Consulting, LLC specializes in therapy for people struggling with relationship conflicts, grief and loss through divorce or death, depression, anxiety, alcoholism, and trauma.
Legacy Consulting, LLC is a practice providing treatment to adults, couples, adolescents and families to heal the past and create promising futures. Individual therapy focuses on the specific problems of each Client using modalities that treat unique issues. Couples therapy focuses on three key problem areas in partnerships: relationships, finances and sex. Family therapy works with the family as a whole to develop improved communication and mutual support among family members. Women's Recovery Group processes grief, divorce, alcohol/substance use and relationships.
(732) 806-5139 View (732) 806-5139
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Patrice Hegel
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Howell, NJ 07731
I work with couples on relationship and communication issues; as well as adult individuals looking to explore issues related to self-esteem, coping skills, and overcoming obstacles; to work towards positive well-being.
Co-founder and partner of Comprehensive Counseling Center, Howell NJ. I've been in practice for 30+ years. My primary focus is couples, marital and adult individual counseling. My role, when a couple or individual seeks out counseling, is to both be able to listen, in a caring non-judgemental way, and be direct when necessary. I work with the client to tailor the treatment to their unique needs; to help with guidance, support and information, so that things can move forward and their goals can be reached. It's a process that works best when we work together, and is done in an atmosphere of respect, confidentiality and safety.
I work with couples on relationship and communication issues; as well as adult individuals looking to explore issues related to self-esteem, coping skills, and overcoming obstacles; to work towards positive well-being.
Co-founder and partner of Comprehensive Counseling Center, Howell NJ. I've been in practice for 30+ years. My primary focus is couples, marital and adult individual counseling. My role, when a couple or individual seeks out counseling, is to both be able to listen, in a caring non-judgemental way, and be direct when necessary. I work with the client to tailor the treatment to their unique needs; to help with guidance, support and information, so that things can move forward and their goals can be reached. It's a process that works best when we work together, and is done in an atmosphere of respect, confidentiality and safety.
(732) 982-4395 View (732) 982-4395
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Dana Cux
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Wall, NJ 07719
“Strength doesn’t come from what you can do, it comes from overcoming the things you thought you couldn’t do”. Reaching out for therapy is the definition of strength. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with a Master’s degree from Monmouth University. I have 16 years of experience working intensively alongside a psychiatrist in an outpatient mental health setting prior to starting my own private practice. This experience was extremely valuable in sharpening my diagnostic skills and treatment planning abilities with clients. I enjoy working with individuals, families, and couples as well as other relationship conflict issues.
“Strength doesn’t come from what you can do, it comes from overcoming the things you thought you couldn’t do”. Reaching out for therapy is the definition of strength. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with a Master’s degree from Monmouth University. I have 16 years of experience working intensively alongside a psychiatrist in an outpatient mental health setting prior to starting my own private practice. This experience was extremely valuable in sharpening my diagnostic skills and treatment planning abilities with clients. I enjoy working with individuals, families, and couples as well as other relationship conflict issues.
(732) 829-7377 View (732) 829-7377
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Cheryl Nastasio
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Anxiety, depression and relationship problems in moderation are tolerable.
The goal of our work together is to enhance your self-reliance,self-trust, and your ability to enjoy life. This is accomplished in an atmosphere of mutual acceptance, trust and respect. I have been in private practice for 17 years, use a psycho-dynamic/ cognitive behavioral approach. Utilize additional therapeutic tools (if appropriate to the client and desired by the client), such as hypnosis, EMDR and Thought Field Therapy (Energy Psychology). Offering individaul, couple, or family therapy.
Anxiety, depression and relationship problems in moderation are tolerable.
The goal of our work together is to enhance your self-reliance,self-trust, and your ability to enjoy life. This is accomplished in an atmosphere of mutual acceptance, trust and respect. I have been in private practice for 17 years, use a psycho-dynamic/ cognitive behavioral approach. Utilize additional therapeutic tools (if appropriate to the client and desired by the client), such as hypnosis, EMDR and Thought Field Therapy (Energy Psychology). Offering individaul, couple, or family therapy.
(732) 523-0789 View (732) 523-0789
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Matthew Berman
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, ACS
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Holmdel, NJ 07733
When you think about a better future for yourself, what do you envision? Are you feeling less stressed? Are you more confident? Is your relationship thriving? Are you getting more time to do the things you love? Therapy is a journey to find a path towards those goals. Therapy is an individualized process. Sometimes, we aren’t always aware of the thoughts, beliefs, and situations that prevent us from feeling better or getting our needs met. Other times, we are aware of these things but unsure on how to limit how much they impact us and how we can manage them.
When you think about a better future for yourself, what do you envision? Are you feeling less stressed? Are you more confident? Is your relationship thriving? Are you getting more time to do the things you love? Therapy is a journey to find a path towards those goals. Therapy is an individualized process. Sometimes, we aren’t always aware of the thoughts, beliefs, and situations that prevent us from feeling better or getting our needs met. Other times, we are aware of these things but unsure on how to limit how much they impact us and how we can manage them.
(848) 276-7662 View (848) 276-7662
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Essential Counseling Therapy Services
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MFT, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Manalapan, NJ 07726
NOW OFFERING VIDEO COUNSELING SESSIONS. Are you feeling the impact of stress, depression, and/or anxiety? Do you have relationship issues or problems stemming from miscommunication? Have you ever felt that you and your partner were speaking different languages or maybe you just weren't communicating effectively? Maybe you felt that you and a loved one just didn't understand one another. A breakdown in communication pulls people apart and can destroy relationships. I aim to heal these communication breakdowns and to help you through the symptoms of depression, anxiety, and stress that you may be experiencing.
NOW OFFERING VIDEO COUNSELING SESSIONS. Are you feeling the impact of stress, depression, and/or anxiety? Do you have relationship issues or problems stemming from miscommunication? Have you ever felt that you and your partner were speaking different languages or maybe you just weren't communicating effectively? Maybe you felt that you and a loved one just didn't understand one another. A breakdown in communication pulls people apart and can destroy relationships. I aim to heal these communication breakdowns and to help you through the symptoms of depression, anxiety, and stress that you may be experiencing.
(848) 233-3586 View (848) 233-3586
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Crossroads Counseling Center
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Red Bank, NJ 07701
Accepting new clients! Are you feeling hopeless and even considering divorce? Are you drained from fighting with your partner? It is likely a different topic each time, but the pattern of the arguments feels the same. They leave you feeling unheard, misunderstood, and maybe rejected and hurt. Or, perhaps, you’re in a relationship others envy because on the outside, you appear to get along so well. But behind closed doors, there is no connection, fun or intimacy. Work, kids, or other stressors drain your time and energy, and you do little more with your partner than fall asleep next to them exhausted at the end of the day.
Accepting new clients! Are you feeling hopeless and even considering divorce? Are you drained from fighting with your partner? It is likely a different topic each time, but the pattern of the arguments feels the same. They leave you feeling unheard, misunderstood, and maybe rejected and hurt. Or, perhaps, you’re in a relationship others envy because on the outside, you appear to get along so well. But behind closed doors, there is no connection, fun or intimacy. Work, kids, or other stressors drain your time and energy, and you do little more with your partner than fall asleep next to them exhausted at the end of the day.
(848) 257-5304 View (848) 257-5304
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Center for Marriage and Family Therapy, P.C.
Verified Verified
Matawan, NJ 07747
The Center For Marriage and Family Therapy has five offices throughout central New Jersey. Jackie Held, Karen Spiler and Jill Stein founded the Center in 1984. We refer to a large network of affiliated therapists whose specialties include relationship counseling, anxiety, depression, separation and divorce, gay and lesbian issues, child and adolescent therapy, grief therapy, sex therapy and substance abuse. Our offices are in Matawan, Freehold, Princeton, Toms River and Piscataway. Our network includes licensed professional counselors, licensed clinical social workers, substance abuse specialists, child and adolescent specialists and sex therapists.
The Center For Marriage and Family Therapy has five offices throughout central New Jersey. Jackie Held, Karen Spiler and Jill Stein founded the Center in 1984. We refer to a large network of affiliated therapists whose specialties include relationship counseling, anxiety, depression, separation and divorce, gay and lesbian issues, child and adolescent therapy, grief therapy, sex therapy and substance abuse. Our offices are in Matawan, Freehold, Princeton, Toms River and Piscataway. Our network includes licensed professional counselors, licensed clinical social workers, substance abuse specialists, child and adolescent specialists and sex therapists.
(732) 806-5219 x301 View (732) 806-5219 x301
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Gabriella Goetz
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Eatontown, NJ 07724
Specializing in adolescents & adults with anxiety/mood disorders, BPD, PTSD/trauma, ADHD, disordered eating, self-harm, women's issues, interpersonal relationship building, and life transitions.
Currently seeing clients in person in New Jersey and via Teletherapy in New Jersey, Texas and Louisiana To feel anchored in life, we need grounding, stability, strength and safety. Together, we will work on building healthy coping skills and strategies for a life worth living. My approach is balanced through compassion, empathy and validation; I incorporate methods of directness, and challenges while providing support and guidance along the way.
Specializing in adolescents & adults with anxiety/mood disorders, BPD, PTSD/trauma, ADHD, disordered eating, self-harm, women's issues, interpersonal relationship building, and life transitions.
Currently seeing clients in person in New Jersey and via Teletherapy in New Jersey, Texas and Louisiana To feel anchored in life, we need grounding, stability, strength and safety. Together, we will work on building healthy coping skills and strategies for a life worth living. My approach is balanced through compassion, empathy and validation; I incorporate methods of directness, and challenges while providing support and guidance along the way.
(732) 507-9797 View (732) 507-9797
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Michael M Gindi
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Oakhurst, NJ 07755
A first therapy session is a little like a blind date; if the interpersonal chemistry isn't right, there shouldn't be a second date. At the end of our first session together, if you feel safe, secure, understood and supported, then, and only then, do we go forward. Otherwise I'll refer you elsewhere. If it feels to you like we can work well together, you can probably get beyond your struggles with depression, anxiety and/or relationship issues more quickly than you think. I look forward to meeting you
A first therapy session is a little like a blind date; if the interpersonal chemistry isn't right, there shouldn't be a second date. At the end of our first session together, if you feel safe, secure, understood and supported, then, and only then, do we go forward. Otherwise I'll refer you elsewhere. If it feels to you like we can work well together, you can probably get beyond your struggles with depression, anxiety and/or relationship issues more quickly than you think. I look forward to meeting you
(732) 243-8628 View (732) 243-8628
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Ann-Therese Moore, LCSW
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Shrewsbury, NJ 07702
My practice is suited to clients who are adjusting to challenges in their personal and professional lives. I see a variety of clients who are dealing with feelings of anxiety and depression due to identity issues, relationship troubles, occupational stress and parenting difficulties. Many of my clients find themselves at a 'crossroad' where they choose to resolve past and current conflicts in order to move into a happier and more secure future. Often, I see clients who feel frustrated or defeated in their own attempts to solve problems and seek a safe place to work through their thoughts and feelings.
My practice is suited to clients who are adjusting to challenges in their personal and professional lives. I see a variety of clients who are dealing with feelings of anxiety and depression due to identity issues, relationship troubles, occupational stress and parenting difficulties. Many of my clients find themselves at a 'crossroad' where they choose to resolve past and current conflicts in order to move into a happier and more secure future. Often, I see clients who feel frustrated or defeated in their own attempts to solve problems and seek a safe place to work through their thoughts and feelings.
(732) 806-7100 View (732) 806-7100
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Anna M Hudak
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Freehold, NJ 07728
I am the Director at Monarch Wellness Center in Freehold and Spring Lake, NJ. Monarch Wellness Center is a place of healing and a place to focus on you. I specialize in treating young adults - adults struggling with anxiety, depression, addictions, and relationship issues. My emphasis focuses on supporting healthy communication in all relationships, adapting positive behavioral patterns, and addressing emotional struggles to alleviate chronic anxiety and depression.
I am the Director at Monarch Wellness Center in Freehold and Spring Lake, NJ. Monarch Wellness Center is a place of healing and a place to focus on you. I specialize in treating young adults - adults struggling with anxiety, depression, addictions, and relationship issues. My emphasis focuses on supporting healthy communication in all relationships, adapting positive behavioral patterns, and addressing emotional struggles to alleviate chronic anxiety and depression.
(908) 760-0584 View (908) 760-0584
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Dan Blum
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Freehold, NJ 07728  (Online Only)
I have experience in both inpatient and outpatient settings providing services in anxiety, depression, relationship issues, grief, and adjustment disorders.
Are you tired of feeling like you have no control in your life? The topics discussed in therapy and pace will be up to you. We can help you find the best coping skills appropriate to your needs. We can also help improve your communication skills to more effectively handle problems within any relationship. Together we can tackle anything you may be struggling with. My priority is to help you become the best version of yourself. No matter what may be going on in your life, I promise to offer a non-judgmental and non-biased space for you at the speed you're comfortable with.
I have experience in both inpatient and outpatient settings providing services in anxiety, depression, relationship issues, grief, and adjustment disorders.
Are you tired of feeling like you have no control in your life? The topics discussed in therapy and pace will be up to you. We can help you find the best coping skills appropriate to your needs. We can also help improve your communication skills to more effectively handle problems within any relationship. Together we can tackle anything you may be struggling with. My priority is to help you become the best version of yourself. No matter what may be going on in your life, I promise to offer a non-judgmental and non-biased space for you at the speed you're comfortable with.
(732) 487-3709 View (732) 487-3709
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Dana Geroni
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Little Silver, NJ 07739
Waitlist for new clients
I specialize in addressing issues with depression, anxiety, anger management, divorce, loss, trauma, social issues, relationship struggles and assisting individuals going through life transitions.
Life is a journey of ups and downs and sometimes we need some assistance going through the challenging times. It is my passion to to help individuals navigate through these tough times. I am a warm, compassionate and supportive therapist who can help with making positive changes in life. I can help you develop positive coping skills to overcome life's obstacles and help you identify your personal strengths to make positive changes towards growth and happiness.
I specialize in addressing issues with depression, anxiety, anger management, divorce, loss, trauma, social issues, relationship struggles and assisting individuals going through life transitions.
Life is a journey of ups and downs and sometimes we need some assistance going through the challenging times. It is my passion to to help individuals navigate through these tough times. I am a warm, compassionate and supportive therapist who can help with making positive changes in life. I can help you develop positive coping skills to overcome life's obstacles and help you identify your personal strengths to make positive changes towards growth and happiness.
(848) 229-9872 View (848) 229-9872
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Marzena Kobrzynski
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Neptune, NJ 07753  (Online Only)
I often assist individuals who are experiencing stress, anxiety, depression, grief, trauma, life transitions, relationship problems, workplace or school difficulties.
I am a Licensed Clinical Worker (LCSW) with over 25 years of experience working with children, teens, adults, couples & families. During my career, I have worked with individuals of varied cultural backgrounds, life situations and in settings such as schools (K-8th), outpatient mental health offices, intensive outpatient programs, hospitals, universities and within the military. I am a Certified Clinical Supervisor (LCSW-NJ), Certified School Social Worker (NJ), Disaster Response Crisis Counselor (DRCC-NJ) and former Military Family Life Counselor (MFLC).
I often assist individuals who are experiencing stress, anxiety, depression, grief, trauma, life transitions, relationship problems, workplace or school difficulties.
I am a Licensed Clinical Worker (LCSW) with over 25 years of experience working with children, teens, adults, couples & families. During my career, I have worked with individuals of varied cultural backgrounds, life situations and in settings such as schools (K-8th), outpatient mental health offices, intensive outpatient programs, hospitals, universities and within the military. I am a Certified Clinical Supervisor (LCSW-NJ), Certified School Social Worker (NJ), Disaster Response Crisis Counselor (DRCC-NJ) and former Military Family Life Counselor (MFLC).
(848) 420-9590 View (848) 420-9590
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Lindsey Hartman
Counselor, LAC
Verified Verified
Eatontown, NJ 07724
As a therapist, my primary objective is to cultivate a nurturing and empathetic relationship with my clients, enabling them to delve into and confront past and present emotional issues and traumas.
I have a diverse clientele, but my specialization lies in assisting those grappling with substance abuse and recovery, self-esteem, and anxiety issues. I meet clients where they are, integrating mindfulness, DBT, and CBT techniques that can be applied between sessions. I'm eager to collaborate with you and support you in achieving your goals and aspirations. Together, we can work towards a happier, healthier future, and I'm here to provide the guidance and tools you need to make that journey successful. Your well-being is my priority, and I'm excited to be part of your transformative journey.
As a therapist, my primary objective is to cultivate a nurturing and empathetic relationship with my clients, enabling them to delve into and confront past and present emotional issues and traumas.
I have a diverse clientele, but my specialization lies in assisting those grappling with substance abuse and recovery, self-esteem, and anxiety issues. I meet clients where they are, integrating mindfulness, DBT, and CBT techniques that can be applied between sessions. I'm eager to collaborate with you and support you in achieving your goals and aspirations. Together, we can work towards a happier, healthier future, and I'm here to provide the guidance and tools you need to make that journey successful. Your well-being is my priority, and I'm excited to be part of your transformative journey.
(732) 838-6543 View (732) 838-6543

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Relationship Issues Therapists
While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.