Sex Therapists in Aspen, CO

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Samantha Ludin
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Aspen, CO 81611  (Online Only)
In sex therapy, I create a safe, sex-positive space to address concerns relating to sexual health and intimacy for couples and individuals (queer, ENM, & kink friendly).
These are really tough times, aren't they? Existing issues feel bigger and it can be that much harder to cope. Therapy can heIp. I approach therapy in a warm and collaborative manner to help couples, individuals, and families identify new and adaptive ways to deal with life's challenges. In couples therapy, I use Emotion-Focused and Gottman approaches to help partners learn to manage and repair conflict, rebuild trust and intimacy, and build emotional connections. In family treatment, I'll work with your family to develop adaptive and healthy communication patterns, as well as address parenting concerns and behavioral issues.
In sex therapy, I create a safe, sex-positive space to address concerns relating to sexual health and intimacy for couples and individuals (queer, ENM, & kink friendly).
These are really tough times, aren't they? Existing issues feel bigger and it can be that much harder to cope. Therapy can heIp. I approach therapy in a warm and collaborative manner to help couples, individuals, and families identify new and adaptive ways to deal with life's challenges. In couples therapy, I use Emotion-Focused and Gottman approaches to help partners learn to manage and repair conflict, rebuild trust and intimacy, and build emotional connections. In family treatment, I'll work with your family to develop adaptive and healthy communication patterns, as well as address parenting concerns and behavioral issues.
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Dr. Alecia Rodriguez
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, MHC, CSOT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Aspen, CO 81611  (Online Only)
I provide individual therapy, couples/marriage therapy, sex therapy, and juvenile/adult sex offender treatment. I utilize a strengths-based, person-centered approach to help support you on your personal journey. I am a certified Clinical Trauma Professional, and hold additional certifications in Conflict Resolution, Dialectic Behavioral Therapy (DBT), and in Women & Gender Studies.
I provide individual therapy, couples/marriage therapy, sex therapy, and juvenile/adult sex offender treatment. I utilize a strengths-based, person-centered approach to help support you on your personal journey. I am a certified Clinical Trauma Professional, and hold additional certifications in Conflict Resolution, Dialectic Behavioral Therapy (DBT), and in Women & Gender Studies.
(786) 901-7018 View (786) 901-7018
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Lynda Smith - Teletherapy Only
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCC, LCPC, CSAT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Aspen, CO 81611  (Online Only)
I'm also a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) and Board Certified Sex Therapist with an emphasis on 1) empowering betrayed partners, 2) utilizing a non-12 step approach to sexual addiction/trauma/porn recovery & 3) relational & intimacy problems.
Do you have past trauma, anxiety, depression, intimacy issues, sex/porn addiction, or relationship problems that need to be resolved? Discover how my integrative and holistic approach to therapy heals the whole person. I specialize in helping individuals, couples, and families restore their lives and relationships. With empathy & understanding, I will work with you to help you realize your greatest potential so you can live in the present & focus on an amazing & successful future!
I'm also a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) and Board Certified Sex Therapist with an emphasis on 1) empowering betrayed partners, 2) utilizing a non-12 step approach to sexual addiction/trauma/porn recovery & 3) relational & intimacy problems.
Do you have past trauma, anxiety, depression, intimacy issues, sex/porn addiction, or relationship problems that need to be resolved? Discover how my integrative and holistic approach to therapy heals the whole person. I specialize in helping individuals, couples, and families restore their lives and relationships. With empathy & understanding, I will work with you to help you realize your greatest potential so you can live in the present & focus on an amazing & successful future!
(720) 807-1912 View (720) 807-1912
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Rachel Castillo Snitowsky
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Aspen, CO 81611
I can help with: self-esteem, gender identity, sex and sexuality, religious trauma, communication and boundaries, self discovery, grief and loss of all kinds, divorce, ENM, infidelity, infertility, body image, pre-marital, stress, and healthy relationships.
I am a playful and warm-hearted therapist. Authenticity is my love language! As your therapist, I will provide honest & direct feedback, always coupled with kindness and support. I value humor & deep connections. I prefer to be active & dynamic during our sessions, rather than just a passive listener. I have tattoos. Colorful language is welcome in my room. And I love a good meme. I am a mixed-race, queer, neurodivergent woman. I am particularly dedicated to supporting neurodivergent, queer and trans individuals / couples on their journey towards healing and self-discovery. I truly love and honor being a safe space for others.
I can help with: self-esteem, gender identity, sex and sexuality, religious trauma, communication and boundaries, self discovery, grief and loss of all kinds, divorce, ENM, infidelity, infertility, body image, pre-marital, stress, and healthy relationships.
I am a playful and warm-hearted therapist. Authenticity is my love language! As your therapist, I will provide honest & direct feedback, always coupled with kindness and support. I value humor & deep connections. I prefer to be active & dynamic during our sessions, rather than just a passive listener. I have tattoos. Colorful language is welcome in my room. And I love a good meme. I am a mixed-race, queer, neurodivergent woman. I am particularly dedicated to supporting neurodivergent, queer and trans individuals / couples on their journey towards healing and self-discovery. I truly love and honor being a safe space for others.
(720) 702-1295 View (720) 702-1295
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Martin Horowitz
Registered Psychotherapist, MA
Verified Verified
Aspen, CO 81611
Parenting, relationships, anxiety, depression, addictions, motivation, shyness and aging parents are some of the area's we can improve. Sometimes, we just need someone to talk to. "With over 40 years of professional experience traveling the world, teaching courses and trainings in personal growth and psychotherapy, I've learned a number of techniques and together we can learn what works best for you to make the changes you want."
Parenting, relationships, anxiety, depression, addictions, motivation, shyness and aging parents are some of the area's we can improve. Sometimes, we just need someone to talk to. "With over 40 years of professional experience traveling the world, teaching courses and trainings in personal growth and psychotherapy, I've learned a number of techniques and together we can learn what works best for you to make the changes you want."
(970) 340-2327 View (970) 340-2327
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Monica Dahling New
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA, MSPT
Verified Verified
Aspen, CO 81611
As a psychotherapist, my goal is to help you uncover your true potential and lead a life that is worth celebrating. As individuals progress through life challenges, therapy can be a vital component to navigating relationships, life stresses, and increasing self-understanding. I am trained in EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing) therapy-recommended as an effective treatment for disturbing memories, stressor disorders, PTSD, trauma and verbal abuse. Contact me to learn more.
As a psychotherapist, my goal is to help you uncover your true potential and lead a life that is worth celebrating. As individuals progress through life challenges, therapy can be a vital component to navigating relationships, life stresses, and increasing self-understanding. I am trained in EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing) therapy-recommended as an effective treatment for disturbing memories, stressor disorders, PTSD, trauma and verbal abuse. Contact me to learn more.
(970) 404-4921 View (970) 404-4921
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Gay Garner
LPC, MFTC, MA, NCC, EFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Aspen, CO 81611
Waitlist for new clients
If you want closer relationships with your partner, family members, and friends I can help with couples and family counseling. If you are willing to dig into the cause of relational distance to become unstuck, we can move toward connection together. If you want hope and a path to healing divisions and family issues I want to help you achieve peace. I desire your relationships to give you better well-being and security. My practice primarily serves romantic relationships and families.
If you want closer relationships with your partner, family members, and friends I can help with couples and family counseling. If you are willing to dig into the cause of relational distance to become unstuck, we can move toward connection together. If you want hope and a path to healing divisions and family issues I want to help you achieve peace. I desire your relationships to give you better well-being and security. My practice primarily serves romantic relationships and families.
(970) 251-1920 View (970) 251-1920
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Cassie V Comeau
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Aspen, CO 81611
It is not easy to seek support and I am honored to be considered as someone who could help. I work with individuals & couples with a range of issues using both short and long-term therapy. As a Psychologist, I am trained to work with various issues related to well-being and distress. A few of my specialty areas include trauma, sexual concerns, depression, anxiety, relational work, infertility concerns and perinatal/postpartum depression and working with therapists. Overall, my approach is holistic and relational; I give the utmost attention to the therapeutic relationship as well as how people relate to others in their lives.
It is not easy to seek support and I am honored to be considered as someone who could help. I work with individuals & couples with a range of issues using both short and long-term therapy. As a Psychologist, I am trained to work with various issues related to well-being and distress. A few of my specialty areas include trauma, sexual concerns, depression, anxiety, relational work, infertility concerns and perinatal/postpartum depression and working with therapists. Overall, my approach is holistic and relational; I give the utmost attention to the therapeutic relationship as well as how people relate to others in their lives.
(406) 510-2244 View (406) 510-2244
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William Hambleton Bishop
Counselor, MA, LPC, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Aspen, CO 81611  (Online Only)
I work primarily with high-functioning motivated clients who benefit from a more intellectual/philosophical intervention style. We will strengthen your ability to stay conscious and intentional while we observe your fears and habits, develop your relational skills, build on your emotional intelligence and resilience, increase your ability to feel regulated and present, and identify your core self so that you can feel congruent with a sense of purpose and a set of values. My process is attuned, artistic, playful, spiritual, and kind while also being intentional, philosophical, direct, strategic, and insightful.
I work primarily with high-functioning motivated clients who benefit from a more intellectual/philosophical intervention style. We will strengthen your ability to stay conscious and intentional while we observe your fears and habits, develop your relational skills, build on your emotional intelligence and resilience, increase your ability to feel regulated and present, and identify your core self so that you can feel congruent with a sense of purpose and a set of values. My process is attuned, artistic, playful, spiritual, and kind while also being intentional, philosophical, direct, strategic, and insightful.
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Resa Hayes
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Aspen, CO 81611
Not accepting new clients
I know that I feel my best when I’m secure in my relationships: with myself, my spouse, my children, and community. This has created a practice for me of paying attention, listening and participating in conversations that both nurture and challenge these relationships. I will create a space, through our relationship, for you to do the same. And if it is your child that is seeking that safe space my playroom invites curiosity and emotions of all sorts. It is a safe space to work through trauma; with play as the language and toys as tools, and a soft spot to land when it gets hard and scary.
I know that I feel my best when I’m secure in my relationships: with myself, my spouse, my children, and community. This has created a practice for me of paying attention, listening and participating in conversations that both nurture and challenge these relationships. I will create a space, through our relationship, for you to do the same. And if it is your child that is seeking that safe space my playroom invites curiosity and emotions of all sorts. It is a safe space to work through trauma; with play as the language and toys as tools, and a soft spot to land when it gets hard and scary.
(970) 704-5088 View (970) 704-5088

Online Therapists

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Katy Lundy
Marriage and Family Therapist Candidate, MA, MFTC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Boulder, CO 80302
Do you just feel stuck and unsure how to move forward? Are you desiring more from your life and relationships? Are you longing for a deeper connection with yourself or with a partner? Do you struggle to communicate your wants and needs to your partner? Has sex become more of a struggle than a pleasure? Do these questions feel familiar? If so, you are not alone. I’ll be happy to help you uncover authenticity, transform painful patterns, and create a life that is aligned with your highest values and deepest desires. I aim to provide clients a course of therapy that is tailored to best suit your unique needs.
Do you just feel stuck and unsure how to move forward? Are you desiring more from your life and relationships? Are you longing for a deeper connection with yourself or with a partner? Do you struggle to communicate your wants and needs to your partner? Has sex become more of a struggle than a pleasure? Do these questions feel familiar? If so, you are not alone. I’ll be happy to help you uncover authenticity, transform painful patterns, and create a life that is aligned with your highest values and deepest desires. I aim to provide clients a course of therapy that is tailored to best suit your unique needs.
(970) 538-9956 View (970) 538-9956
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Megan Phippen - Somatic Sex And Relationship Therapist
Counselor, MA, LPCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Lakewood, CO 80228
Are you longing for a deeper understanding of yourself, your sexuality, and your relationships? Are you ready to heal old wounds, explore your expression, and cultivate relationships that thrive? As a Somatic Sex and Relationship Counselor, I specialize in empowering individuals and couples who are hungry for more in life- more intimacy, more pleasure, and more authentic connection! Whether you're dealing with desire differences, healing from trauma, navigating relationship conflicts, or seeking to deepen your connection with yourself or a partner, together we will create a safe space for your exploration and transformation.
Are you longing for a deeper understanding of yourself, your sexuality, and your relationships? Are you ready to heal old wounds, explore your expression, and cultivate relationships that thrive? As a Somatic Sex and Relationship Counselor, I specialize in empowering individuals and couples who are hungry for more in life- more intimacy, more pleasure, and more authentic connection! Whether you're dealing with desire differences, healing from trauma, navigating relationship conflicts, or seeking to deepen your connection with yourself or a partner, together we will create a safe space for your exploration and transformation.
(720) 744-3464 View (720) 744-3464
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Kathy Higgins LPC LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, MA, LPC, EMDR, LAC
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Littleton, CO 80128
I'm in training to be a Certified Sex Therapist and I work with individuals of all genders in a sex-positive, non-shaming environment.
I provide wholehearted, compassionate, non-judgmental counseling. I meet you where you are in your healing process while providing a safe, validating environment. I want to help you find your strengths and find empowerment as you achieve your goals and make significant changes in your life. I use evidence based approaches such as Dialectical Behavioral Therapy DBT and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing EMDR.
I'm in training to be a Certified Sex Therapist and I work with individuals of all genders in a sex-positive, non-shaming environment.
I provide wholehearted, compassionate, non-judgmental counseling. I meet you where you are in your healing process while providing a safe, validating environment. I want to help you find your strengths and find empowerment as you achieve your goals and make significant changes in your life. I use evidence based approaches such as Dialectical Behavioral Therapy DBT and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing EMDR.
(720) 379-9712 View (720) 379-9712
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Jennifer Lucas-Brown
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, CST
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Golden, CO 80401
I specialize in working with individuals and couples on relationship, sexuality, and trauma-related issues. I am an American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists (aasect.org) Certified Sex Therapist and Licensed Professional Counselor. I use a client-centered, strength-based, and relational approach to therapy. In addition, I have extensive training in attachment-based and experiential therapies (Emotionally Focused Therapy and AEDP) and trauma therapy (EMDR).
I specialize in working with individuals and couples on relationship, sexuality, and trauma-related issues. I am an American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists (aasect.org) Certified Sex Therapist and Licensed Professional Counselor. I use a client-centered, strength-based, and relational approach to therapy. In addition, I have extensive training in attachment-based and experiential therapies (Emotionally Focused Therapy and AEDP) and trauma therapy (EMDR).
(303) 586-3581 View (303) 586-3581
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Intima Couples and Sex Therapy PLLC
Counselor, MA, LPCC, NCC
Verified Verified
Lakewood, CO 80232
My ideal clients are those who are facing relationship and/or sexual and sexuality dilemmas. Often, they struggle to find access to a service provider that can empathize with their lived experiences and who they can trust. I'm able to support LGBTQ people, women, disabled folks, and people of color, among other marginalized communities by providing a culturally affirming and empathetic space. Individuals I work with are looking to achieve healthy intimacy through compassion and self-acceptance.
My ideal clients are those who are facing relationship and/or sexual and sexuality dilemmas. Often, they struggle to find access to a service provider that can empathize with their lived experiences and who they can trust. I'm able to support LGBTQ people, women, disabled folks, and people of color, among other marginalized communities by providing a culturally affirming and empathetic space. Individuals I work with are looking to achieve healthy intimacy through compassion and self-acceptance.
(720) 696-9428 View (720) 696-9428
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Sarah Michaud (E-M-D-R Trained)
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW , LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lakewood, CO 80215
She is trained in EMDR and currently undergoing sex therapy certification.
Schedule through my website! Sarah's practice is dedicated to empowering individuals, promoting self-awareness, and facilitating deep self-exploration to heal from complex trauma and experiences. As a queer and kink-involved therapist, Sarah brings a unique perspective to her work. Sarah recognizes the misunderstood and pathologized nature of trauma, emphasizing the importance of understanding its impact and fostering a healing relationship with ourselves to cultivate comfort within our bodies, minds, and interpersonal connections. She navigates the complexities of human relationships, striving to normalize emotions and behaviors.
She is trained in EMDR and currently undergoing sex therapy certification.
Schedule through my website! Sarah's practice is dedicated to empowering individuals, promoting self-awareness, and facilitating deep self-exploration to heal from complex trauma and experiences. As a queer and kink-involved therapist, Sarah brings a unique perspective to her work. Sarah recognizes the misunderstood and pathologized nature of trauma, emphasizing the importance of understanding its impact and fostering a healing relationship with ourselves to cultivate comfort within our bodies, minds, and interpersonal connections. She navigates the complexities of human relationships, striving to normalize emotions and behaviors.
(303) 954-4023 View (303) 954-4023
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Angie Tsiatsos Phillips
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC, ACS, CMT
Verified Verified
11 Endorsed
Lakewood, CO 80214
As a Licensed Professional Counselor, Somatic sex & relationship therapist, and provider of Ketamine Assisted Therapy, I have 20+ yrs of supporting clients in understanding the wisdom of the body, identifying signals that get them off track, short-circuit ineffective habits & strengthen internal states that are crucial for thriving intimate relationships.
This strange time in our world has highlighted the importance of healthy relationships for our overall happiness and health. What it’s also highlighted is that most of us don’t have the relationships we desire—the depth and authenticity, the playfulness and sense of connection are lacking for so many. Let me support you in developing your most important internal resources & using this time to not only protect but strengthen the relationships that are most dear to you. Learn to use the heightened stress of what is NOT working to train your nervous system and strengthen your hearts capacity for greater resiliency and rewarding love
As a Licensed Professional Counselor, Somatic sex & relationship therapist, and provider of Ketamine Assisted Therapy, I have 20+ yrs of supporting clients in understanding the wisdom of the body, identifying signals that get them off track, short-circuit ineffective habits & strengthen internal states that are crucial for thriving intimate relationships.
This strange time in our world has highlighted the importance of healthy relationships for our overall happiness and health. What it’s also highlighted is that most of us don’t have the relationships we desire—the depth and authenticity, the playfulness and sense of connection are lacking for so many. Let me support you in developing your most important internal resources & using this time to not only protect but strengthen the relationships that are most dear to you. Learn to use the heightened stress of what is NOT working to train your nervous system and strengthen your hearts capacity for greater resiliency and rewarding love
(720) 903-1588 View (720) 903-1588
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Marler Counseling LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MSEE, MA, LPC, CEFT
Verified Verified
Evergreen, CO 80439
It doesn't matter if they are talking about money, sex or household tasks.
I specialize in couples counseling utilizing Emotionally Focused Therapy. I love to help couples restore love and trust to their relationship no matter what the hurt is that has caused discord in the relationship. I also love to help couples that have a good relationship, deepen their emotional bond and become each other's best friend and soul mate.
It doesn't matter if they are talking about money, sex or household tasks.
I specialize in couples counseling utilizing Emotionally Focused Therapy. I love to help couples restore love and trust to their relationship no matter what the hurt is that has caused discord in the relationship. I also love to help couples that have a good relationship, deepen their emotional bond and become each other's best friend and soul mate.
(720) 990-6200 View (720) 990-6200
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Ashley Moore (E-M-D-R Trained) Accepting New Clients!
Marriage and Family Therapist Candidate, MA, MFTC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lakewood, CO 80215
I provide a supportive space for all my clients through a trauma-informed, culturally relevant, LGBTQ+-affirming, and sex-positive lens.
Schedule instantly through my website! Link in bio. Hello, I'm Ashley! I graduated from CU-Denver with a Bachelor of Arts in Psychology. I then went on to earn a MS in Psychology from the University of Phoenix. I spent four years working in mental health in varying capacities before completing a MA in Marriage and Family Therapy from Northcentral University. Since graduating, I have completed additional training and courses - I am EMDR trained, a Board Certified Clinical Sexologist. I am now a Clinical Sexology Ph.D. Candidate with a specialization in kink-conscious therapy. I focus on identity development and authentic acceptance.
I provide a supportive space for all my clients through a trauma-informed, culturally relevant, LGBTQ+-affirming, and sex-positive lens.
Schedule instantly through my website! Link in bio. Hello, I'm Ashley! I graduated from CU-Denver with a Bachelor of Arts in Psychology. I then went on to earn a MS in Psychology from the University of Phoenix. I spent four years working in mental health in varying capacities before completing a MA in Marriage and Family Therapy from Northcentral University. Since graduating, I have completed additional training and courses - I am EMDR trained, a Board Certified Clinical Sexologist. I am now a Clinical Sexology Ph.D. Candidate with a specialization in kink-conscious therapy. I focus on identity development and authentic acceptance.
(855) 437-1181 View (855) 437-1181
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Danara Johnson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LAC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Conifer, CO 80433  (Online Only)
I am an AASECT certified Sex Therapy and can help with relationship issues from from mismatched libido to negotiating consensual non-monogamy as well as individual concerns around sexuality or gender identity.
I am passionate about creating a safe and supportive atmosphere to help you explore and find your authentic self and voice. I believe in tailoring the treatment to the individual and am comfortable using mind-body techniques and cognitive-behavioral interventions as needed for anxiety, depression, sexuality and gender concerns, relational issues and substance use. Of special interest to me is working with couples and other relationship dynamics. I have post graduate training in Gottman therapy as well as extensive training around human sexuality.
I am an AASECT certified Sex Therapy and can help with relationship issues from from mismatched libido to negotiating consensual non-monogamy as well as individual concerns around sexuality or gender identity.
I am passionate about creating a safe and supportive atmosphere to help you explore and find your authentic self and voice. I believe in tailoring the treatment to the individual and am comfortable using mind-body techniques and cognitive-behavioral interventions as needed for anxiety, depression, sexuality and gender concerns, relational issues and substance use. Of special interest to me is working with couples and other relationship dynamics. I have post graduate training in Gottman therapy as well as extensive training around human sexuality.
(720) 730-7829 View (720) 730-7829

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Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.