Borderline Personality (BPD) Therapists in Honolulu, HI

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Tuere Williams
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Honolulu, HI 96818
My client focus is youth, adolescents, and adults ages 18- 30 who suffer from ADHD, Adolescents/Teens, Anger Management, Anxiety, Behavioral Issues, Bipolar Disorder, Borderline Personality, and many more.
Hi, my name is Tuere Williams. I am a licensed mental Health Therapist. I have also worked as a Behavioral Health Specialist, School Counselor, Suicide Prevention trainer, De-Escalation Trainer, Parent Educational Trainer, and Member of the Crisis Team. My focus is on helping individuals understand who they are and find ways to solve their problems. I favor cognitive behavioral theories, psychodynamic approaches, mindfulness, dialectical behavior therapy, person-centered Therapy, Adlerian therapy, and narrative therapy. I allow clients to take the lead in goal setting. Clients must become the leaders of their lives.
My client focus is youth, adolescents, and adults ages 18- 30 who suffer from ADHD, Adolescents/Teens, Anger Management, Anxiety, Behavioral Issues, Bipolar Disorder, Borderline Personality, and many more.
Hi, my name is Tuere Williams. I am a licensed mental Health Therapist. I have also worked as a Behavioral Health Specialist, School Counselor, Suicide Prevention trainer, De-Escalation Trainer, Parent Educational Trainer, and Member of the Crisis Team. My focus is on helping individuals understand who they are and find ways to solve their problems. I favor cognitive behavioral theories, psychodynamic approaches, mindfulness, dialectical behavior therapy, person-centered Therapy, Adlerian therapy, and narrative therapy. I allow clients to take the lead in goal setting. Clients must become the leaders of their lives.
(808) 736-4631 View (808) 736-4631
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Alan R Spector
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Honolulu, HI 96813  (Online Only)
Are you sad, anxious, or struggling with thoughts of self-harm? Have you experienced trauma in your life? If so, I can help. I offer a validating environment that allows you to explore your problems without judgement and together we can work to create solutions. I've been trained in a variety of treatment methods and will tailor therapy to your specific needs. I draw heavily from Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) and combine both DBT Psychotherapy and DBT Skills Training into individual sessions.
Are you sad, anxious, or struggling with thoughts of self-harm? Have you experienced trauma in your life? If so, I can help. I offer a validating environment that allows you to explore your problems without judgement and together we can work to create solutions. I've been trained in a variety of treatment methods and will tailor therapy to your specific needs. I draw heavily from Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) and combine both DBT Psychotherapy and DBT Skills Training into individual sessions.
(808) 729-7737 View (808) 729-7737
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Lingyi (Lexie) Zhu
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Honolulu, HI 96813  (Online Only)
You crave intimacy, yet you are constantly feeling hurt and frustrated in relationships; You seek purpose in life, yet you feel empty and numb inside most of the time; You are trying to get rid of the past, yet the trauma legacy is haunting you to the present. You understand the benefits of psychotherapy, yet you want to make sure there is enough safety and stability in the therapy space before you start. If it sounds like you, I believe I can help.
You crave intimacy, yet you are constantly feeling hurt and frustrated in relationships; You seek purpose in life, yet you feel empty and numb inside most of the time; You are trying to get rid of the past, yet the trauma legacy is haunting you to the present. You understand the benefits of psychotherapy, yet you want to make sure there is enough safety and stability in the therapy space before you start. If it sounds like you, I believe I can help.
(808) 755-3713 View (808) 755-3713
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Neurofeedback Clinic of Hawaii
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Honolulu, HI 96814
Neurofeedback is a safe, non-invasive brain training method. The essence of neurofeedback is self-regulation, teaching the brain to properly regulate itself. Neurofeedback is essentially a brain workout. It trains your brain to be more flexible and resilient. Without pushing it in any specific direction, the neurofeedback system interacts with your central nervous system in a way that improves neural plasticity. A mind that is more flexible adapts and responds quicker and more appropriately to changes in your environment. The more easily your brain adjusts to changes encountered in a normal busy day, the better you feel.
Neurofeedback is a safe, non-invasive brain training method. The essence of neurofeedback is self-regulation, teaching the brain to properly regulate itself. Neurofeedback is essentially a brain workout. It trains your brain to be more flexible and resilient. Without pushing it in any specific direction, the neurofeedback system interacts with your central nervous system in a way that improves neural plasticity. A mind that is more flexible adapts and responds quicker and more appropriately to changes in your environment. The more easily your brain adjusts to changes encountered in a normal busy day, the better you feel.
(808) 353-4829 View (808) 353-4829
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Christopher Panetta
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Honolulu, HI 96815  (Online Only)
As a therapist, my aim is to foster a secure, supportive, and non-judgmental space where individuals and families can delve into the challenges that are faced. Together we will strive to remove barriers, earn trust, and make you feel welcome. We will work together to examine the relationship between your thoughts, feelings and behaviors while identifying ways to improve coping skills, restore confidence, and make positive changes. With experience spanning community mental health centers, schools, homes, and remote settings, I employ a person-centered, psychodynamic therapeutic approach.
As a therapist, my aim is to foster a secure, supportive, and non-judgmental space where individuals and families can delve into the challenges that are faced. Together we will strive to remove barriers, earn trust, and make you feel welcome. We will work together to examine the relationship between your thoughts, feelings and behaviors while identifying ways to improve coping skills, restore confidence, and make positive changes. With experience spanning community mental health centers, schools, homes, and remote settings, I employ a person-centered, psychodynamic therapeutic approach.
(808) 353-5743 View (808) 353-5743
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Janet L. Hanley, Psy.D., LLC
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Honolulu, HI 96821
Minimize distress and overcome challenges (including trauma)--we'll work together to identify what keeps you stuck, increase your assertiveness, develop confidence, reduce guilt and identify your fears. My practice also includes conducting psychological evaluations (e.g., ADHD, Autism Spectrum Disorders including Asperger's Syndrome).
Minimize distress and overcome challenges (including trauma)--we'll work together to identify what keeps you stuck, increase your assertiveness, develop confidence, reduce guilt and identify your fears. My practice also includes conducting psychological evaluations (e.g., ADHD, Autism Spectrum Disorders including Asperger's Syndrome).
(808) 201-1438 View (808) 201-1438
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Henry Beck
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Honolulu, HI 96814
I am a licensed psychologist who specializes in psychotherapy for mood disorders, trauma, and relationship difficulties. Along with these specializations I have specific training and experience in forensic issues. My practice uses cutting-edge and empirically based psychotherapies, delivered with warmth and care. In addition to psychotherapy I perform psychological assessments for ADHD, assessments of cognitive abilities, as well as assessment of emotion and personality characteristics.
I am a licensed psychologist who specializes in psychotherapy for mood disorders, trauma, and relationship difficulties. Along with these specializations I have specific training and experience in forensic issues. My practice uses cutting-edge and empirically based psychotherapies, delivered with warmth and care. In addition to psychotherapy I perform psychological assessments for ADHD, assessments of cognitive abilities, as well as assessment of emotion and personality characteristics.
(808) 419-7299 View (808) 419-7299
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Chonell Candace Woode
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Honolulu, HI 96813
Aloha, my name is Chonell Candace Woode and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) practicing across all of Hawaii. I specialize in working with adults and couples in focus areas of anxiety, depression, stress management, relationships, trauma, PTSD, grief and substance abuse. My background also includes an extensive history in working with active-duty service members and their families. My approach to therapy aligns to the unique needs of each client. I most frequently employ modalities of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Behavioral Activation, Problem Solving Therapy, Mindfulness, Supportive and Strength Based Therapy.
Aloha, my name is Chonell Candace Woode and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) practicing across all of Hawaii. I specialize in working with adults and couples in focus areas of anxiety, depression, stress management, relationships, trauma, PTSD, grief and substance abuse. My background also includes an extensive history in working with active-duty service members and their families. My approach to therapy aligns to the unique needs of each client. I most frequently employ modalities of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Behavioral Activation, Problem Solving Therapy, Mindfulness, Supportive and Strength Based Therapy.
(808) 755-2894 View (808) 755-2894
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Adult and Child Psychological Services
Psychologist, PsyD, CSAC
Verified Verified
Honolulu, HI 96813
Adult and Child Psychological Services is a comprehensive center devoted to enhancing the health and well-being of adults, children, and families in the community who are living with emotional and physical health problems. Our philosophy is a belief in wellness through a collaborative effort. Using effective and proven therapies, the goal of our dedicated and expertly trained mental health professionals is to provide brief and practical help.
Adult and Child Psychological Services is a comprehensive center devoted to enhancing the health and well-being of adults, children, and families in the community who are living with emotional and physical health problems. Our philosophy is a belief in wellness through a collaborative effort. Using effective and proven therapies, the goal of our dedicated and expertly trained mental health professionals is to provide brief and practical help.
(808) 731-1087 View (808) 731-1087
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Jenny Grace Shaw
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Honolulu, HI 96817
We all experience speed bumps during our life journey. Though it may seem we are "lost, "unsure of, I believe the powers we are looking for are inside YOU! One simply needs to be validated and to strengthen the emotional "muscles" that have grown weak-just as we exercise our bodies and our minds, we must exercise our emotional muscles. I genuinely believe we can not experience long-term health unless we pay close attention to our Mind, Body, and spirit a whole, our humanness. In many instances, it is our voice that is silenced, whether directly or indirectly.
We all experience speed bumps during our life journey. Though it may seem we are "lost, "unsure of, I believe the powers we are looking for are inside YOU! One simply needs to be validated and to strengthen the emotional "muscles" that have grown weak-just as we exercise our bodies and our minds, we must exercise our emotional muscles. I genuinely believe we can not experience long-term health unless we pay close attention to our Mind, Body, and spirit a whole, our humanness. In many instances, it is our voice that is silenced, whether directly or indirectly.
(808) 666-9659 View (808) 666-9659
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Caroline Motley
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Honolulu, HI 96816  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Currently I am not accepting new clients, and have a waitlist, earliest availability will be July. I only work with women and nonbinary people. Life is not a neat package, I am here to help you unpack it , keep track of of it all, get rid of some of it, and keep some safe. At the core of my approach is the establishment of a trustworthy, unbiased space for clients. I aim to be a consistent and empathetic presence, helping process where you feel secure enough to explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences without fear of judgment, or agenda. My role is to provide support, perspective, and self compassion.
Currently I am not accepting new clients, and have a waitlist, earliest availability will be July. I only work with women and nonbinary people. Life is not a neat package, I am here to help you unpack it , keep track of of it all, get rid of some of it, and keep some safe. At the core of my approach is the establishment of a trustworthy, unbiased space for clients. I aim to be a consistent and empathetic presence, helping process where you feel secure enough to explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences without fear of judgment, or agenda. My role is to provide support, perspective, and self compassion.
(808) 201-1998 View (808) 201-1998
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Dr. Jennifer (Wu) Andrews
Psychologist, PhD, LP, HSP, MA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Honolulu, HI 96825  (Online Only)
Do you currently feel stuck in life no matter what you try to do? Do you wish things could change but you're not sure how to go about it? If so, you are not alone. We all stumble and fall sometimes, whether in our friendships, relationships, work, and more. The most important thing you can do for yourself is to ask for help - you do not have to do this alone! I enjoy actively participating in collaborative care with my clients. No matter the issue, you and I will work as a team to conquer all! I provide culturally-minded, comprehensive, and holistic care to adults, utilizing an integrative and collaborative treatment approach.
Do you currently feel stuck in life no matter what you try to do? Do you wish things could change but you're not sure how to go about it? If so, you are not alone. We all stumble and fall sometimes, whether in our friendships, relationships, work, and more. The most important thing you can do for yourself is to ask for help - you do not have to do this alone! I enjoy actively participating in collaborative care with my clients. No matter the issue, you and I will work as a team to conquer all! I provide culturally-minded, comprehensive, and holistic care to adults, utilizing an integrative and collaborative treatment approach.
(808) 204-4367 View (808) 204-4367
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Hyungbum Kang
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MAC, MA, MSW, MBA
Verified Verified
Honolulu, HI 96815
Every individual in society is different so that per their perspectives, they formulate their opinion and a set of behavior. Under the theory of individual perception, the science which sounds theoretically proven and reasonable comes to play its role, resulting in various consequences. However, I believe that the perception created under the societal and scientific rules is not equivalent to neither the human mind nor the psychiatric world of the individual because human beings have unlimited imagination. I am looking for expanding the dimension of variables regarding the scientifically proven therapeutic methods
Every individual in society is different so that per their perspectives, they formulate their opinion and a set of behavior. Under the theory of individual perception, the science which sounds theoretically proven and reasonable comes to play its role, resulting in various consequences. However, I believe that the perception created under the societal and scientific rules is not equivalent to neither the human mind nor the psychiatric world of the individual because human beings have unlimited imagination. I am looking for expanding the dimension of variables regarding the scientifically proven therapeutic methods
(808) 784-7103 View (808) 784-7103
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Kenneth Kim
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Honolulu, HI 96825  (Online Only)
Hello, I am a psychologist dedicated to specializing in various aspects of mental health and well-being. With a focus on depression, anxiety, relationship conflicts, personality disorders, and Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), I strive to provide compassionate and effective support to individuals navigating these challenges. My approach to therapy is grounded in evidence-based practices, tailoring treatment plans to suit each individual's unique needs and circumstances. Whether you're seeking to overcome debilitating symptoms, improve relationships, or better understand yourself or a loved one, I'm here to help.
Hello, I am a psychologist dedicated to specializing in various aspects of mental health and well-being. With a focus on depression, anxiety, relationship conflicts, personality disorders, and Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), I strive to provide compassionate and effective support to individuals navigating these challenges. My approach to therapy is grounded in evidence-based practices, tailoring treatment plans to suit each individual's unique needs and circumstances. Whether you're seeking to overcome debilitating symptoms, improve relationships, or better understand yourself or a loved one, I'm here to help.
(808) 774-3886 View (808) 774-3886
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Teresa Lathrop
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Verified Verified
Honolulu, HI 96816
I have lived and worked in Hawaii for over 30 years, first working on Kauai, and for the past 25 years on Oahu. I am the first clinically licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in the State. I specialize in relationship counseling, but have significant experience and expertise in helping those with depression, anxiety, trauma recovery, and parent-adolescent issues. I see individuals, couples, and families in treatment. I am a teacher and supervisor of those studying to become marriage and family therapists. I teach Marriage and Family Therapy at the University of Hawaii.
I have lived and worked in Hawaii for over 30 years, first working on Kauai, and for the past 25 years on Oahu. I am the first clinically licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in the State. I specialize in relationship counseling, but have significant experience and expertise in helping those with depression, anxiety, trauma recovery, and parent-adolescent issues. I see individuals, couples, and families in treatment. I am a teacher and supervisor of those studying to become marriage and family therapists. I teach Marriage and Family Therapy at the University of Hawaii.
(808) 495-0192 View (808) 495-0192
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Damon L Ackerman
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Honolulu, HI 96814
If you have a child with behavioral difficulties and need to decrease outbursts, if you cannot get your adolescent to listen, or don’t know what to do to support your teenager who is struggling with mood swings, I can help. Whether you are an individual or a parent who wants to improve your quality of life, a couple or a family that wants better cohesiveness, I have worked as an individual and family therapist on many of the Hawaiian islands with local families and families new to the islands on a plethora of issues.
If you have a child with behavioral difficulties and need to decrease outbursts, if you cannot get your adolescent to listen, or don’t know what to do to support your teenager who is struggling with mood swings, I can help. Whether you are an individual or a parent who wants to improve your quality of life, a couple or a family that wants better cohesiveness, I have worked as an individual and family therapist on many of the Hawaiian islands with local families and families new to the islands on a plethora of issues.
(808) 999-0677 View (808) 999-0677
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Heather McDermott
Psychologist, PsyD, MEd, CAMS-II, CSAC
Verified Verified
Honolulu, HI 96813  (Online Only)
Individuals can lead a happier, more productive life when they are engaged in the therapy process. I specialize in assisting individuals who are experiencing life transitions including divorce, illness, bereavement, and change of careers. I also treat depression, anxiety, addictions (including substance abuse), trauma, and a variety of other psychological concerns. I routinely work with individuals' physicians and a variety of other practitioners to create a comprehensive treatment plan. I am an anger management specialist, certified by the National Association for Anger Management Specialists as well as a Certified Substance Abuse Counselor (CSAC). I am also a certified EMDR therapist.
Individuals can lead a happier, more productive life when they are engaged in the therapy process. I specialize in assisting individuals who are experiencing life transitions including divorce, illness, bereavement, and change of careers. I also treat depression, anxiety, addictions (including substance abuse), trauma, and a variety of other psychological concerns. I routinely work with individuals' physicians and a variety of other practitioners to create a comprehensive treatment plan. I am an anger management specialist, certified by the National Association for Anger Management Specialists as well as a Certified Substance Abuse Counselor (CSAC). I am also a certified EMDR therapist.
(808) 419-7820 View (808) 419-7820
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Jeffrey H Nathan
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Honolulu, HI 96814
Like our fingerprints, each individual is unique. I have come to understand that each individual also has a unique way of growing and changing. Let me help you find your way of feeling better. I specialize in psychotherapy for adults, couples, and adolescents. People with trouble with stress, depression, anxiety, confusion, and relationship issues seek my help. I adjust my approach to each client. Located very near Ala Moana Shopping Center. Aloha.
Like our fingerprints, each individual is unique. I have come to understand that each individual also has a unique way of growing and changing. Let me help you find your way of feeling better. I specialize in psychotherapy for adults, couples, and adolescents. People with trouble with stress, depression, anxiety, confusion, and relationship issues seek my help. I adjust my approach to each client. Located very near Ala Moana Shopping Center. Aloha.
(808) 427-1508 View (808) 427-1508
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Erik Gray
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW
Verified Verified
Honolulu, HI 96815  (Online Only)
Are you struggling to overcome an obstacle in your life? Do you feel overwhelmed, and unsure of how to make your life more manageable? Imagine if you could approach your problems with confidence and rid yourself of the stress and worry that surround these issues. Imagine if you could compartmentalize your stressors, and focus on the things that you enjoy. Imagine freeing yourself from worry and doubt about your circumstances, and finding the satisfaction from your daily life that you deserve.
Are you struggling to overcome an obstacle in your life? Do you feel overwhelmed, and unsure of how to make your life more manageable? Imagine if you could approach your problems with confidence and rid yourself of the stress and worry that surround these issues. Imagine if you could compartmentalize your stressors, and focus on the things that you enjoy. Imagine freeing yourself from worry and doubt about your circumstances, and finding the satisfaction from your daily life that you deserve.
(808) 707-8238 View (808) 707-8238
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Honolulu Psychology Collective
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Honolulu, HI 96814  (Online Only)
Honolulu Psychology Collective is a private group therapy practice founded by Allana Coffee, Ph.D. and Jerry Coffee. Both Dr. Coffee and Mr. Coffee have been in practice for a collective total of nearly 40 years. They have combined their experience, knowledge, expertise and love of the community to establish Honolulu Psychology Collective. HPC is comprised of clinical psychologists and clinical social workers who have a high level of experience, knowledge and compassion. HPC offers evidence based therapy with warmth and care. We are here for you.
Honolulu Psychology Collective is a private group therapy practice founded by Allana Coffee, Ph.D. and Jerry Coffee. Both Dr. Coffee and Mr. Coffee have been in practice for a collective total of nearly 40 years. They have combined their experience, knowledge, expertise and love of the community to establish Honolulu Psychology Collective. HPC is comprised of clinical psychologists and clinical social workers who have a high level of experience, knowledge and compassion. HPC offers evidence based therapy with warmth and care. We are here for you.
(808) 707-5246 View (808) 707-5246
Borderline Personality (BPD) Therapists

What is the most successful approach to treating borderline personality disorder?

Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) is considered the gold standard of treatment for borderline personality disorder. An evidence-based treatment, it addresses the extreme emotional reactivity, the relationship difficulties, and the acts of self-harm that create so much distress for BPD patients. DBT is a comprehensive program that includes both regular individual psychotherapy sessions and weekly group sessions of skills training.

What happens in treatment of borderline personality disorder?

Treatment typically consists of weekly individual therapy sessions that last an hour and group skill-focused instructional sessions that may last up to two hours. Patients are typically given homework “assignments” in which they are asked to practice in their daily life the skills they acquire in therapy. Patients also keep a diary tracking their emotions and impulses as a way to know which situations are most problematic and to help them gain control over their own behavior. Difficult situations and feelings are typically reviewed in therapy sessions and more constructive solutions found.

What kinds of problems does BPD treatment help with?

DBT was initially developed to dampen the self-destructive impulses of chronically suicidal patients. It is now the treatment of choice for borderline personality disorder, a serious condition marked by extreme emotional reactivity, relationship instability, and self-injurious behaviors. Treatment of BPD helps patients tolerate the flux of emotions without acting on them, often with a specific focus on tolerating negative emotions. DBT addresses the core problems of BPD—fear of abandonment, low self-esteem, and impulsivity.

What is the goal of treatment in borderline personality disorder?

The goal of treatment for borderline personality disorder (BPD) is to relieve the extreme emotional distress that patients experience—to curb their emotional reactivity, to minimize their inclination to self-harm, and to reduce their impulsivity. Toward these ends, patients are not only taught an array of new coping skills and techniques for emotional regulation, they are given opportunities to practice them. Another major goal of treatment is interpersonal effectiveness; patients learn and problem-solve ways to effectively communicate in relationships, especially how to ask for what they need as a way to minimize hurt feelings.