Relational Therapists in Pittsford, NY

I have repeatedly been impressed and moved by the process and experience that is psychotherapy. With each new person that I meet, I endeavor to foster a relationship through which healing, self-awareness, and personal growth can take place. I aim to help people identify their own emotional truths and live a more fulfilling life. If you are unhappy with the direction your life is going, dissatisfied with the quality of your relationships, or experiencing distressing symptoms that make it difficult to get through your days, please call for an initial consultation.

FYI: Limited daytime availability for new clients (May, 2024). Welcome! Therapy can offer you support when life presents challenges such as relationship concerns, illness, anxiety, depression, grief, life transitions, and other stressors. You are the expert in your life, and I will collaborate with you to help you identify what you want to change and gain insights about how to make progress toward your goals.

Whether you are anxious, depressed, experiencing a loss, having relationship difficulties, problems with eating, or are in a difficult life transition, you can benefit from the safe space of therapy. My therapeutic approach honors suffering and difference, while placing importance on the development of a trusting relationship. Through a trusting relationship new insights may emerge as curiosity, compassion, humor, and warmth open a path for creative collaboration. Together, we’ll work to increase your self-awareness and develop a greater capacity to trust yourself to make intentional decisions about who and where you want to be.

My approach is gentle and direct. I know if you are coming to me, it’s possible you have been struggling with the same patterns and emotional pain for a long while and coping the best that you can. Together we can sort through what’s happening with your inner experiences, your relationships, and a world that can often feel anxiety-provoking. If you are holding painful memories or having traumatic symptoms, together we can ease your system into a more relaxed state so that you can experience life more fully present. From here, you can start down a path toward a more grounded sense of peace, joy, connection, and creativity.

Stress is a normal part of the human condition and it comes in many forms: difficult childhoods, trauma, interpersonal challenges, school-related problems, work troubles, grief/loss, parenting struggles—just to name a few. The reality is that life places obstacles in our way, but how we manage and cope with them affects their impact on our mental and physical health. Sometimes, the scale between struggling and coping tips towards struggling and we need support. Whether you or your child is struggling with something specific (e.g., anxiety or depression), or you just want to make a simple behavioral change, I am here to help!

Feeling stuck? Wishing for change? Fear of the future? We go through struggles that test our ability to find joy and experience pleasure. It is often our relationships with friends, family and especially our partners that take the brunt of these taxing times. It is common that our intimate relationships get tagged as the reason for our hurt and pain or are the most negatively impacted. Blame can drive a wedge and damage intimacy. Ironically, it is within our intimate relationships that we find the majority of our most meaningful experiences. Experiences that result in feeling that joy and pleasure we so desperately desire.

I specialize in working with adults, and adults and their children, who present with neurodivergence of any kind and/or have always had a feeling of “being different.” I take a strengths-based approach that is informed by psychoanalytic therapy with a creative center. If you are someone who feels that your upbringing has led to suffering, and/or disruption in your ability to be the parent that you’d like to be, I would be a good match for you. I focus on relational trauma in my work and the breaking of abusive cycles.

The Individuals I work best with are seeking therapy for various challenges including anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship difficulties, self-esteem issues, and navigating life transitions. These individuals are looking to find support, develop coping strategies, gain insight into their emotions and behaviors, improve their relationships, and discover a sense of purpose and fulfillment in life. Their primary desires and motivations revolve around achieving healing and well-being, personal growth, and an overall improved quality of life.

Are you looking for an experienced therapist to help you feel better and live better? Are you hoping to improve communication with your partner or in your family relationships? I'd like to help you find a pathway to lasting change. I have more than 20 years of experience working with people across the lifespan, across genders and orientations, and facing varied stressors.

Welcome. I am a Rochester-based psychologist providing individual psychotherapy to adults throughout New York State. My work is based on the belief that having a supportive space in which to process your experiences can be incredibly therapeutic. I also believe that developing self-awareness is an essential piece of effectively navigating our lives. I may be the right therapist for you if you are interested in learning more about how you cope with distress, respond to challenges, relate to yourself, or approach your interactions with others.

You might be reading this because you are trying to understand your pain, and what you can do about it. Perhaps you sometimes feel empty and numb, or feel flooded with overwhelming and confusing feelings. You may have attempted changes, but see the same problems again and again in your relationships. Maybe you long to find a sense of meaning, or to feel more fully alive. These are common, human, difficulties. Healing old wounds is a challenging, meaningful process. If you are committed to change, it will be helpful for you to find a supportive space to do this hard work. Together, we can make your healing and growth a priority.

I recognize the significant challenges and emotions children and young adults face in their daily lives. In sessions, we work on navigating stressors and changes experienced in their family, relationships, school, and self. I explore with my clients to find goals and supports that are most in line with their own priorities and perspectives. We work together on processing the impact of relationships and events, providing skills and validation to help manage their emotions and thoughts. My aim is to provide a reassuring space for clients to reflect on themselves and use their insights to adapt thoughts, behaviors, and communication.

You are not alone as we partner together to explore, uncover and remove the obstacles that prevent you from becoming your best self and having the quality of life you long for. Using a psychodynamic framework to engage you, build hope, and establish a healing relationship, I specialize in dealing with the cumulative life stresses, traumas, griefs and losses that insidiously sabotage your best efforts, deplete your energy, tempt you into addictions to numb and avoid the pain life has brought you, or turn your long suffering into despair and depression.

I strongly believe that therapy is for everyone, whether you are struggling with your mental wellbeing, or are simply at one of those challenging, confusing, or painful moments in life that we all experience. I provide therapy to people struggling with a wide range of concerns, and I specialize particularly in working with young adults. I invite my clients to use therapy as a safe and attuned space in which to share the thoughts and emotions that are most present for them, and then together we can untangle how these emotions are connected to current concerns, needs, and goals.

I offer an interactive, practical, comprehensive, respectful and resourceful style of therapy that helps people shift their focus from wondering, "What's wrong with me?" to asking a very different question: "What's right about me?" My sessions, for both individuals and couples, are designed to identify effective and practical problem-solving strategies, as well as to uncover inner strengths and healing resources to address your concerns. I am open-minded and value cultural and religious diversity.

If you are having anxiety or depression, if you have experienced trauma or loss, I can help you sort out the things that are missing to gain or restore meaning, energy and joy to your life and relationships. I believe in the potential for growth, that our lives can be better, that change is possible, that relationships can be deeply satisfying. If you are having difficulty in your life, relationships or work, you will find me a respectful, empathic listener. Connecting with your feelings, finding your voice and making the life and relationships you want are outcomes my individual and couple clients find in therapy with me.

Hi! I’m Shannon and I am honored to help people create the change they want in their lives. My clients often come to therapy because they are repeating patterns that are no longer working for them - both individually and in relationships. My job is to help you identify the patterns through a holistic lens, to better understand yourself and to give you ways to adjust and grow, while staying true to you.

Thank you so much for your interest in my practice! Life can offer its ups and downs. Often times we may feel overwhelmed, stressed and confused by our thoughts, emotions and behaviors. As a Licensed Mental Health Counselor and Registered Yoga Teacher, my goal is to help individuals discover their innate strengths and develop skills to overcome challenges.

I have been helping individuals, couples and families for over 30 years. Clients & colleagues describe me as experienced, effective, direct, honest, kind, compassionate, genuine & caring. Strengths are my empathy & ability to connect with others in a therapeutic way as to help facilitate growth, change and movement in their lives & acceptance of self. I use an eclectic approach: cognitive-behavioral, experiential, relational, solution-focused, supportive, trauma informed, and insight-oriented psychotherapy. Expertise working with couples, families & adolescents. An Addiction Specialist and an OASAS-DMV Provider for drug & alcohol evaluations, assessment and treatment. I am also certified by EAPA as a Employee Assistance Specialist-Clinical(EAS-C).