Constance (Connie) Updike-Chilcoat, MS, LMFT, Marriage & Family Therapist in Houston
Brave, courageous people know when to ask for help. Whether you are young, middle age or a senior man, woman, child, couple or family looking for answers or just feeling a little overwhelmed, come let's talk about your situation and find your unique answers. I have 8 years experience in private practice as a psychotherapist and 25 years public school experience. I work with children, teens, couples and families. As a therapist I will look for your unique solutions and help you move past present difficulties into a more positive future. I offer evening and weekend appointments.
We all have a family. Some families are given to us by biology, some are created by the choices we make. Adults, teens and children sometimes struggle with their place within family. Careful listening and gentle questioning can help you make sense of and determine your place in your family.
As a retired teacher, I have taught children with special needs for 25 years and am an experienced advocate for families dealing with any special education services. Supporting clients during meetings is a skill I can offer to families. Hablo el espaņol un poco y quiero apprender mas.
Call or Email Constance (Connie) Updike-Chilcoat for a free consultation now - (281) 819-0567


  • Years in Practice: 8 Years
  • School: Our Lady of the Lake University
  • Year Graduated: 2002
  • License No. and State: 201012 Texas


  • Avg Cost (per session): $100 - $120
  • Sliding Scale: Yes
  • Accepts Insurance: Yes
  • Accepted Payment Methods: American Express, Cash, Check, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa

Accepted Insurance Plans
  • Aetna
  • Beacon
  • BlueCross and BlueShield
  • EmblemHealth
  • Humana
  • LifeSynch
  • ValueOptions
  • Out of Network
Verify your health insurance coverage when you arrange your first visit.


  • Family Conflict
  • Learning Disabilities
  • Grief


  • Alcohol Abuse
  • Anger Management
  • Anxiety
  • Asperger's Syndrome
  • Behavioral Issues
  • Child or Adolescent
  • Depression
  • Divorce
  • Domestic Abuse
  • Domestic Violence
  • Emotional Disturbance
  • Infertility
  • Living/dealing with aging parents
  • Parenting
  • Relationship Issues
  • School Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Spirituality
  • Teen Violence
  • Trauma and PTSD


  • Bisexual
  • Gay
  • Lesbian

Client Focus


  • Children (6 to 10)
  • Preteens / Tweens (11 to 13)
  • Adolescents / Teenagers (14 to 19)
  • Adults
  • Elders (65+)


  • Aviation Professionals
  • Bisexual Clients
  • Gay Clients
  • Heterosexual Clients
  • Lesbian Clients
  • Veterans

Treatment Approach

Treatment Orientation

  • Collaborative Language
  • Family / Marital
  • Family Systems
  • Feminist
  • Mindfulness-based (MBCT)
  • Narrative
  • Play Therapy
  • Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
  • Trauma Focused


  • Individuals
  • Couples
  • Family
Last Modified: 07 Jul 2016
Constance (Connie) Updike-Chilcoat, MS, LMFT, Marriage & Family Therapist in Houston

Constance (Connie) Updike-Chilcoat

Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT