Marriage Counseling Therapists in Bensenville, IL

Photo of Dawn M. Bushma, LCSW, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Bensenville, IL
Dawn M. Bushma, LCSW
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CADC, SAP
Verified Verified
Bensenville, IL 60106
I have been in the field of Social Work since 1989, starting my career in teaching in 1984 and quickly moved to Social Work. I have spent my career in the public sector until I opened my practice in 2007. I center my career around helping people get through challanges that life puts in our path. I offer a comfortable and supportive environment where it is safe to explore various issues that life presents. I feel it is an honor to work with individuals trying to better their life and have chosen me to assist with their journey.
I have been in the field of Social Work since 1989, starting my career in teaching in 1984 and quickly moved to Social Work. I have spent my career in the public sector until I opened my practice in 2007. I center my career around helping people get through challanges that life puts in our path. I offer a comfortable and supportive environment where it is safe to explore various issues that life presents. I feel it is an honor to work with individuals trying to better their life and have chosen me to assist with their journey.
(708) 628-4107 View (708) 628-4107
Photo of Rose Mary Spizzirri, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Bensenville, IL
Rose Mary Spizzirri
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bensenville, IL 60106
Everyone goes through times of struggle and needs someone to listen, reflect and help them move forward. We specialize in working with persons who have experienced trauma, abuse or neglect. Trauma can lead to many life issues & symptoms that we can help you manage & alleviate. Using trauma-informed attachment focused psychotherapy we provide parents with therapeutic skills to help their children heal. I have worked with families, kids, & adults for 25 of years who have various mental illnesses and emotional challenges. Everyone deserves happiness & we can help you through the healing process to restore your mind, body & spirit.
Everyone goes through times of struggle and needs someone to listen, reflect and help them move forward. We specialize in working with persons who have experienced trauma, abuse or neglect. Trauma can lead to many life issues & symptoms that we can help you manage & alleviate. Using trauma-informed attachment focused psychotherapy we provide parents with therapeutic skills to help their children heal. I have worked with families, kids, & adults for 25 of years who have various mental illnesses and emotional challenges. Everyone deserves happiness & we can help you through the healing process to restore your mind, body & spirit.
(708) 697-8009 View (708) 697-8009

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Photo of Sheila Harris-Fitzpatrick, Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in Bensenville, IL
Sheila Harris-Fitzpatrick
Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, MA, LCPC, NCC, DCC, PhD
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Oak Park, IL 60302
I've counseled marriage couples, couples before marriage, families dealing with death, and individuals with anger management issues.
ONLINE COUNSELING AVAILABLE! Get counseling without going out. I specialized in remote online counseling. I have immediate openings for daytime, evening, and weekend appointments. My passion is working with individuals relating to grief and other life transitions; which include, employment exit strategies, career decisions while identifying gifts and talents, finding your life calling and coaching through life altering events. I am a excellent couples counselor and whether you are preparing for marriage or married, I can help you become better communicators and partners for life.
I've counseled marriage couples, couples before marriage, families dealing with death, and individuals with anger management issues.
ONLINE COUNSELING AVAILABLE! Get counseling without going out. I specialized in remote online counseling. I have immediate openings for daytime, evening, and weekend appointments. My passion is working with individuals relating to grief and other life transitions; which include, employment exit strategies, career decisions while identifying gifts and talents, finding your life calling and coaching through life altering events. I am a excellent couples counselor and whether you are preparing for marriage or married, I can help you become better communicators and partners for life.
(630) 491-4239 View (630) 491-4239
Photo of Debbie Prescott, Counselor in Bensenville, IL
Debbie Prescott
Counselor, MA, LCPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Wheaton, IL 60187
Are you facing unexpected challenges in your life? Let me help you rediscover your strengths and regain mental and emotional wellness. I offer support and teach techniques to help you overcome your obstacles. My specialty is guiding my clients through life transitions, such as divorce, illness, grief, and job loss. I focus on treatment of depression, marital and relational codependency, workplace conflict, and parenting issues, especially those related to discord with adult children.
Are you facing unexpected challenges in your life? Let me help you rediscover your strengths and regain mental and emotional wellness. I offer support and teach techniques to help you overcome your obstacles. My specialty is guiding my clients through life transitions, such as divorce, illness, grief, and job loss. I focus on treatment of depression, marital and relational codependency, workplace conflict, and parenting issues, especially those related to discord with adult children.
(331) 208-5568 View (331) 208-5568
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Martin W. Scripp
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Roselle, IL 60172
My primary clinical interests involve adults and couples with presenting problems that may include depression, anxiety, work stress, post-traumatic stress, panic attacks, couples/marital issues, intimacy, shyness, low self-esteem, domestic violence and developmental issues of adulthood. I often ask people..."who was there for you early in life, who believed in you, took an interest in you, or looked out for you?" Many don't believe anyone was there, in which case there may be feelings of emptiness or loss. Wise intervention can help to give insight resulting in direction and purpose in their lives.
My primary clinical interests involve adults and couples with presenting problems that may include depression, anxiety, work stress, post-traumatic stress, panic attacks, couples/marital issues, intimacy, shyness, low self-esteem, domestic violence and developmental issues of adulthood. I often ask people..."who was there for you early in life, who believed in you, took an interest in you, or looked out for you?" Many don't believe anyone was there, in which case there may be feelings of emptiness or loss. Wise intervention can help to give insight resulting in direction and purpose in their lives.
(630) 337-5369 View (630) 337-5369
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CounselCare Connection - Anger Management Inst.
Counselor, NCC, LCPC, CAMS-V, CCTP
Verified Verified
Oak Brook, IL 60523
At CounselCare Connection, P.C. we serve people in personal, emotional, mental or relational crisis. We provide helpful guidance to people struggling with depression, anger, anxiety, stress, addictions, abuse, grief, marriage, family, relationship or spiritual issues. Mrs. Hoy is a National Certified Counselor and Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor. Lynette is credentialed by the National Anger Management Association as an Anger Management Specialist-V, Diplomate, Supervisor and Consultant. She is the author of What's Good About Anger? books, resources/courses and the founder and President of the Anger Management Institute.
At CounselCare Connection, P.C. we serve people in personal, emotional, mental or relational crisis. We provide helpful guidance to people struggling with depression, anger, anxiety, stress, addictions, abuse, grief, marriage, family, relationship or spiritual issues. Mrs. Hoy is a National Certified Counselor and Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor. Lynette is credentialed by the National Anger Management Association as an Anger Management Specialist-V, Diplomate, Supervisor and Consultant. She is the author of What's Good About Anger? books, resources/courses and the founder and President of the Anger Management Institute.
(630) 368-1880 View (630) 368-1880
Photo of Susan L Adler, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Bensenville, IL
Susan L Adler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, ACSW
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Oak Park, IL 60302
Pre-marital, marital coaching/psychotherapy, divorce/separation recovery, adult individual psychotherapy, relationship issues, adult children of alcoholics, stress, self esteem, personal growth, life transitions, infidelity, co-dependency, LGBTQIA, adjustment disorders, grief/loss, adult survivors of sexual abuse, consultation.
Feeling stuck? A Chicago Social Worker of the Year (National Association of Social Workers). Published, award-winning author in the field. 25+ yrs experience. English, Spanish. AAMFT clinical member/supervisor. Respectful, skilled, organized, friendly, approachable. Model based approach. LGBTQIA. Goal based, non-pathologizing strength-based model. Highly recommended as humanistic, safe, therapist, trainer and consultant. Popular TEDx Talk: Secrets of a Couples Counselor: 3 steps to Happier Relationships available to watch on Youtube, through my website or google Susan Adler TEDx. www.susanLadler.com
Pre-marital, marital coaching/psychotherapy, divorce/separation recovery, adult individual psychotherapy, relationship issues, adult children of alcoholics, stress, self esteem, personal growth, life transitions, infidelity, co-dependency, LGBTQIA, adjustment disorders, grief/loss, adult survivors of sexual abuse, consultation.
Feeling stuck? A Chicago Social Worker of the Year (National Association of Social Workers). Published, award-winning author in the field. 25+ yrs experience. English, Spanish. AAMFT clinical member/supervisor. Respectful, skilled, organized, friendly, approachable. Model based approach. LGBTQIA. Goal based, non-pathologizing strength-based model. Highly recommended as humanistic, safe, therapist, trainer and consultant. Popular TEDx Talk: Secrets of a Couples Counselor: 3 steps to Happier Relationships available to watch on Youtube, through my website or google Susan Adler TEDx. www.susanLadler.com
(708) 771-4636 View (708) 771-4636
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Karyn Roggatz Ness
Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, MS MA, LCPC
Verified Verified
Wheaton, IL 60187
Marital concerns.
It is my goal to work with people of all ages, and simply meet them where they are. I hope to motivate my clients to make changes that will enhance the quality of their lives, working from the most appropriate theoretical models that suit each person's needs.
Marital concerns.
It is my goal to work with people of all ages, and simply meet them where they are. I hope to motivate my clients to make changes that will enhance the quality of their lives, working from the most appropriate theoretical models that suit each person's needs.
(847) 750-3897 View (847) 750-3897
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Andy Young
Counselor, LCPC, CADC, CPAIP
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Elmhurst, IL 60126
I help struggling couples, frustrated parents, disillusioned teens, and others resolve a wide variety of issues including substance abuse, marriage issues, infidelity, child/adolescent behavioral problems, and more. One thing I value as a counselor is having the privilege to witness and take part in the potential for recovery and healing that can occur, even in the midst of great strife or despair.
I help struggling couples, frustrated parents, disillusioned teens, and others resolve a wide variety of issues including substance abuse, marriage issues, infidelity, child/adolescent behavioral problems, and more. One thing I value as a counselor is having the privilege to witness and take part in the potential for recovery and healing that can occur, even in the midst of great strife or despair.
(630) 478-0488 View (630) 478-0488
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John Coumbe-Lilley Ph.d
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPC, ALMFT
Verified Verified
Bloomingdale, IL 60108
The couples I work with are on the brink of a change in their relationship. They seek me out to help them decide the change they want, whether that is to work on their marriage, figure out what is going on in their marriage or explore leaving their marriage. Once the couple decides on their path, then we get to work collaboratively to achieve their goals. I partner with individuals who want to solve relationship, professional, and performance problems. I collaborate to develop solutions to cope with pressures like betrayal, cheating, guilt, changing jobs, getting married, entrepreneurship, adulting, and learning skills.
The couples I work with are on the brink of a change in their relationship. They seek me out to help them decide the change they want, whether that is to work on their marriage, figure out what is going on in their marriage or explore leaving their marriage. Once the couple decides on their path, then we get to work collaboratively to achieve their goals. I partner with individuals who want to solve relationship, professional, and performance problems. I collaborate to develop solutions to cope with pressures like betrayal, cheating, guilt, changing jobs, getting married, entrepreneurship, adulting, and learning skills.
(708) 546-3785 View (708) 546-3785
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Great Lakes Psychology Group - Aurora
Psychologist
Verified Verified
Lombard, IL 60148
The GLPG support staff will personally match you with a best-fit therapist who accepts your insurance and is available to see you online or in person at a time that works for you. The GLPG provider network comprises doctoral and master’s level psychologists, marriage and family therapists, professional counselors, and social workers. Benefits include online and in-person therapy options, night and weekend availability, and most insurance plans accepted. Additionally, our knowledgeable and helpful support staff are available to answer your questions or help with anything you might need at any point along the therapy journey.
The GLPG support staff will personally match you with a best-fit therapist who accepts your insurance and is available to see you online or in person at a time that works for you. The GLPG provider network comprises doctoral and master’s level psychologists, marriage and family therapists, professional counselors, and social workers. Benefits include online and in-person therapy options, night and weekend availability, and most insurance plans accepted. Additionally, our knowledgeable and helpful support staff are available to answer your questions or help with anything you might need at any point along the therapy journey.
(331) 204-1843 View (331) 204-1843
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Samantha Boone
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, LMFTA
Verified Verified
Oak Brook, IL 60523
Samantha is an Associate Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. Samantha provides counseling from a Christian perspective, as well as a community approach. She works primarily with teens, women, couples ranging while incorporating the family background and story into each session. She is passionate about walking with clients through their journeys of suffering, transitions, and relationships. Samantha uses the Family System's framework when working with depression, trauma, anxiety, and relational conflict.
Samantha is an Associate Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. Samantha provides counseling from a Christian perspective, as well as a community approach. She works primarily with teens, women, couples ranging while incorporating the family background and story into each session. She is passionate about walking with clients through their journeys of suffering, transitions, and relationships. Samantha uses the Family System's framework when working with depression, trauma, anxiety, and relational conflict.
(847) 499-1833 View (847) 499-1833
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Stenzel Clinical Services, Ltd.
Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, MA, LCPC
Verified Verified
Schaumburg, IL 60173
Some of our specialties include; anxiety, depression, bi-polar, marriage, eating disorders, anger, co-dependence, grief, life transition, self-injury, abuse and trauma.
We recognize how difficult it can be to seek help with mental health issues. Our goal is to meet you where you are in a supportive, encouraging way. We never use shame as a motivator. Instead we seek to provide a balance between giving you time and space to heal and challenging and encouraging you to move forward to a healthier place. We have a staff of over 40 therapists each with different specialties; we all possess the same single passion: to walk with our clients on the path of healing.
Some of our specialties include; anxiety, depression, bi-polar, marriage, eating disorders, anger, co-dependence, grief, life transition, self-injury, abuse and trauma.
We recognize how difficult it can be to seek help with mental health issues. Our goal is to meet you where you are in a supportive, encouraging way. We never use shame as a motivator. Instead we seek to provide a balance between giving you time and space to heal and challenging and encouraging you to move forward to a healthier place. We have a staff of over 40 therapists each with different specialties; we all possess the same single passion: to walk with our clients on the path of healing.
(630) 387-9885 x301 View (630) 387-9885 x301
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Panahi Counseling, P.C.
Counselor, MA, NCC, LCPC, EMDR, CADC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Glen Ellyn, IL 60137
We have a wide range of specialties including anxiety, depression, bi-polar disorder, marriage counseling, eating disorders, substance abuse, co-dependence, grief and loss, life transitions, abuse, trauma.
We understand how difficult it can be to seek help for mental health issues. That is why our team at Panahi Counseling is committed to meeting you where you are and encouraging you. We never use shame as a motivator because we believe in providing a safe, nonjudgmental environment that supports healing. Each of our therapists has their own specialties and interests. Our shared commitment to walking alongside our clients on their path to healing is what brings us together.
We have a wide range of specialties including anxiety, depression, bi-polar disorder, marriage counseling, eating disorders, substance abuse, co-dependence, grief and loss, life transitions, abuse, trauma.
We understand how difficult it can be to seek help for mental health issues. That is why our team at Panahi Counseling is committed to meeting you where you are and encouraging you. We never use shame as a motivator because we believe in providing a safe, nonjudgmental environment that supports healing. Each of our therapists has their own specialties and interests. Our shared commitment to walking alongside our clients on their path to healing is what brings us together.
(630) 686-7977 View (630) 686-7977
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Bill Melon
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Hinsdale, IL 60521
I have training in the Gottman Method of couples and marital therapy.
I have over 30 years experience working with children, adolescents, and adults. I see people of all ages who struggle with a wide range of problems and concerns that impede their ability to function more fully or find more satisfaction in their life. Some of these difficulties include depression, anxiety, developing and maintaining relationships, anger management, and chronic unhappiness or emptiness. I also work with parents looking for guidance to better understand and help their children who may suffer with behavioral, developmental, or learning problems.
I have training in the Gottman Method of couples and marital therapy.
I have over 30 years experience working with children, adolescents, and adults. I see people of all ages who struggle with a wide range of problems and concerns that impede their ability to function more fully or find more satisfaction in their life. Some of these difficulties include depression, anxiety, developing and maintaining relationships, anger management, and chronic unhappiness or emptiness. I also work with parents looking for guidance to better understand and help their children who may suffer with behavioral, developmental, or learning problems.
(630) 733-1132 View (630) 733-1132
Photo of Dan Frantz, Licensed Professional Counselor in Bensenville, IL
Dan Frantz
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LCPC, CPT
Verified Verified
Elmhurst, IL 60126
I'm an Individual, Couples, Marriage, and Family Therapist. That means I know how to listen deeply to what's most important to you. I won't just be talking at you or mechanically smiling and nodding with intermittent outbursts of cheerleading. I'm a Strength Coach and a Holistic Health Coach. That means I have an integrated approach and I care about your nutrition, fitness, relationships, career, mind, body, and spirit. As a Therapist and Strength Coach, barbells, kettlebells, relationships, and the most intimate matters of the heart are the tools of my trade. When used properly, they all promote growth.
I'm an Individual, Couples, Marriage, and Family Therapist. That means I know how to listen deeply to what's most important to you. I won't just be talking at you or mechanically smiling and nodding with intermittent outbursts of cheerleading. I'm a Strength Coach and a Holistic Health Coach. That means I have an integrated approach and I care about your nutrition, fitness, relationships, career, mind, body, and spirit. As a Therapist and Strength Coach, barbells, kettlebells, relationships, and the most intimate matters of the heart are the tools of my trade. When used properly, they all promote growth.
(331) 209-6388 x1 View (331) 209-6388 x1
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Shamim A Sufi
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, LCSW
Verified Verified
Bloomingdale, IL 60108
roots in multiple cultures. Raised in India, educated in Britain (Warwick University) and the United States (Northwestern University's Family Institute), I specialize in treatment of families across cultures. As a licensed clinical social worker, I work in collaboration with my clients to maximize individual and family functioning. I create a safe, caring and non-judgmental environment for immigrant families facing intergenerational problems, marital discord, emotional and psychological problems, arising from adaptation to a foreign culture. I have considerable experience in community mental health and child welfare, helping people with complex multiple issues.
roots in multiple cultures. Raised in India, educated in Britain (Warwick University) and the United States (Northwestern University's Family Institute), I specialize in treatment of families across cultures. As a licensed clinical social worker, I work in collaboration with my clients to maximize individual and family functioning. I create a safe, caring and non-judgmental environment for immigrant families facing intergenerational problems, marital discord, emotional and psychological problems, arising from adaptation to a foreign culture. I have considerable experience in community mental health and child welfare, helping people with complex multiple issues.
(630) 948-8205 View (630) 948-8205
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Matthew Ross
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Hinsdale, IL 60521  (Online Only)
Matthew primarily works with older adolescents and adults, and has a specific interest in marriage and family counseling.
As a clinician, I believe that it is important to meet each individual, couple, and family where they are at. I have many years of experience working with couples to heal their relationships, as well as working with individuals who are going through life-stage transitions. I enjoy helping people navigate through pivotal moments such as children launching, loss of a loved one, retirement, and caring for aging parents. I provide services via telehealth/video, allowing you to receive quality therapy services from where you are most comfortable.
Matthew primarily works with older adolescents and adults, and has a specific interest in marriage and family counseling.
As a clinician, I believe that it is important to meet each individual, couple, and family where they are at. I have many years of experience working with couples to heal their relationships, as well as working with individuals who are going through life-stage transitions. I enjoy helping people navigate through pivotal moments such as children launching, loss of a loved one, retirement, and caring for aging parents. I provide services via telehealth/video, allowing you to receive quality therapy services from where you are most comfortable.
(630) 323-3050 View (630) 323-3050
Photo of Gina Raza, Psychologist in Bensenville, IL
Gina Raza
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Park Ridge, IL 60068  (Online Only)
Life can be hard. If you're stressed, and wish you had more peace in your life, there's hope! That nagging anxiety can eat up your joy. It doesn't have to stay that way, there are effective strategies that will help! Therapy takes courage, but it is so worth it - you can experience positive change, freedom from fear or guilt, and enthusiasm about your life. I also specialize in Couples therapy (marital, long-term couples, and pre-marital). It IS possible to revitalize your relationship! Therapy will help you reconnect, communicate more effectively, and strengthen your understanding of one another.
Life can be hard. If you're stressed, and wish you had more peace in your life, there's hope! That nagging anxiety can eat up your joy. It doesn't have to stay that way, there are effective strategies that will help! Therapy takes courage, but it is so worth it - you can experience positive change, freedom from fear or guilt, and enthusiasm about your life. I also specialize in Couples therapy (marital, long-term couples, and pre-marital). It IS possible to revitalize your relationship! Therapy will help you reconnect, communicate more effectively, and strengthen your understanding of one another.
(224) 864-9173 View (224) 864-9173
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Ben Dally
Counselor, MA, MDiv, PhD, LCPC, EMDR
Verified Verified
Glen Ellyn, IL 60137
Inasmuch as we all face suffering in various forms throughout our lives, the good news is that there is hope for healing, and we don't have to go it alone. If you are experiencing grief, anxiety, depression, marital, relationship, and/or parenting issues, the effects of trauma, loneliness, addictive/compulsive behaviors, are struggling with a life transition or with pastoral/leadership challenges, are desiring support in your spiritual journey, or perhaps are simply unsure of where to turn, I would be grateful for the opportunity to journey with you toward the abundant life you were created for in Christ (Jn 10:10).
Inasmuch as we all face suffering in various forms throughout our lives, the good news is that there is hope for healing, and we don't have to go it alone. If you are experiencing grief, anxiety, depression, marital, relationship, and/or parenting issues, the effects of trauma, loneliness, addictive/compulsive behaviors, are struggling with a life transition or with pastoral/leadership challenges, are desiring support in your spiritual journey, or perhaps are simply unsure of where to turn, I would be grateful for the opportunity to journey with you toward the abundant life you were created for in Christ (Jn 10:10).
(630) 473-3846 View (630) 473-3846

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Marriage Counseling Therapists

How does marriage counseling work?

Marriage counseling works by teaching couples concrete skills to communicate with one another and solve disagreements in healthy ways. A trained mental health professional works with both members of a couple to explore difficulties the couple may be having and helps them develop skills to address these matters. Couples who don’t have any difficulties but want to prepare for marriage may develop skills for the future.

How long does marriage counseling typically last?

Marriage counseling is a short-term form of therapy; the process may last between four and eight sessions. Other forms of relationship guidance from mental health professionals, such as couples therapy, are longer lasting, may focus on the past rather than just the present, and are tailored to the individual couple and their emotions, history, and patterns in the relationship. Couples therapy often lasts for 12 weeks or longer.

Is marriage counseling effective?

Marriage counseling helps many couples develop relationship skills that may not have been acquired or tested in a relationship; partners may be better able to communicate and address conflict following counseling. However, there are many different forms of marriage counseling, and this form of counseling does not have as strong an evidence base as other modalities such as couples therapy.

Is marriage counseling effective if only one partner wants to go?

Yes, marriage counseling can still be effective if one partner convinces the other to engage in the process. Of course, whether counseling is effective depends on the couple’s commitment to work on their relationship; however, the short-term, skills-based nature of marriage counseling makes it a relatively easy “ask” of a partner, and the hesitant individual may see its value once counseling begins.