Imago Therapists in Greenville, SC

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Brandy M Cannon
Marriage & Family Therapist, MMFT, LMFT
Verified Verified
Greenville, SC 29615
Brandy's primary area of focus is on premarital and marriage relationship counseling. She also works with adolescents, adults, and families struggling with anxiety, depression, trauma, self-esteem, grief, stress management and a variety of other issues. Brandy has additional experience in working with clients who have experienced domestic violence and sexual assault. Brandy strives to create an atmosphere in which her clients feel accepted while finding solutions and hope for the future. She is currently accepting new clients. For appointments, please call 864-205-9249
Brandy's primary area of focus is on premarital and marriage relationship counseling. She also works with adolescents, adults, and families struggling with anxiety, depression, trauma, self-esteem, grief, stress management and a variety of other issues. Brandy has additional experience in working with clients who have experienced domestic violence and sexual assault. Brandy strives to create an atmosphere in which her clients feel accepted while finding solutions and hope for the future. She is currently accepting new clients. For appointments, please call 864-205-9249
(864) 990-2268 View (864) 990-2268
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Rodney Steven Kerr
Licensed Professional Counselor
Verified Verified
Greenville, SC 29615
Life is hard-I imagine that is the last thing that you want to hear right now. But unless you assume a different perspective, you may miss some important things-like hope, grace, and compassion. In my 30 plus years as a licensed professional counselor, I have had the honor of walking with individuals and couples through life crises and transitions, seeing them with fresh eyes, an understanding heart, and strategic interventions (or behavioral “experiments”) as they discover a new life of purpose and meaning, with renewed personal energy and deepened relationships.
Life is hard-I imagine that is the last thing that you want to hear right now. But unless you assume a different perspective, you may miss some important things-like hope, grace, and compassion. In my 30 plus years as a licensed professional counselor, I have had the honor of walking with individuals and couples through life crises and transitions, seeing them with fresh eyes, an understanding heart, and strategic interventions (or behavioral “experiments”) as they discover a new life of purpose and meaning, with renewed personal energy and deepened relationships.
(864) 365-3169 View (864) 365-3169
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Amy Taylor Scully
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Greenville, SC 29605
I believe that behind every problem lies the powerful desire for something better. In addition to working with couples and families, my expertise is in therapy with adolescents (13+) and adults, both gay and straight. I use research-based therapies that offer practical methods and skills that build emotional flexibility, self-awareness and resilience. Many of my clients are working to become free of self-defeating patterns resulting from emotional neglect in early or adolescent development. My typical client is intelligent and responsible as well as anxious and stressed, lonely, depressed or angry.
I believe that behind every problem lies the powerful desire for something better. In addition to working with couples and families, my expertise is in therapy with adolescents (13+) and adults, both gay and straight. I use research-based therapies that offer practical methods and skills that build emotional flexibility, self-awareness and resilience. Many of my clients are working to become free of self-defeating patterns resulting from emotional neglect in early or adolescent development. My typical client is intelligent and responsible as well as anxious and stressed, lonely, depressed or angry.
(864) 571-0723 View (864) 571-0723
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Shannon Paradise
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LISW-CP
Verified Verified
Greenville, SC 29607
We all have times in our lives where we feel overwhelmed, depressed, anxious, inadequate or hopeless. You don't have to be alone with those thoughts and feelings. Whether you are struggling with a specific life transition, serious mental illness, or trying to cope with a history of traumatic events, therapy can help you feel better and live the meaningful life you want.
We all have times in our lives where we feel overwhelmed, depressed, anxious, inadequate or hopeless. You don't have to be alone with those thoughts and feelings. Whether you are struggling with a specific life transition, serious mental illness, or trying to cope with a history of traumatic events, therapy can help you feel better and live the meaningful life you want.
(864) 319-3424 View (864) 319-3424
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Greenville Couples Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Greenville, SC 29607
Have you and your partner lost your spark? In the beginning, you felt seen and heard. Now, you find yourselves in a pattern of negativity, blocked communication, and disconnection. You wonder…Will my partner and I ever reconnect emotionally and/or physically? You want to feel closeness again but fear and doubt weigh heavily on your heart and mind. Couples therapy is a safe space to strengthen your communication, embrace vulnerability together, and rediscover deep connection no matter the season (dating, premarital, marital, second marriage) or constellation (traditional, open, LGTBQ, secular, religious) of your relationship.
Have you and your partner lost your spark? In the beginning, you felt seen and heard. Now, you find yourselves in a pattern of negativity, blocked communication, and disconnection. You wonder…Will my partner and I ever reconnect emotionally and/or physically? You want to feel closeness again but fear and doubt weigh heavily on your heart and mind. Couples therapy is a safe space to strengthen your communication, embrace vulnerability together, and rediscover deep connection no matter the season (dating, premarital, marital, second marriage) or constellation (traditional, open, LGTBQ, secular, religious) of your relationship.
(864) 514-4643 View (864) 514-4643
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Audrey Terkelsen
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Greenville, SC 29601  (Online Only)
The first time looking through Psychology Today profiles can be overwhelming. It can still be overwhelming even if you’ve done it many times. You may already be feeling so stuck, so low, so unmotivated and maybe even be asking yourself the question, “what’s wrong with me?”. If that’s the case, combing through these profiles with so many words can feel like a lot. There is no shame in feeling that way and you are certainly not alone. My hope for you and everyone looking for help is that you can find a space where you feel safe and connected to work on why you are struggling.
The first time looking through Psychology Today profiles can be overwhelming. It can still be overwhelming even if you’ve done it many times. You may already be feeling so stuck, so low, so unmotivated and maybe even be asking yourself the question, “what’s wrong with me?”. If that’s the case, combing through these profiles with so many words can feel like a lot. There is no shame in feeling that way and you are certainly not alone. My hope for you and everyone looking for help is that you can find a space where you feel safe and connected to work on why you are struggling.
(864) 920-3318 View (864) 920-3318
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Andrele Jean-Charles
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Greenville, SC 29607  (Online Only)
Accepting new clients! I have Immediate openings, Telehealth only. You deserve to be happy, to be confident, to be loved, to be seen and so much more! Sometimes we can believe these things for others but have trouble believing them for ourselves. As your therapist, I want to help you reach the place where you can see yourself as who you truly are - deserving of your best life. Your circumstances don't define you, your past experiences/hardships need not restrain you, and your past trauma doesn't have to control you. There is hope in your healing and I am confident your worth and value supersedes anything trying to hold you back.
Accepting new clients! I have Immediate openings, Telehealth only. You deserve to be happy, to be confident, to be loved, to be seen and so much more! Sometimes we can believe these things for others but have trouble believing them for ourselves. As your therapist, I want to help you reach the place where you can see yourself as who you truly are - deserving of your best life. Your circumstances don't define you, your past experiences/hardships need not restrain you, and your past trauma doesn't have to control you. There is hope in your healing and I am confident your worth and value supersedes anything trying to hold you back.
(864) 668-8185 View (864) 668-8185
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Chrystal Roberts
Licensed Professional Counselor, M Ed, LPC, LPCS
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Greenville, SC 29615  (Online Only)
Whatever you are going through, you don't have to do it alone. You want to heal & you want to grow, but you may not know where to start. I am here to support you & guide you. Successful therapy is a collaborative effort. You can expect me to take on the roles of supporter, encourager, analyst, challenger, & guide in our work together. We will work on healing and finding the answers you seek. You can overcome pains of the past & reach a point of self-acceptance, confidence, & wholeness. Let me help you break chains & old patterns & become empowered to have a fulfilling life that you live as your true, whole, authentic self.
Whatever you are going through, you don't have to do it alone. You want to heal & you want to grow, but you may not know where to start. I am here to support you & guide you. Successful therapy is a collaborative effort. You can expect me to take on the roles of supporter, encourager, analyst, challenger, & guide in our work together. We will work on healing and finding the answers you seek. You can overcome pains of the past & reach a point of self-acceptance, confidence, & wholeness. Let me help you break chains & old patterns & become empowered to have a fulfilling life that you live as your true, whole, authentic self.
(864) 528-4426 View (864) 528-4426
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Jennifer DeVoe
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LISW-CP, LCSW
Verified Verified
Greenville, SC 29605
Come on in. Sit on my sofa and we'll figure out, together, what's going on with you and how to make it better. We may focus on causes - or we may instead focus solely on fixing it! Whatever seems to make more sense with your particular situation. We will be partners putting together a plan so that you can leave my sofa with a sense of direction and hope. I offer a confident, objective and compassionate ear and a proven arsenal of tools including CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy). (In Indiana I am seeing clients virtually only)
Come on in. Sit on my sofa and we'll figure out, together, what's going on with you and how to make it better. We may focus on causes - or we may instead focus solely on fixing it! Whatever seems to make more sense with your particular situation. We will be partners putting together a plan so that you can leave my sofa with a sense of direction and hope. I offer a confident, objective and compassionate ear and a proven arsenal of tools including CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy). (In Indiana I am seeing clients virtually only)
(864) 528-3566 View (864) 528-3566
Photo of Jenn Stublick Jones, Licensed Professional Counselor in Greenville, SC
Jenn Stublick Jones
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, AADC
Verified Verified
Greenville, SC 29609
Life is often defined by the habits that we have fostered since childhood without even being aware of them. When the painful consequences of those patterns outweighs the pain of learning something new, we look for solutions. The wounds we’ve experienced and the scars we carry with us have shaped our life, they hold meaning. Exploring the patterns that have developed as a result strengthens us. Taking time to invest in our healing process gives us insights that prepare and equip us to successfully navigate the conflicts and opportunities that we cannot avoid in the future.
Life is often defined by the habits that we have fostered since childhood without even being aware of them. When the painful consequences of those patterns outweighs the pain of learning something new, we look for solutions. The wounds we’ve experienced and the scars we carry with us have shaped our life, they hold meaning. Exploring the patterns that have developed as a result strengthens us. Taking time to invest in our healing process gives us insights that prepare and equip us to successfully navigate the conflicts and opportunities that we cannot avoid in the future.
(864) 453-8841 View (864) 453-8841
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Rosa L Snaric New Beginnings Palmetto
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, SIT, CC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Greenville, SC 29607
Now accepting new clients! Life has challenges and road blocks sometimes help is needed to move forward on the path to happiness and inner peace. Everyone has the desire to create change I can help give you the resources to make effective changes in your life. I use a collective approach of therapeutic models to develop goals to relieve stress, anxiety, and depression. We can develop a clear comprehensive plan for your life that inspires happiness, meaningful relationships, success, and life meaning for you and your family. Call today (864)356-3184.
Now accepting new clients! Life has challenges and road blocks sometimes help is needed to move forward on the path to happiness and inner peace. Everyone has the desire to create change I can help give you the resources to make effective changes in your life. I use a collective approach of therapeutic models to develop goals to relieve stress, anxiety, and depression. We can develop a clear comprehensive plan for your life that inspires happiness, meaningful relationships, success, and life meaning for you and your family. Call today (864)356-3184.
(864) 610-1422 View (864) 610-1422
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Christine Greer O'Connor
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Greenville, SC 29605
Are you in your twenties or thirties and feeling lost in life? While the many changes that occur during young adulthood like graduation, new jobs, and dating can be exciting they can also feel completely overwhelming. If you're struggling with some of these changes, you may be experiencing a quarterlife crisis. You are not alone, and we are here to help! Our therapists and career coaches at the Quarterlife Center specialize in helping young adults survive their quarterlife crisis and thrive in their lives. We are culturally competent, BIPOC allies, and LGBTQIA affirmative. All are welcome. To learn more: www.quarterlifecenter.com.
Are you in your twenties or thirties and feeling lost in life? While the many changes that occur during young adulthood like graduation, new jobs, and dating can be exciting they can also feel completely overwhelming. If you're struggling with some of these changes, you may be experiencing a quarterlife crisis. You are not alone, and we are here to help! Our therapists and career coaches at the Quarterlife Center specialize in helping young adults survive their quarterlife crisis and thrive in their lives. We are culturally competent, BIPOC allies, and LGBTQIA affirmative. All are welcome. To learn more: www.quarterlifecenter.com.
(202) 858-0177 View (202) 858-0177
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James William Pruett
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, DMin, LMFT/S, LCMHC/S, LCPT/PC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Greenville, SC 29604
Since 1970 I have walked with many persons, couples and families who need supportive, fresh ears and eyes, a compassionate heart, wise experience and holistic perspective regarding life's challenges, transitions, burdens, growth points and life choices. I learn each one's story is unique and may offer the opportunity for new meaning and purpose. I seek to know and connect with each one I am honored and often blessed to serve at the core of who she or he is and not lose sight of that one's uniqueness midst the presenting depression, anxiety, grief, infidelity, identity clarification, trauma, worry, miscommunication and addiction.
Since 1970 I have walked with many persons, couples and families who need supportive, fresh ears and eyes, a compassionate heart, wise experience and holistic perspective regarding life's challenges, transitions, burdens, growth points and life choices. I learn each one's story is unique and may offer the opportunity for new meaning and purpose. I seek to know and connect with each one I am honored and often blessed to serve at the core of who she or he is and not lose sight of that one's uniqueness midst the presenting depression, anxiety, grief, infidelity, identity clarification, trauma, worry, miscommunication and addiction.
(980) 399-5118 View (980) 399-5118
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Nature's Way Home Counseling and Life Coaching
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LMFT, Coach
Verified Verified
Greenville, SC 29605
Are you looking for a holistic alternative to traditional counseling - one that goes beyond talk-therapy and helps you get to the root of the problem? Would you like to learn how to release stress, negative emotions and reactions, and the subconscious programs that are driving them, in a way that's easeful and practical? I specialize in a somatic (also called body-informed) approach to counseling and coaching.
Are you looking for a holistic alternative to traditional counseling - one that goes beyond talk-therapy and helps you get to the root of the problem? Would you like to learn how to release stress, negative emotions and reactions, and the subconscious programs that are driving them, in a way that's easeful and practical? I specialize in a somatic (also called body-informed) approach to counseling and coaching.
(864) 661-2008 View (864) 661-2008
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Cindy Cartee
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LAC, NBCC, CIRT, CBSPT
Verified Verified
Greenville, SC 29601  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
You may wonder how can Cindy Cartee help me? Help us? (VIDEOS AVAILABLE) www.ccarteecounseling.com. I will help you prepare (pre-marital), repair (affair recovery or reconnection due to other issues), enrich/enhance (re-romanticize) your relationships. I will help you understand why you fell in love with your partner, how to work through frustrations in your relationship, and how to reconnect and love more deeply. I work with individuals and couples dealing with a range of issues. I especially enjoy working with relationship issues. I love helping people feel more loved, whether that it is loving yourself or your partner.
You may wonder how can Cindy Cartee help me? Help us? (VIDEOS AVAILABLE) www.ccarteecounseling.com. I will help you prepare (pre-marital), repair (affair recovery or reconnection due to other issues), enrich/enhance (re-romanticize) your relationships. I will help you understand why you fell in love with your partner, how to work through frustrations in your relationship, and how to reconnect and love more deeply. I work with individuals and couples dealing with a range of issues. I especially enjoy working with relationship issues. I love helping people feel more loved, whether that it is loving yourself or your partner.
(864) 613-5126 View (864) 613-5126
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Heather Kline Schaffer
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, MEd, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
Greenville, SC 29601
Dr. Kline Schaffer has been recognized by a U.S. Congressman for her work with individuals, families, and groups coping through transitions, trauma & grief. She currently takes referrals for children, adults, couples, families, and groups; she has embraced serving others in full-time private practice since 2008. She supports clients with a holistic approach utilizing the best practices of Functional & Integrative Medicine, personalizing each treatment plan & working at the individuals pace to facilitate their best life! www.fernviewcenterforwellbeing.com
Dr. Kline Schaffer has been recognized by a U.S. Congressman for her work with individuals, families, and groups coping through transitions, trauma & grief. She currently takes referrals for children, adults, couples, families, and groups; she has embraced serving others in full-time private practice since 2008. She supports clients with a holistic approach utilizing the best practices of Functional & Integrative Medicine, personalizing each treatment plan & working at the individuals pace to facilitate their best life! www.fernviewcenterforwellbeing.com
(864) 225-0792 View (864) 225-0792
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Inner Solutions Counseling Center
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC, LCSW, PhD, LCAS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Greenville, SC 29603
Welcome to Inner Solutions! Are you seeking a compassionate and collaborative approach to mental health with experienced counselors and psychologists who value community? We are a local wellness center who has served our community since 2002 in a safe and inclusive environment, where your unique life experiences are acknowledged and respected. Our goal is to create and hold space with you to foster a sense of clarity. Our clients come to us with a desire for personal growth and tools to navigate life. We are honored to offer online virtual counseling in North Carolina and South Carolina with in person at our Wilmington, NC office.
Welcome to Inner Solutions! Are you seeking a compassionate and collaborative approach to mental health with experienced counselors and psychologists who value community? We are a local wellness center who has served our community since 2002 in a safe and inclusive environment, where your unique life experiences are acknowledged and respected. Our goal is to create and hold space with you to foster a sense of clarity. Our clients come to us with a desire for personal growth and tools to navigate life. We are honored to offer online virtual counseling in North Carolina and South Carolina with in person at our Wilmington, NC office.
(910) 387-4355 View (910) 387-4355
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Theresa Gomes
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LMFTS
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Greenville, SC 29611
Being able to help others has always been a passion of mine. My educational and professional experience has allowed me to create a broad variety of specialties. I completed my undergraduate degree in Psychology at the University of Central Florida in 2004. During my stay, I was able to work with specialty organizations that focused on equality and activism for groups such as LGBTQ+, military support, and women's rights. The following year, I was able to dive deeper into the complexities of systems theory while at Nova Southeastern University.
Being able to help others has always been a passion of mine. My educational and professional experience has allowed me to create a broad variety of specialties. I completed my undergraduate degree in Psychology at the University of Central Florida in 2004. During my stay, I was able to work with specialty organizations that focused on equality and activism for groups such as LGBTQ+, military support, and women's rights. The following year, I was able to dive deeper into the complexities of systems theory while at Nova Southeastern University.
(864) 663-2218 View (864) 663-2218

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Kate Evette Landsverk
Marriage & Family Therapist, MMFT, LMFT
Verified Verified
Greer, SC 29650
Not accepting new clients
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, providing counseling services for individuals, couples, children, and families. My goal is to help people feel more empowered to handle life's issues. Working together, we will develop a treatment plan to overcome whatever obstacle you have encountered. Whether you are dealing with depression, anxiety, family conflict, low self-esteem, or relationship issues, I would appreciate the opportunity to help. My office is accessible for clients in Greenville, Greer, Duncan, Simpsonville, & surrounding areas. View my website to get more information about my background and my practice.
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, providing counseling services for individuals, couples, children, and families. My goal is to help people feel more empowered to handle life's issues. Working together, we will develop a treatment plan to overcome whatever obstacle you have encountered. Whether you are dealing with depression, anxiety, family conflict, low self-esteem, or relationship issues, I would appreciate the opportunity to help. My office is accessible for clients in Greenville, Greer, Duncan, Simpsonville, & surrounding areas. View my website to get more information about my background and my practice.
(864) 761-0843 View (864) 761-0843

Online Therapists

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Robert S Pennello Sr.
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LCMHCS, NCC, LPC SC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Fort Mill, SC 29707  (Online Only)
Seeking out a therapist can be an intimidating venture, so I make it my priority within the first contacts to help the client feel relaxed and confident in my expertise to assist them while creating an environment of safety and trust where they can examine, experience and process their own thoughts, feelings, or anything that they deem important. As your therapist, I empathically listen while doing my best to answer any questions that may arise in therapy. This approach creates a forum where the client feels comfortable to share their struggles and helps them alleviate barriers and fosters an authentic therapeutic connection.
Seeking out a therapist can be an intimidating venture, so I make it my priority within the first contacts to help the client feel relaxed and confident in my expertise to assist them while creating an environment of safety and trust where they can examine, experience and process their own thoughts, feelings, or anything that they deem important. As your therapist, I empathically listen while doing my best to answer any questions that may arise in therapy. This approach creates a forum where the client feels comfortable to share their struggles and helps them alleviate barriers and fosters an authentic therapeutic connection.
(919) 709-0210 View (919) 709-0210

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How does Imago therapy work?

Imago relationship therapy is a form of couples counseling meant to help partners address conflict, communication problems, and related issues. Imago sessions typically involve couples sitting facing each other and participating in guided conversations. Therapy will also involve exercises such as re-imagining one’s partner as a wounded child; re-romanticizing a relationship through appreciation, surprises, and even gift-giving and restructuring frustrations by transforming complaints into requests. The ultimate goal is to re-envision the relationship as a source of safety and happiness.

What is the Imago method?

A core technique of Imago therapy is the Imago dialogue, in which partners learn to avoid hurtful statements and establish ways to interact based on each having equal space and power. In the dialogue, partners take turns as the “sender,” who shares their thoughts, and the “receiver.” The receiver is asked to “mirror,” or paraphrase, what their partner has said, without response or rebuttal, and then validate their statements, acknowledging understanding even if they do not personally agree with it. Finally, the receiver displays empathy by stating what they imagine the other is feeling, and showing appreciation for it.

How long does Imago therapy take?

As with most forms of talk therapy, there is no set duration or end point for Imago therapy. After becoming comfortable with a therapist and the core techniques of Imago coaching, some couples quickly make progress, but most should expect sessions to extend for months, encompassing at least 12 to 20 sessions, along with extensive “homework” from their therapist.

Does Imago therapy work?

There is limited empirical evidence to support the benefits of Imago therapy, but some smaller studies suggest that it does help couples, at least in the short-term. A 2017 study found that marital satisfaction increased significantly after couples completed 12 sessions of Imago therapy, and remained higher for some time after that, but did not always result in “complete recovery.” Other studies found greater empathy and fewer feelings of relationship burnout in couples after therapy. Some research suggests that Imago therapy can aid individuals as well as couples; people with ADHD in particular may benefit from the development of communication, self-control, and listening skills that form the basis of the technique.