Gottman Method Therapists in Milford, DE

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Dr. Ada L Gonzalez
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Verified Verified
Milford, DE 19963
I help my clients transform their life and relationships. As a relationship strategist who relies on proven evidence-based, cognitive-behavioral, and positive psychology techniques, I will help you use your strengths to deal with your difficulties. With over 30 years of experience, I adapt my style to your needs. If you are willing to show up, own up, and grow up, I will help you achieve your goals. As a Christian, I can also offer Christian counseling to those who prefer it. Don't wait until it's too late! Contact me today for the help you need.
I help my clients transform their life and relationships. As a relationship strategist who relies on proven evidence-based, cognitive-behavioral, and positive psychology techniques, I will help you use your strengths to deal with your difficulties. With over 30 years of experience, I adapt my style to your needs. If you are willing to show up, own up, and grow up, I will help you achieve your goals. As a Christian, I can also offer Christian counseling to those who prefer it. Don't wait until it's too late! Contact me today for the help you need.
(302) 721-6010 View (302) 721-6010
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Excel Through Action
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSS, LCSW
Verified Verified
Milford, DE 19963
Waitlist for new clients
Are you feeling stuck? Depressed? Trying to cope with anxiety or conflict in your relationships? Hi, I'm Helen Fenerty-Lange (aka, Kit) and I've been a Counselor for 41 years. I have extensive training helping individuals, couples and families overcome issues like low self-esteem, preventing divorce, parent/child conflict and the loss of a loved one. In addition to being a therapist, I am a trained life coach, assisting people to find the right job and mate. A huge majority of my clients report positive, lasting changes in their lives. Creating those changes takes a willingness to take that first step.
Are you feeling stuck? Depressed? Trying to cope with anxiety or conflict in your relationships? Hi, I'm Helen Fenerty-Lange (aka, Kit) and I've been a Counselor for 41 years. I have extensive training helping individuals, couples and families overcome issues like low self-esteem, preventing divorce, parent/child conflict and the loss of a loved one. In addition to being a therapist, I am a trained life coach, assisting people to find the right job and mate. A huge majority of my clients report positive, lasting changes in their lives. Creating those changes takes a willingness to take that first step.
(302) 727-3439 View (302) 727-3439
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Brian Neal
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Milford, DE 19963
Waitlist for new clients
Is your marriage crumbling, dealing with a difficult child, or just tired of fighting with those you love? I work with individuals, couples, and families who have experienced varying levels of stress and conflict in their life. I have been practicing therapy since 2007 and have worked in a variety of disciplines with particular focus in the areas of marital/relationship issues, parenting difficulties, and teens issues to name a few.
Is your marriage crumbling, dealing with a difficult child, or just tired of fighting with those you love? I work with individuals, couples, and families who have experienced varying levels of stress and conflict in their life. I have been practicing therapy since 2007 and have worked in a variety of disciplines with particular focus in the areas of marital/relationship issues, parenting difficulties, and teens issues to name a few.
(302) 207-7731 View (302) 207-7731

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Donell M. Winder
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, LAMFT, MAMFT
Verified Verified
Harrington, DE 19952
Your mental health is very important. Whether you are in the midst of a crisis, feeling overwhelmed, or stuck in the same pattern of hurts, habits, and hang ups - I can help. Change is possible. You don't have to go through it alone not knowing what to do. I work with individuals and also with couples. When it comes to relationships the reality is that they take work, but sometimes we don't know what work needs to be done, or how to do it in a way that strengthens the connections between each partner. That's where I come in.
Your mental health is very important. Whether you are in the midst of a crisis, feeling overwhelmed, or stuck in the same pattern of hurts, habits, and hang ups - I can help. Change is possible. You don't have to go through it alone not knowing what to do. I work with individuals and also with couples. When it comes to relationships the reality is that they take work, but sometimes we don't know what work needs to be done, or how to do it in a way that strengthens the connections between each partner. That's where I come in.
(302) 308-7115 View (302) 308-7115

Online Therapists

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Brent Wedman
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Wilmington, DE 19809
I empathize with my clients, and during our sessions, I will utilize: Intersectional-Cognitive Behavior Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy, the Gottman Method, Humanistic Therapy, Mindfulness Therapy, Person-Centered Therapy, Positive Psychology, and Trauma-Focused Therapy, as well as alternative methods that will suit my clients.
I specialize in working with individuals who: are a part of the LGBTQ+ community, are recovering from Trauma Related to Religion, have ADHD, suffer from depression, are having relationship issues, suffer from Trauma and PTSD, suffering from addiction, and experience debilitating anxiety. As someone who is also a part of the LGBTQ+ community, I can empathize with many stressors that you may have that relate to that topic. I also work with individuals who identify as straight, as well. If you are looking for someone to join you on your journey of healing and growing, don't be scared to take that first step; I am only one call away.
I empathize with my clients, and during our sessions, I will utilize: Intersectional-Cognitive Behavior Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy, the Gottman Method, Humanistic Therapy, Mindfulness Therapy, Person-Centered Therapy, Positive Psychology, and Trauma-Focused Therapy, as well as alternative methods that will suit my clients.
I specialize in working with individuals who: are a part of the LGBTQ+ community, are recovering from Trauma Related to Religion, have ADHD, suffer from depression, are having relationship issues, suffer from Trauma and PTSD, suffering from addiction, and experience debilitating anxiety. As someone who is also a part of the LGBTQ+ community, I can empathize with many stressors that you may have that relate to that topic. I also work with individuals who identify as straight, as well. If you are looking for someone to join you on your journey of healing and growing, don't be scared to take that first step; I am only one call away.
(302) 231-0369 View (302) 231-0369
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Michele Tassoni Shane
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA
Verified Verified
Claymont, DE 19703
Human connection is important to me, and I believe that strengthening our support system often begins with our families, those we are born with and those we choose. ​ I work with adolescents as well as adults, and through a person-centered approach, I strive to help empower clients to tap into their full potential. My clinical experience is with young people who have experienced trauma, and those with developmental challenges. Through my work as a grief counselor for children, I have a strong background in play therapy techniques. I also offer couples counseling, where I use the Gottman method to strengthen the relationship.
Human connection is important to me, and I believe that strengthening our support system often begins with our families, those we are born with and those we choose. ​ I work with adolescents as well as adults, and through a person-centered approach, I strive to help empower clients to tap into their full potential. My clinical experience is with young people who have experienced trauma, and those with developmental challenges. Through my work as a grief counselor for children, I have a strong background in play therapy techniques. I also offer couples counseling, where I use the Gottman method to strengthen the relationship.
(302) 232-6661 View (302) 232-6661
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Kenneth Brick
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Wilmington, DE 19806
Licensed Clinical Social Worker with more than 25 years of experience. Fully certified in The Gottman Method (for couples) and a second level "AEDP" therapist (Applied Experiential Psychodynamic Psychotherapy - utilize a variety of emerging approaches to both couples work and individualized mental health treatment. Expertise in the modernized application of bio-physiology and its application to human well being. Use a collaborative integration of traditional psychodynamic principles, more modern - cognitive focused psychologies, emotionally oriented frameworks biology/neurology.
Licensed Clinical Social Worker with more than 25 years of experience. Fully certified in The Gottman Method (for couples) and a second level "AEDP" therapist (Applied Experiential Psychodynamic Psychotherapy - utilize a variety of emerging approaches to both couples work and individualized mental health treatment. Expertise in the modernized application of bio-physiology and its application to human well being. Use a collaborative integration of traditional psychodynamic principles, more modern - cognitive focused psychologies, emotionally oriented frameworks biology/neurology.
(302) 504-6343 View (302) 504-6343
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Christina Zampitella
Psychologist, PsyD, FT
Verified Verified
Newark, DE 19711
All of us experience times in our lives when a little help is needed. Perhaps now, it is a period of time in your life that is emotionally difficult, a death or loss you are grieving, struggles with depression or anxiety, problematic relationships, or just want to work on personal growth. Perhaps you need a sympathetic, nonjudgmental ear with someone whom you can trust. I hope you can find that person in me.
All of us experience times in our lives when a little help is needed. Perhaps now, it is a period of time in your life that is emotionally difficult, a death or loss you are grieving, struggles with depression or anxiety, problematic relationships, or just want to work on personal growth. Perhaps you need a sympathetic, nonjudgmental ear with someone whom you can trust. I hope you can find that person in me.
(858) 451-4601 View (858) 451-4601
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Jessica O'Hara
Marriage & Family Therapist Intern, MS, LAMFT
Verified Verified
Bear, DE 19701  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Let's craft a life where you meet your goals and thrive in fulfilling relationships. Do you feel overwhelmed by managing your family or personal relationships? Do you feel neck-deep in anxiety? Do you feel heard? Accepted? Relationships can be challenging and complicated, but you don't have to navigate it alone.
Let's craft a life where you meet your goals and thrive in fulfilling relationships. Do you feel overwhelmed by managing your family or personal relationships? Do you feel neck-deep in anxiety? Do you feel heard? Accepted? Relationships can be challenging and complicated, but you don't have to navigate it alone.
(302) 404-2625 View (302) 404-2625
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Abigail M Carroll
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCMH
Verified Verified
Bridgeville, DE 19933
I specialize in individuals struggling with anxiety, depression, and trauma therapy; focusing on therapy with children 8 and up, therapy with teens, and women’s therapy. I have experience in many areas of therapy including trauma therapy, couples counseling, ADHD, anxiety concerns, depression challenges along with or without suicidal ideations, and the LGBTQ community concerns. My approach to treating my clients is a unique blend of cognitive behavioral therapy, trauma-focused cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavioral therapy, solution-focused therapy, and person-centered therapy depending on the need of the client.
I specialize in individuals struggling with anxiety, depression, and trauma therapy; focusing on therapy with children 8 and up, therapy with teens, and women’s therapy. I have experience in many areas of therapy including trauma therapy, couples counseling, ADHD, anxiety concerns, depression challenges along with or without suicidal ideations, and the LGBTQ community concerns. My approach to treating my clients is a unique blend of cognitive behavioral therapy, trauma-focused cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavioral therapy, solution-focused therapy, and person-centered therapy depending on the need of the client.
(302) 307-9148 View (302) 307-9148
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Christine L Rassa
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, LPC-S, PCMH
Verified Verified
Lewes, DE 19958
I practice in VA and DE. Supportive reflection with compassionate listening and understanding are the hallmarks of my practice as I work collaboratively to achieve my client's treatment goals. Attending therapy is a time not only to address immediate concerns but to understand how past experiences impact present behaviors and responses. I enjoy working with young adults, adults, and couples to enhance their relationship with themselves and others. In therapy we will build a therapeutic relationship based on trust and respect. As a clinical supervisor for resident in counseling, I encourage residents to practice with these values.
I practice in VA and DE. Supportive reflection with compassionate listening and understanding are the hallmarks of my practice as I work collaboratively to achieve my client's treatment goals. Attending therapy is a time not only to address immediate concerns but to understand how past experiences impact present behaviors and responses. I enjoy working with young adults, adults, and couples to enhance their relationship with themselves and others. In therapy we will build a therapeutic relationship based on trust and respect. As a clinical supervisor for resident in counseling, I encourage residents to practice with these values.
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Lesley Paige Sagalow
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
Newark, DE 19716  (Online Only)
At times, life can be painful, heartbreaking, and completely devastating. As we go through life, we are constantly exposed to reality gaps—the gaps between the reality we have and the reality we want. The larger the gap, often, the more unsettling the pain. I meet people where they are and help them work to meet their personal goals and values. I’m skilled at creating an environment in which individuals feel heard, understood, and affirmed, but also challenged. I have extensive experience working with adults and adolescents experiencing chronic depression, anxiety, attachment issues, and interpersonal relationship conflict.
At times, life can be painful, heartbreaking, and completely devastating. As we go through life, we are constantly exposed to reality gaps—the gaps between the reality we have and the reality we want. The larger the gap, often, the more unsettling the pain. I meet people where they are and help them work to meet their personal goals and values. I’m skilled at creating an environment in which individuals feel heard, understood, and affirmed, but also challenged. I have extensive experience working with adults and adolescents experiencing chronic depression, anxiety, attachment issues, and interpersonal relationship conflict.
(484) 430-3384 View (484) 430-3384
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Deborah Pelberg
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Wilmington, DE 19807  (Online Only)
Are you struggling with a feeling of disconnection from your usual self? Are you constantly overwhelmed, anxious or worried? Feeling angry, alone or isolated? Feeling connected and understood can be difficult when you feel so alone in what you are experiencing. I am committed to helping individuals struggling with emotional challenges of pregnancy, postpartum, infertility and parenthood find their way towards feeling better and restoring their connection with themselves and others who are important to them.
Are you struggling with a feeling of disconnection from your usual self? Are you constantly overwhelmed, anxious or worried? Feeling angry, alone or isolated? Feeling connected and understood can be difficult when you feel so alone in what you are experiencing. I am committed to helping individuals struggling with emotional challenges of pregnancy, postpartum, infertility and parenthood find their way towards feeling better and restoring their connection with themselves and others who are important to them.
(215) 791-8918 View (215) 791-8918
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The Center for Grief and Trauma Therapy
Psychologist
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Wilmington, DE 19808
By exploring your options for compassionate mental health care, you are one step closer on your path towards healing. That takes courage, and can help you on your journey! We specialize in working with those who are struggling with all kinds of losses, but ALSO those with other mental health and relationship difficulties. We experience a sense of loss when someone or something, very dear to us, has been taken from our lives. In spite of what you may have learned, there is no one right way to feel, or to grieve! We experience different types of losses throughout our lives - and we know that every person's grief is unique
By exploring your options for compassionate mental health care, you are one step closer on your path towards healing. That takes courage, and can help you on your journey! We specialize in working with those who are struggling with all kinds of losses, but ALSO those with other mental health and relationship difficulties. We experience a sense of loss when someone or something, very dear to us, has been taken from our lives. In spite of what you may have learned, there is no one right way to feel, or to grieve! We experience different types of losses throughout our lives - and we know that every person's grief is unique
(302) 455-2310 View (302) 455-2310
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Insights Counseling
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCMH, CSTIP, TCT
Verified Verified
Wilmington, DE 19806  (Online Only)
Life is hard! We all struggle at some point along the way. The good news is that with support and the right tools we can make it through difficult times so that we can experience the joy that living also brings. Healing and personal growth begin with insights. Our goal at Insights Counseling is to help you gain personal insights that will help you make meaningful changes in your life and relationships. Our deepest desire is for you to LOVE you; after that, it's a piece of cake.
Life is hard! We all struggle at some point along the way. The good news is that with support and the right tools we can make it through difficult times so that we can experience the joy that living also brings. Healing and personal growth begin with insights. Our goal at Insights Counseling is to help you gain personal insights that will help you make meaningful changes in your life and relationships. Our deepest desire is for you to LOVE you; after that, it's a piece of cake.
(302) 205-1401 View (302) 205-1401
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Dr. Deangie Davis
PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Newark, DE 19713  (Online Only)
You deserve to be heard and seen fully. Whether you’re going through a transitional period, craving support while caring for others, or seeking less stress and a more harmonious, balanced life—I’m here to listen, and hold the space you need. You’ve always been the person others turn to for support. Now, it’s time to rediscover your own voice and redefine your own priorities. I’ll be here to help you find the courage to commit to both. You deserve a therapist who earns your trust and works hard to understand you. I believe that therapy should have long-term impact—helping you create meaningful, lasting change in your life.
You deserve to be heard and seen fully. Whether you’re going through a transitional period, craving support while caring for others, or seeking less stress and a more harmonious, balanced life—I’m here to listen, and hold the space you need. You’ve always been the person others turn to for support. Now, it’s time to rediscover your own voice and redefine your own priorities. I’ll be here to help you find the courage to commit to both. You deserve a therapist who earns your trust and works hard to understand you. I believe that therapy should have long-term impact—helping you create meaningful, lasting change in your life.
(267) 214-2136 View (267) 214-2136
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Maggie Jones
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Wilmington, DE 19810
Both personally and professionally, I am a strong believer in the healing power of relationships. However, sometimes even our most important relationships falter, causing pain, confusion and turmoil. If you currently find yourself struggling with a relationship-related issue (spouse, romantic partner, parent/sibling, friend, boss/co-worker) I am here to listen and to help you achieve greater clarity and confidence moving forward. At the individual level, I also offer support for more personal concerns, including anxiety and depression, as well as difficult life circumstances such as processing a recent loss, divorce or past trauma.
Both personally and professionally, I am a strong believer in the healing power of relationships. However, sometimes even our most important relationships falter, causing pain, confusion and turmoil. If you currently find yourself struggling with a relationship-related issue (spouse, romantic partner, parent/sibling, friend, boss/co-worker) I am here to listen and to help you achieve greater clarity and confidence moving forward. At the individual level, I also offer support for more personal concerns, including anxiety and depression, as well as difficult life circumstances such as processing a recent loss, divorce or past trauma.
(302) 318-8528 View (302) 318-8528
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Sunni Days Counseling
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCMH, LMHC, CFMHE, certifi, CCCE
Verified Verified
Milton, DE 19968
I specialize in solution focused therapy.My goal is to assist clients in changing unhealthy patterns and thoughts to overcome challenges in their lives. . I work with children, families, couples and individuals.
I specialize in solution focused therapy.My goal is to assist clients in changing unhealthy patterns and thoughts to overcome challenges in their lives. . I work with children, families, couples and individuals.
(302) 497-0253 View (302) 497-0253
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Gregory M Wilson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MDiv, MSS, LCSW
Verified Verified
Middletown, DE 19709
What are you looking for and what are you struggling to find? Sometimes that search centers around finding the right tools for a given situation. Other times, the search might be to uncover who we are or who we are becoming. Whatever the case is, something has brought you to this place, at this moment. I’m curious to hear more about where you are right now.
What are you looking for and what are you struggling to find? Sometimes that search centers around finding the right tools for a given situation. Other times, the search might be to uncover who we are or who we are becoming. Whatever the case is, something has brought you to this place, at this moment. I’m curious to hear more about where you are right now.
(302) 200-5457 View (302) 200-5457
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Beech Tree Counseling
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LCSW-C
Verified Verified
Wilmington, DE 19808
Waitlist for new clients
You may be here because you are struggling with feeling like your mental health concerns are controlling your life. Or that your grief from losing a loved one or many loved ones has become too much to bear. Maybe you and your partner have reached a level of conflict that is too painful for both of you. My goal is to listen with an open heart and mind and to be your guide as you move through the healing process. I believe that each person has the capacity to heal themselves, and with a therapist walking alongside you, that healing can be both powerful and long-lasting.
You may be here because you are struggling with feeling like your mental health concerns are controlling your life. Or that your grief from losing a loved one or many loved ones has become too much to bear. Maybe you and your partner have reached a level of conflict that is too painful for both of you. My goal is to listen with an open heart and mind and to be your guide as you move through the healing process. I believe that each person has the capacity to heal themselves, and with a therapist walking alongside you, that healing can be both powerful and long-lasting.
(302) 549-4028 View (302) 549-4028

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How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.