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Anjé McLish
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, KIC, CNM
Verified Verified
Lancaster, PA 17603  (Online Only)
Relationships, sex, and intimacy can be hard to talk about, and you don’t have to do this on your own! I value collaboration, participation, and engagement, and my hope is that therapy can support you in finding increased capacity for connection, choice, and clarity.
Are you experiencing uncertainty in your relationships? Find yourself dating the same kinds of people? If you’re having difficulties in your interpersonal relationships, I’ll be right there with you providing empathy, clarity, and some humor to help with the changes you want to make. I work with individuals wanting to better their relationship with themselves, and couples (monogamous and non-monogamous) wanting to cultivate genuine connection, joy, and pleasure.
Relationships, sex, and intimacy can be hard to talk about, and you don’t have to do this on your own! I value collaboration, participation, and engagement, and my hope is that therapy can support you in finding increased capacity for connection, choice, and clarity.
Are you experiencing uncertainty in your relationships? Find yourself dating the same kinds of people? If you’re having difficulties in your interpersonal relationships, I’ll be right there with you providing empathy, clarity, and some humor to help with the changes you want to make. I work with individuals wanting to better their relationship with themselves, and couples (monogamous and non-monogamous) wanting to cultivate genuine connection, joy, and pleasure.
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Dr. Claudia E. Smith
Counselor, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lancaster, PA 17602  (Online Only)
Do you have questions/concerns related to sexuality- sexual pleasure, satisfaction, desire, or are you experiencing a sexual dysfunction. These are all sensitive and intimate topics and definitely not easy to talk about without possibly feeling some shame or embarrassment. Have these concerns been impacting the quality of your relationship ? Are you feeling stuck with no clue how to move forward? Embark on a journey of discovery and transformation with me. I will guide you towards sexual empowerment and well-being. Together we will break down the barriers, embrace the power of your sexuality, and celebrate your growth!
Do you have questions/concerns related to sexuality- sexual pleasure, satisfaction, desire, or are you experiencing a sexual dysfunction. These are all sensitive and intimate topics and definitely not easy to talk about without possibly feeling some shame or embarrassment. Have these concerns been impacting the quality of your relationship ? Are you feeling stuck with no clue how to move forward? Embark on a journey of discovery and transformation with me. I will guide you towards sexual empowerment and well-being. Together we will break down the barriers, embrace the power of your sexuality, and celebrate your growth!
(570) 263-5667 View (570) 263-5667
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John Gordon Smith
Pastoral Counselor, DMin, PhD, CSC
Verified Verified
Lancaster, PA 17602  (Online Only)
Are you seeking help to navigate your grief journey, recover from shame, practice forgiveness, address aging concerns, strengthen your relationship, or resolve sexual desire, arousal, or orgasmic issues? By sourcing help for any of these concerns, you have taken a bold step on your path to achieving the change you seek. By choosing me to help you achieve this change, you have found a caring, compassionate, competent, and committed counselor who will work with you to achieve the change you desire and deserve.
Are you seeking help to navigate your grief journey, recover from shame, practice forgiveness, address aging concerns, strengthen your relationship, or resolve sexual desire, arousal, or orgasmic issues? By sourcing help for any of these concerns, you have taken a bold step on your path to achieving the change you seek. By choosing me to help you achieve this change, you have found a caring, compassionate, competent, and committed counselor who will work with you to achieve the change you desire and deserve.
(717) 937-1866 View (717) 937-1866
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Dr. Dawnielle D. Simmons
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD
Verified Verified
Lancaster, PA 17603  (Online Only)
The human experience is complex and layered. It is often taken for granted and underestimated. In our profession, it is a privilege to have access to such complexities; a privilege to witness the moment when despair transforms into hope and futility no longer exists. Humans are vast and exploration is limitless. As a psychologist, I would be remiss by engaging my work without intentionality, humility, and culturally appropriate care. As someone with marginalized identities, I find value in reflecting in the moment with clients. I use a multicultural counseling model to address the unique needs of clients of color and LGBTQ+ folks.
The human experience is complex and layered. It is often taken for granted and underestimated. In our profession, it is a privilege to have access to such complexities; a privilege to witness the moment when despair transforms into hope and futility no longer exists. Humans are vast and exploration is limitless. As a psychologist, I would be remiss by engaging my work without intentionality, humility, and culturally appropriate care. As someone with marginalized identities, I find value in reflecting in the moment with clients. I use a multicultural counseling model to address the unique needs of clients of color and LGBTQ+ folks.
(717) 229-0124 View (717) 229-0124
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Shadena L Natty
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, MA, MS, CAADC, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lancaster, PA 17601
Life today creates many challenges and obstacles, but also opportunities to grow. Counseling can be a vital part to gaining and maintaining a healthy and well-balanced life. I view therapy as a way to heal through telling your story in a non-judgmental and safe setting. Therapy will give you the tools which will allow you to live your best life. Are you ready to start your counseling journey?
Life today creates many challenges and obstacles, but also opportunities to grow. Counseling can be a vital part to gaining and maintaining a healthy and well-balanced life. I view therapy as a way to heal through telling your story in a non-judgmental and safe setting. Therapy will give you the tools which will allow you to live your best life. Are you ready to start your counseling journey?
(717) 696-1294 View (717) 696-1294
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Dr. Cathy Coleman
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, DMFT, CLC
Verified Verified
Lancaster, PA 17601
I am passionate about serving individuals, couples, and families who are working through various problems in life. My goal is to help you navigate the challenges of life and transition.
I am passionate about serving individuals, couples, and families who are working through various problems in life. My goal is to help you navigate the challenges of life and transition.
(717) 347-0858 View (717) 347-0858
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Nicholas Pappas
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Elizabethtown, PA 17022
Each client's psychological and spiritual needs are a focus addressing relational issues, behavioral issues, and mood-driven difficulties with consideration of individually-specified treatment goals. Overarching treatment outcome is healing and restoration and rehabilitation for clients to become healthy, happy and productive individuals.
Each client's psychological and spiritual needs are a focus addressing relational issues, behavioral issues, and mood-driven difficulties with consideration of individually-specified treatment goals. Overarching treatment outcome is healing and restoration and rehabilitation for clients to become healthy, happy and productive individuals.
(717) 470-8697 View (717) 470-8697

Online Therapists

Photo of Akilah J. Pierre, Marriage & Family Therapist in Lancaster County, PA
Akilah J. Pierre
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MEd
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Philadelphia, PA 19102  (Online Only)
My experience as a systemically trained marriage and family therapist with a concentration in sex therapy enhances my work with couples who are ready to regain their intimacy.
You love your partner dearly, but your relationship is not how you want it to be. You smile and suppress your feelings, or you're constantly vocalizing your dissatisfaction, but it doesn't change the current state of your relationship. You know deep down this is not sustainable for you. The lack of intimacy in your relationship stresses you out. You're constantly thinking of ways to improve your relationship, but your efforts seem to go unnoticed. You worry your partner's lack of effort and appreciation will confirm the fear you've been avoiding, "I don't feel seen by my partner, and I'm scared they don't care about me."
My experience as a systemically trained marriage and family therapist with a concentration in sex therapy enhances my work with couples who are ready to regain their intimacy.
You love your partner dearly, but your relationship is not how you want it to be. You smile and suppress your feelings, or you're constantly vocalizing your dissatisfaction, but it doesn't change the current state of your relationship. You know deep down this is not sustainable for you. The lack of intimacy in your relationship stresses you out. You're constantly thinking of ways to improve your relationship, but your efforts seem to go unnoticed. You worry your partner's lack of effort and appreciation will confirm the fear you've been avoiding, "I don't feel seen by my partner, and I'm scared they don't care about me."
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Photo of Jordon Campbell, Licensed Professional Counselor in Lancaster County, PA
Jordon Campbell
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
Philadelphia, PA 19132  (Online Only)
I have experience in working with depression, anxiety, trauma, racial identity, relationship issues, life transitions, family planning, crisis management, sex therapy, teens/adolescents, chronic illness, intimacy.
My passion is to work with individuals, couples and families from diverse backgrounds that are having a difficult time communicating their feelings and needs. I work closely with my clients to help them discover their innate coping skills while introducing a variety of others.Those that struggle in their relationships; whether it be with work, friends or a loved one, will gain support in creating and setting appropriate boundaries. I provide a space to work through trauma (sexual, racial, familial and work). I also provide clinical supervision for therapists seeking to expand and grow their mental health career
I have experience in working with depression, anxiety, trauma, racial identity, relationship issues, life transitions, family planning, crisis management, sex therapy, teens/adolescents, chronic illness, intimacy.
My passion is to work with individuals, couples and families from diverse backgrounds that are having a difficult time communicating their feelings and needs. I work closely with my clients to help them discover their innate coping skills while introducing a variety of others.Those that struggle in their relationships; whether it be with work, friends or a loved one, will gain support in creating and setting appropriate boundaries. I provide a space to work through trauma (sexual, racial, familial and work). I also provide clinical supervision for therapists seeking to expand and grow their mental health career
(215) 486-8220 View (215) 486-8220
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Dr. Kelly Wallace
Pre-Licensed Professional, DCFT, MA-CMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Philadelphia, PA 19107  (Online Only)
Feeling anxious, depressed or confused? Burnout from work? Still feeling the impact of the Covid-19 Pandemic? Getting engaged or married? Struggling with intimacy? Do you need help with challenges related to gender, gender identity, sexuality, or sexual orientation? Are you nervous about asking friends, family or other important relationship about these things? If you answered yes to any of these questions, then you are ready to take the next step so let's talk about how to help!
Feeling anxious, depressed or confused? Burnout from work? Still feeling the impact of the Covid-19 Pandemic? Getting engaged or married? Struggling with intimacy? Do you need help with challenges related to gender, gender identity, sexuality, or sexual orientation? Are you nervous about asking friends, family or other important relationship about these things? If you answered yes to any of these questions, then you are ready to take the next step so let's talk about how to help!
(267) 435-3294 View (267) 435-3294
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Dozier Counseling Firm LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Exton, PA 19341  (Online Only)
My name is Christian Dozier, and I offer individual, couples, couples and individual sex therapy, family therapy and adolescent/college age therapy. I take a collaborative holistic approach. With your consent, I will work with your care team (psychiatrist, primary care physician, individual therapist if attending as a couple), to provide collaborative care. As and African American Female Therapist, I offer unique perspectives for you to tackle situations in a different way. I help you learn coping skills to reach your therapy goals. Remember, change happens when change occurs.
My name is Christian Dozier, and I offer individual, couples, couples and individual sex therapy, family therapy and adolescent/college age therapy. I take a collaborative holistic approach. With your consent, I will work with your care team (psychiatrist, primary care physician, individual therapist if attending as a couple), to provide collaborative care. As and African American Female Therapist, I offer unique perspectives for you to tackle situations in a different way. I help you learn coping skills to reach your therapy goals. Remember, change happens when change occurs.
(484) 296-0757 View (484) 296-0757
Photo of Jasmine Richardson, Licensed Professional Counselor in Lancaster County, PA
Jasmine Richardson
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, MEd, LPC
Verified Verified
Elkins Park, PA 19027  (Online Only)
I have specialty training in sex and relationship therapy and more specific concerns: sexual shame, impulsive/compulsive sexual behavior, unhealthy sexual behavior and skills that promote healthy sexual pleasure.
If you’re seeking a safe and supportive environment where you can open-up and be your authentic self, look no further. I use a variety of therapy techniques such as Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT), Solution Focused and Motivational interviewing to help clients explore their concerns in life. With my unique clinical experience, I empower clients to find the internal strength they need to create personal change and develop a healthier sense of self. My professional training and experience qualify me to work with general mental health concerns such as: anxiety, depression, self-esteem and other emotional challenges.
I have specialty training in sex and relationship therapy and more specific concerns: sexual shame, impulsive/compulsive sexual behavior, unhealthy sexual behavior and skills that promote healthy sexual pleasure.
If you’re seeking a safe and supportive environment where you can open-up and be your authentic self, look no further. I use a variety of therapy techniques such as Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT), Solution Focused and Motivational interviewing to help clients explore their concerns in life. With my unique clinical experience, I empower clients to find the internal strength they need to create personal change and develop a healthier sense of self. My professional training and experience qualify me to work with general mental health concerns such as: anxiety, depression, self-esteem and other emotional challenges.
(267) 209-6604 View (267) 209-6604
Photo of L'Oréal Porçeia McCollum, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Lancaster County, PA
L'Oréal Porçeia McCollum
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LSW, MSW, MEd
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Philadelphia, PA 19102  (Online Only)
Some people move through life feeling disconnected, overwhelmed, or “out of body.” In my role, I hold space for them to process personal and/or intergenerational trauma so they can heal, connect with others, and live more freely. The people who resonate with my approach the most are soul searchers, creatives, and anyone looking to buck societal expectations. They might be exploring their sexuality, relationship with substances, or pieces of their identity they’ve been repressing. I also work with clients integrating experiences from meditation, breath work, psychedelic journeys, and other non-ordinary states of consciousness.
Some people move through life feeling disconnected, overwhelmed, or “out of body.” In my role, I hold space for them to process personal and/or intergenerational trauma so they can heal, connect with others, and live more freely. The people who resonate with my approach the most are soul searchers, creatives, and anyone looking to buck societal expectations. They might be exploring their sexuality, relationship with substances, or pieces of their identity they’ve been repressing. I also work with clients integrating experiences from meditation, breath work, psychedelic journeys, and other non-ordinary states of consciousness.
(267) 337-6541 View (267) 337-6541
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Everlasting Wellness LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Reading, PA 19608
At Everlasting Wellness LLC, we understand that finding a therapist you feel comfortable with and trust is extremely important. We offer a safe and trusting space and work at your comfort level. Everlasting Wellness specializes in Pregnancy, Postpartum and Maternal Issues, Trauma, Sex Therapy, Sexuality, D&A, Acute and Chronic Medical Diagnosis and Women's Issues as well as Young/Older Adults and College Students. We come with an array of experiences, professionally and personally. We offer groups, individual, couples, and family counseling. We offer in-person sessions in our Sinking Spring and/or Royersford location.
At Everlasting Wellness LLC, we understand that finding a therapist you feel comfortable with and trust is extremely important. We offer a safe and trusting space and work at your comfort level. Everlasting Wellness specializes in Pregnancy, Postpartum and Maternal Issues, Trauma, Sex Therapy, Sexuality, D&A, Acute and Chronic Medical Diagnosis and Women's Issues as well as Young/Older Adults and College Students. We come with an array of experiences, professionally and personally. We offer groups, individual, couples, and family counseling. We offer in-person sessions in our Sinking Spring and/or Royersford location.
(484) 706-9465 View (484) 706-9465
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Melvin Thomas Tillman
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, MA
Verified Verified
Philadelphia, PA 19130  (Online Only)
Five years later, I completed my doctoral program in Human Sexuality Studies.
My ideal client is anyone who is ready to make the necessary change in their life. The client does not need to know exactly what the issue is; simply knowing that something is wrong is enough. Due to my expertise, I am confident and competent working with life transitions, anxiety, sexual dysfunction, communication, and much, much more. Regardless of the issue, what matters most is the client's desire for change.
Five years later, I completed my doctoral program in Human Sexuality Studies.
My ideal client is anyone who is ready to make the necessary change in their life. The client does not need to know exactly what the issue is; simply knowing that something is wrong is enough. Due to my expertise, I am confident and competent working with life transitions, anxiety, sexual dysfunction, communication, and much, much more. Regardless of the issue, what matters most is the client's desire for change.
(610) 753-4600 View (610) 753-4600
Photo of James Wadley, Licensed Professional Counselor in Lancaster County, PA
James Wadley
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPC, NCC, CSTS, IMHF
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Philadelphia, PA 19123
As a couples and sexuality therapist as well as an addictions specialist (e.
Do you have trust issues in your relationship? Are you afraid to be honest with your partner or tired of trying to be someone you're not? Neither you or your partner are really talking about your hurt or resentments over pornography and infidelity. You've tried over and over again and the current situation isn't working for you and/or your relationship. Contact me and we will talk about how you feel about your challenges and together come up with a behavioral and emotional strategy for you to move forward! By the end of our FIRST session, you will be given therapeutic goals that you and I will work on.
As a couples and sexuality therapist as well as an addictions specialist (e.
Do you have trust issues in your relationship? Are you afraid to be honest with your partner or tired of trying to be someone you're not? Neither you or your partner are really talking about your hurt or resentments over pornography and infidelity. You've tried over and over again and the current situation isn't working for you and/or your relationship. Contact me and we will talk about how you feel about your challenges and together come up with a behavioral and emotional strategy for you to move forward! By the end of our FIRST session, you will be given therapeutic goals that you and I will work on.
(267) 888-4202 View (267) 888-4202
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Kathryn Lauren Beccaria
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT, CCTP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Phoenixville, PA 19460  (Online Only)
I am happy to work with clients of ALL ages and their families with interpersonal conflict, coparenting struggles, multicultural sensitivities, depression, anxiety, sex and sexuality concerns, divorce/separation, blended families, custody conflicts, ADHD, and Autism.
I am a graduate of Temple University, and Chestnut Hill College with over ten years of professional experience. I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist as well as a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional. I am a mother, step mother, wife, and working professional. My counseling style is honest, nonjudgmental, and accepting. I pride myself on my relationships with my clients and try to avoid too much jargon so sessions may feel organic not robotic. You can expect me to use my sense of humor in sessions and encourage you to do the same if it helps.
I am happy to work with clients of ALL ages and their families with interpersonal conflict, coparenting struggles, multicultural sensitivities, depression, anxiety, sex and sexuality concerns, divorce/separation, blended families, custody conflicts, ADHD, and Autism.
I am a graduate of Temple University, and Chestnut Hill College with over ten years of professional experience. I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist as well as a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional. I am a mother, step mother, wife, and working professional. My counseling style is honest, nonjudgmental, and accepting. I pride myself on my relationships with my clients and try to avoid too much jargon so sessions may feel organic not robotic. You can expect me to use my sense of humor in sessions and encourage you to do the same if it helps.
(484) 218-2443 View (484) 218-2443
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Jasmine Gibson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Philadelphia, PA 19146  (Online Only)
My specialties include but are not limited to working with people in transition (“adolescence or middle age”), LBGTQIA+ affirming therapy, neurodiversity, kink awareness, sex positivity and BIPOC.
Are you feeling lost? Hopeless? Adrift? Often, we rely on tricks and tools that have assisted in the past to deal with new problems. This becomes a problem when these tricks and tools no longer work. We can work together to answers your questions and concerns. All you need to bring with you to session is a desire to change. Curiosity about yourself and the world around you can be one of your greatest superpowers.
My specialties include but are not limited to working with people in transition (“adolescence or middle age”), LBGTQIA+ affirming therapy, neurodiversity, kink awareness, sex positivity and BIPOC.
Are you feeling lost? Hopeless? Adrift? Often, we rely on tricks and tools that have assisted in the past to deal with new problems. This becomes a problem when these tricks and tools no longer work. We can work together to answers your questions and concerns. All you need to bring with you to session is a desire to change. Curiosity about yourself and the world around you can be one of your greatest superpowers.
(267) 489-1363 View (267) 489-1363
Photo of Kaitlin DiGiacinto, Marriage & Family Therapist in Lancaster County, PA
Kaitlin DiGiacinto
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CST
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Philadelphia, PA 19103  (Online Only)
I am an Individual, Relational, and Sex Therapist.
Welcome! Congratulations on taking the first step on this adventure. I know finding the right therapist can be hard and a grueling process. For many clients this is the first time they have asked for help. I am passionate about creating a space for clients that is safe, freeing & nonjudgmental. I hope to do this through my multicultural background, interest in the client's perspective and the therapeutic relationship built. I operate from a systems & contextual framework where I believe clients are stuck, not sick. I work with clients to create goals and plans that are collaborative and empowering.
I am an Individual, Relational, and Sex Therapist.
Welcome! Congratulations on taking the first step on this adventure. I know finding the right therapist can be hard and a grueling process. For many clients this is the first time they have asked for help. I am passionate about creating a space for clients that is safe, freeing & nonjudgmental. I hope to do this through my multicultural background, interest in the client's perspective and the therapeutic relationship built. I operate from a systems & contextual framework where I believe clients are stuck, not sick. I work with clients to create goals and plans that are collaborative and empowering.
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Photo of Jeanae M. Hopgood, Marriage & Family Therapist in Lancaster County, PA
Jeanae M. Hopgood
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MEd, PMH-C, CAGCS
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Plymouth Meeting, PA 19462  (Online Only)
Sex positive, kink-aware, sex and disabilities, sexual health & wellness for all ages, sex workers, polyamory & non-monogamy, body awareness & body-positivity, black feminist perspective, intersectionality, perinatal loss.
Are you having difficulty in your interpersonal relationships? Struggling to communicate concerns about identity, sexual orientation, gender identity or any intersection of these areas? Are you & your partner(s) in need of support around improved communication? Are you having fertility challenges & need help sorting through options & feelings? Have you experienced perinatal loss? If you are challenged by life's transitions and are looking for help processing & planning, contact me. I am a couple & family therapist specializing in sexuality, relational patterns, perinatal mental health, and grief & loss .
Sex positive, kink-aware, sex and disabilities, sexual health & wellness for all ages, sex workers, polyamory & non-monogamy, body awareness & body-positivity, black feminist perspective, intersectionality, perinatal loss.
Are you having difficulty in your interpersonal relationships? Struggling to communicate concerns about identity, sexual orientation, gender identity or any intersection of these areas? Are you & your partner(s) in need of support around improved communication? Are you having fertility challenges & need help sorting through options & feelings? Have you experienced perinatal loss? If you are challenged by life's transitions and are looking for help processing & planning, contact me. I am a couple & family therapist specializing in sexuality, relational patterns, perinatal mental health, and grief & loss .
(484) 334-2961 View (484) 334-2961

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Sex Therapy

Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.