Imago Therapists in Suffolk County, NY
Jill Rothar
Counselor, MEd, LMHC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Islip, NY 11751
I individually tailor all treatments and use relationship-based theories including Attachment, Imago and Emotionally Focused.
Are you sick and tired of fighting with your spouse or your child? Do you hate the chaos your home seems to always be in? Living with conflict or communication difficulties with family members is exhausting. I can help. You don't have to feel hopeless anymore. As both a behavior specialist and relationship expert, I can help you (or your loved one) to find a better way. I provide evidence-based support to families impacted by a child's conduct problems. I also specialize in helping couples in all stages find their way back to peace and connection.
I individually tailor all treatments and use relationship-based theories including Attachment, Imago and Emotionally Focused.
Are you sick and tired of fighting with your spouse or your child? Do you hate the chaos your home seems to always be in? Living with conflict or communication difficulties with family members is exhausting. I can help. You don't have to feel hopeless anymore. As both a behavior specialist and relationship expert, I can help you (or your loved one) to find a better way. I provide evidence-based support to families impacted by a child's conduct problems. I also specialize in helping couples in all stages find their way back to peace and connection.
Robin Newman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Huntington, NY 11743
Waitlist for new clients
One of my specialties is my clinical training in Imago Relationship Couples and Individual Therapy.
I work with individuals, couples and families. I have been very successful guiding people through anxiety, depression, self-esteem issues, couples conflict, family dynamic challenges. I work with people who are journeying through their recovery, helping them to examine their triggers. The key is always in the patient who has the courage to be open to finding out who they truly are. I consider myself blessed and privileged to work in this field and to be invited into the lives of others in order to assist them in having a better life.
One of my specialties is my clinical training in Imago Relationship Couples and Individual Therapy.
I work with individuals, couples and families. I have been very successful guiding people through anxiety, depression, self-esteem issues, couples conflict, family dynamic challenges. I work with people who are journeying through their recovery, helping them to examine their triggers. The key is always in the patient who has the courage to be open to finding out who they truly are. I consider myself blessed and privileged to work in this field and to be invited into the lives of others in order to assist them in having a better life.
Jill Abramson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CASAC, CSAT
Verified Verified
Westhampton Beach, NY 11978 (Online Only)
Certified Imago Relationship Therapy, Encounter Centered Couples Therapy, EMDR Certified , Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Attachment Based Therapy, Addiction Specialist; CASAC since 1991.
With over 25 years of experience, my specialty areas include couples therapy, infidelity, partners of sex addicts, substance abuse and recovery, sex addiction, individual therapy for anxiety, depression, EMDR trauma resolution DWI assessments, loss, bereavement and life coaching through difficult situations. I am extensively trained in a number of relationship therapy modalities and trauma resolution with the ability to use a wide range of therapy interventions to help you.
Certified Imago Relationship Therapy, Encounter Centered Couples Therapy, EMDR Certified , Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Attachment Based Therapy, Addiction Specialist; CASAC since 1991.
With over 25 years of experience, my specialty areas include couples therapy, infidelity, partners of sex addicts, substance abuse and recovery, sex addiction, individual therapy for anxiety, depression, EMDR trauma resolution DWI assessments, loss, bereavement and life coaching through difficult situations. I am extensively trained in a number of relationship therapy modalities and trauma resolution with the ability to use a wide range of therapy interventions to help you.
Wendy Walker Cleary
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
Sag Harbor, NY 11963
In my journey as an Imago-trained couples therapist, I work to help partners develop a deeper understanding and connection with each other.
With over two decades of dedicated practice in clinical social work, I bring a depth of understanding and compassion to my work with adults and couples. My areas of expertise include guiding individuals through the complexities of depression, anxiety, and relationship challenges. As a therapist trained in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), I journey with clients through the shadows of past traumas to the light of healing. Throughout this process, we gently unravel and reweave the tapestries of their lives, transforming pain into resilience.
In my journey as an Imago-trained couples therapist, I work to help partners develop a deeper understanding and connection with each other.
With over two decades of dedicated practice in clinical social work, I bring a depth of understanding and compassion to my work with adults and couples. My areas of expertise include guiding individuals through the complexities of depression, anxiety, and relationship challenges. As a therapist trained in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), I journey with clients through the shadows of past traumas to the light of healing. Throughout this process, we gently unravel and reweave the tapestries of their lives, transforming pain into resilience.
Bonnie D Haley
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, CHT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Miller Place, NY 11764 (Online Only)
Our practice specializes in therapy and counseling for individuals, couples, and families, in traditional and nontraditional situations. Our practice places an emphasis on personal growth, inner development, and personal relationships.
Our practice specializes in therapy and counseling for individuals, couples, and families, in traditional and nontraditional situations. Our practice places an emphasis on personal growth, inner development, and personal relationships.
Whitney Steller
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA
Not Verified Not Verified
1 Endorsed
Huntington, NY 11743
You may be feeling stuck right now. Stuck in an unfulfilling relationship, stuck in an anxious emotional state, or stuck having the same arguments with your family members over and over again. I work collaboratively with my clients to identify maladaptive patterns so they can break the cycle of what hasn’t been working. I create a supportive environment so my clients can figure out what DOES work in order to build and maintain strong relationships with loved ones.
You may be feeling stuck right now. Stuck in an unfulfilling relationship, stuck in an anxious emotional state, or stuck having the same arguments with your family members over and over again. I work collaboratively with my clients to identify maladaptive patterns so they can break the cycle of what hasn’t been working. I create a supportive environment so my clients can figure out what DOES work in order to build and maintain strong relationships with loved ones.
Mary D Gnieser
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Huntington, NY 11743
It is a courageous act, reaching out to a stranger for help. This courage that brought you to this webpage is real and will take you to the next step of healing. Whether you are looking for answers for yourself or for someone you love, you are making the right decision by reaching out. Through a unique blend of Psychotherapy, Integrative Hypnotherapy, Bazi Analysis, Qi Gong, Mindfulness, I help move my clients to a better understanding of themselves, their relationships and the world in which they live, love and play. Thank you for stopping by today and I hope I hear from you soon!
It is a courageous act, reaching out to a stranger for help. This courage that brought you to this webpage is real and will take you to the next step of healing. Whether you are looking for answers for yourself or for someone you love, you are making the right decision by reaching out. Through a unique blend of Psychotherapy, Integrative Hypnotherapy, Bazi Analysis, Qi Gong, Mindfulness, I help move my clients to a better understanding of themselves, their relationships and the world in which they live, love and play. Thank you for stopping by today and I hope I hear from you soon!
Prof. Demi Kostouros
Counselor, LMHC, RBT, Lcoach, Couples, ADHD
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Stony Brook, NY 11790
Struggling in your relationship? Whether you're dealing with the aftermath of infidelity, facing communication, trust and intimacy issues, feeling like your partner doesn't understand you, or dealing with a divorce, we' re here! What sets us apart is our structured approach. We'll start with weekly sessions, then transition to biweekly, and eventually monthly meetings. Plus, after your "graduation", we'll have two check-ins per year to ensure those healthy habits stick. In between sessions, we'll assign tasks to work on your relationship, and you'll have access to us outside of appointments for advice and support.
Struggling in your relationship? Whether you're dealing with the aftermath of infidelity, facing communication, trust and intimacy issues, feeling like your partner doesn't understand you, or dealing with a divorce, we' re here! What sets us apart is our structured approach. We'll start with weekly sessions, then transition to biweekly, and eventually monthly meetings. Plus, after your "graduation", we'll have two check-ins per year to ensure those healthy habits stick. In between sessions, we'll assign tasks to work on your relationship, and you'll have access to us outside of appointments for advice and support.
Lisa Wolf
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Bridgehampton, NY 11932
I hold a Master of Science from Columbia University and Bachelor of Arts from the University of California, Berkeley. My experience includes intensive work with anxiety, depression, trauma, addiction, couples therapy and bereavement. I've worked on-staff as a psychotherapist at Stony Brook Hospital, The Dunes East Hampton and Quannacut Addiction Rehab Eastern Long Island, and in private practice for well over a decade. I offer in-person appointments, online sessions as well as concierge care. My column, "Thoughts from a Therapist" appears in the East Hampton Press, Southampton Press, Sag Harbor Express and online at 27east.
I hold a Master of Science from Columbia University and Bachelor of Arts from the University of California, Berkeley. My experience includes intensive work with anxiety, depression, trauma, addiction, couples therapy and bereavement. I've worked on-staff as a psychotherapist at Stony Brook Hospital, The Dunes East Hampton and Quannacut Addiction Rehab Eastern Long Island, and in private practice for well over a decade. I offer in-person appointments, online sessions as well as concierge care. My column, "Thoughts from a Therapist" appears in the East Hampton Press, Southampton Press, Sag Harbor Express and online at 27east.
Antonietta Bruccoleri
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, CTRS
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Smithtown, NY 11787
I provide psychotherapy for individuals, couples and adolescents. Clients describe me as being compassionate and non judgmental which helps to create a safe space to explore even the most difficult topics. I use several different modalities including mindfulness, positive psychology, and transpersonal theory. I believe in a mind body and spirit connection. Therapy is about supporting you in getting beneath the layers of habit, addiction, stress and obsessive thinking and help you recognize the essential self within rather than relying only on the mind, which is often the source of negativity.
I provide psychotherapy for individuals, couples and adolescents. Clients describe me as being compassionate and non judgmental which helps to create a safe space to explore even the most difficult topics. I use several different modalities including mindfulness, positive psychology, and transpersonal theory. I believe in a mind body and spirit connection. Therapy is about supporting you in getting beneath the layers of habit, addiction, stress and obsessive thinking and help you recognize the essential self within rather than relying only on the mind, which is often the source of negativity.
Kristina Scaglione
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
9 Endorsed
Port Jefferson, NY 11777
Taking the first step to a healthier you does not have to be accomplished alone. I can assist you in your goals and motivation towards a better quality of life. I am clinical supervisor and am Certified in DBT, Certified in EFT, Specializing in LGBTQIA+ issues/parenting/relationships, spirituality/intuition, mindfulness skills for stress management. I do NOT accept insurance. I also work out of a second location with an amazing clinical group practice: Positive Energy Counseling Center/Institute. Lets take the first step in positive changes for your life together. I am a LGBTQIA+ and Poly Affirming therapist. Insurance NOT accepted.
Taking the first step to a healthier you does not have to be accomplished alone. I can assist you in your goals and motivation towards a better quality of life. I am clinical supervisor and am Certified in DBT, Certified in EFT, Specializing in LGBTQIA+ issues/parenting/relationships, spirituality/intuition, mindfulness skills for stress management. I do NOT accept insurance. I also work out of a second location with an amazing clinical group practice: Positive Energy Counseling Center/Institute. Lets take the first step in positive changes for your life together. I am a LGBTQIA+ and Poly Affirming therapist. Insurance NOT accepted.
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Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
East Northport, NY 11731
I understand that choosing a therapist may be one of the most important decisions you can make. As a caring and effective clinician, I will help you work through your problems in a warm, non-judgmental and supportive environment, where you can comfortably explore feelings and concerns in an open and honest manner. Most importantly, I help my clients heal, change and make a difference in their lives. I am also committed to providing a safe space for BIPOC and LGBTQi clients.
I understand that choosing a therapist may be one of the most important decisions you can make. As a caring and effective clinician, I will help you work through your problems in a warm, non-judgmental and supportive environment, where you can comfortably explore feelings and concerns in an open and honest manner. Most importantly, I help my clients heal, change and make a difference in their lives. I am also committed to providing a safe space for BIPOC and LGBTQi clients.
Juliana Genovese
PhD
Verified Verified
Huntington Station, NY 11746
Each person carries a unique narrative shaped by their life experiences, and my approach to psychotherapy reflects this diversity. I believe that every individual has the capacity for growth and resilience, no matter how daunting the past. I work with individuals with a wide-variety of mental health issues including daily stress, adjustment, depression, anxiety, and trauma. I also have experience in health psychology, where individuals present with co-morbid mood and physical health symptoms.
Each person carries a unique narrative shaped by their life experiences, and my approach to psychotherapy reflects this diversity. I believe that every individual has the capacity for growth and resilience, no matter how daunting the past. I work with individuals with a wide-variety of mental health issues including daily stress, adjustment, depression, anxiety, and trauma. I also have experience in health psychology, where individuals present with co-morbid mood and physical health symptoms.
Svetlana Mesa, LMFT, CST
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CST
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Stony Brook, NY 11790
What if you could get more guidance and support while going through a tough time? What if you could have better relationships with others? What if you could improve your communication? What if you could become more confident and self-aware? What if you could finally talk about sex and have your needs met? I know it's not easy to ask for help and I understand what it is to feel frustrated or alone. Together we can figure out why you might be feeling lonely or stuck and find solutions.
What if you could get more guidance and support while going through a tough time? What if you could have better relationships with others? What if you could improve your communication? What if you could become more confident and self-aware? What if you could finally talk about sex and have your needs met? I know it's not easy to ask for help and I understand what it is to feel frustrated or alone. Together we can figure out why you might be feeling lonely or stuck and find solutions.
Transformations Counseling Group
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Hauppauge, NY 11788
Transformations Counseling Group's goal is to create a safe environment for you to talk about and deal with the issues that have stopped you from living the life you want. We pride ourselves on being non-judgmental and interactive therapists. We believe that you will be best helped by our ability to offer you insights and honest feedback. There are so many obstacles to leading a healthy and satisfying life and our experiences in working with hundreds of individuals and couples can help you reach the goals that you desire for yourself and in your relationships.
Transformations Counseling Group's goal is to create a safe environment for you to talk about and deal with the issues that have stopped you from living the life you want. We pride ourselves on being non-judgmental and interactive therapists. We believe that you will be best helped by our ability to offer you insights and honest feedback. There are so many obstacles to leading a healthy and satisfying life and our experiences in working with hundreds of individuals and couples can help you reach the goals that you desire for yourself and in your relationships.
Colleen G. Gilligan
Licensed Master Social Work, LMSW
Verified Verified
Port Jefferson, NY 11777
Waitlist for new clients
The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are. -Carl Yung It is hard when you're told by other people you have so much in life to happy about, but you can't really feel it for yourself. Laying in bed often wondering, "Could I do more?", "Am I enough?", and "Why does it seem like I am missing something?". Asking yourself about these kinds of things are actually brave and courageous thoughts! Many times we feel alone or are afraid to share what we think and feel because no-one wants to be judged or ridiculed. To trust someone with our inner most thoughts and feelings, must be respected and protected.
The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are. -Carl Yung It is hard when you're told by other people you have so much in life to happy about, but you can't really feel it for yourself. Laying in bed often wondering, "Could I do more?", "Am I enough?", and "Why does it seem like I am missing something?". Asking yourself about these kinds of things are actually brave and courageous thoughts! Many times we feel alone or are afraid to share what we think and feel because no-one wants to be judged or ridiculed. To trust someone with our inner most thoughts and feelings, must be respected and protected.
Eileen Mangino
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, CASAC
Verified Verified
Riverhead, NY 11901
Waitlist for new clients
I provide psychotherapy to adults using a collaborative approach in which we work together to help you heal and grow. First, I will assist you to help me understand your strengths, experiences, relationships, challenges, and goals. Then, in the context of a mutually respectful relationship, we can discuss how barriers may have developed and how we can resolve these so you can live the live you want and deserve. I integrate therapeutic interventions to meet your unique needs, including psychodynamic, EMDR, cognitive, behavioral, mindfulness, motivational, DBT skills, relapse prevention, and other approaches.
I provide psychotherapy to adults using a collaborative approach in which we work together to help you heal and grow. First, I will assist you to help me understand your strengths, experiences, relationships, challenges, and goals. Then, in the context of a mutually respectful relationship, we can discuss how barriers may have developed and how we can resolve these so you can live the live you want and deserve. I integrate therapeutic interventions to meet your unique needs, including psychodynamic, EMDR, cognitive, behavioral, mindfulness, motivational, DBT skills, relapse prevention, and other approaches.
Laura Van Schaick-Harman
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Patchogue, NY 11772 (Online Only)
I work with children, adolescents, and adults. I love helping people set and reach short and long term goals, experience happiness, and effectively manage and accept negative emotions. I really enjoy helping people to identify, accept, and overcome anxiety. While we all experience anxiety during our lives, it is important to learn the difference between real and imagined dangers, to be able to approach new experiences even if we are scared, and to live a life free from the damaging and smothering aspects of anxiety related disorders.
I work with children, adolescents, and adults. I love helping people set and reach short and long term goals, experience happiness, and effectively manage and accept negative emotions. I really enjoy helping people to identify, accept, and overcome anxiety. While we all experience anxiety during our lives, it is important to learn the difference between real and imagined dangers, to be able to approach new experiences even if we are scared, and to live a life free from the damaging and smothering aspects of anxiety related disorders.
Patrick Howard
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
South Setauket, NY 11720 (Online Only)
Congratulations! You’ve taken the first step to reclaiming yourself and/or your relationships. Sometimes, the first step is the hardest, and you did it! One of the main goals of therapy that I hold in the highest regard is creating a safe and non-judgmental space for you. I aim to help my clients figure out what their next step is. Whether this is as an individual, a couple, or a family. Sometimes in life, we get stuck. Let’s work together to help figure out how to get you unstuck.
Congratulations! You’ve taken the first step to reclaiming yourself and/or your relationships. Sometimes, the first step is the hardest, and you did it! One of the main goals of therapy that I hold in the highest regard is creating a safe and non-judgmental space for you. I aim to help my clients figure out what their next step is. Whether this is as an individual, a couple, or a family. Sometimes in life, we get stuck. Let’s work together to help figure out how to get you unstuck.
Aniik Libby
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CASAC, NBCCH, EFT, Marriag
Verified Verified
Sag Harbor, NY 11963
Wouldn’t you like better communication tools and improved connection in your primary relationship? Have you lost “That Loving Feeling” ? Or perhaps you are recently single or post-divorce and ready to begin dating again but don’t know where to begin? Have you been trying to find the right partner and continue to meet the wrong people or fall into the same old type of relationship that just doesn’t work? Are you ready to let me help? If you answered yes to any of the above, get in touch, I would love to get you started on the path to feeling good again! Aniik
Wouldn’t you like better communication tools and improved connection in your primary relationship? Have you lost “That Loving Feeling” ? Or perhaps you are recently single or post-divorce and ready to begin dating again but don’t know where to begin? Have you been trying to find the right partner and continue to meet the wrong people or fall into the same old type of relationship that just doesn’t work? Are you ready to let me help? If you answered yes to any of the above, get in touch, I would love to get you started on the path to feeling good again! Aniik
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Imago Therapists
How does Imago therapy work?
Imago relationship therapy is a form of couples counseling meant to help partners address conflict, communication problems, and related issues. Imago sessions typically involve couples sitting facing each other and participating in guided conversations. Therapy will also involve exercises such as re-imagining one’s partner as a wounded child; re-romanticizing a relationship through appreciation, surprises, and even gift-giving and restructuring frustrations by transforming complaints into requests. The ultimate goal is to re-envision the relationship as a source of safety and happiness.
What is the Imago method?
A core technique of Imago therapy is the Imago dialogue, in which partners learn to avoid hurtful statements and establish ways to interact based on each having equal space and power. In the dialogue, partners take turns as the “sender,” who shares their thoughts, and the “receiver.” The receiver is asked to “mirror,” or paraphrase, what their partner has said, without response or rebuttal, and then validate their statements, acknowledging understanding even if they do not personally agree with it. Finally, the receiver displays empathy by stating what they imagine the other is feeling, and showing appreciation for it.
How long does Imago therapy take?
As with most forms of talk therapy, there is no set duration or end point for Imago therapy. After becoming comfortable with a therapist and the core techniques of Imago coaching, some couples quickly make progress, but most should expect sessions to extend for months, encompassing at least 12 to 20 sessions, along with extensive “homework” from their therapist.
Does Imago therapy work?
There is limited empirical evidence to support the benefits of Imago therapy, but some smaller studies suggest that it does help couples, at least in the short-term. A 2017 study found that marital satisfaction increased significantly after couples completed 12 sessions of Imago therapy, and remained higher for some time after that, but did not always result in “complete recovery.” Other studies found greater empathy and fewer feelings of relationship burnout in couples after therapy. Some research suggests that Imago therapy can aid individuals as well as couples; people with ADHD in particular may benefit from the development of communication, self-control, and listening skills that form the basis of the technique.