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Center for Sexual & Reproductive Health Psycholo
Psychologist, PhD, ABPP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Reston, VA 20190  (Online Only)
When sex is happening "enough" in a marriage it only accounts for 15% of marital happiness but when it's absent or conflicted it accounts for 75% of marital distress.
Wondering about the COVID-19 pandemic? You are not alone. For the duration of this public health crisis, DrSara will be offering SecureVideo appointments exclusively. Please visit my website at www.DrSara.com and click on Request and Appointment. All locations are closed but SecureVideo appointments are available. Choose your time and the secure platform will send instructions. SecureVideo uses the Zoom platform and is easy to use and confidential. DrSara holds an e-passport from ASBPP PsyPact and can treat anyone in AZ, CO, DE, GA, IL, MO, NE, NH, NV, OK, PA, TX, or UT as well as NC, VA, and DC.
When sex is happening "enough" in a marriage it only accounts for 15% of marital happiness but when it's absent or conflicted it accounts for 75% of marital distress.
Wondering about the COVID-19 pandemic? You are not alone. For the duration of this public health crisis, DrSara will be offering SecureVideo appointments exclusively. Please visit my website at www.DrSara.com and click on Request and Appointment. All locations are closed but SecureVideo appointments are available. Choose your time and the secure platform will send instructions. SecureVideo uses the Zoom platform and is easy to use and confidential. DrSara holds an e-passport from ASBPP PsyPact and can treat anyone in AZ, CO, DE, GA, IL, MO, NE, NH, NV, OK, PA, TX, or UT as well as NC, VA, and DC.
(540) 802-4989 View (540) 802-4989
Photo of Scarlet Lovejoy, Resident in Counseling in Virginia
Scarlet Lovejoy
Resident in Counseling, MA, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Reston, VA 20191
Waitlist for new clients
My clinical areas of focus include sex, kink/BDSM, polyamory/ENM, LGBTQIA+, and trauma (including domestic and sexual violence, C-PTSD, and dissociative disorders).
I provide services to individuals who are looking to explore the vulnerable parts of themselves using a person-centered, humanistic, and trauma-informed approach. I believe in meeting a client wherever they are in the healing process and promoting healing and growth in every aspect of the client’s life.
My clinical areas of focus include sex, kink/BDSM, polyamory/ENM, LGBTQIA+, and trauma (including domestic and sexual violence, C-PTSD, and dissociative disorders).
I provide services to individuals who are looking to explore the vulnerable parts of themselves using a person-centered, humanistic, and trauma-informed approach. I believe in meeting a client wherever they are in the healing process and promoting healing and growth in every aspect of the client’s life.
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Photo of Lisa G Gordon, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Virginia
Lisa G Gordon
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST, CSCT
Verified Verified
I have helped hundreds of individuals and couples who struggle with communication, resentment, life changes/transitions, illness, infidelity, and sex.
It's not easy to reach out for help, I am impressed by your courage! I've no doubt that by now, you've already tried numerous times and ways to make the changes in your life you long for. I have over 30 years' experience helping individual adults and couples succeed in getting past their familiar "stuck points," and experience a new sense of motivation, joy, and connection. Whether you feel overwhelmed with anxiety, weighed down with sadness or grief, or have asked yourself "Is this as good as it gets?" about your relationship, marriage, or sex life, I can help bring new vision, energy, hope, and movement to your life!
I have helped hundreds of individuals and couples who struggle with communication, resentment, life changes/transitions, illness, infidelity, and sex.
It's not easy to reach out for help, I am impressed by your courage! I've no doubt that by now, you've already tried numerous times and ways to make the changes in your life you long for. I have over 30 years' experience helping individual adults and couples succeed in getting past their familiar "stuck points," and experience a new sense of motivation, joy, and connection. Whether you feel overwhelmed with anxiety, weighed down with sadness or grief, or have asked yourself "Is this as good as it gets?" about your relationship, marriage, or sex life, I can help bring new vision, energy, hope, and movement to your life!
(571) 248-7861 View (571) 248-7861
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Norma J Caruso
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Richmond, VA 23226  (Online Only)
I am a licensed clinical psychologist and certified sex therapist who brings and in-depth understanding of human behavior, couple dynamics and sexual functioning to my work. With over 30 years of experience in mental health, I offer insight and warmth to the individuals and couples that I treat. I first established my private practice in 1995 to treat general psychological, emotional, and relationship issues in a safe and relaxed environment.
I am a licensed clinical psychologist and certified sex therapist who brings and in-depth understanding of human behavior, couple dynamics and sexual functioning to my work. With over 30 years of experience in mental health, I offer insight and warmth to the individuals and couples that I treat. I first established my private practice in 1995 to treat general psychological, emotional, and relationship issues in a safe and relaxed environment.
(804) 453-0026 View (804) 453-0026
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Laila Cooper
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Fairfax, VA 22030
My work is focused on sex and gender issues (including transgender issues), sexual orientation, kink/BDSM, and interpersonal relationships (including couples, polyamory, family dyads).
Congratulations on making it this far; searching for a therapist can be an overwhelming process! Many individuals struggle with depression, anxiety, struggles with sex and relationships, or simply the desire to understand themselves more thoroughly. Whether to improve mood and functioning, improve relationships, or work on issues with sex/sexuality, therapy can be reparative, strengthening, and play a role in maximizing enjoyment of life! I work from an affirming and social justice approach with the LGBTQIA community and people of color, and I am kink- and non-monogamy informed and affirming.
My work is focused on sex and gender issues (including transgender issues), sexual orientation, kink/BDSM, and interpersonal relationships (including couples, polyamory, family dyads).
Congratulations on making it this far; searching for a therapist can be an overwhelming process! Many individuals struggle with depression, anxiety, struggles with sex and relationships, or simply the desire to understand themselves more thoroughly. Whether to improve mood and functioning, improve relationships, or work on issues with sex/sexuality, therapy can be reparative, strengthening, and play a role in maximizing enjoyment of life! I work from an affirming and social justice approach with the LGBTQIA community and people of color, and I am kink- and non-monogamy informed and affirming.
(703) 291-1498 View (703) 291-1498
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Heather Doute
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, CSOTP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Manassas, VA 20110  (Online Only)
I am a Certified Sex Offender Treatment Provider who has a successful history of working with men, women, and adolescents who struggle with sexual urges and inappropriate and high risk sexual behaviors.
I want to welcome and thank you for reviewing my ad. I am a pre-licensed Therapist who works with those that suffer from anxiety, behavioral issues, sexual abuse, stress, and relationship dysfunction utilizing a Cognitive Behavioral Approprach. My goal is to join with my clients to discuss current stressors, work toward processsing their emotions, and assist in determining solutions together. Whether you choose to focus on your current issues or issues from your past, together, we can work through those issues and develop appropriate coping skills which will lead to manageable behaviors.
I am a Certified Sex Offender Treatment Provider who has a successful history of working with men, women, and adolescents who struggle with sexual urges and inappropriate and high risk sexual behaviors.
I want to welcome and thank you for reviewing my ad. I am a pre-licensed Therapist who works with those that suffer from anxiety, behavioral issues, sexual abuse, stress, and relationship dysfunction utilizing a Cognitive Behavioral Approprach. My goal is to join with my clients to discuss current stressors, work toward processsing their emotions, and assist in determining solutions together. Whether you choose to focus on your current issues or issues from your past, together, we can work through those issues and develop appropriate coping skills which will lead to manageable behaviors.
(571) 506-6514 View (571) 506-6514
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Sexual Health Consultants
MD
Verified Verified
Falls Church, VA 22046
The providers at Sexual Health Consultants provide sexuality education and counseling to individuals and couples who struggle with their sexual experience and compatibility. Exclusively through talk therapy, we work with our clients to improve sexual communication and intimacy, recapture lost sensuality, and to truly appreciate one's own and/or one's partner's sexuality. We also specialize in recovering and redefining sexuality after life changing events, such as trauma, cancer, childbirth, and we are available to address any other issues related to sensuality and sexuality. Everyone deserves to enjoy the health benefits of a happy sexuality.
The providers at Sexual Health Consultants provide sexuality education and counseling to individuals and couples who struggle with their sexual experience and compatibility. Exclusively through talk therapy, we work with our clients to improve sexual communication and intimacy, recapture lost sensuality, and to truly appreciate one's own and/or one's partner's sexuality. We also specialize in recovering and redefining sexuality after life changing events, such as trauma, cancer, childbirth, and we are available to address any other issues related to sensuality and sexuality. Everyone deserves to enjoy the health benefits of a happy sexuality.
(571) 350-3221 View (571) 350-3221
Photo of Lee Phillips, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Virginia
Lee Phillips
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, EdD, LICSW, LCSW-C, LCSW, CST
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
McLean, VA 22101  (Online Only)
I am a Certified Sex Therapist by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT).
Do you struggle with feeling disconnected from yourself and others? Do you put your needs at the bottom of the to-do list? Do you wonder if life should feel somehow better? Happier? No more than ever, people feel anxious, overwhelmed, and uncertain about managing their relationships, careers, and lives. Pushing away your needs and not taking time for yourself can lead to long-term issues for your mind and body. I believe it shouldn't be so hard to live a better life. I am dedicated to helping my clients achieve the goals they wish to accomplish. My clients describe me as warm and honest. Please contact me to discuss fees.
I am a Certified Sex Therapist by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT).
Do you struggle with feeling disconnected from yourself and others? Do you put your needs at the bottom of the to-do list? Do you wonder if life should feel somehow better? Happier? No more than ever, people feel anxious, overwhelmed, and uncertain about managing their relationships, careers, and lives. Pushing away your needs and not taking time for yourself can lead to long-term issues for your mind and body. I believe it shouldn't be so hard to live a better life. I am dedicated to helping my clients achieve the goals they wish to accomplish. My clients describe me as warm and honest. Please contact me to discuss fees.
(757) 582-3233 View (757) 582-3233
Photo of Jade E Friedman, Resident in Counseling in Virginia
Jade E Friedman
Resident in Counseling
Verified Verified
Woodbridge, VA 22192  (Online Only)
I also provide individual treatment for court mandated Sex Offender Treatment, individuals suffering from addiction, or inmate partner violence.
My goal is to help my clients to create more meaningful and enjoyable lives for themselves by helping them uncover/realize the potential they have to solve their own problems. Together we will talk, evaluate, and process these issues to enable a better understanding of YOU. I put an emphasis on having a safe place to process desires and disappointments while allowing you to learn new ways to approach current challenges. This is achieved by utilizing proven counseling techniques, such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. Your concerns and experiences are unique to you and together we will set achievable goals.
I also provide individual treatment for court mandated Sex Offender Treatment, individuals suffering from addiction, or inmate partner violence.
My goal is to help my clients to create more meaningful and enjoyable lives for themselves by helping them uncover/realize the potential they have to solve their own problems. Together we will talk, evaluate, and process these issues to enable a better understanding of YOU. I put an emphasis on having a safe place to process desires and disappointments while allowing you to learn new ways to approach current challenges. This is achieved by utilizing proven counseling techniques, such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. Your concerns and experiences are unique to you and together we will set achievable goals.
(571) 200-8741 View (571) 200-8741
Photo of Lida Far - Relationship Therapist, Licensed Professional Counselor in Virginia
Lida Far - Relationship Therapist
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
McLean, VA 22101  (Online Only)
My specialty lies in empowering adults who feel stuck in their personal and relational growth, as well as working with couples. I am dedicated to guiding individuals and couples through challenges in their relationships and life transitions, while also providing support and empowerment to high-achieving individuals seeking personal and professional fulfillment. Additionally, I specialize in sex therapy, offering a safe and non-judgmental space to address intimacy and sexual health concerns within relationships. I am also committed to neurodiversity-affirming care, ensuring that all clients receive understanding and tailored support.
My specialty lies in empowering adults who feel stuck in their personal and relational growth, as well as working with couples. I am dedicated to guiding individuals and couples through challenges in their relationships and life transitions, while also providing support and empowerment to high-achieving individuals seeking personal and professional fulfillment. Additionally, I specialize in sex therapy, offering a safe and non-judgmental space to address intimacy and sexual health concerns within relationships. I am also committed to neurodiversity-affirming care, ensuring that all clients receive understanding and tailored support.
(571) 517-1399 View (571) 517-1399
Photo of Brian John Rink, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Virginia
Brian John Rink
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Arlington, VA 22207
With over 20+ years working in the mental health field, Brian Rink has his Master's degree in Clinical Social Work from Fordham University and advanced training in Emotionally Focused and the Gottman Method for couples therapy and Sex Therapy. With a person-centered, attachment-lens approach aimed at reframing hurtful narratives, exploring the mind/body connection, and improving communication and relational skills, Brian wants his clients to feel empowered to create and maintain strong support systems and positive internal self-narratives. He specializes in the LGBTQ+ community.
With over 20+ years working in the mental health field, Brian Rink has his Master's degree in Clinical Social Work from Fordham University and advanced training in Emotionally Focused and the Gottman Method for couples therapy and Sex Therapy. With a person-centered, attachment-lens approach aimed at reframing hurtful narratives, exploring the mind/body connection, and improving communication and relational skills, Brian wants his clients to feel empowered to create and maintain strong support systems and positive internal self-narratives. He specializes in the LGBTQ+ community.
(703) 935-4987 View (703) 935-4987
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Frank Roberts
Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Verified Verified
Fairfax, VA 22031
As a psychotherapist, Frank Roberts has a deeply rooted commitment to help his clients expand the boundaries of their possibilities. He is especially skilled in helping people overcome the difficulties which block their growth, health and happiness, whether they emerge in marriage, sex, career, parenting, friendship, or self esteem. For his many years of experience, Mr. Roberts has developed specialized skills which connect people with their inner resources – their dreams, urges, courage and intelligence.
As a psychotherapist, Frank Roberts has a deeply rooted commitment to help his clients expand the boundaries of their possibilities. He is especially skilled in helping people overcome the difficulties which block their growth, health and happiness, whether they emerge in marriage, sex, career, parenting, friendship, or self esteem. For his many years of experience, Mr. Roberts has developed specialized skills which connect people with their inner resources – their dreams, urges, courage and intelligence.
(703) 547-8992 View (703) 547-8992
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Joardan Thornton
Supervisee in Clinical Social Work, MSW
Verified Verified
Alexandria, VA 22314  (Online Only)
I am a Supervisee in Social Work, practicing under Tierra Hereford, LCSW. I believe in creating a calm and inviting space to help navigate you through your process of healing. My goal is to build rapport through compassion, empathy, and care throughout this therapeutic process. Therapy is a collaborative effort; with the tools I provide, we can facilitate a space that not only encourages growth but also motivates you for long-term change. Some issues that I work primarily with are concerns around sex and couples.
I am a Supervisee in Social Work, practicing under Tierra Hereford, LCSW. I believe in creating a calm and inviting space to help navigate you through your process of healing. My goal is to build rapport through compassion, empathy, and care throughout this therapeutic process. Therapy is a collaborative effort; with the tools I provide, we can facilitate a space that not only encourages growth but also motivates you for long-term change. Some issues that I work primarily with are concerns around sex and couples.
(757) 210-7262 View (757) 210-7262
Photo of Asha Gray, Licensed Professional Counselor in Virginia
Asha Gray
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Alexandria, VA 22314
I have years of experience providing sex therapy to individual's and couples seeking sexual & gender identity growth.
Have you felt out of sync, unable to communicate clearly, frustrated and wanting to try something different but unhappy with what you've tried? I enjoy helping folks learn new ways of communicating, finding new perspectives to barriers and working through individual or relationship struggles to have their needs and wants met. If you are having difficulty making it through your everyday, dealing with the stresses of life, or managing anxiety, depression or ADHD; I can help. I will help you learn new coping skills using your own personal strengths to assist you with enhancing your quality of life while building self-compassion.
I have years of experience providing sex therapy to individual's and couples seeking sexual & gender identity growth.
Have you felt out of sync, unable to communicate clearly, frustrated and wanting to try something different but unhappy with what you've tried? I enjoy helping folks learn new ways of communicating, finding new perspectives to barriers and working through individual or relationship struggles to have their needs and wants met. If you are having difficulty making it through your everyday, dealing with the stresses of life, or managing anxiety, depression or ADHD; I can help. I will help you learn new coping skills using your own personal strengths to assist you with enhancing your quality of life while building self-compassion.
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Photo of Dessie M Canelakes, Licensed Professional Counselor in Virginia
Dessie M Canelakes
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, EdS, LPC
Verified Verified
Harrisonburg, VA 22801  (Online Only)
* June 2016 I began the training and supervision process to work towards my sex therapy certification.
There are times in life we need someone to help us navigate through our unsteady waters. I believe in the importance of mind, body, and soul health. The way we tell our life story, how we interact in our relationships, how we process/react to our feelings, and the meaning we give it all can have a huge impact on how we feel in our own skin. I want to help you create positive lasting changes within yourself and your relationships that will ultimately improve how you perceive your life.
* June 2016 I began the training and supervision process to work towards my sex therapy certification.
There are times in life we need someone to help us navigate through our unsteady waters. I believe in the importance of mind, body, and soul health. The way we tell our life story, how we interact in our relationships, how we process/react to our feelings, and the meaning we give it all can have a huge impact on how we feel in our own skin. I want to help you create positive lasting changes within yourself and your relationships that will ultimately improve how you perceive your life.
(540) 217-4268 View (540) 217-4268
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Dr. Ashley Sweet, Certified Sex Therapist
Counselor, PhD, LPC, LMHC, CST, CCHt
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Richmond, VA 23230  (Online Only)
I specialize in sex and sexuality, and support all relationship styles, as long as they include consenting adults.
As a clinical sexologist, I help folks explore pleasure and better communicate in intimate relationships. As a relationship counselor, I work with couples and poly folks to improve their communication and connection. As a feminist therapist, I help clients dig deep to uncover their personal power, untangle anxiety and heal from trauma. I'm pro-choice, queer/bisexual identified, and welcome LGBTQ+ clients. I'm a curious counselor, and I help people dig to the roots of their pain. Fees are $200/session for individuals and $250 for couples (self-pay only, NO insurance).
I specialize in sex and sexuality, and support all relationship styles, as long as they include consenting adults.
As a clinical sexologist, I help folks explore pleasure and better communicate in intimate relationships. As a relationship counselor, I work with couples and poly folks to improve their communication and connection. As a feminist therapist, I help clients dig deep to uncover their personal power, untangle anxiety and heal from trauma. I'm pro-choice, queer/bisexual identified, and welcome LGBTQ+ clients. I'm a curious counselor, and I help people dig to the roots of their pain. Fees are $200/session for individuals and $250 for couples (self-pay only, NO insurance).
(757) 720-2613 View (757) 720-2613
Photo of Laura Pritchard-Compton, Pre-Licensed Professional in Virginia
Laura Pritchard-Compton
Pre-Licensed Professional, MEd, MSW
Verified Verified
Abingdon, VA 24210
No matter your relationship desires, I am eager to help you lead a more satisfying and fulfilling sex life.
I believe that every person is equipped with the inner wisdom and strength to heal themselves, I merely have the honor of being with you as you find (again or for the first time) your inner wisdom and strength to become your truest self. I desire to be with you in your aching dilemmas ultimately inviting you to a space of freedom, hope and expansive love. My therapeutic approach includes person-centered, solution-focused, and strengths-based therapy, with a particular emphasis on mindfulness. Through calm observation and awareness, I strive to cultivate a therapeutic space that is inclusive, curious, compassionate and healing.
No matter your relationship desires, I am eager to help you lead a more satisfying and fulfilling sex life.
I believe that every person is equipped with the inner wisdom and strength to heal themselves, I merely have the honor of being with you as you find (again or for the first time) your inner wisdom and strength to become your truest self. I desire to be with you in your aching dilemmas ultimately inviting you to a space of freedom, hope and expansive love. My therapeutic approach includes person-centered, solution-focused, and strengths-based therapy, with a particular emphasis on mindfulness. Through calm observation and awareness, I strive to cultivate a therapeutic space that is inclusive, curious, compassionate and healing.
(276) 624-6013 View (276) 624-6013
Photo of Melece Meservy, Resident in Marriage and Family Therapy in Virginia
Melece Meservy
Resident in Marriage and Family Therapy, MS
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Chesterfield, VA 23832
As a clinician I am passionate about issues of sexuality, gender identity, and intimate relationships.
The famous love story has always ended with couples in love with one another, but what about when they reach another stage? What about when couples fall into being in life with one another instead? If this sounds familiar to you, you are not alone and I am here and happy to help. Couples therapy is about listening to understand, rather than listening to respond. Remembering this, together we can work on addressing the true client - the relationship you and your partner share with one another.
As a clinician I am passionate about issues of sexuality, gender identity, and intimate relationships.
The famous love story has always ended with couples in love with one another, but what about when they reach another stage? What about when couples fall into being in life with one another instead? If this sounds familiar to you, you are not alone and I am here and happy to help. Couples therapy is about listening to understand, rather than listening to respond. Remembering this, together we can work on addressing the true client - the relationship you and your partner share with one another.
(804) 719-3695 View (804) 719-3695
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Nicole Irving
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Reston, VA 20190
I specialize in sex therapy, couples therapy, and changing behavioral patterns.
Accepting new clients! Do you ever feel that your relationships or your sex life is lacking satisfaction? Is communication or expressing your needs hard for you? Do you feel stuck in a negative pattern with little hope of change? If any of this sounds familiar, you are not alone. I specialize in working with adults and couples confronting these struggles. We'll work together to help you discover or rediscover your authentic self, find solutions to the issues you're confronting, and gain tangible skills to help you overcome your problems.
I specialize in sex therapy, couples therapy, and changing behavioral patterns.
Accepting new clients! Do you ever feel that your relationships or your sex life is lacking satisfaction? Is communication or expressing your needs hard for you? Do you feel stuck in a negative pattern with little hope of change? If any of this sounds familiar, you are not alone. I specialize in working with adults and couples confronting these struggles. We'll work together to help you discover or rediscover your authentic self, find solutions to the issues you're confronting, and gain tangible skills to help you overcome your problems.
(540) 351-9626 View (540) 351-9626
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Anne Karcher
Psychologist, PhD, CST
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
I'm a licensed clinical psychologist & AASECT-certified sex therapist, specializing in: • relationship therapy • sex-positive sex therapy for individuals & relationships • treatment for trauma/depression/panic • gender journeys, orientation exploration, gender care .
Who would you be if you were all that you can be? The ability to be fully yourself, comfortable in your own skin, enjoying your relationships - these possibilities are in you, no matter how great the obstacles you have met in your life. I can help! I'm your coach, your consultant, your experienced mental health expert. Together we'll build on your strengths and grow your confidence to create lasting change. Warm, caring and knowledgeable...this is a safe, compassionate space to explore the difficult places and experiences in your life You can find healing and grow!
I'm a licensed clinical psychologist & AASECT-certified sex therapist, specializing in: • relationship therapy • sex-positive sex therapy for individuals & relationships • treatment for trauma/depression/panic • gender journeys, orientation exploration, gender care .
Who would you be if you were all that you can be? The ability to be fully yourself, comfortable in your own skin, enjoying your relationships - these possibilities are in you, no matter how great the obstacles you have met in your life. I can help! I'm your coach, your consultant, your experienced mental health expert. Together we'll build on your strengths and grow your confidence to create lasting change. Warm, caring and knowledgeable...this is a safe, compassionate space to explore the difficult places and experiences in your life You can find healing and grow!
(757) 979-2558 View (757) 979-2558
Sex Therapy

Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.