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Renee Spencer
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Chapel Hill, NC 27516  (Online Only)
You may be educated, even outwardly successful, but struggle to feel good about yourself, have difficulties with close relationships or just want more out of life. I believe it's human to struggle and that we all can benefit from self exploration. You stand to gain, and so does your partner, children, friends, even co-workers when you're bringing more of your best self to the game. My style is active and I bring humor and compassion to help you develop solutions as well as grow from your struggles. A seasoned therapist, my approach is flexible and practical, tailored to meet your needs. I'm LGBTQIA sensitive and welcoming.
You may be educated, even outwardly successful, but struggle to feel good about yourself, have difficulties with close relationships or just want more out of life. I believe it's human to struggle and that we all can benefit from self exploration. You stand to gain, and so does your partner, children, friends, even co-workers when you're bringing more of your best self to the game. My style is active and I bring humor and compassion to help you develop solutions as well as grow from your struggles. A seasoned therapist, my approach is flexible and practical, tailored to meet your needs. I'm LGBTQIA sensitive and welcoming.
(415) 429-3431 View (415) 429-3431
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Wendy Lehnertz
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Chapel Hill, NC 27514
As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, I believe it's not only important but essential for individuals and couples to have a safe, non-judgemental space to share and work through problems. I have nearly twenty years of experience working with individuals and couples struggling with destructive relationship patterns, post traumatic stress disorder, anxiety, sexual and intimacy disruptions (such as infidelity, sexual addiction, past sexual abuse, etc), trauma and abuse, domestic violence, depression, and grief.
As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, I believe it's not only important but essential for individuals and couples to have a safe, non-judgemental space to share and work through problems. I have nearly twenty years of experience working with individuals and couples struggling with destructive relationship patterns, post traumatic stress disorder, anxiety, sexual and intimacy disruptions (such as infidelity, sexual addiction, past sexual abuse, etc), trauma and abuse, domestic violence, depression, and grief.
(919) 343-9011 View (919) 343-9011
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CAS Counseling Psychotherapy Associates
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LPC, CEDS, LCAS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Chapel Hill, NC 27514
You've hit a wall. You want to feel better. You deserve to feel better! You found CAS. Our Experts can help! We are a therapy practice of Eating Disorder Specialists who can help you heal your relationship with food, weight, body image obsession, depression, anxiety, perinatal and postpartum challenges, relationship difficulties, and trauma. As the longest standing specialty practice in the state, we offer you a team of highly trained clinicians to guide you on your journey. You are not alone anymore! www.cascounseling.com/contact/
You've hit a wall. You want to feel better. You deserve to feel better! You found CAS. Our Experts can help! We are a therapy practice of Eating Disorder Specialists who can help you heal your relationship with food, weight, body image obsession, depression, anxiety, perinatal and postpartum challenges, relationship difficulties, and trauma. As the longest standing specialty practice in the state, we offer you a team of highly trained clinicians to guide you on your journey. You are not alone anymore! www.cascounseling.com/contact/
(919) 504-5780 View (919) 504-5780
Photo of J. Louise Newton, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Chapel Hill, NC
J. Louise Newton
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, SEP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Chapel Hill, NC 27599
January 2024: I have limited openings for new patients. You are welcome to contact me and I will respond about scheduling a consultation as I am able and will discuss your care needs and therapy goals. I am a warm and charismatic psychotherapist and am excited to become a resource and support for you. If you have become overwhelmed by anxiety or depression, are worried that you have developed an addiction, or are concerned that your trauma is impacting you lust for life, you may be at the precipice of profound growth. Together we can create a safe enough space to navigate your change efforts in an effective and affirming way.
January 2024: I have limited openings for new patients. You are welcome to contact me and I will respond about scheduling a consultation as I am able and will discuss your care needs and therapy goals. I am a warm and charismatic psychotherapist and am excited to become a resource and support for you. If you have become overwhelmed by anxiety or depression, are worried that you have developed an addiction, or are concerned that your trauma is impacting you lust for life, you may be at the precipice of profound growth. Together we can create a safe enough space to navigate your change efforts in an effective and affirming way.
(910) 319-9335 View (910) 319-9335
Photo of Kevin Metz, Psychologist in Chapel Hill, NC
Kevin Metz
Psychologist, PsyD, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Chapel Hill, NC 27516
My approach to psychotherapy is that of a humanist; that is, successful therapy results in your continued evolution into your true self. My therapeutic style is gentle and engaged, and I respect your intelligence. I strive to provide an atmosphere of care and compassion which allows you to curiously explore what events, past and present are contributing to your challenges. It's important to me to take the time to understand your values and desires so that our work is grounded in how you see yourself.
My approach to psychotherapy is that of a humanist; that is, successful therapy results in your continued evolution into your true self. My therapeutic style is gentle and engaged, and I respect your intelligence. I strive to provide an atmosphere of care and compassion which allows you to curiously explore what events, past and present are contributing to your challenges. It's important to me to take the time to understand your values and desires so that our work is grounded in how you see yourself.
(919) 648-4087 View (919) 648-4087
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Amy Carmen
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, LCAS
Verified Verified
Chapel Hill, NC 27514  (Online Only)
All clients are ideal to me. The journey of life places us all exactly where we need to be to heal and grow. As humans, we are exquisitely designed for this sometimes painful, sometimes joyful path. I am privileged to be able to join my clients in this work and lead them to where they want to go. I look forward to talking with you about what you would like to change in your life. For over 30 years, I have been helping a diverse clientele with a vast array of mental health, substance use, and trauma concerns in a variety of settings.
All clients are ideal to me. The journey of life places us all exactly where we need to be to heal and grow. As humans, we are exquisitely designed for this sometimes painful, sometimes joyful path. I am privileged to be able to join my clients in this work and lead them to where they want to go. I look forward to talking with you about what you would like to change in your life. For over 30 years, I have been helping a diverse clientele with a vast array of mental health, substance use, and trauma concerns in a variety of settings.
(919) 726-0846 View (919) 726-0846

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Photo of Nick Harper, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Chapel Hill, NC
Nick Harper
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LAC
Verified Verified
Durham, NC 27709  (Online Only)
Entangled in emotional uncertainty? Inclusive Therapy and Consulting Services, spearheaded by Nick Harper, delivers impactful, trauma-informed therapy with an LGBTQ+ emphasis, fostering a secure, sex-positive environment for your development. Armed with a license in clinical social work and a rich tapestry of twelve years of experience, I bring a robust expertise to my practice, particularly in trauma-informed care and affirming approaches to sexuality. Here, you're not just receiving services—you're embarking on a personalized journey towards healing and self-acceptance.
Entangled in emotional uncertainty? Inclusive Therapy and Consulting Services, spearheaded by Nick Harper, delivers impactful, trauma-informed therapy with an LGBTQ+ emphasis, fostering a secure, sex-positive environment for your development. Armed with a license in clinical social work and a rich tapestry of twelve years of experience, I bring a robust expertise to my practice, particularly in trauma-informed care and affirming approaches to sexuality. Here, you're not just receiving services—you're embarking on a personalized journey towards healing and self-acceptance.
(919) 626-9149 View (919) 626-9149
Photo of Dr. Lamont Barnett, Drug & Alcohol Counselor in Chapel Hill, NC
Dr. Lamont Barnett
Drug & Alcohol Counselor, PhD, LCASA , CPLC , MAC, CNHP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Durham, NC 27708
I specialize in helping you navigate through life's challenges, learn how to be more aware of your thoughts, feelings, emotions, surroundings, situations, & to reduce automatic responses. My clients are often experiencing stressors related to burnout, life transitions, life stagnation, relationships, perfectionism, Imposter Syndrome, high achievement/striving, challenging family dynamics, & struggling with managing anxiety/depression symptoms, addictions, or just feeling "stuck". The goal is to find your peace, recognize that you are not separated by your mental, physical, & spiritual health but interdependently connected by them.
I specialize in helping you navigate through life's challenges, learn how to be more aware of your thoughts, feelings, emotions, surroundings, situations, & to reduce automatic responses. My clients are often experiencing stressors related to burnout, life transitions, life stagnation, relationships, perfectionism, Imposter Syndrome, high achievement/striving, challenging family dynamics, & struggling with managing anxiety/depression symptoms, addictions, or just feeling "stuck". The goal is to find your peace, recognize that you are not separated by your mental, physical, & spiritual health but interdependently connected by them.
(919) 823-6602 View (919) 823-6602
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Roots to Blooms Counseling PLLC
Counselor, LCMHCS , LCAS, CCS, LPC
Verified Verified
Durham, NC 27713  (Online Only)
I HAVE OPENINGS FOR NEW CLIENTS!! Are you feeling stuck? Do you feel trapped by your strong emotional reactions? Are you feeling alone and disconnected in your relationship? Anxious or not good enough? We all have moments in our lives when we need support, and we are not meant to suffer alone. There is no shame in reaching out for help. I help clients work through current struggles & emotional pain by so they can experience calm, self-compassion, freedom and meaning in their lives.
I HAVE OPENINGS FOR NEW CLIENTS!! Are you feeling stuck? Do you feel trapped by your strong emotional reactions? Are you feeling alone and disconnected in your relationship? Anxious or not good enough? We all have moments in our lives when we need support, and we are not meant to suffer alone. There is no shame in reaching out for help. I help clients work through current struggles & emotional pain by so they can experience calm, self-compassion, freedom and meaning in their lives.
(252) 336-9687 View (252) 336-9687
Photo of Lisa Noelle Finlay, Licensed Professional Counselor in Chapel Hill, NC
Lisa Noelle Finlay
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LCAS, CCS
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Durham, NC 27706
Living the life you dream of isn't always an obvious or straightforward path. Family of origin, divorce, unexpected loss, trauma, addiction... circumstances that interfere with a happy, successful life. Sometimes the help of a caring professional can mean the difference between being stuck and moving ahead. Thanks for visiting my site. I'm an experienced mental health and addictions therapist, working with adults suffering from depression, anxiety, substance dependence and other addictions. I'm also credentialed by the NCSAPPB as a Certified Clinical Supervisor to offer clinical supervision for other therapists.
Living the life you dream of isn't always an obvious or straightforward path. Family of origin, divorce, unexpected loss, trauma, addiction... circumstances that interfere with a happy, successful life. Sometimes the help of a caring professional can mean the difference between being stuck and moving ahead. Thanks for visiting my site. I'm an experienced mental health and addictions therapist, working with adults suffering from depression, anxiety, substance dependence and other addictions. I'm also credentialed by the NCSAPPB as a Certified Clinical Supervisor to offer clinical supervision for other therapists.
(919) 759-5807 View (919) 759-5807
Photo of Cree and Associates PLLC, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Chapel Hill, NC
Cree and Associates PLLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSWA , LCAS, CSI
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Durham, NC 27713  (Online Only)
I believe that counseling can be transformative at all ages and stages in life. Our constantly changing world presents new challenges everyday. I would be honored to support you in your journey to find answers, meaning, and understanding in this confusing world.
I believe that counseling can be transformative at all ages and stages in life. Our constantly changing world presents new challenges everyday. I would be honored to support you in your journey to find answers, meaning, and understanding in this confusing world.
(919) 583-6048 View (919) 583-6048
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Bull City Psychotherapy, PLLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPC-S, LCSW, LCAS, CSAT-S
Verified Verified
Durham, NC 27713
Welcome to Bull City Psychotherapy. We are a caring group of psychotherapists who are passionate about helping others improve their moods, improve relationships, and recover from addictions. We offer a private and comfortable environment for our work with you, so you can feel safe and at ease. We are all highly trained in our areas of expertise, and we value our clients achieving their goals and moving forward. We believe in effective therapy that works.
Welcome to Bull City Psychotherapy. We are a caring group of psychotherapists who are passionate about helping others improve their moods, improve relationships, and recover from addictions. We offer a private and comfortable environment for our work with you, so you can feel safe and at ease. We are all highly trained in our areas of expertise, and we value our clients achieving their goals and moving forward. We believe in effective therapy that works.
(984) 228-2152 View (984) 228-2152

Online Therapists

Photo of Riffey Assessments and Counseling PLLC , Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Chapel Hill, NC
Riffey Assessments and Counseling PLLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, LCAS, CCS
Verified Verified
Greensboro, NC 27408  (Online Only)
I’ve helped others succeed in their marriages and goals, with varying addictions, PTSD, Anxiety, Men's Issues, the rebuilding of lives after difficult times & the pressures that today's First Responders, Caregivers, Healthcare Clinicians, Veterans, Business Leaders & Educators felt and will face in pre & post-pandemic America. I will confidentially support you, your partner, or your family in reaching your goals. Some desire to process events in their life, some prefer tangible real-world solutions right now, and some want both. Even as you help others, I am here to help.
I’ve helped others succeed in their marriages and goals, with varying addictions, PTSD, Anxiety, Men's Issues, the rebuilding of lives after difficult times & the pressures that today's First Responders, Caregivers, Healthcare Clinicians, Veterans, Business Leaders & Educators felt and will face in pre & post-pandemic America. I will confidentially support you, your partner, or your family in reaching your goals. Some desire to process events in their life, some prefer tangible real-world solutions right now, and some want both. Even as you help others, I am here to help.
(336) 814-2680 View (336) 814-2680
Photo of Greenway Counseling & Wellness, Licensed Professional Counselor in Chapel Hill, NC
Greenway Counseling & Wellness
Licensed Professional Counselor, LCMHCS, LCMHC, LCMHCA, LCASA, LCSW
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
High Point, NC 27265
[Good news! Day, evening & Saturday openings are now available] As a group practice, we have a particular interest in helping our adult clients address traumas that may have occurred across their lifespan. Trauma can come in all shapes & sizes - we believe that trauma can be at the center of many concerns like anxiety, depression, relationship struggles, performance issues, & addiction, to name a few. We also love working with little ones, teens, and their families! Fears & worries, behavior problems, family & life changes, school & relationship struggles - these are just a few reasons why we see younger people & families.
[Good news! Day, evening & Saturday openings are now available] As a group practice, we have a particular interest in helping our adult clients address traumas that may have occurred across their lifespan. Trauma can come in all shapes & sizes - we believe that trauma can be at the center of many concerns like anxiety, depression, relationship struggles, performance issues, & addiction, to name a few. We also love working with little ones, teens, and their families! Fears & worries, behavior problems, family & life changes, school & relationship struggles - these are just a few reasons why we see younger people & families.
(336) 496-2361 View (336) 496-2361
Photo of Melissa Brinson, Psychotherapy and Counseling Svs, Licensed Professional Counselor in Chapel Hill, NC
Melissa Brinson, Psychotherapy and Counseling Svs
Licensed Professional Counselor, LCMHC-S, LCAS, CCS, BC-TMHC, CSAT- C
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Raleigh, NC 27604  (Online Only)
Mental illness and addiction do not discriminate. They provide complex difficulties for the patients and their loved ones. I am specializing in treatment for Sex Addiction for either the individual with addiction or their partner. Treatment is not billed under insurance which ensures your privacy. Additional services includes support for fatherless daughters, individuals suffering with depression, trauma, and anxiety. I also offer clinical supervision for individuals with provisional licenses for both Mental Health (LCMHC-A) and Addiction (LCAS-A).
Mental illness and addiction do not discriminate. They provide complex difficulties for the patients and their loved ones. I am specializing in treatment for Sex Addiction for either the individual with addiction or their partner. Treatment is not billed under insurance which ensures your privacy. Additional services includes support for fatherless daughters, individuals suffering with depression, trauma, and anxiety. I also offer clinical supervision for individuals with provisional licenses for both Mental Health (LCMHC-A) and Addiction (LCAS-A).
(984) 459-8070 View (984) 459-8070
Photo of Krista Nabar, Psychologist in Chapel Hill, NC
Krista Nabar
Psychologist, PsyD, LP, CST
Verified Verified
Cary, NC 27511
As a Certified Sex Therapist Supervisor and the Executive Director of the Carolina Sexual Wellness Center, I am passionate about helping my clients improve their sex lives and increase authenticity. I supervise a wonderful group of sex-positive clinicians who share my focus on issues related to sex, sexuality and gender. I love the connections I create with my clients and the bond we create as we work toward change. I know it can be difficult to take the first step, but you will not regret your decision to get help and learn the skills and strategies to overcome what has been holding you back. You can do this.
As a Certified Sex Therapist Supervisor and the Executive Director of the Carolina Sexual Wellness Center, I am passionate about helping my clients improve their sex lives and increase authenticity. I supervise a wonderful group of sex-positive clinicians who share my focus on issues related to sex, sexuality and gender. I love the connections I create with my clients and the bond we create as we work toward change. I know it can be difficult to take the first step, but you will not regret your decision to get help and learn the skills and strategies to overcome what has been holding you back. You can do this.
(919) 694-4263 View (919) 694-4263
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Knew Era Consulting, PLLC (Counseling & DWI Tx)
Licensed Professional Counselor, LCMHC, LCAS, CCSI, MAC, CSOTP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Winston Salem, NC 27107
Waitlist for new clients
My name is Brandon Lowe and I'm a dually licensed therapist. I am the owner of Knew Era Consulting PLLC behavioral health agency where my staff and I provide therapeutic services. I have both LCMHC (Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor) and LCAS (Licensed Clinical Addictions Specialist) licensures. I specialize in mental health, addictions (substance abuse), and sex offender treatment (Certified Sex Offender Treatment Professional, CSOTP). I have been in the Mental Health field since 2006 (15 years). My staff provides therapy in both English and Spanish.
My name is Brandon Lowe and I'm a dually licensed therapist. I am the owner of Knew Era Consulting PLLC behavioral health agency where my staff and I provide therapeutic services. I have both LCMHC (Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor) and LCAS (Licensed Clinical Addictions Specialist) licensures. I specialize in mental health, addictions (substance abuse), and sex offender treatment (Certified Sex Offender Treatment Professional, CSOTP). I have been in the Mental Health field since 2006 (15 years). My staff provides therapy in both English and Spanish.
(336) 203-8716 View (336) 203-8716
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DeJuan J. Lundy, Crossroads Therapeutic Services
Lic Clinical Mental Health Counselor Supervisor, PhD, LCMHCS , LCAS , CLC
Verified Verified
Durham, NC 27703
DeJuan J. Lundy is a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor Supervisor (LCMHCS), Licensed Clinical Addictions Specialist (LCAS), and a Certified Life Coach (CLC) with over 18 years of experience working with diverse populations, ages as well as a wide range of diagnoses and disorders. She specializes in the treatment of Anxiety, Depression, Adjustment Disorders, ADHD, PTSD, Addiction, Substance Abuse, Trauma, Anger Management, Stress Management, and Mood Disorders.
DeJuan J. Lundy is a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor Supervisor (LCMHCS), Licensed Clinical Addictions Specialist (LCAS), and a Certified Life Coach (CLC) with over 18 years of experience working with diverse populations, ages as well as a wide range of diagnoses and disorders. She specializes in the treatment of Anxiety, Depression, Adjustment Disorders, ADHD, PTSD, Addiction, Substance Abuse, Trauma, Anger Management, Stress Management, and Mood Disorders.
(919) 701-4816 View (919) 701-4816
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Tonya Moore
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor Supervis, NCC, LCMHCS, BCPCC, CCTP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Winston Salem, NC 27106
There are times when there is the feeling that all hope is gone. I believe that God has a plan for your life, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future...and will bring you back from captivity. My goal is simple: to help my clients discover that "plan", gain insight, make changes, and grow in God's grace. I am here to assist you in your journey back to wholeness: mentally, emotionally, relationally, and/or spiritually. Whether you're trying to restore a broken marriage, mend family relationships, pick up the pieces or seeking a fresh start, hope and healing awaits you.
There are times when there is the feeling that all hope is gone. I believe that God has a plan for your life, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future...and will bring you back from captivity. My goal is simple: to help my clients discover that "plan", gain insight, make changes, and grow in God's grace. I am here to assist you in your journey back to wholeness: mentally, emotionally, relationally, and/or spiritually. Whether you're trying to restore a broken marriage, mend family relationships, pick up the pieces or seeking a fresh start, hope and healing awaits you.
(336) 223-5183 View (336) 223-5183
Photo of Erin Elizabeth Terry, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor in Chapel Hill, NC
Erin Elizabeth Terry
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MEd, LCMHC, QS
Verified Verified
Wake Forest, NC 27587
Waitlist for new clients
I have many years of counseling experience in the mental health field. I work with adults and adolescents (ages 13 and above) and provide individual, couples/marital, and family counseling services in a comfortable, safe environment. When working with clients, I use a combination of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Interpersonal Therapy. My therapeutic skills and interventions are more directly aimed at fixing maladaptive patterns, improving emotional regulation and creating positive and lasting change. I offer both in person appointments at the medical practice I work at and do virtual appointments.
I have many years of counseling experience in the mental health field. I work with adults and adolescents (ages 13 and above) and provide individual, couples/marital, and family counseling services in a comfortable, safe environment. When working with clients, I use a combination of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Interpersonal Therapy. My therapeutic skills and interventions are more directly aimed at fixing maladaptive patterns, improving emotional regulation and creating positive and lasting change. I offer both in person appointments at the medical practice I work at and do virtual appointments.
(984) 205-3707 x4 View (984) 205-3707 x4

Sexual Addiction Therapists

When should someone seek treatment for sex addiction?

People should seek treatment for sex addiction if they cannot control their sexual thoughts or behaviours to the point that it disrupts their ability to function in daily life, for example by threatening their finances, career, or relationships. This may include spending an excessive amount of time obsessing over sex, planning sex, watching pornography, or masturbating, as well as consistently engaging in risky sexual activities, using sex to escape distressing feelings, or attempting yet failing to control sexual behavior.

What are the most common treatment options for sex addiction?

Psychotherapy is the most common treatment for sex addiction; therapy helps patients better understand their compulsive thoughts and behaviors and develop strategies to manage their desires. Therapy may be supplemented by medications, such as antidepressants, mood stabilizers, anti-androgens, and the alcohol and substance use medication Naltrexone, as well as support groups, such as 12-step programs.

How long does therapy take for sex addiction?

Recovering from compulsive behavior takes time and effort. There’s no precise timeline for treatment, but research suggests 12 therapy sessions may be enough to see change. Treatment for sexual compulsions requires honesty in therapy, a commitment to understanding triggers and developing coping skills, and potential lifestyle changes such as cutting out alcohol or drugs.

What if sex addiction is left untreated?

Compulsive sexual behavior can have serious repercussions if left unaddressed. For example, if sexual obsessions consume the vast majority of a person’s time, they may lose their job. If they can’t stop paying for sex, their finances may suffer. If they’re dishonest in their relationships, their partner may leave them. If they consistently feel shame, they may struggle with anxiety, depression, or loneliness. Therapy can help people develop the tools to manage sexual thoughts and behaviors that feel uncontrollable.