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Austin Koestner
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MS, AMFT
Verified Verified
Covina, CA 91722
Are you working through a life stressor, building or re-defining a relationship with a loved one, or trying to develop a deeper understanding of who you are? As a multi-culturally compassionate Associate Marriage and Family Therapist I have helped adolescents and adult clients from diverse backgrounds develop the tools necessary to process anxiety, depression, grief, family or interpersonal stressors, and trauma in order build a life of peaceful intention. I have years of experience within the LGBTQ+ community and am passionate about working with families, individuals and partnerships of all backgrounds.
Are you working through a life stressor, building or re-defining a relationship with a loved one, or trying to develop a deeper understanding of who you are? As a multi-culturally compassionate Associate Marriage and Family Therapist I have helped adolescents and adult clients from diverse backgrounds develop the tools necessary to process anxiety, depression, grief, family or interpersonal stressors, and trauma in order build a life of peaceful intention. I have years of experience within the LGBTQ+ community and am passionate about working with families, individuals and partnerships of all backgrounds.
(626) 699-0478 View (626) 699-0478

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Don ( Dr Don ) Etkes
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, MFT
Verified Verified
Claremont, CA 91711
STRESS MANAGEMENT: "I'd like to HELP YOU cope with Relationships, Anxiety, Sex, Depression, ADD, Addictions, Self-Esteem issues, Success Sabotage and much more.
IMMEDIATE APPOINTMENT: STRESS MANAGEMENT by VIDEO, PHONE, OFFICE $65 and up Sliding Fee. Day/Eve/Weekend. "I offer YOU over 30 years of Experience in giving Warm Nurturing Nonjudgmental Guidance to 1000s of people, offering HELP in COPING with YOUR LIFE feeling out of control. My GOAL is your GETTING THE LIFE YOU WANT. " Author "Loving With Passion", Ph.D. in Psychology, life coach, hypnotherapist, UCLA certified Sex Therapist, professional speaker, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, had a TV show "Love U." on TLC. Internationally recognized expert on TV and radio. Written about in Cosmopolitan to the Washington Post. Dr Don
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IMMEDIATE APPOINTMENT: STRESS MANAGEMENT by VIDEO, PHONE, OFFICE $65 and up Sliding Fee. Day/Eve/Weekend. "I offer YOU over 30 years of Experience in giving Warm Nurturing Nonjudgmental Guidance to 1000s of people, offering HELP in COPING with YOUR LIFE feeling out of control. My GOAL is your GETTING THE LIFE YOU WANT. " Author "Loving With Passion", Ph.D. in Psychology, life coach, hypnotherapist, UCLA certified Sex Therapist, professional speaker, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, had a TV show "Love U." on TLC. Internationally recognized expert on TV and radio. Written about in Cosmopolitan to the Washington Post. Dr Don
(310) 895-9655 View (310) 895-9655
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Cynthia Obershaw
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Baldwin Park, CA 91706
My name is Cynthia Obershaw. I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. I believe that people have the ability to heal themselves with guidance and understanding. I am passionate about providing gentle guidance, support, and understanding in the therapeutic journey. I work with clients who have adjustment disorders, depression, anxiety disorders, phase of life issues, addiction, existential issues, and people with spiritual issues. I am currently working towards a credential in sex therapy.
My name is Cynthia Obershaw. I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. I believe that people have the ability to heal themselves with guidance and understanding. I am passionate about providing gentle guidance, support, and understanding in the therapeutic journey. I work with clients who have adjustment disorders, depression, anxiety disorders, phase of life issues, addiction, existential issues, and people with spiritual issues. I am currently working towards a credential in sex therapy.
(626) 603-5487 View (626) 603-5487
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Christene Lozano (Certified Sex Therapist)
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT, CST, CSAT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Dimas, CA 91773  (Online Only)
If you are struggling with sexual concerns, you have come to the right place. Some sexual concerns may include: low/high sexual desire, desire discrepancy, a sexless relationship, sexual difficulties (e.g. painful sex, early/delayed ejaculation), sexual trauma, rebuilding emotional and sexual intimacy, and unhealthy relationship patterns. Or perhaps you are struggling with compulsive sexual behaviors. You have realized that your sexual thoughts and behaviors are getting out of hand, or you have discovered that your partner is compulsively using sex or porn. You are feeling understandably betrayed, hurt, angry, and confused.
If you are struggling with sexual concerns, you have come to the right place. Some sexual concerns may include: low/high sexual desire, desire discrepancy, a sexless relationship, sexual difficulties (e.g. painful sex, early/delayed ejaculation), sexual trauma, rebuilding emotional and sexual intimacy, and unhealthy relationship patterns. Or perhaps you are struggling with compulsive sexual behaviors. You have realized that your sexual thoughts and behaviors are getting out of hand, or you have discovered that your partner is compulsively using sex or porn. You are feeling understandably betrayed, hurt, angry, and confused.
(888) 912-7556 View (888) 912-7556
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Blowfish Therapy Inc
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, MA, PPS, LMFT, LEP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Dimas, CA 91773
I'm Chelsea, a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist (LMFT) and Licensed Educational Psychologist (LEP). I was a social worker for Child Protective Services for 10 years & worked at an in-patient psychiatric hospital. Currently, I'm a school psychologist & maintain a private practice - Blowfish Therapy Inc. Clients that tend to feel most comfortable with me are often able to connect or feel acceptance based on one the following areas or topics: LGBTQ+, Parenting, Millennials, Blended Families, Liberals, Potty Mouths, Self-Critics, Students, Sex, Use of humor, Sensitive Hearts. Reach out to see if I'd be a good fit for you!
I'm Chelsea, a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist (LMFT) and Licensed Educational Psychologist (LEP). I was a social worker for Child Protective Services for 10 years & worked at an in-patient psychiatric hospital. Currently, I'm a school psychologist & maintain a private practice - Blowfish Therapy Inc. Clients that tend to feel most comfortable with me are often able to connect or feel acceptance based on one the following areas or topics: LGBTQ+, Parenting, Millennials, Blended Families, Liberals, Potty Mouths, Self-Critics, Students, Sex, Use of humor, Sensitive Hearts. Reach out to see if I'd be a good fit for you!
(909) 248-2654 View (909) 248-2654
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Marisa Moosekian
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Claremont, CA 91711  (Online Only)
I work with individuals struggling with anxiety and mood disorders, relationship issues, self-esteem, life direction, trauma, and issues surrounding sex and/or gender.
Making meaningful changes in life can be challenging. We tend to stick to what’s familiar, sometimes leaving us stuck in places we no longer want to be. The path towards healing and growth can sometimes be overwhelming and confusing. I believe that often, the answer is already within us, but we may need guidance to view life through a new lens. I’d like to walk with you on your journey of expansion. I am here to help you access your potential and develop the tools you need to have more fulfilling relationships with yourself and others.
I work with individuals struggling with anxiety and mood disorders, relationship issues, self-esteem, life direction, trauma, and issues surrounding sex and/or gender.
Making meaningful changes in life can be challenging. We tend to stick to what’s familiar, sometimes leaving us stuck in places we no longer want to be. The path towards healing and growth can sometimes be overwhelming and confusing. I believe that often, the answer is already within us, but we may need guidance to view life through a new lens. I’d like to walk with you on your journey of expansion. I am here to help you access your potential and develop the tools you need to have more fulfilling relationships with yourself and others.
(323) 709-0678 View (323) 709-0678
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Liora Pourati
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Los Angeles, CA 90024  (Online Only)
I received my Masters degree from Philips Graduate Institute in 2003, and have been providing services to children, couples, families, elders and adolescents in different settings such as Private Practice, hospitals, and Health Care centers. I use different approaches such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Awareness Integration Model, Family systems and so on. Services: Life Coaching; Couple Therapy and Coaching; Family Therapy and Coaching; Hypnosis; Individual Therapy for Adolescents, Children, Elderly, Men and Women; Parenting; Family Therapy; Sex Therapy; Relationship and Intimacy; Stress Management, and so on.
I received my Masters degree from Philips Graduate Institute in 2003, and have been providing services to children, couples, families, elders and adolescents in different settings such as Private Practice, hospitals, and Health Care centers. I use different approaches such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Awareness Integration Model, Family systems and so on. Services: Life Coaching; Couple Therapy and Coaching; Family Therapy and Coaching; Hypnosis; Individual Therapy for Adolescents, Children, Elderly, Men and Women; Parenting; Family Therapy; Sex Therapy; Relationship and Intimacy; Stress Management, and so on.
(310) 751-7495 View (310) 751-7495
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Mari A. Lee Lmft Csat
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CSAT-S, CPTT-S, MBATT-S
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Glendora, CA 91741  (Online Only)
I am a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, Certified Partners Trauma Therapist, Certified Mindfulness Based Therapist, EMDR trained, and a Gottman's trained couples therapist.
Are you hiding sexual secrets, infidelity, or porn addiction? Has someone you love betrayed you and left you feeling heart broken? People dealing with sexual compulsivity and sex/porn addiction often feel shame and are uncertain how to make better choices. Betrayed partners are traumatized, angry and deeply hurt. I have helped hurting people heal for 15 years by providing safe and confidential therapy with specific tools as you focus on moving past the grip of sexually destructive choices, or recover from betrayal trauma. You can heal, rebuild trust with your loved ones, and create a healthy life and loving relationships.
I am a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, Certified Partners Trauma Therapist, Certified Mindfulness Based Therapist, EMDR trained, and a Gottman's trained couples therapist.
Are you hiding sexual secrets, infidelity, or porn addiction? Has someone you love betrayed you and left you feeling heart broken? People dealing with sexual compulsivity and sex/porn addiction often feel shame and are uncertain how to make better choices. Betrayed partners are traumatized, angry and deeply hurt. I have helped hurting people heal for 15 years by providing safe and confidential therapy with specific tools as you focus on moving past the grip of sexually destructive choices, or recover from betrayal trauma. You can heal, rebuild trust with your loved ones, and create a healthy life and loving relationships.
(818) 521-4370 View (818) 521-4370
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Alexandra Rusu
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
El Monte, CA 91732
Hi there! I'm Alexandra Rusu. I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (125886) in California. I specialize in working with couples and individuals. My approach to therapy has always been meeting clients where they are. I pride myself on my non-judgmental approach and am here to listen to you deeply with compassion and patience. I often find myself working with people experiencing anxiety or depression due to various life circumstances. As well as couples looking for better relationships.
Hi there! I'm Alexandra Rusu. I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (125886) in California. I specialize in working with couples and individuals. My approach to therapy has always been meeting clients where they are. I pride myself on my non-judgmental approach and am here to listen to you deeply with compassion and patience. I often find myself working with people experiencing anxiety or depression due to various life circumstances. As well as couples looking for better relationships.
(323) 792-7688 View (323) 792-7688
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Fuller Psychological and Family Services
PsyD
Verified Verified
Arcadia, CA 91006
Fuller Psychological and Family Services (FPFS) is the community mental health and training clinic of the Fuller Graduate School of Psychology (accredited by the American Psychological Association). FPFS provides therapy to individuals, couples, families, and groups, to address a variety of symptoms associated with issues including but not limited to anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, trauma, guilt, and bereavement. Because FPFS utilizes beginning students, advanced students, and licensed clinicians, we are able to provide therapy at affordable rates. Because we are embedded within an accredited graduate school of psychology, you will receive care of the highest ethical and professional standards
Fuller Psychological and Family Services (FPFS) is the community mental health and training clinic of the Fuller Graduate School of Psychology (accredited by the American Psychological Association). FPFS provides therapy to individuals, couples, families, and groups, to address a variety of symptoms associated with issues including but not limited to anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, trauma, guilt, and bereavement. Because FPFS utilizes beginning students, advanced students, and licensed clinicians, we are able to provide therapy at affordable rates. Because we are embedded within an accredited graduate school of psychology, you will receive care of the highest ethical and professional standards
(626) 539-9857 View (626) 539-9857
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Lynaire Mcgovern
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
San Dimas, CA 91773
Lynaire McGovern, California LMFT. I would like to help you with your problems, especially depression and anxiety. I have an eclectic approach to the therapy including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy and Rogerian Therapy. I am most comfortable treating depression, anxiety and relationship issues. I love to help adults, seniors and people with disabilities. Unfortunately, I don't work with families or do Marriage Counseling. I have an eclectic approach to therapy. I draw from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Rogerian Therapy and Solution-Focused Therapy as well as my training as a life coach.
Lynaire McGovern, California LMFT. I would like to help you with your problems, especially depression and anxiety. I have an eclectic approach to the therapy including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy and Rogerian Therapy. I am most comfortable treating depression, anxiety and relationship issues. I love to help adults, seniors and people with disabilities. Unfortunately, I don't work with families or do Marriage Counseling. I have an eclectic approach to therapy. I draw from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Rogerian Therapy and Solution-Focused Therapy as well as my training as a life coach.
(650) 860-4902 View (650) 860-4902
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Lorena Arguello Dowlatshahi
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Claremont, CA 91711
Hello! I enjoy and have experience in treating children, teens, families, couples and individuals of all socio-economic backgrounds and cultures. I specialize in treating teens and young adults who have experienced traumas and I believe in including family members whenever possible to create greater, lasting change within the individual and family dynamic. I am trained in eight Evidenced- Based Practices to treat symptoms related to depression, anxiety, trauma, grief, substance abuse and parenting difficulties.
Hello! I enjoy and have experience in treating children, teens, families, couples and individuals of all socio-economic backgrounds and cultures. I specialize in treating teens and young adults who have experienced traumas and I believe in including family members whenever possible to create greater, lasting change within the individual and family dynamic. I am trained in eight Evidenced- Based Practices to treat symptoms related to depression, anxiety, trauma, grief, substance abuse and parenting difficulties.
(909) 726-5979 View (909) 726-5979
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Marie Honda
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Diamond Bar, CA 91765
Are you struggling with important life changes, marriage or relationship issues, and can't figure out how to move forward or reconnect? During times like this, I can help. I provide psychotherapy services in English or Spanish for couples, families and individuals and can help with various problems. I specialize in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and use attachment theory to guide my work. EFT has significant research behind it indicating high rates of effectiveness with couples. This model is also effective with individuals and families. Using EFT as a guide, my approach to treatment is personalized to meet the individual needs of each client.
Are you struggling with important life changes, marriage or relationship issues, and can't figure out how to move forward or reconnect? During times like this, I can help. I provide psychotherapy services in English or Spanish for couples, families and individuals and can help with various problems. I specialize in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and use attachment theory to guide my work. EFT has significant research behind it indicating high rates of effectiveness with couples. This model is also effective with individuals and families. Using EFT as a guide, my approach to treatment is personalized to meet the individual needs of each client.
(714) 215-9267 View (714) 215-9267
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Roger Scott Wenger
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Claremont, CA 91711
People come to the crossroads of seeking mental health treatment for many different reasons and with many different paths. I would like to meet you on that path and help you through it. I have over 30 years experience in counseling and therapy with 20 years working in addictions, dual diagnosis, inpatient mental health with persistent mental illness and outpatient with individuals and couples for both the Veterans Administration and as adjunct faculty at Loma Linda University Department of Psychiatry. I also do psychological assessment for diagnosis clarification and treatment planning. Visit our website www.drscottwenger.com.
People come to the crossroads of seeking mental health treatment for many different reasons and with many different paths. I would like to meet you on that path and help you through it. I have over 30 years experience in counseling and therapy with 20 years working in addictions, dual diagnosis, inpatient mental health with persistent mental illness and outpatient with individuals and couples for both the Veterans Administration and as adjunct faculty at Loma Linda University Department of Psychiatry. I also do psychological assessment for diagnosis clarification and treatment planning. Visit our website www.drscottwenger.com.
(909) 906-9247 View (909) 906-9247
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William Watson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Claremont, CA 91711
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker licensed in California with over 30 years of experience working as a Psychiatric Social Worker and Psychotherapist. I have worked with forensic clients with various concerns, including major mental illness, depression, anxiety, relationship issues, parenting problems, career challenges, OCD, and ADHD. I also helped many people who have experienced physical trauma or emotional abuse and helped those who have instigated physical trauma or emotional abuse.
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker licensed in California with over 30 years of experience working as a Psychiatric Social Worker and Psychotherapist. I have worked with forensic clients with various concerns, including major mental illness, depression, anxiety, relationship issues, parenting problems, career challenges, OCD, and ADHD. I also helped many people who have experienced physical trauma or emotional abuse and helped those who have instigated physical trauma or emotional abuse.
(858) 391-4914 View (858) 391-4914
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Agnieszka Medina
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
San Dimas, CA 91773
Do you feel lost, hurt, and misunderstood? Does your life seem overwhelming and confusing? My purpose and my passion are to help you improve your quality of life. You have already made a step towards healing by considering help. I’d like to accompany you on this journey to a point where you feel more content, balanced, and grounded. You deserve to experience more joy and satisfaction in life.
Do you feel lost, hurt, and misunderstood? Does your life seem overwhelming and confusing? My purpose and my passion are to help you improve your quality of life. You have already made a step towards healing by considering help. I’d like to accompany you on this journey to a point where you feel more content, balanced, and grounded. You deserve to experience more joy and satisfaction in life.
(805) 380-3939 View (805) 380-3939
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Yisraela J Ketterman
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Claremont, CA 91711
Do you suffer from the effects of having bad experiences that have left you feeling traumatized & stuck in the past? There are big "T" (traumatic) events such as sexual assault, rape, child abuse, war, death, major car accidents and then there are what is called the little "t" events such as emotional abuse, neglect, rejection, homophobia (bi-trans), hurt and a series of other "seemingly smaller" but yet a times equally damaging experiences. Over time these events can over time erode your feelings of self esteem, sense of safety and ability to trust in the world.
Do you suffer from the effects of having bad experiences that have left you feeling traumatized & stuck in the past? There are big "T" (traumatic) events such as sexual assault, rape, child abuse, war, death, major car accidents and then there are what is called the little "t" events such as emotional abuse, neglect, rejection, homophobia (bi-trans), hurt and a series of other "seemingly smaller" but yet a times equally damaging experiences. Over time these events can over time erode your feelings of self esteem, sense of safety and ability to trust in the world.
(310) 388-7779 View (310) 388-7779
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Ronald R Hall
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CTS, BSCC, PM
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
San Dimas, CA 91773
Want a caring, encouraging, highly-trained Christian Therapist? I am ready to help you find solutions! I have 20 years of experience in helping with depression; anxiety; grief; trauma/victimization; relationships; marriage; child, teenager, family issues; ADD; and, codependency / addictions as well as a Care Pastor and Clinical Director dealing with Recovery. I care about helping you find answers to your life problems. Together we will make a plan of action. I will give you honest feedback on a weekly basis about your progress. I would feel honored to have the opportunity to help you. Give me a call with questions!
Want a caring, encouraging, highly-trained Christian Therapist? I am ready to help you find solutions! I have 20 years of experience in helping with depression; anxiety; grief; trauma/victimization; relationships; marriage; child, teenager, family issues; ADD; and, codependency / addictions as well as a Care Pastor and Clinical Director dealing with Recovery. I care about helping you find answers to your life problems. Together we will make a plan of action. I will give you honest feedback on a weekly basis about your progress. I would feel honored to have the opportunity to help you. Give me a call with questions!
(951) 255-2340 View (951) 255-2340
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Kimm J. Moreno
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA
Verified Verified
Claremont, CA 91711
"Are your relationships more difficult and complicated than they need to be? Do you feel unheard? Do you want to find peace and balance? No matter what the issues are I will work with you, your spouse, partner, children, teen, parents or significant other to quickly reduce the immediate challenges and then we will focus on a plan of action to tackle the tough issues. By creating awareness and understanding, you will become equipped with the tools and strategies you need to manage your life and your relationships."
"Are your relationships more difficult and complicated than they need to be? Do you feel unheard? Do you want to find peace and balance? No matter what the issues are I will work with you, your spouse, partner, children, teen, parents or significant other to quickly reduce the immediate challenges and then we will focus on a plan of action to tackle the tough issues. By creating awareness and understanding, you will become equipped with the tools and strategies you need to manage your life and your relationships."
(951) 643-0525 View (951) 643-0525
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Melissa Lamoureux
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT, LPCC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Claremont, CA 91711  (Online Only)
I believe in working collaboratively with clients, empowering you to explore your life on a deeper level, helping you discover how you can create the life you want, and supporting you as you begin taking those steps. My approach to therapy can be described as individualized and eclectic as I draw from various approaches to best support you and what works for you. I have experience in a wide variety of settings and working with many different populations from diverse racial and ethnic backgrounds and members of the LGBTQIA+ community.
I believe in working collaboratively with clients, empowering you to explore your life on a deeper level, helping you discover how you can create the life you want, and supporting you as you begin taking those steps. My approach to therapy can be described as individualized and eclectic as I draw from various approaches to best support you and what works for you. I have experience in a wide variety of settings and working with many different populations from diverse racial and ethnic backgrounds and members of the LGBTQIA+ community.
(626) 722-5741 View (626) 722-5741
Sex Therapy

Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.