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David Terraso
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
Decatur, GA 30030
I also specialize in Emotionally Focused Therapy, DBT, IFS, CAMS, and mindfulness to assist you on your journey.
Are you seeking to improve your relationships with your significant other, your family, or yourself? Do you yearn for a life where you have control over your own emotions and reactions, can make better decisions, and handle self-defeating behaviors? Whether you're seeking help for yourself, as a couple, or for your family, let's work together to calm and release your body, mind, and spirit from the past, so you can live a full and bountiful life today.
I also specialize in Emotionally Focused Therapy, DBT, IFS, CAMS, and mindfulness to assist you on your journey.
Are you seeking to improve your relationships with your significant other, your family, or yourself? Do you yearn for a life where you have control over your own emotions and reactions, can make better decisions, and handle self-defeating behaviors? Whether you're seeking help for yourself, as a couple, or for your family, let's work together to calm and release your body, mind, and spirit from the past, so you can live a full and bountiful life today.
(404) 491-7751 x5 View (404) 491-7751 x5
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Abby Marateck
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Decatur, GA 30030
With couples, I practice Emotionally Focused Therapy, a method validated by 20 years of empirical research.
The future may not feel bright right now. You may be overcome by a feeling of hopelessness that seems like it will last forever. The death of a loved one, the loss of your identity, or loneliness might feel all-consuming. Let the part of you that wants things to be different help you to reach out. I am here to provide a safe space to be heard, to be supported, and to help you identify your unique gifts and strengths. Together we can collaborate to restore balance to your life and let some of the light back in.
With couples, I practice Emotionally Focused Therapy, a method validated by 20 years of empirical research.
The future may not feel bright right now. You may be overcome by a feeling of hopelessness that seems like it will last forever. The death of a loved one, the loss of your identity, or loneliness might feel all-consuming. Let the part of you that wants things to be different help you to reach out. I am here to provide a safe space to be heard, to be supported, and to help you identify your unique gifts and strengths. Together we can collaborate to restore balance to your life and let some of the light back in.
(404) 724-5511 View (404) 724-5511
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Olga A Attebery
Associate Professional Counselor, LAMFT, LAPC, CCBRT-C, NCC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Decatur, GA 30033
Sometimes in the midst of struggle, it is hard to be hopeful. When it is hard, it is my privilege to hold that hope for you. I work with both men and women, as well as couples. I am passionate about working with couples through affair recovery and other difficult transitions. I am trained in the Gottman method and use this approach along with techniques from Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) to help my couples reach their relationship goals. I also have a passion for working with trauma, grief and loss; and as a first-generation American, the complexities of a multicultural existence.
Sometimes in the midst of struggle, it is hard to be hopeful. When it is hard, it is my privilege to hold that hope for you. I work with both men and women, as well as couples. I am passionate about working with couples through affair recovery and other difficult transitions. I am trained in the Gottman method and use this approach along with techniques from Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) to help my couples reach their relationship goals. I also have a passion for working with trauma, grief and loss; and as a first-generation American, the complexities of a multicultural existence.
(404) 620-2263 View (404) 620-2263
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Rebecca Anne Jones
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Decatur, GA 30030  (Online Only)
I have training in experiential, cognitive-behavioral and feminist therapies, as well as specific interventions, including EMDR for trauma-related symptoms, Internal Family Systems (IFS), and emotion focused therapy (EFT) for couples.
My goal is to provide focused treatment to help you feel better quickly. You can learn skills to reduce anxiety, mood swings, and negative life patterns. We may be a good match if you are experiencing grief or loss, relationship distress, anxiety, depression, or PTSD from trauma, or if you want to increase self-care. I also work well with children of alcoholics and caregivers (w/ a loved-one with dementia or illness.) Overall, I strive to help clients become more joyful and successful with themselves and with others. I welcome clients with a range of multicultural, gender and sexual identities, and I am committed to social justice.
I have training in experiential, cognitive-behavioral and feminist therapies, as well as specific interventions, including EMDR for trauma-related symptoms, Internal Family Systems (IFS), and emotion focused therapy (EFT) for couples.
My goal is to provide focused treatment to help you feel better quickly. You can learn skills to reduce anxiety, mood swings, and negative life patterns. We may be a good match if you are experiencing grief or loss, relationship distress, anxiety, depression, or PTSD from trauma, or if you want to increase self-care. I also work well with children of alcoholics and caregivers (w/ a loved-one with dementia or illness.) Overall, I strive to help clients become more joyful and successful with themselves and with others. I welcome clients with a range of multicultural, gender and sexual identities, and I am committed to social justice.
(678) 931-9671 View (678) 931-9671
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Janet Price - Couple Therapy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Decatur, GA 30030
If you and your partner are both busy professionals, you might find it hard to connect emotionally and communicate your needs. That's why emotionally focused couple therapy (EFCT) could be a great option for you. EFCT is a type of therapy that helps couples identify and change their negative patterns of interaction and create more secure and satisfying bonds. EFCT can help you and your partner understand each other better, express your feelings more openly, and resolve conflicts more effectively. EFCT can also improve your intimacy, trust, and happiness as a couple.
If you and your partner are both busy professionals, you might find it hard to connect emotionally and communicate your needs. That's why emotionally focused couple therapy (EFCT) could be a great option for you. EFCT is a type of therapy that helps couples identify and change their negative patterns of interaction and create more secure and satisfying bonds. EFCT can help you and your partner understand each other better, express your feelings more openly, and resolve conflicts more effectively. EFCT can also improve your intimacy, trust, and happiness as a couple.
(512) 866-9802 View (512) 866-9802
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Samantha Rae Pasko
Pre-Licensed Professional, MSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Decatur, GA 30033
I use state-of-the-art, mind-body approaches toward personal growth and healing, like Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT), Trauma-Informed Care, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT).
I am passionate about leading families, individuals, and couples through the journey of healing and empowerment. I specialize in mental health counseling for adult and teenage individuals, veterans, older adults, and couples counseling. My goal is to build a trusting and collaborative therapeutic relationship with my clients and work together to meet their identified goals by using experiential, attachment-based, and cognitive behavioral interventions.
I use state-of-the-art, mind-body approaches toward personal growth and healing, like Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT), Trauma-Informed Care, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT).
I am passionate about leading families, individuals, and couples through the journey of healing and empowerment. I specialize in mental health counseling for adult and teenage individuals, veterans, older adults, and couples counseling. My goal is to build a trusting and collaborative therapeutic relationship with my clients and work together to meet their identified goals by using experiential, attachment-based, and cognitive behavioral interventions.
(678) 990-1380 View (678) 990-1380
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Shama Panjwani
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPC, ACS, NCC, CCMHC
Verified Verified
Decatur, GA 30033  (Online Only)
I use CBT, DBT, narrative, EFT, and other integrative/wellness approaches.
Do you want to live a balanced life and feel happy? Perhaps you are constantly facing obstacles and challenges in your life that are impacting your holistic wellness and authentic relationships. The anxiety and depression can be detrimental. I can help you, guide you, and support you as you process various issues related to your cultural/sexual identity, anxiety related to transitions and relationships, grief, trauma, depression, etc. I can help you gain a deeper insight and self-awareness that will allow you to get closer to your goals, make better decisions, and have a better quality of life in a holistic manner using mindfulness.
I use CBT, DBT, narrative, EFT, and other integrative/wellness approaches.
Do you want to live a balanced life and feel happy? Perhaps you are constantly facing obstacles and challenges in your life that are impacting your holistic wellness and authentic relationships. The anxiety and depression can be detrimental. I can help you, guide you, and support you as you process various issues related to your cultural/sexual identity, anxiety related to transitions and relationships, grief, trauma, depression, etc. I can help you gain a deeper insight and self-awareness that will allow you to get closer to your goals, make better decisions, and have a better quality of life in a holistic manner using mindfulness.
(678) 922-5080 View (678) 922-5080
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Nicholette (Nicki) Scofield
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, LMHC
Verified Verified
Decatur, GA 30033  (Online Only)
I have extensive training in Emotionally Focused Therapy, a scientifically proven therapy for couples.
Whether you are seeking help as a couple or individual, I want to work with you in exploring what you feel and think so that you can better understand yourself and feel better. Couples often have communication problems that seem to repeat without resolution. Understanding the reasons for these cycles can help you develop the ability to get unstuck. Individual therapy can help you deal with depression and anxiety. This can include coping with such issues as difficult life transitions, lack of meaning, low self-esteem, shame, or surviving child abuse.
I have extensive training in Emotionally Focused Therapy, a scientifically proven therapy for couples.
Whether you are seeking help as a couple or individual, I want to work with you in exploring what you feel and think so that you can better understand yourself and feel better. Couples often have communication problems that seem to repeat without resolution. Understanding the reasons for these cycles can help you develop the ability to get unstuck. Individual therapy can help you deal with depression and anxiety. This can include coping with such issues as difficult life transitions, lack of meaning, low self-esteem, shame, or surviving child abuse.
(404) 369-2807 View (404) 369-2807
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Metta Sweet
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MAT
Verified Verified
Decatur, GA 30033
Depending on client interest and need, my work with clients may also include and draw from: psychotherapeutic/spiritual exploration, shadow work, meditation/visualization, EMDR, EFT, energy psychology, personality drive integration (using a tool called the Enneagram).
Whether you are facing life challenges such as relationship problems, addiction, work concerns, or health issues, you can move through with more elegance and ease. To me therapy is a gift--a gift of opportunity. An opportunity to heal from the past by increasing understanding of it and gleaning from it the gems that it holds. An opportunity to break long-held rigid patterns born of that past and to start consciously creating new, flexible ones. An opportunity to hold hope for a future free from the past that makes the present a time of freedom and choice.
Depending on client interest and need, my work with clients may also include and draw from: psychotherapeutic/spiritual exploration, shadow work, meditation/visualization, EMDR, EFT, energy psychology, personality drive integration (using a tool called the Enneagram).
Whether you are facing life challenges such as relationship problems, addiction, work concerns, or health issues, you can move through with more elegance and ease. To me therapy is a gift--a gift of opportunity. An opportunity to heal from the past by increasing understanding of it and gleaning from it the gems that it holds. An opportunity to break long-held rigid patterns born of that past and to start consciously creating new, flexible ones. An opportunity to hold hope for a future free from the past that makes the present a time of freedom and choice.
(404) 566-9249 View (404) 566-9249
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Eliza Segell
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW
Verified Verified
Decatur, GA 30030
Your problems may be specific - a challenging relationship, sexual concerns, upsetting memories, or problem behaviors. Or your struggles may be less tangible - feeling lost, detached, or stuck. In my practice, I offer adult and couples therapy for a range of concerns. I specialize in treating sexual dysfunctions, trauma-related issues, relationship concerns, and problem behaviors. I also provide gender & sexual identity affirming care. I deeply enjoy helping individuals feel a greater sense of self-efficacy, confidence, and clarity in their lives.
Your problems may be specific - a challenging relationship, sexual concerns, upsetting memories, or problem behaviors. Or your struggles may be less tangible - feeling lost, detached, or stuck. In my practice, I offer adult and couples therapy for a range of concerns. I specialize in treating sexual dysfunctions, trauma-related issues, relationship concerns, and problem behaviors. I also provide gender & sexual identity affirming care. I deeply enjoy helping individuals feel a greater sense of self-efficacy, confidence, and clarity in their lives.
(434) 201-4934 View (434) 201-4934
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Dr. Elena Kim
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD
Verified Verified
Decatur, GA 30033
Waitlist for new clients
I use the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy to teach couples how to create a healthy partnership.
Did you have a difficult childhood and are now afraid of repeating the same dysfunctional patterns in your own relationship? Are you afraid of intimacy and scared that your partner will reject and/or abandon you? Do you fear they won't "get" you? Maybe you have a hard time understanding yourself and knowing why you treat your partner the way you do. If you did not have the best childhood growing up, then chances are, you do not have a good model of what a healthy, life-long relationship or marriage looks like. Your parents did their best, but they struggled with their own issues and did not know have to have a healthy partnership.
I use the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy to teach couples how to create a healthy partnership.
Did you have a difficult childhood and are now afraid of repeating the same dysfunctional patterns in your own relationship? Are you afraid of intimacy and scared that your partner will reject and/or abandon you? Do you fear they won't "get" you? Maybe you have a hard time understanding yourself and knowing why you treat your partner the way you do. If you did not have the best childhood growing up, then chances are, you do not have a good model of what a healthy, life-long relationship or marriage looks like. Your parents did their best, but they struggled with their own issues and did not know have to have a healthy partnership.
(470) 592-8780 View (470) 592-8780
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Wendy Failor
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Decatur, GA 30034
I practice Emotionally Focused Therapy with individuals, couples, and families.
Hi, I'm Wendy! Seeking help to navigate life's peeks and valleys requires courage. I'm so glad you're taking your first step! I would love to join you on the journey.
I practice Emotionally Focused Therapy with individuals, couples, and families.
Hi, I'm Wendy! Seeking help to navigate life's peeks and valleys requires courage. I'm so glad you're taking your first step! I would love to join you on the journey.
(678) 990-5702 View (678) 990-5702
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Keshia McClendon
Pre-Licensed Professional, MSW, LMSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Decatur, GA 30030  (Online Only)
Welcome! I applaud you for taking the first steps on your journey of self-discovery. The one thing that is constant in life is change. When we go through transitional periods, we may encounter things that trigger self-doubt, anxiety, depression, and feelings of grief and loss. My goal as your therapist is to help you figure out how to successfully move forward during these difficult times.
Welcome! I applaud you for taking the first steps on your journey of self-discovery. The one thing that is constant in life is change. When we go through transitional periods, we may encounter things that trigger self-doubt, anxiety, depression, and feelings of grief and loss. My goal as your therapist is to help you figure out how to successfully move forward during these difficult times.
(404) 620-2894 View (404) 620-2894
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Lauren Strine
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, PMH-C
Verified Verified
14 Endorsed
Decatur, GA 30030
You feel like you're not a good enough mother, but you're afraid to admit it to anyone so you're feeling more alone than you ever imagined. It wasn't supposed to be like this. How are other people doing it? You're feeling so overwhelmed you can't think straight, and can hardly handle what used to feel like the simplest of tasks... You're wondering if you'll ever get your old life back, if you'll ever be able to go through the day without crying or lashing out at the people you love most. I get it, and I can help.
You feel like you're not a good enough mother, but you're afraid to admit it to anyone so you're feeling more alone than you ever imagined. It wasn't supposed to be like this. How are other people doing it? You're feeling so overwhelmed you can't think straight, and can hardly handle what used to feel like the simplest of tasks... You're wondering if you'll ever get your old life back, if you'll ever be able to go through the day without crying or lashing out at the people you love most. I get it, and I can help.
(404) 963-8001 View (404) 963-8001
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Dr. Fiyah The Queen of Transformation
Pre-Licensed Professional, PsyD
Verified Verified
Decatur, GA 30034
I am that trusted confidant that holds your hand while we walk into the darkness and then I guide you to the light as we rejoice in your victory together? Welcome to the domain of healing and transformation. I can assist in bringing you to a level beyond self awareness to a higher order of awareness to connect you to your joy, your potential and your purpose!
I am that trusted confidant that holds your hand while we walk into the darkness and then I guide you to the light as we rejoice in your victory together? Welcome to the domain of healing and transformation. I can assist in bringing you to a level beyond self awareness to a higher order of awareness to connect you to your joy, your potential and your purpose!
(404) 963-8340 View (404) 963-8340
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Grounded Wellbeing - LGBTQ+ Therapy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Decatur, GA 30030
We are a group of therapists and wellness practitioners. Collectively, we are passionate about providing trauma informed care to all people and specialize in working with queer and gender-diverse folks. Whether you are seeking to explore your gender identity, heal from past traumas, improve your overall mental health and wellbeing, or simply seeking support and guidance, our wellness practice can help you achieve your goals and live a more fulfilling life. You can expect each therapist to be warm, welcoming, laid-back, and compassionate.
We are a group of therapists and wellness practitioners. Collectively, we are passionate about providing trauma informed care to all people and specialize in working with queer and gender-diverse folks. Whether you are seeking to explore your gender identity, heal from past traumas, improve your overall mental health and wellbeing, or simply seeking support and guidance, our wellness practice can help you achieve your goals and live a more fulfilling life. You can expect each therapist to be warm, welcoming, laid-back, and compassionate.
(404) 882-9247 View (404) 882-9247
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William H Hemphill II
Licensed Professional Counselor, MDiv, NCC, LPC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Decatur, GA 30030
Feeling misunderstood or unheard in your marital relationship? Constant arguments followed by times of silence. Moving like two ships distant in the night. Has disconnect in your marriage led to an affair and fears about divorce? If you are struggling with disconnect and possible divorce now might be the time to talk to a therapist. Lets work together to find ways to resolve conflict, increase communication, and rebuild trust.
Feeling misunderstood or unheard in your marital relationship? Constant arguments followed by times of silence. Moving like two ships distant in the night. Has disconnect in your marriage led to an affair and fears about divorce? If you are struggling with disconnect and possible divorce now might be the time to talk to a therapist. Lets work together to find ways to resolve conflict, increase communication, and rebuild trust.
(770) 766-5243 View (770) 766-5243
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Nick Hersey
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Decatur, GA 30033
Our histories and experiences have an impact on each and every one of our relationships. Gaining a broader understanding of how they shape us can be a significant component of developing and sustaining mutually satisfying relationships. With more than a decade of experience working with couples and families I focus primarily on relationship dynamics including marital enrichment, conflict resolution, parenting skills and behavioral problems. Additionally, I work with a broad range of mental health related concerns including anxiety, stress management, depression, grief, trauma, and various comorbidities.
Our histories and experiences have an impact on each and every one of our relationships. Gaining a broader understanding of how they shape us can be a significant component of developing and sustaining mutually satisfying relationships. With more than a decade of experience working with couples and families I focus primarily on relationship dynamics including marital enrichment, conflict resolution, parenting skills and behavioral problems. Additionally, I work with a broad range of mental health related concerns including anxiety, stress management, depression, grief, trauma, and various comorbidities.
(404) 998-5116 View (404) 998-5116
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Dr. Tonya Sumner Brown Queen Of Hearts
Licensed Professional Counselor, PsyD, MDiv, LPC, CPCS, DVISII
Verified Verified
Decatur, GA 30034
I have 32 years of counseling experience. I blend Spiritual (when requested) and Clinical Counseling. Many spiritual people across America are confused about where to go for counseling. My husband of 30 years and I have traveled the world with many religions. I have 2 Bachelors, 2 Master of Divinity Degrees, a Post-Masters in Hospital & Hospice Chaplaincy, and a PsyD. in Psychology. I was a Chaplain intern, resident or taught religious programs at many Atlanta hospitals. I am a HIV/AIDS, cancer and bereavement specialist. I bring a multiplicity of clinical specialties and counseling modalities to my clients from 2 and up.
I have 32 years of counseling experience. I blend Spiritual (when requested) and Clinical Counseling. Many spiritual people across America are confused about where to go for counseling. My husband of 30 years and I have traveled the world with many religions. I have 2 Bachelors, 2 Master of Divinity Degrees, a Post-Masters in Hospital & Hospice Chaplaincy, and a PsyD. in Psychology. I was a Chaplain intern, resident or taught religious programs at many Atlanta hospitals. I am a HIV/AIDS, cancer and bereavement specialist. I bring a multiplicity of clinical specialties and counseling modalities to my clients from 2 and up.
(404) 800-3044 View (404) 800-3044
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Jayla Head
Pre-Licensed Professional, MS, MFT
Verified Verified
Decatur, GA 30032  (Online Only)
“Nothing to prove, only to share” (Alvin Ailey) is not only a personal creed of mine, but also a defining principle for our virtual therapy haven. You’ve found yourself here again, feeling disconnected, maybe even lost attempting to juggle all the aspects of life. You may even appear to be thriving, but deep down you know along the way you’ve lost yourself. Navigating an ever-changing world and balancing personal and professional roles, can become overwhelming, and leave us feeling powerless.
“Nothing to prove, only to share” (Alvin Ailey) is not only a personal creed of mine, but also a defining principle for our virtual therapy haven. You’ve found yourself here again, feeling disconnected, maybe even lost attempting to juggle all the aspects of life. You may even appear to be thriving, but deep down you know along the way you’ve lost yourself. Navigating an ever-changing world and balancing personal and professional roles, can become overwhelming, and leave us feeling powerless.
(404) 737-6214 View (404) 737-6214
Emotionally Focused Therapists

Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.