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Alexandra K Milak
Pre-Licensed Professional, MS, MHC-LP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Rockville Centre, NY 11570
I am a mental health counselor with a limited permit, working under the supervision of Dr. Sheila Chiffriller, a licensed psychologist. I provide psychotherapy to a diverse population of clients, specializing in survivors of trauma, borderline personality disorder, obsessive-compulsive disorder, anxiety, LGBTQIA+ issues, anger, family issues, couples' issues, bipolar disorder, chronic illness, grief and bereavement. My practice is rooted in principles of affirmation, intersectional justice, harm reduction, and embodiment and holds the position that social oppressions and systemic problems operate as barriers to wellness.
I am a mental health counselor with a limited permit, working under the supervision of Dr. Sheila Chiffriller, a licensed psychologist. I provide psychotherapy to a diverse population of clients, specializing in survivors of trauma, borderline personality disorder, obsessive-compulsive disorder, anxiety, LGBTQIA+ issues, anger, family issues, couples' issues, bipolar disorder, chronic illness, grief and bereavement. My practice is rooted in principles of affirmation, intersectional justice, harm reduction, and embodiment and holds the position that social oppressions and systemic problems operate as barriers to wellness.
(516) 476-9057 View (516) 476-9057
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Erica F Zajac
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Valley Stream, NY 11581
Hi! Welcome to Sex Positive Therapy! I am a sex positive therapist and supervisor working with a wide range of issues. I have been practicing since 2006 and worked with a wide range of issues. I am a unique and eclectic therapist that challenges my clients to move towards emotional/behavioral change and work on their core attachment issues. My areas of speciality are: Borderline Personality/Narcissistic Personality disorders, Trauma/PTSD/CPTSD, Abuse/DV, Gender/sexuality, ENM/Poly, Kink/BDSM, and/or LGBTQIA+ folx. My approach is client focused and collaborative and I see my work with clients as a journey we take together.
Hi! Welcome to Sex Positive Therapy! I am a sex positive therapist and supervisor working with a wide range of issues. I have been practicing since 2006 and worked with a wide range of issues. I am a unique and eclectic therapist that challenges my clients to move towards emotional/behavioral change and work on their core attachment issues. My areas of speciality are: Borderline Personality/Narcissistic Personality disorders, Trauma/PTSD/CPTSD, Abuse/DV, Gender/sexuality, ENM/Poly, Kink/BDSM, and/or LGBTQIA+ folx. My approach is client focused and collaborative and I see my work with clients as a journey we take together.
(929) 205-5426 View (929) 205-5426
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Alyse November
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW, ACSW, CST
Verified Verified
Woodmere, NY 11598
EMDR, Trauma, Brainspotting, CBT, DBT, Mindfulness modalities of treatment provided. Feel stressed, anxious, depressed, worried, hopeless and nothing that you try has helped? I work with children, teens, adults, older adults and families, specializing in trauma, anxiety, T1D, Chronic and Acute illness, Depression, Childhood trauma, Parenting, Mood disorders, Family conflict, Divorce/separation, Autism, ADHD, OCD, BPD, Bipolar, Sensory Disorders, LGBTQ, Racial challenges and More.. Life shouldn’t be so hard, I can help. Psychoeducational, disability and gifted testing also available. Telehealth sessions ok.
EMDR, Trauma, Brainspotting, CBT, DBT, Mindfulness modalities of treatment provided. Feel stressed, anxious, depressed, worried, hopeless and nothing that you try has helped? I work with children, teens, adults, older adults and families, specializing in trauma, anxiety, T1D, Chronic and Acute illness, Depression, Childhood trauma, Parenting, Mood disorders, Family conflict, Divorce/separation, Autism, ADHD, OCD, BPD, Bipolar, Sensory Disorders, LGBTQ, Racial challenges and More.. Life shouldn’t be so hard, I can help. Psychoeducational, disability and gifted testing also available. Telehealth sessions ok.
(561) 264-1012 View (561) 264-1012
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Samantha Farber
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
Woodmere, NY 11598
Though I specialize primarily in eating disorders, I also have extensive experience in treating generalized anxiety disorder, borderline personality disorder, post-traumatic stress disorder, relationship problems (whether that be with others, yourself, food, or your body), and life transition.
Samantha Farber is a passionate and dedicated therapist aiming to help clients of all ages feel more connected to others, to the life they want to live, and, most importantly, to their authentic self. She aims to create a safe and supportive space for those struggling with eating disorders, disordered eating, and those managing anxiety, depression, life transitions, and trauma.
Though I specialize primarily in eating disorders, I also have extensive experience in treating generalized anxiety disorder, borderline personality disorder, post-traumatic stress disorder, relationship problems (whether that be with others, yourself, food, or your body), and life transition.
Samantha Farber is a passionate and dedicated therapist aiming to help clients of all ages feel more connected to others, to the life they want to live, and, most importantly, to their authentic self. She aims to create a safe and supportive space for those struggling with eating disorders, disordered eating, and those managing anxiety, depression, life transitions, and trauma.
(203) 409-8624 View (203) 409-8624
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Christina Adams
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Uniondale, NY 11553  (Online Only)
I specialize in working with Borderline Personality Disorder, PTSD, Anxiety, Depression and Bipolar Disorder.
My therapeutic approach is client-centered and collaborative, and I believe in tailoring therapy to meet the unique needs and goals of each individual. My focus is on fostering a safe and non-judgmental space for clients to explore their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, and to develop new insights and skills to achieve lasting change.
I specialize in working with Borderline Personality Disorder, PTSD, Anxiety, Depression and Bipolar Disorder.
My therapeutic approach is client-centered and collaborative, and I believe in tailoring therapy to meet the unique needs and goals of each individual. My focus is on fostering a safe and non-judgmental space for clients to explore their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, and to develop new insights and skills to achieve lasting change.
(585) 541-0953 View (585) 541-0953
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Emily Logsdon
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Hempstead, NY 11549  (Online Only)
Do you struggle with debilitating anxiety, depression, and intense emotions that leave you feeling paralyzed, isolated, and exhausted? Do you feel overwhelmed and frustrated by not being able to regulate your emotions? Do you desperately want life to feel better and make changes? Now more than ever people have been feeling overwhelmed with how to move through difficult emotions, and you are not alone. I believe therapy can help you deepen your relationship to yourself, make deeper connections with others, and experience life to the fullest.
Do you struggle with debilitating anxiety, depression, and intense emotions that leave you feeling paralyzed, isolated, and exhausted? Do you feel overwhelmed and frustrated by not being able to regulate your emotions? Do you desperately want life to feel better and make changes? Now more than ever people have been feeling overwhelmed with how to move through difficult emotions, and you are not alone. I believe therapy can help you deepen your relationship to yourself, make deeper connections with others, and experience life to the fullest.
(646) 798-4771 View (646) 798-4771
Counseling For You Long Island
Counselor
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Merrick, NY 11566
Counseling For You Long Island is a group of therapists that have a passion for helping others. They are devoted to helping people through difficulties they are experiencing and are nonjudgemental, supportive and knowledgeable about the issues people face in the world today. Whether you are dealing with trauma, relationship issues, anxiety, depression, or any other issues that cause stress or get in the way of leading a healthy and happy life, there is someone here to help you.
Counseling For You Long Island is a group of therapists that have a passion for helping others. They are devoted to helping people through difficulties they are experiencing and are nonjudgemental, supportive and knowledgeable about the issues people face in the world today. Whether you are dealing with trauma, relationship issues, anxiety, depression, or any other issues that cause stress or get in the way of leading a healthy and happy life, there is someone here to help you.
(516) 613-2830 View (516) 613-2830
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Diana Franschman
Creative Arts Therapist, LCAT, BC-DMT
Verified Verified
Rockville Centre, NY 11570  (Online Only)
We all have our stories to tell and narratives to make sense of our lives. But as you go through life, sometimes, things are not at all what they seem. What you feel inside and how you function in your life don’t always align. Hardships such as trauma, abuse, divorce, loss, and feelings of oppression mask and confuse our inner compass. We tend to hold conflict and unfinished business in our bodies. These experiences affect our relationships with others, but more importantly, affect our connection with ourselves.
We all have our stories to tell and narratives to make sense of our lives. But as you go through life, sometimes, things are not at all what they seem. What you feel inside and how you function in your life don’t always align. Hardships such as trauma, abuse, divorce, loss, and feelings of oppression mask and confuse our inner compass. We tend to hold conflict and unfinished business in our bodies. These experiences affect our relationships with others, but more importantly, affect our connection with ourselves.
(516) 614-4374 View (516) 614-4374
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Rachel Reich
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Cedarhurst, NY 11516
I specialize in treating adults and adolescents struggling with emotions that often feel unmanageable or overwhelming. Whether you'd like help with anxiety, depression, frustration, low self-esteem, or any other dysregulated emotion, I can help you to build the tools to manage those experiences effectively and, ultimately, to find joy in the process. I also work with couples and families to strengthen communication and build connectedness. We'll work together to understand why you're feeling the way you do and then to uncover strengths and practices you can use to reach your goals.
I specialize in treating adults and adolescents struggling with emotions that often feel unmanageable or overwhelming. Whether you'd like help with anxiety, depression, frustration, low self-esteem, or any other dysregulated emotion, I can help you to build the tools to manage those experiences effectively and, ultimately, to find joy in the process. I also work with couples and families to strengthen communication and build connectedness. We'll work together to understand why you're feeling the way you do and then to uncover strengths and practices you can use to reach your goals.
(516) 614-6233 View (516) 614-6233
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Molly Miskiewicz
Licensed Master Social Worker, LMSW, SIFI
Verified Verified
Baldwin, NY 11510  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Asking for help is an act of courage; it is one of the bravest things you can do. As an eclectic therapist, Molly primarily draws from psychodynamic, relational, cognitive behavioral, and humanistic theory to provide an inclusive, affirming, trauma-sensitive space for individuals to engage in healing and self-exploration. Molly has experience working in inpatient and outpatient settings with adults battling challenges including PTSD/complex trauma, domestic/intimate partner violence, mood disorders, LGBTQIA+ issues, personality disorders, and perinatal mental health.
Asking for help is an act of courage; it is one of the bravest things you can do. As an eclectic therapist, Molly primarily draws from psychodynamic, relational, cognitive behavioral, and humanistic theory to provide an inclusive, affirming, trauma-sensitive space for individuals to engage in healing and self-exploration. Molly has experience working in inpatient and outpatient settings with adults battling challenges including PTSD/complex trauma, domestic/intimate partner violence, mood disorders, LGBTQIA+ issues, personality disorders, and perinatal mental health.
(347) 933-6478 View (347) 933-6478
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Jasmine Trangucci
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, PLLC, THTC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Baldwin, NY 11510  (Online Only)
I am a bilingual LCSW-R with over 18 years experience in the field. My practice areas are working with adults, adolescents, children, couples and families. Expert telemental health clinician recognized by the TeleMental Health Training Certificate (THTC)
I am a bilingual LCSW-R with over 18 years experience in the field. My practice areas are working with adults, adolescents, children, couples and families. Expert telemental health clinician recognized by the TeleMental Health Training Certificate (THTC)
(917) 746-5389 View (917) 746-5389
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Abba Cohen
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cedarhurst, NY 11516
I work with children, individuals & couples. In my work with children I engage them in a non-pressured environment using play & talk therapy as I work with them and their parents to help understand their world, increase awareness, promote effective communication & find meaningful solutions. I do a lot of work with individuals who struggle with anxiety, depression or anger to learn to cope and express themselves. I selectively use family & interpersonal dynamics. I use EFT to help couples improve the intimacy and closeness that they crave in their marriage while improving communication and understanding.
I work with children, individuals & couples. In my work with children I engage them in a non-pressured environment using play & talk therapy as I work with them and their parents to help understand their world, increase awareness, promote effective communication & find meaningful solutions. I do a lot of work with individuals who struggle with anxiety, depression or anger to learn to cope and express themselves. I selectively use family & interpersonal dynamics. I use EFT to help couples improve the intimacy and closeness that they crave in their marriage while improving communication and understanding.
(646) 583-3608 View (646) 583-3608
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Dr. Mitch and Lisa Marriages/Couples Workshops
PsyD, MSW, Life, Coach
Verified Verified
Uniondale, NY 11553
Relationships in Crisis: We Have Several Private Couples/Marriage Workshops & Individual Sessions, in order to Rapidly Accelerate Your Healing & Your Communication Process (Traditional 45 min. session Simply Does Not Work). During these 2 to 4 weeks, we will see both of you Together & Individually, as well as Help each of you Learn the Art of Empathy, Sensitivity & Compassion. These Workshops are Informative & Powerful, in order to Accelerate the Healing Process & Stop any further Damage from Occurring. In Addition, Our Success RATE is 85% of Our Couples that have Successfully Completed Our Couples Workshops or Alcohol Treatment.
Relationships in Crisis: We Have Several Private Couples/Marriage Workshops & Individual Sessions, in order to Rapidly Accelerate Your Healing & Your Communication Process (Traditional 45 min. session Simply Does Not Work). During these 2 to 4 weeks, we will see both of you Together & Individually, as well as Help each of you Learn the Art of Empathy, Sensitivity & Compassion. These Workshops are Informative & Powerful, in order to Accelerate the Healing Process & Stop any further Damage from Occurring. In Addition, Our Success RATE is 85% of Our Couples that have Successfully Completed Our Couples Workshops or Alcohol Treatment.
(516) 604-5107 View (516) 604-5107
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Michelle Scantlebury@ Common Practice Counseling
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, CASAC
Verified Verified
Valley Stream, NY 11580  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
At a time in your life you may need a little help making things more manageable. You might have tried to fix all your problems by yourself... you have asked family and friends for advise... a higher power to make things better , to give you the strength and foresight to face all your troubles. You've even tried to do your best until you learn better but nothing seem to change. If you don't make the time to work on creating the life you want , you are eventually going to be forced to spend a lot of time dealing with the life you don't want.
At a time in your life you may need a little help making things more manageable. You might have tried to fix all your problems by yourself... you have asked family and friends for advise... a higher power to make things better , to give you the strength and foresight to face all your troubles. You've even tried to do your best until you learn better but nothing seem to change. If you don't make the time to work on creating the life you want , you are eventually going to be forced to spend a lot of time dealing with the life you don't want.
(929) 207-6412 View (929) 207-6412
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Justin Dantzler
Pre-Licensed Professional, MHC
Verified Verified
Baldwin, NY 11510  (Online Only)
Have the past few years been mentally challenging for you? Have you been mentally impacted by the pandemic? Justin provides supports and strategies to help you address concerns for more balanced living. At times, we can tend to be harder on ourselves than the external world. We are all people, being. Let’s work together to help achieve your ideal self!
Have the past few years been mentally challenging for you? Have you been mentally impacted by the pandemic? Justin provides supports and strategies to help you address concerns for more balanced living. At times, we can tend to be harder on ourselves than the external world. We are all people, being. Let’s work together to help achieve your ideal self!
(631) 818-2053 View (631) 818-2053
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Vincent Franco
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Merrick, NY 11566
The fundamental goal of practice is to help clients reach their full potential. I aim to create a safe and judgement free space where my clients can feel comfortable working on any issue they feel is significant and requires attention. I will help you find a solution. I have been working in the field for the past six years. I have experience working with anxiety and panic issues, trauma, mood disorders, depressive symptoms, relationship and marital issues, and more. I have dedicated my life to helping others heal themselves. If I’m unavailable please leave me a voicemail and I will return your call as soon as possible.
The fundamental goal of practice is to help clients reach their full potential. I aim to create a safe and judgement free space where my clients can feel comfortable working on any issue they feel is significant and requires attention. I will help you find a solution. I have been working in the field for the past six years. I have experience working with anxiety and panic issues, trauma, mood disorders, depressive symptoms, relationship and marital issues, and more. I have dedicated my life to helping others heal themselves. If I’m unavailable please leave me a voicemail and I will return your call as soon as possible.
(727) 607-0098 View (727) 607-0098
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Randi Zimmerman @ Randi Z. Therapy Consulting
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, CEDS-S
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Rockville Centre, NY 11570
At The Time is Always Now Therapy Group, Randi Zimmerman, LCSW-R, CEDS-S and her team are ready for you! "What lies before you and what lies behind you are tiny matters compared to what lies within you." - Ralph Waldo Emerson. For those who wish to be the best they can be, to heal and strive and connect, therapy can help you achieve the highest quality of your life. Your unique strengths will be uncovered and cultivated to help you meet the challenges before you. You will be guided and nurtured to achieve and exceed your goals, to take the risks necessary to fulfill your dreams. The time to start is now!
At The Time is Always Now Therapy Group, Randi Zimmerman, LCSW-R, CEDS-S and her team are ready for you! "What lies before you and what lies behind you are tiny matters compared to what lies within you." - Ralph Waldo Emerson. For those who wish to be the best they can be, to heal and strive and connect, therapy can help you achieve the highest quality of your life. Your unique strengths will be uncovered and cultivated to help you meet the challenges before you. You will be guided and nurtured to achieve and exceed your goals, to take the risks necessary to fulfill your dreams. The time to start is now!
(516) 986-4345 View (516) 986-4345
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Yaakov Abramovitz
PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cedarhurst, NY 11516
If you’re looking for help, there is a good chance that you've felt overwhelmed by your thoughts and feelings, or felt lost in your relationships or life itself. I collaborate with each individual and couple, helping them feel understood and seen, rather than jumping to any quick-fix solutions. Using principles and skills drawn from both skills based and compassion focused approaches, I strive to help clients learn more about their underlying values, sense of self, and patterns that have played out in their lives. Through this process, we work collaboratively to develop the skills and insight to move towards fulfillment and purpose.
If you’re looking for help, there is a good chance that you've felt overwhelmed by your thoughts and feelings, or felt lost in your relationships or life itself. I collaborate with each individual and couple, helping them feel understood and seen, rather than jumping to any quick-fix solutions. Using principles and skills drawn from both skills based and compassion focused approaches, I strive to help clients learn more about their underlying values, sense of self, and patterns that have played out in their lives. Through this process, we work collaboratively to develop the skills and insight to move towards fulfillment and purpose.
(646) 585-7231 View (646) 585-7231
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Alexandra LaRocco
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Long Beach, NY 11561  (Online Only)
Join me on a journey of self-exploration, understanding, and growth through a holistic lens. While providing an empathetic and nonjudgmental environment, I will work alongside you to create greater self-awareness and develop healthy ways to navigate life. I specialize in working with adolescents and adults struggling with anxiety, OCD, perfectionism, depression, trauma, grief, alcohol & substance use, and people-pleasing tendencies. Whatever you are going through, I am here to help support, guide, and empower you in leading a more genuine and fulfilling life.
Join me on a journey of self-exploration, understanding, and growth through a holistic lens. While providing an empathetic and nonjudgmental environment, I will work alongside you to create greater self-awareness and develop healthy ways to navigate life. I specialize in working with adolescents and adults struggling with anxiety, OCD, perfectionism, depression, trauma, grief, alcohol & substance use, and people-pleasing tendencies. Whatever you are going through, I am here to help support, guide, and empower you in leading a more genuine and fulfilling life.
(516) 604-3530 View (516) 604-3530
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Elana Friedman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CCTP
Verified Verified
22 Endorsed
Garden City, NY 11530
Is pain from your past and worry about your future hurting your present? As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional specializing in treating adults with a history of trauma, I am dedicated to helping you achieve a deeper understanding of yourself and others in order to heal from past experiences and live the life that is reflective of who you truly are! Feelings of depression, anxiety, isolation and insecurity can impair your functioning and inhibit traumatic healing. During our sessions, I will work with you to relieve these symptoms and promote true, lasting healing!
Is pain from your past and worry about your future hurting your present? As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional specializing in treating adults with a history of trauma, I am dedicated to helping you achieve a deeper understanding of yourself and others in order to heal from past experiences and live the life that is reflective of who you truly are! Feelings of depression, anxiety, isolation and insecurity can impair your functioning and inhibit traumatic healing. During our sessions, I will work with you to relieve these symptoms and promote true, lasting healing!
(516) 219-0068 View (516) 219-0068
Borderline Personality (BPD) Therapists

What is the most successful approach to treating borderline personality disorder?

Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) is considered the gold standard of treatment for borderline personality disorder. An evidence-based treatment, it addresses the extreme emotional reactivity, the relationship difficulties, and the acts of self-harm that create so much distress for BPD patients. DBT is a comprehensive program that includes both regular individual psychotherapy sessions and weekly group sessions of skills training.

What happens in treatment of borderline personality disorder?

Treatment typically consists of weekly individual therapy sessions that last an hour and group skill-focused instructional sessions that may last up to two hours. Patients are typically given homework “assignments” in which they are asked to practice in their daily life the skills they acquire in therapy. Patients also keep a diary tracking their emotions and impulses as a way to know which situations are most problematic and to help them gain control over their own behavior. Difficult situations and feelings are typically reviewed in therapy sessions and more constructive solutions found.

What kinds of problems does BPD treatment help with?

DBT was initially developed to dampen the self-destructive impulses of chronically suicidal patients. It is now the treatment of choice for borderline personality disorder, a serious condition marked by extreme emotional reactivity, relationship instability, and self-injurious behaviors. Treatment of BPD helps patients tolerate the flux of emotions without acting on them, often with a specific focus on tolerating negative emotions. DBT addresses the core problems of BPD—fear of abandonment, low self-esteem, and impulsivity.

What is the goal of treatment in borderline personality disorder?

The goal of treatment for borderline personality disorder (BPD) is to relieve the extreme emotional distress that patients experience—to curb their emotional reactivity, to minimize their inclination to self-harm, and to reduce their impulsivity. Toward these ends, patients are not only taught an array of new coping skills and techniques for emotional regulation, they are given opportunities to practice them. Another major goal of treatment is interpersonal effectiveness; patients learn and problem-solve ways to effectively communicate in relationships, especially how to ask for what they need as a way to minimize hurt feelings.