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Unify Counseling Inc: Individual & Couples
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Evanston, IL 60202
Whether you are feeling overwhelmed, stressed out, confused, frustrated, discouraged, disappointed, lost, anxious, sad or angry, you are not alone. Most of us experience those feelings at some point in our lives. We care about the people we serve, and we believe every person is individual, authentic, and unique. We use evidence-based practice (EBP) methods for mental health to help children, pre-teens, teenagers, adults, couples, and families to live their best lives. We understand that therapy can seem scary and intimidating, though we know that finding the support you need is the key to starting the self- healing process.
Whether you are feeling overwhelmed, stressed out, confused, frustrated, discouraged, disappointed, lost, anxious, sad or angry, you are not alone. Most of us experience those feelings at some point in our lives. We care about the people we serve, and we believe every person is individual, authentic, and unique. We use evidence-based practice (EBP) methods for mental health to help children, pre-teens, teenagers, adults, couples, and families to live their best lives. We understand that therapy can seem scary and intimidating, though we know that finding the support you need is the key to starting the self- healing process.
(773) 985-3761 View (773) 985-3761
Photo of Jodi Novick Okner LCSW, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Evanston, IL
Jodi Novick Okner LCSW
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Evanston, IL 60201  (Online Only)
Families, couples , our LGBTQ community - all are welcome.
Hello and thank you for taking the time to read my profile. It would be an honor to get to know you. I see myself as a coach working with you to reduce anxiety. Our work together will help you identify the unique patterns of communication specific to you and your family. You will start to make sense of how these patterns permeate every aspect of your life in all significant relationships. Do these patterns help you function more effectively or keep you stuck? Five years ago I took the plunge and opened my own clinical practice. I am passionate and committed to my clients as they share, in confidence, the stories of their lives.
Families, couples , our LGBTQ community - all are welcome.
Hello and thank you for taking the time to read my profile. It would be an honor to get to know you. I see myself as a coach working with you to reduce anxiety. Our work together will help you identify the unique patterns of communication specific to you and your family. You will start to make sense of how these patterns permeate every aspect of your life in all significant relationships. Do these patterns help you function more effectively or keep you stuck? Five years ago I took the plunge and opened my own clinical practice. I am passionate and committed to my clients as they share, in confidence, the stories of their lives.
(224) 279-6518 View (224) 279-6518
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Ben Fogel
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Evanston, IL 60201  (Online Only)
I specialize in helping people achieve lasting and meaningful change in their lives. My goal is to help you increase your understanding of yourself and your struggles, alleviate emotional pain, and help you lead a fulfilling and meaningful life. I frequently work with people who experience anxiety or depression, or feelings related to a life change or transition. I also work extensively with couples to re-establish intimacy and connection, and to communicate effectively.
I specialize in helping people achieve lasting and meaningful change in their lives. My goal is to help you increase your understanding of yourself and your struggles, alleviate emotional pain, and help you lead a fulfilling and meaningful life. I frequently work with people who experience anxiety or depression, or feelings related to a life change or transition. I also work extensively with couples to re-establish intimacy and connection, and to communicate effectively.
(224) 279-6360 View (224) 279-6360
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Tamara Claman
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Evanston, IL 60201
As a therapist, I aim to develop a strong and positive working relationship with my clients. My clinical approach is collaborative, active, respectful and genuine. I strive to create a warm therapeutic atmosphere where you will feel understood and comfortable exploring your concerns openly and effectively. As a licensed clinical psychologist with over 20 years of experience, my practice draws on insight-oriented, cognitive-behavioral and solutions-based approaches as well as other well established therapy models. In addition to depression, anxiety and relationship/interpersonal concerns, I specialize in addressing life transitions, identity development, self-esteem, resilience after setback, work/study impasses and career concerns.
As a therapist, I aim to develop a strong and positive working relationship with my clients. My clinical approach is collaborative, active, respectful and genuine. I strive to create a warm therapeutic atmosphere where you will feel understood and comfortable exploring your concerns openly and effectively. As a licensed clinical psychologist with over 20 years of experience, my practice draws on insight-oriented, cognitive-behavioral and solutions-based approaches as well as other well established therapy models. In addition to depression, anxiety and relationship/interpersonal concerns, I specialize in addressing life transitions, identity development, self-esteem, resilience after setback, work/study impasses and career concerns.
(847) 737-3018 View (847) 737-3018
Photo of Tami Nadine Meer, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Evanston, IL
Tami Nadine Meer
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Evanston, IL 60201
I have been a certified private practitioner since 1987. I believe in having a warm, friendly, and open approach to well-being. I have extensive experience with children, adolescents, adults, older adults, couples and families. One area of expertise is with special education and special needs children. I am certified as both a school social worker and a principal. Another area of expertise is with the caregivers of both older adults and children with disabilities. I am certified by Ross Greene, in his CPS approach. I currently have private practices in Arlington Heights and Evanston. I participate in several insurance panels.
I have been a certified private practitioner since 1987. I believe in having a warm, friendly, and open approach to well-being. I have extensive experience with children, adolescents, adults, older adults, couples and families. One area of expertise is with special education and special needs children. I am certified as both a school social worker and a principal. Another area of expertise is with the caregivers of both older adults and children with disabilities. I am certified by Ross Greene, in his CPS approach. I currently have private practices in Arlington Heights and Evanston. I participate in several insurance panels.
(847) 929-9413 View (847) 929-9413
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Rosie Gianforte
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Evanston, IL 60201
I provide psychotherapy to individuals, high school/college students, couples and families.
It's a brave decision to seek therapy and the experience can be the greatest gift you give yourself. I offer a relaxing space where you can reflect and focus on personal growth and positive change. I provide positive feedback to help you address current life challenges and resolve long standing issues. Often the goal of therapy can be as simple as becoming aware of patterns and understanding how your motivations are linked to certain behaviors.
I provide psychotherapy to individuals, high school/college students, couples and families.
It's a brave decision to seek therapy and the experience can be the greatest gift you give yourself. I offer a relaxing space where you can reflect and focus on personal growth and positive change. I provide positive feedback to help you address current life challenges and resolve long standing issues. Often the goal of therapy can be as simple as becoming aware of patterns and understanding how your motivations are linked to certain behaviors.
(773) 417-5596 View (773) 417-5596
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Alan M Levin
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, JD, MA, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Evanston, IL 60201
As a therapist who was a lawyer for over 30 years, I am uniquely positioned to work with lawyers and other men and women in high stress occupations, dealing with issues of anxiety, self-esteem, depression, work life balance, relational challenges, occupational dissatisfaction, and difficulties accessing, expressing and regulating emotion. I work with individuals, couples and groups. Although my practice is not limited to lawyers, a significant percentage of my private practice clients are attorneys. You can learn more about me from our websites at CareForLawyers.com and EvanstonTherapy.com.
As a therapist who was a lawyer for over 30 years, I am uniquely positioned to work with lawyers and other men and women in high stress occupations, dealing with issues of anxiety, self-esteem, depression, work life balance, relational challenges, occupational dissatisfaction, and difficulties accessing, expressing and regulating emotion. I work with individuals, couples and groups. Although my practice is not limited to lawyers, a significant percentage of my private practice clients are attorneys. You can learn more about me from our websites at CareForLawyers.com and EvanstonTherapy.com.
(847) 906-2057 View (847) 906-2057
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Jamie Amitrano
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Evanston, IL 60201  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Using a mix of attachment theory, strategic therapy, and experiential approaches, you can be sure I will keep you engaged and motivated to show up to sessions where you will participate in more than just talk therapy. I obtained my master's degree in marriage and family therapy from Wheaton College and describe myself as a "systems thinker." I welcome the opportunity to meet with families, couples, or adult individuals. I also have a special interest in working with couples navigating ADHD, families with older children, and individuals struggling with codependency.
Using a mix of attachment theory, strategic therapy, and experiential approaches, you can be sure I will keep you engaged and motivated to show up to sessions where you will participate in more than just talk therapy. I obtained my master's degree in marriage and family therapy from Wheaton College and describe myself as a "systems thinker." I welcome the opportunity to meet with families, couples, or adult individuals. I also have a special interest in working with couples navigating ADHD, families with older children, and individuals struggling with codependency.
(224) 487-8181 View (224) 487-8181
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Dr. Peter W. Demuth
Psychologist, PsyD, MS
Verified Verified
Evanston, IL 60201
And as Henry Thoreau once stated: It takes two (a relationship) to speak the truth, -- one to speak, and another to hear.
The purpose of therapy is to help you get beyond a state of elementary survival -to a place where there's energy to be creative, the drive to motivate yourself, some space to take a walk, and perhaps time to attend a class. You may ask yourself constantly: "Isn't there more to life than struggle? Instead of walking in circles wouldn't it be nice to expand your horizons and gain a new perspective? Therapy is the place to do such things. It's a safe environment to become more awake and to develop more fully your genuine Self.
And as Henry Thoreau once stated: It takes two (a relationship) to speak the truth, -- one to speak, and another to hear.
The purpose of therapy is to help you get beyond a state of elementary survival -to a place where there's energy to be creative, the drive to motivate yourself, some space to take a walk, and perhaps time to attend a class. You may ask yourself constantly: "Isn't there more to life than struggle? Instead of walking in circles wouldn't it be nice to expand your horizons and gain a new perspective? Therapy is the place to do such things. It's a safe environment to become more awake and to develop more fully your genuine Self.
(847) 416-0090 View (847) 416-0090
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Susan Ruth Schwendener
Licensed Professional Counselor, LCPC, LMFT
Verified Verified
Evanston, IL 60201  (Online Only)
Are you stressed or stalled in achieving your personal, relationship, or career dreams? My goal is to help you to better understand your dreams, thoughts, and behaviors that hinder or help you in achieving these goals. We then collaborate on identifying your strengths and using them to find solutions that empower you. We will use insight-oriented and accountability practices to help you remain productive and to challenge thoughts, coping patterns, or unconscious beliefs that may be keeping you stuck or in limbo.
Are you stressed or stalled in achieving your personal, relationship, or career dreams? My goal is to help you to better understand your dreams, thoughts, and behaviors that hinder or help you in achieving these goals. We then collaborate on identifying your strengths and using them to find solutions that empower you. We will use insight-oriented and accountability practices to help you remain productive and to challenge thoughts, coping patterns, or unconscious beliefs that may be keeping you stuck or in limbo.
(773) 345-6528 View (773) 345-6528
Photo of Kathy Bogie, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Evanston, IL
Kathy Bogie
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Evanston, IL 60201
I have over 30 years experience in doing therapy with children, teens, and adults. More than half this time has been spent helping children and teens, and their parents, deal with social/emotional difficulties of childhood and adolescence. Areas I have been focusing on include school performance, peer relationships, parent-child relationships, self esteem, anxiety issues, and depression. I also have considerable experience in working with family issues, including divorce, and in working with individual adults who are experiencing anxiety, depression, self esteem, or relationship issues.
I have over 30 years experience in doing therapy with children, teens, and adults. More than half this time has been spent helping children and teens, and their parents, deal with social/emotional difficulties of childhood and adolescence. Areas I have been focusing on include school performance, peer relationships, parent-child relationships, self esteem, anxiety issues, and depression. I also have considerable experience in working with family issues, including divorce, and in working with individual adults who are experiencing anxiety, depression, self esteem, or relationship issues.
(224) 365-8598 View (224) 365-8598
Photo of Beatrice Finkelstein, Psychologist in Evanston, IL
Beatrice Finkelstein
Psychologist, RN, PsyD
Verified Verified
Evanston, IL 60201
Each person entering therapy has unique needs that demand an individual approach. Providing a warm, accepting and empathic environment, I draw from a variety of psychotherapeutic models tailored to the needs of each client. With many years of experience as a mental health professional, including over 20 years as a licensed clinical psychologist and a previous career as a psychiatric nurse, I have worked with many individuals and couples with a variety of issues. My clients can expect to emerge from therapy better equipped to address the challenges they face now and those they will confront in the future.
Each person entering therapy has unique needs that demand an individual approach. Providing a warm, accepting and empathic environment, I draw from a variety of psychotherapeutic models tailored to the needs of each client. With many years of experience as a mental health professional, including over 20 years as a licensed clinical psychologist and a previous career as a psychiatric nurse, I have worked with many individuals and couples with a variety of issues. My clients can expect to emerge from therapy better equipped to address the challenges they face now and those they will confront in the future.
(847) 920-7523 View (847) 920-7523
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Nechama Chammie Freedman
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Evanston, IL 60201  (Online Only)
The support of a safe and trusting relationship provides the catalyst we need to foster change in ourselves when we need it most.
Seeking help can be hard. Whether it is your first time seeking out therapy or a return to treatment, I’m here to help you work towards your goals. Are you struggling to face the day? Or just feeling stuck? I believe therapy works best when we can gain increased insight into our behaviors and patterns, giving us a deeper understanding about why we tend to cope the way we do. This insight helps us gain awareness about how to change those patterns and move towards healthier coping and relationships.
The support of a safe and trusting relationship provides the catalyst we need to foster change in ourselves when we need it most.
Seeking help can be hard. Whether it is your first time seeking out therapy or a return to treatment, I’m here to help you work towards your goals. Are you struggling to face the day? Or just feeling stuck? I believe therapy works best when we can gain increased insight into our behaviors and patterns, giving us a deeper understanding about why we tend to cope the way we do. This insight helps us gain awareness about how to change those patterns and move towards healthier coping and relationships.
(224) 204-0639 View (224) 204-0639
Photo of Valerie Werner, Marriage & Family Therapist in Evanston, IL
Valerie Werner
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Verified Verified
Evanston, IL 60202
I have many years of counseling with individuals, couples, families and children. Creating a safe, welcoming space where healing, learning, growing can occur is essential for the therapeutic process which takes many forms, and is based on the needs of each person, couple or family. The therapeutic process is a shared journey and in my counseling role I help support and guide the process.
I have many years of counseling with individuals, couples, families and children. Creating a safe, welcoming space where healing, learning, growing can occur is essential for the therapeutic process which takes many forms, and is based on the needs of each person, couple or family. The therapeutic process is a shared journey and in my counseling role I help support and guide the process.
(224) 252-8815 View (224) 252-8815
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Denise Simmons Giblin
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, DMin, MS, LCSW, EMDR
Verified Verified
Evanston, IL 60201
People come to Dr. Giblin with problems of anxiety, depression, trauma, and relationship problems. She has been in practice for 30 years working with adults of all ages. She is attuned to understanding childhood patterns that no longer work and may contribute to one's current stress. Dr. Giblin is trained in both classical psychodynamic understanding and also in the newer modes of somatic intervention. She is focused and goal oriented while maintaining a constancy of compassion and care in integrating the new somatic therapies with an integration of of depth psychology.
People come to Dr. Giblin with problems of anxiety, depression, trauma, and relationship problems. She has been in practice for 30 years working with adults of all ages. She is attuned to understanding childhood patterns that no longer work and may contribute to one's current stress. Dr. Giblin is trained in both classical psychodynamic understanding and also in the newer modes of somatic intervention. She is focused and goal oriented while maintaining a constancy of compassion and care in integrating the new somatic therapies with an integration of of depth psychology.
(847) 316-0403 View (847) 316-0403
Photo of Alex Garcia, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Evanston, IL
Alex Garcia
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Evanston, IL 60201
In my work as a therapist, I support adults who want to develop a deeper understanding of their mind and what makes up their sense-of-self. This can be difficult, painful, and confusing. That is why I prioritize the relationship in therapy. We are relational beings, and many difficulties we experience need to be worked through within the context of a relationship. I will be curious about the parts of you that are unknown like unconscious patterns of thought,behavior, and experience. I will hold space for you as you share parts of you that might feel too ugly or imperfect in order to help you experience less shame and more wholeness.
In my work as a therapist, I support adults who want to develop a deeper understanding of their mind and what makes up their sense-of-self. This can be difficult, painful, and confusing. That is why I prioritize the relationship in therapy. We are relational beings, and many difficulties we experience need to be worked through within the context of a relationship. I will be curious about the parts of you that are unknown like unconscious patterns of thought,behavior, and experience. I will hold space for you as you share parts of you that might feel too ugly or imperfect in order to help you experience less shame and more wholeness.
(847) 238-8579 View (847) 238-8579
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Linda L. Hoff-Hagensick
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MA
Verified Verified
Evanston, IL 60201
With over thirty years of experience, I love working with couples and individuals who are in all seasons of the life cycle - from young adulthood to later life. I specialize in helping people resolve complicated relationship issues and interpersonal problems. "Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results..." is a saying in 12 Step programs. If those words resonate with you, I will be glad to help you try to understand what your patterns are about and how to change them. I am especially sensitiveto understanding clients in their cultural and faith contexts.
With over thirty years of experience, I love working with couples and individuals who are in all seasons of the life cycle - from young adulthood to later life. I specialize in helping people resolve complicated relationship issues and interpersonal problems. "Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results..." is a saying in 12 Step programs. If those words resonate with you, I will be glad to help you try to understand what your patterns are about and how to change them. I am especially sensitiveto understanding clients in their cultural and faith contexts.
(847) 834-9991 View (847) 834-9991
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Martin McCarthy Jr.
Psychologist
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Evanston, IL 60201
All of us -- women and men, young and old, poor, middle class and upscale folks, minorities and majorities -- have to deal with complexity. As a therapist I help heal hurts from the past, assist clients in managing present challenges, and work collaboratively to create more satisfying future lives. The people who see me for individual, couples and family therapy represent a culturally diverse group. Their difficulties range from anxiety and depression, to stress disorders, OCD/OCPD, relationship problems, employment issues, and bereavement. Many of these women and men report quick progress in better managing their personal, family, academic, and work lives.
All of us -- women and men, young and old, poor, middle class and upscale folks, minorities and majorities -- have to deal with complexity. As a therapist I help heal hurts from the past, assist clients in managing present challenges, and work collaboratively to create more satisfying future lives. The people who see me for individual, couples and family therapy represent a culturally diverse group. Their difficulties range from anxiety and depression, to stress disorders, OCD/OCPD, relationship problems, employment issues, and bereavement. Many of these women and men report quick progress in better managing their personal, family, academic, and work lives.
(847) 562-5895 View (847) 562-5895
Photo of Bill Graston, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Evanston, IL
Bill Graston
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Evanston, IL 60201
I am a psychotherapist with over 25 years of experience providing individual therapy and couples counseling to adults. My nonjudgmental approach, which entails kindness, empathy, and support coupled with honest and direct feedback, leads my clients to feel safe and understood - vital to successful therapy. In addition to depression and anxiety, relationship issues are a primary focus of mine, whether that involves dissatisfaction with a current relationship, frustration with establishing relationships, or trauma-related experiences with others.
I am a psychotherapist with over 25 years of experience providing individual therapy and couples counseling to adults. My nonjudgmental approach, which entails kindness, empathy, and support coupled with honest and direct feedback, leads my clients to feel safe and understood - vital to successful therapy. In addition to depression and anxiety, relationship issues are a primary focus of mine, whether that involves dissatisfaction with a current relationship, frustration with establishing relationships, or trauma-related experiences with others.
(847) 908-3544 View (847) 908-3544
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Debora Romeo
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Evanston, IL 60201
I offer treatment for trauma, depression, PTSD, anxiety, self-esteem and relationship issues for individuals and couples.
I provide collaborative psychotherapy services for adults, teens, couples, groups, and families with a warm integrative approach. Using the best of solution-focused and goal-oriented psychotherapies, including EMDR therapy, I offer clients tools and processes, which specifically address their unique problems and concerns. We will continue to assess your needs and goals on a regular basis and will work together as you achieve the healing and skills that you desire and deserve. I offer the opportunity for you to find joy in all areas of your life and relationships, especially your relationship with yourself!
I offer treatment for trauma, depression, PTSD, anxiety, self-esteem and relationship issues for individuals and couples.
I provide collaborative psychotherapy services for adults, teens, couples, groups, and families with a warm integrative approach. Using the best of solution-focused and goal-oriented psychotherapies, including EMDR therapy, I offer clients tools and processes, which specifically address their unique problems and concerns. We will continue to assess your needs and goals on a regular basis and will work together as you achieve the healing and skills that you desire and deserve. I offer the opportunity for you to find joy in all areas of your life and relationships, especially your relationship with yourself!
(847) 773-5607 View (847) 773-5607
Couples Counseling Therapists

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.