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Eric Gregory Braun
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, SAP, LSW, LMSW, CCFC
Verified Verified
Dunkirk, NY 14048
I am Eric Braun and I have been a Social Worker for 20 years. I have experience in treating various mental health, addiction, and forensic issues. I use a variety of effective treatment techniques in utilizing your strengths to assist you in overcoming difficulties, attaining your goals and feeling your best. In addition, I am credentialed as a Substance Abuse Professional (SAP) in that I can provide evaluations to individuals working in safety-sensitive occupations who are covered under the Department of Transportation, for the purpose of the Return-to-Duty Process.
I am Eric Braun and I have been a Social Worker for 20 years. I have experience in treating various mental health, addiction, and forensic issues. I use a variety of effective treatment techniques in utilizing your strengths to assist you in overcoming difficulties, attaining your goals and feeling your best. In addition, I am credentialed as a Substance Abuse Professional (SAP) in that I can provide evaluations to individuals working in safety-sensitive occupations who are covered under the Department of Transportation, for the purpose of the Return-to-Duty Process.
(716) 281-5053 View (716) 281-5053

Online Therapists

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Khristopher Decker
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, MSW
Verified Verified
Buffalo, NY 14202  (Online Only)
Some areas of specialty include work with people from the LGBTQ+ population, self-esteem issues, depression/anxiety management, addiction/substance use issues, trauma recovery, gender affirming care/medical procedure evaluations, sex/sexuality related concerns, and couples counseling.
There will be times when each of us will struggle in life. If you have been having a challenging time with a new situation or want to change something that you have been experiencing for a while now, counseling can help. The need to work on accepting and affirming ourselves for who we are, managing symptoms of depression, anxiety, and traumatic experiences, family & relationship difficulties, improving our self-esteem, navigating today's stressful world, and managing work/career issues are part of many people's experience at one time or another. I believe we all have the ability to improve our health and lives.
Some areas of specialty include work with people from the LGBTQ+ population, self-esteem issues, depression/anxiety management, addiction/substance use issues, trauma recovery, gender affirming care/medical procedure evaluations, sex/sexuality related concerns, and couples counseling.
There will be times when each of us will struggle in life. If you have been having a challenging time with a new situation or want to change something that you have been experiencing for a while now, counseling can help. The need to work on accepting and affirming ourselves for who we are, managing symptoms of depression, anxiety, and traumatic experiences, family & relationship difficulties, improving our self-esteem, navigating today's stressful world, and managing work/career issues are part of many people's experience at one time or another. I believe we all have the ability to improve our health and lives.
(716) 325-1404 View (716) 325-1404
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Christine Turturro
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, MHC-P
Verified Verified
Buffalo, NY 14221
My areas of clinical focus are oppositional defiance and conduct disorders, cluster B personalities, and sex therapy with a trauma informed approach.
Navigating conflict and emotional response is a crucial part of the human experience. In some cases, these challenges can become overwhelming or put us in positions where we feel disconnected from our authentic selves. Working with a mental health professional can help us to navigate our individual needs. I believe in an integrative model, prioritizing autonomy and truth to oneself.
My areas of clinical focus are oppositional defiance and conduct disorders, cluster B personalities, and sex therapy with a trauma informed approach.
Navigating conflict and emotional response is a crucial part of the human experience. In some cases, these challenges can become overwhelming or put us in positions where we feel disconnected from our authentic selves. Working with a mental health professional can help us to navigate our individual needs. I believe in an integrative model, prioritizing autonomy and truth to oneself.
(716) 222-8493 View (716) 222-8493
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Lisa K. Willis
Psychologist, PhD, CGP
Verified Verified
Rochester, NY 14623
Attachment & relationship concerns are a focus of my work as are identity questions: sexuality, gender, career, family roles; sexual dysfunction ; codependency, trauma/abuse.
The basis of any good counseling relationship is finding someone you connect with & who seems to "get you". I strive to provide an environment that facilitates trust, respect, compassion & understanding for your uniqueness. I work in a proactive, collaborative, flexible & transparent way. I am direct & open, offer honest feedback & insightful challenges. I help you search for maladaptive patterns & work with you on trying intentional new approaches. I believe everyone has core strengths that with the right support & guidance will serve as a foundation for more self-confidence, healthier relationships & increased self-fulfillment.
Attachment & relationship concerns are a focus of my work as are identity questions: sexuality, gender, career, family roles; sexual dysfunction ; codependency, trauma/abuse.
The basis of any good counseling relationship is finding someone you connect with & who seems to "get you". I strive to provide an environment that facilitates trust, respect, compassion & understanding for your uniqueness. I work in a proactive, collaborative, flexible & transparent way. I am direct & open, offer honest feedback & insightful challenges. I help you search for maladaptive patterns & work with you on trying intentional new approaches. I believe everyone has core strengths that with the right support & guidance will serve as a foundation for more self-confidence, healthier relationships & increased self-fulfillment.
(585) 412-8272 View (585) 412-8272
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Ashera DeRosa
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Buffalo, NY 14213
When it pertains to your intimate life, you deserve nothing less than outstanding, compassionate care. It is an incredibly vulnerable act to open up about your struggles with sexuality. Whether your issues stem from trauma, dysfunction, or secrets, I see you and I hold space for you. Healing is possible, even in the spiciest of circumstances. I am a Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy provider and Brainspotting Therapist. I am honored to accompany people in their trauma recovery and am happy to swim in the deep end with you.
When it pertains to your intimate life, you deserve nothing less than outstanding, compassionate care. It is an incredibly vulnerable act to open up about your struggles with sexuality. Whether your issues stem from trauma, dysfunction, or secrets, I see you and I hold space for you. Healing is possible, even in the spiciest of circumstances. I am a Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy provider and Brainspotting Therapist. I am honored to accompany people in their trauma recovery and am happy to swim in the deep end with you.
(716) 466-5509 View (716) 466-5509
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Rene A Jones
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MSEd
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Amherst, NY 14226
As a certified sex therapist, I am trained to help with desire discrepancies, erection difficulties, orgasm challenges, & inability to have sex.
Hello - I have been practicing relationship therapy since 1999 and opened my practice in 2001. In my years of working with couples and individuals, I have learned that change is possible even when it seems hopeless. I understand the courage it takes to share your personal life with a stranger. I am honored to assist couples and individuals who are struggling with relationship issues, sexual concerns, sexual identity and chronic illness. My goal is to assist client(s) in attaining their goals in a healthy way. I invite you to browse my web site: www.couplescounseling.biz
As a certified sex therapist, I am trained to help with desire discrepancies, erection difficulties, orgasm challenges, & inability to have sex.
Hello - I have been practicing relationship therapy since 1999 and opened my practice in 2001. In my years of working with couples and individuals, I have learned that change is possible even when it seems hopeless. I understand the courage it takes to share your personal life with a stranger. I am honored to assist couples and individuals who are struggling with relationship issues, sexual concerns, sexual identity and chronic illness. My goal is to assist client(s) in attaining their goals in a healthy way. I invite you to browse my web site: www.couplescounseling.biz
(716) 703-8969 View (716) 703-8969
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Couple & Relationship Therapy: An MFT Practice
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, SEP
Verified Verified
Buffalo, NY 14203
Some specialties are: Affairs (Emotional/Physical); Anger Management, Anxiety; Child/Adolescent Anxiety & School Pressures; Eating Disorders; Sex Addiction;Sex Dysfunctions; Sexual Identity; Trauma.
Making the decision to come to therapy is a difficult & courageous one. We understand this & make every effort to create safety while challenging our clients to create the life they want. We specializing in treating couples who are struggling with communication challenges, sexual concerns, sexual dysfunction, parenting, recovering from affairs (emotional & physical). We have therapists who specialize in kink, nonmonogamy, sexual addiction, eating disorders, and healing from trauma/grief. We know how chaotic people's lives are, so we have availabity seven days a week & have evening hours. We look forward to helping you.
Some specialties are: Affairs (Emotional/Physical); Anger Management, Anxiety; Child/Adolescent Anxiety & School Pressures; Eating Disorders; Sex Addiction;Sex Dysfunctions; Sexual Identity; Trauma.
Making the decision to come to therapy is a difficult & courageous one. We understand this & make every effort to create safety while challenging our clients to create the life they want. We specializing in treating couples who are struggling with communication challenges, sexual concerns, sexual dysfunction, parenting, recovering from affairs (emotional & physical). We have therapists who specialize in kink, nonmonogamy, sexual addiction, eating disorders, and healing from trauma/grief. We know how chaotic people's lives are, so we have availabity seven days a week & have evening hours. We look forward to helping you.
(716) 462-5869 View (716) 462-5869
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Jessica Morillo
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Rochester, NY 14623
Waitlist for new clients
I welcome you as you on your journey to attain your best self. I will hold space and support you to process, gain insight and make the changes you seek. I've been a dedicated therapist for 15 years and I love working with individuals and couples with a wide variety of issues. As I work towards AASECT certification as a Sex Therapist, I offer special expertise to help you achieve your ideal sexual/relationship functioning. I invite you to consider vulnerability as we work through your issues with an Attachment-oriented lens. Let's work to improve the way you relate and give/receive love.
I welcome you as you on your journey to attain your best self. I will hold space and support you to process, gain insight and make the changes you seek. I've been a dedicated therapist for 15 years and I love working with individuals and couples with a wide variety of issues. As I work towards AASECT certification as a Sex Therapist, I offer special expertise to help you achieve your ideal sexual/relationship functioning. I invite you to consider vulnerability as we work through your issues with an Attachment-oriented lens. Let's work to improve the way you relate and give/receive love.
(585) 797-1399 View (585) 797-1399
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Rachel Pancake
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Buffalo, NY 14212
I am constantly inspired by the knowledge and depth people can reach when they are eager to explore themselves. I am always honored to help clients consider both their light and dark sides on their adventure into growth. I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist practicing via telemedicine. I earned my Masters with an emphasis in sexuality and relationships from California State University, Northridge. I have specialized in treating Eating Disorders through my rewarding work with Monte Nido. My international work helping communities in conflict and poverty led to an invaluable empathy and understanding for cultural diversity.
I am constantly inspired by the knowledge and depth people can reach when they are eager to explore themselves. I am always honored to help clients consider both their light and dark sides on their adventure into growth. I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist practicing via telemedicine. I earned my Masters with an emphasis in sexuality and relationships from California State University, Northridge. I have specialized in treating Eating Disorders through my rewarding work with Monte Nido. My international work helping communities in conflict and poverty led to an invaluable empathy and understanding for cultural diversity.
(805) 549-4229 View (805) 549-4229
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Shay Kahani
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Buffalo, NY 14209  (Online Only)
I am sex, relationship and trauma certified therapist who helps clients to explore their sexuality and find the right place for them.
Sometimes we can feel stress and lost with relationships, our families, and ourselves. We all need help. Someone to listen to up. You might wish you could improve your sex life in your romantic relationships, or change your family and relationships interactions. Maybe you want to live a calm and peaceful life and overcome past traumas that don't let you move on. Replaying your history over and over, wishing things were different. It might be the way you think and treat yourself that brought you here. Maybe you want to discover more about yourself and never knew how.
I am sex, relationship and trauma certified therapist who helps clients to explore their sexuality and find the right place for them.
Sometimes we can feel stress and lost with relationships, our families, and ourselves. We all need help. Someone to listen to up. You might wish you could improve your sex life in your romantic relationships, or change your family and relationships interactions. Maybe you want to live a calm and peaceful life and overcome past traumas that don't let you move on. Replaying your history over and over, wishing things were different. It might be the way you think and treat yourself that brought you here. Maybe you want to discover more about yourself and never knew how.
(716) 466-9608 View (716) 466-9608
Photo of Lisa Anllo, Psychologist in Fredonia, NY
Lisa Anllo
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
13 Endorsed
Buffalo, NY 14209
My focus is on couples/sex therapy for which I have advanced post-doctoral training and over 25 years experience.
I am a Licensed Clinical Psychologist who is highly experienced in treating adults with marital/relationship problems and problems related to sexuality and gender identity. I also specialize in treatment of emotional distress and sexual dysfunction in cancer survivors. My orientation is insight oriented and attachment based, and is focused on developmental issues in the individual and in the couple. I am particularly interested in assisting with existential crises that may affect intimate partnerships. In addition to my private practice I am available as an expert speaker on cancer survivorship and sexuality and cancer.
My focus is on couples/sex therapy for which I have advanced post-doctoral training and over 25 years experience.
I am a Licensed Clinical Psychologist who is highly experienced in treating adults with marital/relationship problems and problems related to sexuality and gender identity. I also specialize in treatment of emotional distress and sexual dysfunction in cancer survivors. My orientation is insight oriented and attachment based, and is focused on developmental issues in the individual and in the couple. I am particularly interested in assisting with existential crises that may affect intimate partnerships. In addition to my private practice I am available as an expert speaker on cancer survivorship and sexuality and cancer.
(716) 638-2252 View (716) 638-2252
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Sally Fries
MS, MHC-P
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Buffalo, NY 14226
I am seeking individual clients who are looking to address sex and sexuality-related concerns. I provide a non-judgmental, sex-positive environment in which my clients and I can seek deeper understanding of their sexuality and barriers to experiencing a sense of sexual wholeness. I also work with clients who struggle with emotion dysregulation, depression, anxiety, trauma, and major life changes. If you are looking to make changes and need support, I can help.
I am seeking individual clients who are looking to address sex and sexuality-related concerns. I provide a non-judgmental, sex-positive environment in which my clients and I can seek deeper understanding of their sexuality and barriers to experiencing a sense of sexual wholeness. I also work with clients who struggle with emotion dysregulation, depression, anxiety, trauma, and major life changes. If you are looking to make changes and need support, I can help.
(716) 320-9352 View (716) 320-9352
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Maureen Ryan
DNP, AHNP, CSC, NBC-HWC
Verified Verified
Williamsville, NY 14221
As a Nurse Practitioner, sex therapist and intimacy counselor, I believe love and connection are central to human happiness. Through discreet virtual sessions, I help individuals and couples overcome obstacles to intimacy – opening the door to deeper connections, with increased love and affection. Difficulties with intimacy can arise at different points across the lifespan. Childbirth, stress of work/life balance, menopause, cancer treatments, and aging can all create or intensify barriers to sexual fulfillment.
As a Nurse Practitioner, sex therapist and intimacy counselor, I believe love and connection are central to human happiness. Through discreet virtual sessions, I help individuals and couples overcome obstacles to intimacy – opening the door to deeper connections, with increased love and affection. Difficulties with intimacy can arise at different points across the lifespan. Childbirth, stress of work/life balance, menopause, cancer treatments, and aging can all create or intensify barriers to sexual fulfillment.
(716) 508-3690 View (716) 508-3690
Photo of Melody Miller, Counselor in Fredonia, NY
Melody Miller
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Buffalo, NY 14228
Waitlist for new clients
I work with adult clients on a wide range of concerns including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, career challenges, sexuality, and codependency.
Hi, my name is Melody. I am a Licensed Mental Health counselor with over 13 years of experience. I am currently offering telehealth and in-person therapy.
I work with adult clients on a wide range of concerns including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, career challenges, sexuality, and codependency.
Hi, my name is Melody. I am a Licensed Mental Health counselor with over 13 years of experience. I am currently offering telehealth and in-person therapy.
(716) 281-5468 View (716) 281-5468
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Ashlee Rudolph
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Andover, NY 14806  (Online Only)
Hi there! My name is Ash. I have been a licensed therapist in New York state for 8 years, but have been in the field in other ways for much longer than that. I am a laid back, down-to-earth therapist and I use a supportive, open, collaborative approach , using various therapeutic techniques, to help people live the lives they want. I provide a safe, non-judgmental, empathetic space for you to work on your issues, while also respectfully holding you accountable to help you break unhelpful patterns.
Hi there! My name is Ash. I have been a licensed therapist in New York state for 8 years, but have been in the field in other ways for much longer than that. I am a laid back, down-to-earth therapist and I use a supportive, open, collaborative approach , using various therapeutic techniques, to help people live the lives they want. I provide a safe, non-judgmental, empathetic space for you to work on your issues, while also respectfully holding you accountable to help you break unhelpful patterns.
(646) 576-7254 View (646) 576-7254
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Danielle Luz Matias
Counselor, LMHC, LPC
Verified Verified
Rochester, NY 14624
The goal of my practice is to improve the quality of life of my clients and assist them reach their full potential and personal goals. Specializing in family and couple therapy. I also specialize in depression and anxiety. The ideal client will be dedicated to their own treatment and have a strong desire to feel better. Together with my client we work as a team to achieve the therapeutic goals and make life worth living and enjoying. I have been working in a mental health for over a decade and it's my greatest passion in life.
The goal of my practice is to improve the quality of life of my clients and assist them reach their full potential and personal goals. Specializing in family and couple therapy. I also specialize in depression and anxiety. The ideal client will be dedicated to their own treatment and have a strong desire to feel better. Together with my client we work as a team to achieve the therapeutic goals and make life worth living and enjoying. I have been working in a mental health for over a decade and it's my greatest passion in life.
(646) 204-2295 View (646) 204-2295
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Kelli O'Donnell
Licensed Master Social Worker, MSW, LMSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Williamsville, NY 14221
In the heart of every challenge lies an opportunity to reshape our perspectives. With an open and empathetic mindset, I specialize in guiding my clients through life’s intricate labyrinth of difficulties to uncover the roots of these challenges and the pathways to well-being. As a licensed therapist committed to your growth, I cultivate a warm therapeutic alliance grounded in positivity where your struggles serve as catalysts for profound transformation. In our sessions, I provide you with a safe haven rooted in the values of relationship-building, acceptance, empathy, and empowerment.
In the heart of every challenge lies an opportunity to reshape our perspectives. With an open and empathetic mindset, I specialize in guiding my clients through life’s intricate labyrinth of difficulties to uncover the roots of these challenges and the pathways to well-being. As a licensed therapist committed to your growth, I cultivate a warm therapeutic alliance grounded in positivity where your struggles serve as catalysts for profound transformation. In our sessions, I provide you with a safe haven rooted in the values of relationship-building, acceptance, empathy, and empowerment.
(347) 658-5061 View (347) 658-5061
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Melissa Stadler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
Hamburg, NY 14075  (Online Only)
Life is something, isn’t it? Moments of joy, accomplishment, and meaning can feel fleeting, and many of us find we spend much of our time wondering if we’re the only ones struggling to picture what contentment even looks like. Actually maintaining it in our daily lives can seem impossible. We look around at our families, our careers, our friendships, our relationships with our children, and we see areas where there is room for growth and change. The difference between noticing what we want to improve and having the strength, support, and courage to actually do it though can feel vast. And lonely.
Life is something, isn’t it? Moments of joy, accomplishment, and meaning can feel fleeting, and many of us find we spend much of our time wondering if we’re the only ones struggling to picture what contentment even looks like. Actually maintaining it in our daily lives can seem impossible. We look around at our families, our careers, our friendships, our relationships with our children, and we see areas where there is room for growth and change. The difference between noticing what we want to improve and having the strength, support, and courage to actually do it though can feel vast. And lonely.
(716) 412-2368 View (716) 412-2368
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Darci Cramer
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
East Aurora, NY 14052
PRE-LICENSED MFTs AVAILABLE TO SEE COUPLES AND FAMILIES FOR $100/SESSION. I have been working with couples and families for over 20 years, specializing in relationships. I work with couples who want to improve their relationship, figure out where it's going, or end it with as much peace as possible, with families where there has been divorce and child behavior problems, and with individuals who have anxiety or depression. Therapy is based in the present and is short-term. You should see results quickly, and if you don't, something about the way therapy is going needs to change. Your time and money will not be wasted.
PRE-LICENSED MFTs AVAILABLE TO SEE COUPLES AND FAMILIES FOR $100/SESSION. I have been working with couples and families for over 20 years, specializing in relationships. I work with couples who want to improve their relationship, figure out where it's going, or end it with as much peace as possible, with families where there has been divorce and child behavior problems, and with individuals who have anxiety or depression. Therapy is based in the present and is short-term. You should see results quickly, and if you don't, something about the way therapy is going needs to change. Your time and money will not be wasted.
(716) 568-7348 View (716) 568-7348
Photo of Suzanne Marie Boling, Counselor in Fredonia, NY
Suzanne Marie Boling
Counselor, MS, LMHC
Verified Verified
Tonawanda, NY 14150  (Online Only)
I have 30 years of experience working with adolescents and adults. Highly experienced in working with adolescents needing to find their way through lifes challenging times. Also expertise in relationship/marital issues. I am kind, compassionate and love to help my clients make positive choices in life. I will guide you and encourage you to move on to a happier, healthier life. Anxiety, depression, self esteem, eating disorders, ADD, ADHD are just some of my expertise. You have just taken the first step to working on a happier you, be proud!
I have 30 years of experience working with adolescents and adults. Highly experienced in working with adolescents needing to find their way through lifes challenging times. Also expertise in relationship/marital issues. I am kind, compassionate and love to help my clients make positive choices in life. I will guide you and encourage you to move on to a happier, healthier life. Anxiety, depression, self esteem, eating disorders, ADD, ADHD are just some of my expertise. You have just taken the first step to working on a happier you, be proud!
(716) 317-5657 View (716) 317-5657

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Sex Therapy

Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.