Photo of Karen Zimmerman, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Matawan, NJ
Karen Zimmerman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Matawan, NJ 07747
I am passionate about helping people. I have over 25 years experience working with individuals, couples, children and adolescents. My warm and friendly style puts clients at ease so they can feel free to address any issue that brings them to counseling.
I am passionate about helping people. I have over 25 years experience working with individuals, couples, children and adolescents. My warm and friendly style puts clients at ease so they can feel free to address any issue that brings them to counseling.
(732) 570-7110 View (732) 570-7110

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Photo of Susan M. Cattermole, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Matawan, NJ
Susan M. Cattermole
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, CCTP, CYT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Middletown, NJ 07748
Not accepting new clients
My scope includes: stress, trauma, depression, anxiety, relationships, substances, divorce, parenting, pregnancy/postpartum, grief/loss, suicide, domestic violence, self-esteem, adoption, gender, sexuality, and issues related to military.
Clients: ages 18 and over- I am honored to have been in the field over 25 years; the last 22 years as a licensed therapist. I believe it's important to find a therapist you feel comfortable with, and I wish you luck on this healing journey. I utilize a client-centered approach and a warm, relational style. I was educated in a variety of interventions, so that I can find and tailor the best treatment strategy for you and the specific issues you are facing. I have a specialty in trauma, provide EMDR, and work often with stress, anxiety, and depression. I am also a yoga teacher, which I infuse into my work and my life.
My scope includes: stress, trauma, depression, anxiety, relationships, substances, divorce, parenting, pregnancy/postpartum, grief/loss, suicide, domestic violence, self-esteem, adoption, gender, sexuality, and issues related to military.
Clients: ages 18 and over- I am honored to have been in the field over 25 years; the last 22 years as a licensed therapist. I believe it's important to find a therapist you feel comfortable with, and I wish you luck on this healing journey. I utilize a client-centered approach and a warm, relational style. I was educated in a variety of interventions, so that I can find and tailor the best treatment strategy for you and the specific issues you are facing. I have a specialty in trauma, provide EMDR, and work often with stress, anxiety, and depression. I am also a yoga teacher, which I infuse into my work and my life.
(732) 658-4590 View (732) 658-4590
Photo of Stephen D Chece Ph.d., Psychologist in Matawan, NJ
Stephen D Chece Ph.d.
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Middletown, NJ 07748
I am a licensed psychologist in NJ, NY & PA for over 35 years. I incorporate a holistic approach, emphasizing mind, body, spirit and emotion. I am passionate about our work together & I still approach each person enthusiastically & with great respect. My work increases your ability to feel, to love, to hope, to heal, and to succeed. Clients are helped to problem solve and live in joy and peace rather than in pain and fear. This process involves in depth explorations of understanding purpose in life via prayer, mindfulness meditation, exploring and understanding thoughts, emotions, behaviors & the importance of true spirituality.
I am a licensed psychologist in NJ, NY & PA for over 35 years. I incorporate a holistic approach, emphasizing mind, body, spirit and emotion. I am passionate about our work together & I still approach each person enthusiastically & with great respect. My work increases your ability to feel, to love, to hope, to heal, and to succeed. Clients are helped to problem solve and live in joy and peace rather than in pain and fear. This process involves in depth explorations of understanding purpose in life via prayer, mindfulness meditation, exploring and understanding thoughts, emotions, behaviors & the importance of true spirituality.
(732) 481-0415 View (732) 481-0415
Photo of Joseph Zdeb, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Matawan, NJ
Joseph Zdeb
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Middletown, NJ 07748
If you’re reading this congratulations on taking the first step towards achieving your goals. You’ve decided to reach out and sometimes that is the hardest part. For over 15 years I’ve enjoyed helping those navigate the path to healing. I believe a safe and empathic environment is the foundation to this path. My practice works with those facing trauma, anxiety, depression, grief, performance issues, adoption, and relationship conflict. After many years behind the athletic bench I also have a passion for working with athletes and performers seeking to enhance the mental side of their game or barriers that impact their performance.
If you’re reading this congratulations on taking the first step towards achieving your goals. You’ve decided to reach out and sometimes that is the hardest part. For over 15 years I’ve enjoyed helping those navigate the path to healing. I believe a safe and empathic environment is the foundation to this path. My practice works with those facing trauma, anxiety, depression, grief, performance issues, adoption, and relationship conflict. After many years behind the athletic bench I also have a passion for working with athletes and performers seeking to enhance the mental side of their game or barriers that impact their performance.
(908) 287-1025 View (908) 287-1025
Photo of Beth L McGinley, Licensed Professional Counselor in Matawan, NJ
Beth L McGinley
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, EdS, LPC, CCTP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Freehold, NJ 07728
Hello! I am the founder of Positive Healing and Trauma Services. You have made the first step in a journey of self-discovery and healing! Specializing in treating personal mental health challenges and past trauma, we provide for safe experiences for our patients to learn how to made . We provide help in dealing with stress and trauma which affect physical and mental functioning. Through our work together, we learn to process uncomfortable emotions and problem behaviors or thoughts guiding our patients to learn effective grounding techniques to combat problematic moments. Healthy growth is a goal that we can work toward together.
Hello! I am the founder of Positive Healing and Trauma Services. You have made the first step in a journey of self-discovery and healing! Specializing in treating personal mental health challenges and past trauma, we provide for safe experiences for our patients to learn how to made . We provide help in dealing with stress and trauma which affect physical and mental functioning. Through our work together, we learn to process uncomfortable emotions and problem behaviors or thoughts guiding our patients to learn effective grounding techniques to combat problematic moments. Healthy growth is a goal that we can work toward together.
(732) 538-7662 View (732) 538-7662
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Life Psychotherapy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LPC, RDN
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Freehold, NJ 07728
LIFE PSYCHOTHERAPY is a private psychotherapy practice offering counseling services to children, adolescents, adults, elderly, couples, families, and groups. Since each person is unique, the approach to therapy is unique as well, combining existential philosophy with cognitive behavioral tools. The outcome empowers a person to feel empowered to take concrete actions in order to change or cope with their current level of distress, and achieve success in improving his/her life. Along with Psychotherapy we provide a variety of psycho-educational workshops to enhance personal growth and development without any stigma attached to psychotherapy.
LIFE PSYCHOTHERAPY is a private psychotherapy practice offering counseling services to children, adolescents, adults, elderly, couples, families, and groups. Since each person is unique, the approach to therapy is unique as well, combining existential philosophy with cognitive behavioral tools. The outcome empowers a person to feel empowered to take concrete actions in order to change or cope with their current level of distress, and achieve success in improving his/her life. Along with Psychotherapy we provide a variety of psycho-educational workshops to enhance personal growth and development without any stigma attached to psychotherapy.
(732) 595-4204 View (732) 595-4204
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Vanessa Reiser Narcissism Expert
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Leonardo, NJ 07737
Vanessa is a solution-focused psychotherapist licensed in NY, NJ, MA and FL specializing in Narcissistic Abuse and Cult Abuse, whose mission is to help individuals uncover their true potential and move forward toward all of their goals. Her team specializes in working with individuals and couples focusing on the treatment of trauma, anxiety, depression, PTSD, grief/loss, eating disorders, marriage or interpersonal relationship problems, alcohol or drug abuse, low self-esteem, or anyone in need of developing new ways to cope with life’s every day challenges. Go to tellatherapist.net or Insta: vanessareiserlcsw TikTok:vanessareiser
Vanessa is a solution-focused psychotherapist licensed in NY, NJ, MA and FL specializing in Narcissistic Abuse and Cult Abuse, whose mission is to help individuals uncover their true potential and move forward toward all of their goals. Her team specializes in working with individuals and couples focusing on the treatment of trauma, anxiety, depression, PTSD, grief/loss, eating disorders, marriage or interpersonal relationship problems, alcohol or drug abuse, low self-esteem, or anyone in need of developing new ways to cope with life’s every day challenges. Go to tellatherapist.net or Insta: vanessareiserlcsw TikTok:vanessareiser
(732) 307-9559 View (732) 307-9559
Photo of Mayya Fleyshmakher, Counselor in Matawan, NJ
Mayya Fleyshmakher
Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
Holmdel, NJ 07733
I am a modern and hip child/adolescent and adult psychotherapist looking to remove the stigma of therapy by making it accessible, solution based and engaging to young kids and teens. Therapy shouldn't be a punishment or a seen as a defeat. Yes of course, we will do hard work and it won't always be easy, but with years of experience and education, I am able to connect with my young clients and show them that together we can find a solution.
I am a modern and hip child/adolescent and adult psychotherapist looking to remove the stigma of therapy by making it accessible, solution based and engaging to young kids and teens. Therapy shouldn't be a punishment or a seen as a defeat. Yes of course, we will do hard work and it won't always be easy, but with years of experience and education, I am able to connect with my young clients and show them that together we can find a solution.
(732) 479-7246 View (732) 479-7246
Photo of Lisa Kliewe Worob, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Matawan, NJ
Lisa Kliewe Worob
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
East Brunswick, NJ 08816  (Online Only)
Hello! I hope you are proud of yourself for taking this important step towards a happier and healthier you! My approach to clinical care is direct, collaborative, and solution-focused, with you in the driver seat. I will be here every step of the way to guide you, yet the changes that will ensue will be a product of your hard work, consistency, and motivation towards becoming a better you. How exciting and empowering that is!
Hello! I hope you are proud of yourself for taking this important step towards a happier and healthier you! My approach to clinical care is direct, collaborative, and solution-focused, with you in the driver seat. I will be here every step of the way to guide you, yet the changes that will ensue will be a product of your hard work, consistency, and motivation towards becoming a better you. How exciting and empowering that is!
(609) 773-8063 View (609) 773-8063
Photo of Jill Berlin, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Matawan, NJ
Jill Berlin
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Red Bank, NJ 07701
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and a Certified School Social Worker with a Master's degree from Widener University and additional post graduate training focused on the needs of children. Throughout my career, I have worked with children and their families in group homes, partial care programming, wrap around services, and as a School Social Worker. I take pride in creating a safe, warm and nurturing environment for clients to explore their experiences.
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and a Certified School Social Worker with a Master's degree from Widener University and additional post graduate training focused on the needs of children. Throughout my career, I have worked with children and their families in group homes, partial care programming, wrap around services, and as a School Social Worker. I take pride in creating a safe, warm and nurturing environment for clients to explore their experiences.
(848) 252-1350 View (848) 252-1350
Photo of Stefanie Mastbeth Trento, Licensed Professional Counselor in Matawan, NJ
Stefanie Mastbeth Trento
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC, ACS, CYT
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Colts Neck, NJ 07722
I am passionate about helping individuals identify and implement coping strategies to assist in handling stressors and challenges they may face in their day-to-day life. I am dedicated to helping individuals achieve a sense of peace and serenity in today’s hectic world and help navigate through life's transitions. I utilize my knowledge of yoga to teach relaxation poses and mindfulness to my clients. Additionally, I have been trained to utilize yoga to help increase attention, manage sensory input, manage anxiety, and increase focus.
I am passionate about helping individuals identify and implement coping strategies to assist in handling stressors and challenges they may face in their day-to-day life. I am dedicated to helping individuals achieve a sense of peace and serenity in today’s hectic world and help navigate through life's transitions. I utilize my knowledge of yoga to teach relaxation poses and mindfulness to my clients. Additionally, I have been trained to utilize yoga to help increase attention, manage sensory input, manage anxiety, and increase focus.
(848) 216-0858 View (848) 216-0858
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Inner Clarity, LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Hazlet, NJ 07730
We specialize in the following areas: Adoption, Addictions, Anxiety, Depression, Trauma & Grief, Borderline Personality Disorder, Stress Management, and Energy Psychology for clients ages 6 to adulthood.
Inner Clarity, LLC is a group private practice comprised of professionals with varying areas of specialization. Our main goal is to provide a warm, inviting, and relaxing environment for our clients to engage in individual, family, couples, and/or group therapy with a professional who is skilled in meeting their clinical needs. We are an out-of-network provider and would be happy to verify benefits prior to starting services. Our office is able to bill out of network directly, so patients are only responsible for coinsurance at the time of service after deductible is met, and any balance outside of what insurance covers.
We specialize in the following areas: Adoption, Addictions, Anxiety, Depression, Trauma & Grief, Borderline Personality Disorder, Stress Management, and Energy Psychology for clients ages 6 to adulthood.
Inner Clarity, LLC is a group private practice comprised of professionals with varying areas of specialization. Our main goal is to provide a warm, inviting, and relaxing environment for our clients to engage in individual, family, couples, and/or group therapy with a professional who is skilled in meeting their clinical needs. We are an out-of-network provider and would be happy to verify benefits prior to starting services. Our office is able to bill out of network directly, so patients are only responsible for coinsurance at the time of service after deductible is met, and any balance outside of what insurance covers.
(848) 777-4276 View (848) 777-4276
Photo of Rachel H Bruncati, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate in Matawan, NJ
Rachel H Bruncati
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, LAMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Old Bridge, NJ 08857  (Online Only)
Welcome in my friend! My name is Rachel and I am a Licensed Associate Marriage and Family Therapist at Thrive Counseling Center. I have experience working with individuals, couples, and families - currently working with teens, premarital, and adjustments in life stages for families. I have a person-centered and embodied approach, intending to explore factors in and outside of our control to tailor coping skills appropriate for the client(s).
Welcome in my friend! My name is Rachel and I am a Licensed Associate Marriage and Family Therapist at Thrive Counseling Center. I have experience working with individuals, couples, and families - currently working with teens, premarital, and adjustments in life stages for families. I have a person-centered and embodied approach, intending to explore factors in and outside of our control to tailor coping skills appropriate for the client(s).
(732) 800-5646 View (732) 800-5646
Photo of Healing Road Counseling Services, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Matawan, NJ
Healing Road Counseling Services
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW, BBA, Author, EMDR
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Perth Amboy, NJ 08861
Do you feel stressed, anxious or depressed? Do you have problems with your partner or your children? Have you been a survivor of abuse? Do you feel like nobody understands you? Do you want to feel happy and enjoy life in your terms? Healing Road is here to help you. Schedule an appointment with us and start your journey to healing and happiness. Te sientes ansioso, estresado o triste? Tienes problemas de pareja o con tus hijos? Haz sido víctima de abuso? Sientes que nadie te entiende? Quieres ser feliz y vivir como quieras? Healing Road esta aquí para ayudarte. LLámanos y empieza tu camino de sanación.
Do you feel stressed, anxious or depressed? Do you have problems with your partner or your children? Have you been a survivor of abuse? Do you feel like nobody understands you? Do you want to feel happy and enjoy life in your terms? Healing Road is here to help you. Schedule an appointment with us and start your journey to healing and happiness. Te sientes ansioso, estresado o triste? Tienes problemas de pareja o con tus hijos? Haz sido víctima de abuso? Sientes que nadie te entiende? Quieres ser feliz y vivir como quieras? Healing Road esta aquí para ayudarte. LLámanos y empieza tu camino de sanación.
(908) 509-6117 View (908) 509-6117
Photo of Center for Therapy and Counseling Services LLC, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Matawan, NJ
Center for Therapy and Counseling Services LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Verified Verified
East Brunswick, NJ 08816
You have the power to change your story. Your past does not dictate your future. Be your own editor and rewrite your narrative. We welcome all people and invite you to join us in this journey towards healthier living. Our focus is on your unique possibilities and using your strengths to overcome challenges and change your path. You don’t have to face the difficulties of life alone. We provide a vast array of services and are ready to work with you in your personal journey towards a more confident, healthier and resilient future. Ready to take charge of your story?
You have the power to change your story. Your past does not dictate your future. Be your own editor and rewrite your narrative. We welcome all people and invite you to join us in this journey towards healthier living. Our focus is on your unique possibilities and using your strengths to overcome challenges and change your path. You don’t have to face the difficulties of life alone. We provide a vast array of services and are ready to work with you in your personal journey towards a more confident, healthier and resilient future. Ready to take charge of your story?
(732) 487-3390 View (732) 487-3390
Photo of Amanda Uhrig, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Matawan, NJ
Amanda Uhrig
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, RYT200
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
East Brunswick, NJ 08816
Congratulations on taking the first step towards a healthier, happier life! I am a believer that the goal of therapy is to not need it any longer - so we'll begin talking about what you want your life to look like at the end of treatment on day one. While we can't change difficult situations of the past, we can work together to better understand and resolve challenges in your life. I often use humor in my sessions - a little bit of laughter can be necessary to balance the heavy topics we'll cover together. I believe in targeting the root causes instead of treating just the symptoms so that you can enjoy long lasting improvements.
Congratulations on taking the first step towards a healthier, happier life! I am a believer that the goal of therapy is to not need it any longer - so we'll begin talking about what you want your life to look like at the end of treatment on day one. While we can't change difficult situations of the past, we can work together to better understand and resolve challenges in your life. I often use humor in my sessions - a little bit of laughter can be necessary to balance the heavy topics we'll cover together. I believe in targeting the root causes instead of treating just the symptoms so that you can enjoy long lasting improvements.
(908) 398-2051 View (908) 398-2051
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Lighthouse Counseling & Sand Play Training Center
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Red Bank, NJ 07701
Lighthouse Counseling & Sand Play Training Center, LLC was conceived in 2000 in a tiny office in Point Pleasant Beach, New Jersey by Gretchen Morgan and Mary Pat McGeehin. Their search for effective treatment led them to include the use of Sand Play Therapy, EMDR, yoga and therapeutic group work with their clients. This was in response to the expanding body of research which illustrated that the mind-body connection was integral to the healing of mental health issues. In 2004, they expanded their practice to include like-minded affiliate clinicians and moved to a larger facility in Eatontown, New Jersey.
Lighthouse Counseling & Sand Play Training Center, LLC was conceived in 2000 in a tiny office in Point Pleasant Beach, New Jersey by Gretchen Morgan and Mary Pat McGeehin. Their search for effective treatment led them to include the use of Sand Play Therapy, EMDR, yoga and therapeutic group work with their clients. This was in response to the expanding body of research which illustrated that the mind-body connection was integral to the healing of mental health issues. In 2004, they expanded their practice to include like-minded affiliate clinicians and moved to a larger facility in Eatontown, New Jersey.
(732) 380-1575 View (732) 380-1575
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Liz Marshall: Emdr Intensives
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Spotswood, NJ 08884
Waitlist for new clients
My approach as a therapist is relational & warm & I deeply honor the intentional time set aside by each of my clients to engage in the courageous work of change. As a trauma-informed provider, I work to co-create a compassionate and non-judgmental space & value offering clients transparency, power, & choice in our work together. Clients have shared that our work together has empowered them to feel safer in their bodies & emotions, set healthier boundaries & advocate for their needs, understand origins of beliefs & behaviors, create space to discover & practice new responses, & ultimately reclaim agency in their voice & life story.
My approach as a therapist is relational & warm & I deeply honor the intentional time set aside by each of my clients to engage in the courageous work of change. As a trauma-informed provider, I work to co-create a compassionate and non-judgmental space & value offering clients transparency, power, & choice in our work together. Clients have shared that our work together has empowered them to feel safer in their bodies & emotions, set healthier boundaries & advocate for their needs, understand origins of beliefs & behaviors, create space to discover & practice new responses, & ultimately reclaim agency in their voice & life story.
(732) 641-6814 View (732) 641-6814
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Integrated Care Concepts & Consultation
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MD, LPC, LCSW, LCADC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Eatontown, NJ 07799
Integrated Care Concepts and Consultation is a dynamic behavioral health practice that uses innovative treatment concepts to provide integrated care solutions for individuals, families, professionals, agencies, and communities. Integrated Care Concepts and Consultation embraces the total body healing modalities found in both Western and Eastern philosophies. We believe that healing oneself is a partnership with one's mind through traditional psychotherapy and with one's body. Our team of therapists are trained, certified and experienced in the most sensitive fields of care that affect us as individuals, couples, families, children, teenagers and adults.
Integrated Care Concepts and Consultation is a dynamic behavioral health practice that uses innovative treatment concepts to provide integrated care solutions for individuals, families, professionals, agencies, and communities. Integrated Care Concepts and Consultation embraces the total body healing modalities found in both Western and Eastern philosophies. We believe that healing oneself is a partnership with one's mind through traditional psychotherapy and with one's body. Our team of therapists are trained, certified and experienced in the most sensitive fields of care that affect us as individuals, couples, families, children, teenagers and adults.
(848) 208-7448 View (848) 208-7448
Photo of Carolyn D'Amico, Licensed Professional Counselor in Matawan, NJ
Carolyn D'Amico
Licensed Professional Counselor
Verified Verified
Colts Neck, NJ 07722
Hello there! My name is Carolyn, and my life's work is helping my clients work through difficult issues, manage symptoms of mental illness, and reach all of their goals. For over 20 years, I have helped clients achieve learn techniques to manage anxiety and depression, achieve balance and improve function in all areas of life. I particularly like working with individuals who are experiencing conflict in the family or relationship realm, and I have worked with any and all issues one could think of in these areas. My interventions are practical, realistic, and you are the most important team member in your treatment!
Hello there! My name is Carolyn, and my life's work is helping my clients work through difficult issues, manage symptoms of mental illness, and reach all of their goals. For over 20 years, I have helped clients achieve learn techniques to manage anxiety and depression, achieve balance and improve function in all areas of life. I particularly like working with individuals who are experiencing conflict in the family or relationship realm, and I have worked with any and all issues one could think of in these areas. My interventions are practical, realistic, and you are the most important team member in your treatment!
(732) 624-6270 View (732) 624-6270
Adoption Therapists

Does my adopted child need therapy?

Not every adopted child needs therapy. However, many can benefit from seeing an adoption-informed therapist, especially if they were victims of abuse or neglect, appear withdrawn or disconnected, have behavioral or developmental issues (which may or may not be related to their adoption), are struggling with feelings of grief or loss surrounding their birth parents, or find it difficult to establish an identity, a challenge that often becomes most apparent during adolescence.

When should adoptive parents seek therapy?

Prospective parents can benefit from therapy even before an adoption—for example, to voice worries and fears; to reconcile infertility struggles, if relevant; or simply to prepare themselves for parenthood. After the adoption, parents who are struggling to bond with their child; are unsure how to talk about adoption or related issues, such as race; or whose child is dealing with developmental, behavioral, or psychiatric concerns can address these and other issues with the help of an adoption-competent therapist.

Is family therapy appropriate for adoptive families?

Family therapy can be invaluable for strengthening the bond between adoptive parents and children, helping the latter feel more secure in their place in the family. Family therapy can also help adoptive families navigate complex communication issues—for example, parents who feel uncomfortable discussing race with their child, who in turn feels invalidated by their silence, or a child who has questions about his birth parents but avoids asking them out of fear of hurting his adoptive parents’ feelings.

What therapy is not appropriate for adoption issues?

A discredited therapy known as “attachment therapy” (sometimes called “holding therapy” or “rebirthing therapy”) should not be used to treat adopted and foster children, though it was largely designed for this population. Attachment therapy involves restraining, coercing, and punishing the child in order for them to “release” negative emotions and attach to their new caregivers—techniques that are abusive and dangerous and have even proven fatal in some cases.