Couples Counseling Therapists in San Jose, CA

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Laila Fatima Khan
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Jose, CA 95134  (Online Only)
I believe in the power of therapy and the therapeutic relationship.
Therapy can be helpful for anyone. Humans are relational beings and working with someone trained to hold your big thoughts and emotions can help you become a better you.
I believe in the power of therapy and the therapeutic relationship.
Therapy can be helpful for anyone. Humans are relational beings and working with someone trained to hold your big thoughts and emotions can help you become a better you.
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Gabriela Cibrian
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
San Jose, CA 95111
My name is Gabriela Cibrian and I am Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in the state of California. My passion is working with individuals and families to help them understand behavioral patterns within themselves to help them make positive changes. My style and approach to therapy are a good fit for children, teens, and adults who have experienced trauma and symptoms related to stress, anxiety, and depression. I specialize in working with clients to help them understand trauma responses and formulate a plan to create healthier thought patterns that lead to healthier behavioral patterns.
My name is Gabriela Cibrian and I am Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in the state of California. My passion is working with individuals and families to help them understand behavioral patterns within themselves to help them make positive changes. My style and approach to therapy are a good fit for children, teens, and adults who have experienced trauma and symptoms related to stress, anxiety, and depression. I specialize in working with clients to help them understand trauma responses and formulate a plan to create healthier thought patterns that lead to healthier behavioral patterns.
(209) 802-0574 View (209) 802-0574
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Rossana Rivellini, MA, LMFT
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
San Jose, CA 95135
I offer online & in person nature walks for Individuals and Couples in California. If you're experiencing emotional pain, depression, anxiety, or feeling unhappy with your life, you are doing the best thing for yourself in reaching out for professional help. I provide a confidential and nonjudgmental environment where you can explore deeper parts of yourself, understand behavioral patterns that might be negatively affecting you, and learn how to improve your relationships. My ultimate goal is to help you find healing and achieve your personal goals. It is my privilege and passion to witness my client's inner intelligence at work.
I offer online & in person nature walks for Individuals and Couples in California. If you're experiencing emotional pain, depression, anxiety, or feeling unhappy with your life, you are doing the best thing for yourself in reaching out for professional help. I provide a confidential and nonjudgmental environment where you can explore deeper parts of yourself, understand behavioral patterns that might be negatively affecting you, and learn how to improve your relationships. My ultimate goal is to help you find healing and achieve your personal goals. It is my privilege and passion to witness my client's inner intelligence at work.
(408) 637-5797 View (408) 637-5797
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Maggie Hernandez
Associate Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, AMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
San Jose, CA 95103
I also work with individuals & couples who may be struggling with traumatic events, challenging relationships, infidelity, addiction, and gender/sexuality identity issues or beliefs that leave them feeling powerless.
It can be challenging to find a therapist who gets you and can hold space for what you're dealing with. If you are looking to rediscover your life after surviving incredibly difficult experiences and want a relaxed environment, but a straightforward (no BS) therapist who treats you with compassion and respect, let’s talk. I understand healing can be messy and growth can be uncomfortable, so I blend empathy and genuine curiosity with dark humor and the occasional f-bomb to create a brave space for my clients to work through their most challenging experiences and achieve post-traumatic growth.
I also work with individuals & couples who may be struggling with traumatic events, challenging relationships, infidelity, addiction, and gender/sexuality identity issues or beliefs that leave them feeling powerless.
It can be challenging to find a therapist who gets you and can hold space for what you're dealing with. If you are looking to rediscover your life after surviving incredibly difficult experiences and want a relaxed environment, but a straightforward (no BS) therapist who treats you with compassion and respect, let’s talk. I understand healing can be messy and growth can be uncomfortable, so I blend empathy and genuine curiosity with dark humor and the occasional f-bomb to create a brave space for my clients to work through their most challenging experiences and achieve post-traumatic growth.
(805) 918-8218 View (805) 918-8218
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Ruzanna Ohanjanian
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
San Jose, CA 95115
To support my clients during this time of uncertainty, I am offering Tele-Therapy option for those who are distancing or quarantined. I am a California licensed clinical psychologist with over 15 years of experience working as a psychotherapist, life coach, corporate coach, and college professor. I have helped clients who have presented with a wide range of concerns, including depression, anxiety, PTSD, OCD, ADHD, relationship problems, divorce, parenting issues. I tailor the treatment to your specific needs and goals, combining insight-oriented, solution-focused, and multicultural perspectives.
To support my clients during this time of uncertainty, I am offering Tele-Therapy option for those who are distancing or quarantined. I am a California licensed clinical psychologist with over 15 years of experience working as a psychotherapist, life coach, corporate coach, and college professor. I have helped clients who have presented with a wide range of concerns, including depression, anxiety, PTSD, OCD, ADHD, relationship problems, divorce, parenting issues. I tailor the treatment to your specific needs and goals, combining insight-oriented, solution-focused, and multicultural perspectives.
(408) 641-5107 View (408) 641-5107
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Eva Miller
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
San Jose, CA 95123
My name is Eva Miller. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and I have been a therapist for over 16 years, helping kids, adults, and seniors with many kinds of challenges. My work with each person is unique. I assist clients with their specific situations and goals and we find solutions together. I help adolescents, adults, and seniors with many kinds of problems. My work with each person is unique. You may want help with mood, motivation, worry, or family stresses. I work with couples on relationship issues, parenting, and communication.
My name is Eva Miller. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and I have been a therapist for over 16 years, helping kids, adults, and seniors with many kinds of challenges. My work with each person is unique. I assist clients with their specific situations and goals and we find solutions together. I help adolescents, adults, and seniors with many kinds of problems. My work with each person is unique. You may want help with mood, motivation, worry, or family stresses. I work with couples on relationship issues, parenting, and communication.
(408) 762-3169 View (408) 762-3169
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Alex Lerza
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CSAT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Jose, CA 95124  (Online Only)
This is the last time. I can stop anytime. It's not like I'm the only one who does this. If you, your partner or child has said these words you are not alone. My clients select me because I offer practical tools to stop compulsive behaviors, have hundreds of hours of training in sexual addiction, can treat the underlying issues with scientifically validated techniques and have an approach that is compassionate and relational. I take a holistic approach that integrates addict, partner and couples therapy which is critical to lasting change. Check out my website for more info: alexlerza.com
This is the last time. I can stop anytime. It's not like I'm the only one who does this. If you, your partner or child has said these words you are not alone. My clients select me because I offer practical tools to stop compulsive behaviors, have hundreds of hours of training in sexual addiction, can treat the underlying issues with scientifically validated techniques and have an approach that is compassionate and relational. I take a holistic approach that integrates addict, partner and couples therapy which is critical to lasting change. Check out my website for more info: alexlerza.com
(408) 610-1356 View (408) 610-1356
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Anika Doherty
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
San Jose, CA 95118
Couples and relationships are at the heart of my practice. People seeking peace and wholeness within distressing relationships often face anxiety and or depression. I combine my training, using a diverse collection of trauma informed techniques, with my gifts as a therapist. I work collaboratively with couples and individuals to surface triggers that may be contributing to their distress. We’ll explore your patterns and explore new ways of relating to yourself and others.
Couples and relationships are at the heart of my practice. People seeking peace and wholeness within distressing relationships often face anxiety and or depression. I combine my training, using a diverse collection of trauma informed techniques, with my gifts as a therapist. I work collaboratively with couples and individuals to surface triggers that may be contributing to their distress. We’ll explore your patterns and explore new ways of relating to yourself and others.
(831) 256-3313 View (831) 256-3313
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Erick Santos
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EMDR
Verified Verified
San Jose, CA 95125
Has trauma, anxiety, or depression interfered with the potential to become the best version of yourself? We often feel defined by traumatic or emotionally difficult experiences then often leave us feeling stuck in place rather than moving forward towards our goals. I’m here to provide a safe, affirming space for you to develop an understanding of yourself to overcome past experiences or fears that define you. Our work together will be met with unconditional acceptance, creative approaches, and the utmost compassion.
Has trauma, anxiety, or depression interfered with the potential to become the best version of yourself? We often feel defined by traumatic or emotionally difficult experiences then often leave us feeling stuck in place rather than moving forward towards our goals. I’m here to provide a safe, affirming space for you to develop an understanding of yourself to overcome past experiences or fears that define you. Our work together will be met with unconditional acceptance, creative approaches, and the utmost compassion.
(408) 351-0417 View (408) 351-0417
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Michael Kirihara
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
San Jose, CA 95112
Whether you struggle with anxiety, depression, relationship issues, current or past trauma, or are simply seeking out a compassionate ear to gain insight, I am looking forward to meeting you.
Congratulations on taking the first step towards feeling better. Picking a therapist can be daunting experiencing, but you don't have to go it alone. I love working with people in order to make their lives more fulfilling. I get energy from those who are courageous enough to share their genuine self in the therapy space and anyone who strives towards a healthier life.
Whether you struggle with anxiety, depression, relationship issues, current or past trauma, or are simply seeking out a compassionate ear to gain insight, I am looking forward to meeting you.
Congratulations on taking the first step towards feeling better. Picking a therapist can be daunting experiencing, but you don't have to go it alone. I love working with people in order to make their lives more fulfilling. I get energy from those who are courageous enough to share their genuine self in the therapy space and anyone who strives towards a healthier life.
(408) 796-4381 View (408) 796-4381
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Lillian Azouz
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
San Jose, CA 95148
I have been doing psychotherapy for 6 years and became licensed in 2020. I have experience in CBT, DBT, trauma focused, distress tolerance, impulse control and solution focused therapy modalities. I have worked with children, adults, couples and families. I enjoy collaborating with my clients to get them to meet their mental health goals.
I have been doing psychotherapy for 6 years and became licensed in 2020. I have experience in CBT, DBT, trauma focused, distress tolerance, impulse control and solution focused therapy modalities. I have worked with children, adults, couples and families. I enjoy collaborating with my clients to get them to meet their mental health goals.
(916) 659-8051 View (916) 659-8051
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Amy Dunniway
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
San Jose, CA 95125
Have you ever looked at your life and thought, “Why is this happening? Is it always going to be like this? What can I do?” Do you feel anxious, sad or misunderstood more often than not? Maybe life seems easier and better for everyone around you. Maybe you're surrounded by people, but you feel alone. Your relationships feel like a struggle to maintain. Conflict and discomfort seem like the norm, not the exception. Sometimes it seems like it will never get better and no one understands.
Have you ever looked at your life and thought, “Why is this happening? Is it always going to be like this? What can I do?” Do you feel anxious, sad or misunderstood more often than not? Maybe life seems easier and better for everyone around you. Maybe you're surrounded by people, but you feel alone. Your relationships feel like a struggle to maintain. Conflict and discomfort seem like the norm, not the exception. Sometimes it seems like it will never get better and no one understands.
(669) 800-1205 View (669) 800-1205
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David S. Terry
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
San Jose, CA 95125
I offer clients a genuine and compassionate relationship and 30 yrs of experience to facilitate their emotional growth, insight and change.
Despite our evolutionary progress the essence of being human hasn’t changed. We require acceptance, understanding, compassion, love and connection. We struggle with our fears, hopes, dreams, and relationships. These are the common issues that bring people into therapy. The pathway to healing can be achieved in many ways. Each person has his/her own unique perception and emotional world and my first task is to understand yours. Together we can create your path to self acceptance, strength and resilience. Your first step is to accept responsibility, then to identify the critical components of your individuality and identity.
I offer clients a genuine and compassionate relationship and 30 yrs of experience to facilitate their emotional growth, insight and change.
Despite our evolutionary progress the essence of being human hasn’t changed. We require acceptance, understanding, compassion, love and connection. We struggle with our fears, hopes, dreams, and relationships. These are the common issues that bring people into therapy. The pathway to healing can be achieved in many ways. Each person has his/her own unique perception and emotional world and my first task is to understand yours. Together we can create your path to self acceptance, strength and resilience. Your first step is to accept responsibility, then to identify the critical components of your individuality and identity.
(408) 688-5916 View (408) 688-5916
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Simon Purse
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Jose, CA 95126
Accepting NEW clients! I have always been passionate about the human story. I find it remarkable to listen to my clients’ journey and create a space together to pause, reflect and heal. My own healing journey has taught me that life gets hard, healing is messy, and also...that we don’t have to go through it alone. The therapy space is a valuable one and a protected process that allows you to honor the truth of your unique self while better understanding the systems and structures that we operate within, allowing us to bring more balance into the way we see ourselves and our interactions with the world.
Accepting NEW clients! I have always been passionate about the human story. I find it remarkable to listen to my clients’ journey and create a space together to pause, reflect and heal. My own healing journey has taught me that life gets hard, healing is messy, and also...that we don’t have to go through it alone. The therapy space is a valuable one and a protected process that allows you to honor the truth of your unique self while better understanding the systems and structures that we operate within, allowing us to bring more balance into the way we see ourselves and our interactions with the world.
(650) 668-3538 View (650) 668-3538
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Cynthia Stava
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LPCC, CSAT, EMDR
Verified Verified
San Jose, CA 95128  (Online Only)
You will be able to set boundaries with your partner, feel confident with your decisions, have decreased anxiety and sleep issues and you’ll begin to feel like there is light at the end of the tunnel.
Are you struggling with porn, sex, or chem/sex addiction, and telling yourself that you can stop whenever you want to? Would you rather spend time on your device than be with friends, family, and loved ones? Have you tried to stop but become overwhelmed with anxiety or other negative emotions? There is help. Maybe your partner is looking at porn or acting out sexually? Are you constantly checking your partner's internet history, email accounts, and text message history? You might even be feeling crazy! Maybe your partner has said, "it's just porn. Why are you so upset?" or they are trying to shift the blame to you? There is help!
You will be able to set boundaries with your partner, feel confident with your decisions, have decreased anxiety and sleep issues and you’ll begin to feel like there is light at the end of the tunnel.
Are you struggling with porn, sex, or chem/sex addiction, and telling yourself that you can stop whenever you want to? Would you rather spend time on your device than be with friends, family, and loved ones? Have you tried to stop but become overwhelmed with anxiety or other negative emotions? There is help. Maybe your partner is looking at porn or acting out sexually? Are you constantly checking your partner's internet history, email accounts, and text message history? You might even be feeling crazy! Maybe your partner has said, "it's just porn. Why are you so upset?" or they are trying to shift the blame to you? There is help!
(442) 262-1151 View (442) 262-1151
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Laura Plottier-Ramirez
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Jose, CA 95126
My specialty areas include high-acuity trauma, depression, anxiety, relationship issues, parenting, substance use/dependency, foster-care and adoption, & probation.
Accepting NEW Clients! I'm a LMFT, first-gen immigrant, single mother of 2 beautiful biracial children, a creative artist & a director of a crisis program at a nonprofit org. Through my personal experience, I've navigated the challenges of adapting to a new culture after moving from France at 12. I experienced the struggles of displacement, longing, & searching for belonging that many first-gen immigrants face. I'm dedicated to helping you overcome obstacles, embrace your identity and find wholeness. Together, we'll explore narratives, uncover puzzle pieces, and embark on a transformative journey towards self-acceptance & resilience
My specialty areas include high-acuity trauma, depression, anxiety, relationship issues, parenting, substance use/dependency, foster-care and adoption, & probation.
Accepting NEW Clients! I'm a LMFT, first-gen immigrant, single mother of 2 beautiful biracial children, a creative artist & a director of a crisis program at a nonprofit org. Through my personal experience, I've navigated the challenges of adapting to a new culture after moving from France at 12. I experienced the struggles of displacement, longing, & searching for belonging that many first-gen immigrants face. I'm dedicated to helping you overcome obstacles, embrace your identity and find wholeness. Together, we'll explore narratives, uncover puzzle pieces, and embark on a transformative journey towards self-acceptance & resilience
(408) 901-8072 View (408) 901-8072
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Sven Ohah
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Jose, CA 95126
I believe in a compassionate approach to psychotherapy that combines valid and reliable assessments with a warm, focused attention to your emotional needs. As a clinical psychologist I can offer these objective measures of your cognitive abilities and personality traits, as well as ongoing weekly sessions tailored to provide you with active listening, understanding, and creative feedback. Working with adolescents and young adults are a particular focus of my practice.
I believe in a compassionate approach to psychotherapy that combines valid and reliable assessments with a warm, focused attention to your emotional needs. As a clinical psychologist I can offer these objective measures of your cognitive abilities and personality traits, as well as ongoing weekly sessions tailored to provide you with active listening, understanding, and creative feedback. Working with adolescents and young adults are a particular focus of my practice.
(408) 465-9955 View (408) 465-9955
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Silver Lake Psychology--San Jose location
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
San Jose, CA 95125
Therapy is a process of self-reflection and conversation that honors the struggles of life: career uncertainty, relationship decisions, loneliness, grief, and the ongoing pursuit self-love.
Learn how to feel more connected to yourself, others and the world around you. Therapy provides all the elements of intimacy: honest communication, vulnerability and trust. Good therapy is challenging yet warm, providing both structure and empathy for your unique experience. We are a collective of therapists with a wide range of specialties. Our intake professionals will help connect you with the right therapist for your needs. We make appointments easy, offering evenings and weekends and flexibility for creative professionals who can't make the same time each week.
Therapy is a process of self-reflection and conversation that honors the struggles of life: career uncertainty, relationship decisions, loneliness, grief, and the ongoing pursuit self-love.
Learn how to feel more connected to yourself, others and the world around you. Therapy provides all the elements of intimacy: honest communication, vulnerability and trust. Good therapy is challenging yet warm, providing both structure and empathy for your unique experience. We are a collective of therapists with a wide range of specialties. Our intake professionals will help connect you with the right therapist for your needs. We make appointments easy, offering evenings and weekends and flexibility for creative professionals who can't make the same time each week.
(408) 664-9153 View (408) 664-9153
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Domonique Casper Shaw
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Jose, CA 95113
I specialize in treating grief, relationship issues, depression, anxiety, and trauma.
What season of your personal and/or love life are you in? Are you in spring- full of hope and anticipation, summer- relaxed and enjoying life, fall- grappling with uncertainty, or winter- discouraged and disconnected? Unresolved or unaddressed grief and conflict can rob us of the ability to live life fully. Have you experienced disconnection in your relationship, breakup, divorce, loss of a loved one, health decline/medical issues, aging; or change associated with a move, new job, or COVID that is causing stress, anxiety, or depression? I can help you find inner peace while weathering the storm.
I specialize in treating grief, relationship issues, depression, anxiety, and trauma.
What season of your personal and/or love life are you in? Are you in spring- full of hope and anticipation, summer- relaxed and enjoying life, fall- grappling with uncertainty, or winter- discouraged and disconnected? Unresolved or unaddressed grief and conflict can rob us of the ability to live life fully. Have you experienced disconnection in your relationship, breakup, divorce, loss of a loved one, health decline/medical issues, aging; or change associated with a move, new job, or COVID that is causing stress, anxiety, or depression? I can help you find inner peace while weathering the storm.
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Allison McDermott
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, APCC
Verified Verified
San Jose, CA 95123
I understand not every therapist is a good fit, but I take priority in building a strong relationship with each of my clients.
I currently have immediate openings for both telehealth and in-person! I provide a safe, non-judgmental space to explore what's going on in your life, including uncomfortable emotions, relationship issues, and past experiences. I am empathic and open-minded, allowing each person to share their unique self in therapy. Therapy can be challenging and emotional, and together we can set goals that move you towards healing and self-improvement. I take a holistic approach to therapy, with an emphasis on your biological needs (exercise, sleep, nutrition, physical illness, etc). Therapy may be short-term or long-term.
I understand not every therapist is a good fit, but I take priority in building a strong relationship with each of my clients.
I currently have immediate openings for both telehealth and in-person! I provide a safe, non-judgmental space to explore what's going on in your life, including uncomfortable emotions, relationship issues, and past experiences. I am empathic and open-minded, allowing each person to share their unique self in therapy. Therapy can be challenging and emotional, and together we can set goals that move you towards healing and self-improvement. I take a holistic approach to therapy, with an emphasis on your biological needs (exercise, sleep, nutrition, physical illness, etc). Therapy may be short-term or long-term.
(408) 763-4730 View (408) 763-4730
Couples Counseling Therapists

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.