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Julie D. Raia #41143 Honor The Journey Counseling
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CADC ll
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Jose, CA 95125
In the field over twenty five years, I offer an empathetic and compassionate approach. Life can test us from time to time and we all need some support. My passion is working with adolescents, adults, couples, children of divorce and those looking to adopt. I can, also, support you through a life transition which can bring up lots of confusing emotions, including depression and anxiety.
In the field over twenty five years, I offer an empathetic and compassionate approach. Life can test us from time to time and we all need some support. My passion is working with adolescents, adults, couples, children of divorce and those looking to adopt. I can, also, support you through a life transition which can bring up lots of confusing emotions, including depression and anxiety.
(408) 805-3637 View (408) 805-3637
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Chloe Lucas
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
San Jose, CA 95116
I am Chloe Lucas, LMFT. I've been a therapist for just under 10 years now. My personality has been described as direct, curious, and grounding. My practice focuses on trauma work, teens, adult individuals, and parenting. My training is rooted in spirituality as an important part of the whole self. I see therapy as an important tool for existential growth. Our culture doesn't make enough space for emotional expression and introspection. Therapy is a unique relationship that allows for the practice of emotional intimacy such that we may become more attune and connected to ourselves and others.
I am Chloe Lucas, LMFT. I've been a therapist for just under 10 years now. My personality has been described as direct, curious, and grounding. My practice focuses on trauma work, teens, adult individuals, and parenting. My training is rooted in spirituality as an important part of the whole self. I see therapy as an important tool for existential growth. Our culture doesn't make enough space for emotional expression and introspection. Therapy is a unique relationship that allows for the practice of emotional intimacy such that we may become more attune and connected to ourselves and others.
(925) 667-3498 View (925) 667-3498
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Stacey Neil
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, PT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Jose, CA 95121  (Online Only)
I am a Psychotherapist, Personal Trainer and Wellness Coach who specializes in mind/body work with individuals, teenagers, couples and families. I promote transformational change that encourages healthy balances in work, life, and growth. I bring a unique integrative approach to overcoming issues such as depression, poor motivation, low self esteem, negative body image, anxiety, and feeling out of control and disempowered in your own life. In addition I help my clients understand underlying issues that lead to depression, anxiety, poor lifestyle choices, and codependent relationships. My work is my passion.
I am a Psychotherapist, Personal Trainer and Wellness Coach who specializes in mind/body work with individuals, teenagers, couples and families. I promote transformational change that encourages healthy balances in work, life, and growth. I bring a unique integrative approach to overcoming issues such as depression, poor motivation, low self esteem, negative body image, anxiety, and feeling out of control and disempowered in your own life. In addition I help my clients understand underlying issues that lead to depression, anxiety, poor lifestyle choices, and codependent relationships. My work is my passion.
(408) 637-4752 View (408) 637-4752
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Stephen Gutknecht
Psychologist, LCP
Not Verified Not Verified
San Jose, CA 95125
Hi there, I am Dr. Stephen Gutknecht! I have a rich experience covering a wide range of issues. My approach stems from both Cognitive Behavior Therapy as well as Existential theory. I believe how we communicate with ourselves, and others, changes the perspective we hold and are seen through. When people are empowered through being heard, emotionally supported, helped to develop skills they have a greater ability to lead emotionally healthy lives.
Hi there, I am Dr. Stephen Gutknecht! I have a rich experience covering a wide range of issues. My approach stems from both Cognitive Behavior Therapy as well as Existential theory. I believe how we communicate with ourselves, and others, changes the perspective we hold and are seen through. When people are empowered through being heard, emotionally supported, helped to develop skills they have a greater ability to lead emotionally healthy lives.
(818) 456-1780 View (818) 456-1780
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Emma Mefom
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
San Jose, CA 95108  (Online Only)
I am a licensed psychotherapist and certified meditation & mindfulness teacher. I specialize in assisting women of color manage various transitions, traumas and stressors. I love helping my patients develop the tools they need to cope with and process life's everyday challenges. I know the journey of being a woman of color is not always a smooth or linear one. I would love to support you on this journey through learning radical acceptance and how to maximize your own personal strengths in the process.
I am a licensed psychotherapist and certified meditation & mindfulness teacher. I specialize in assisting women of color manage various transitions, traumas and stressors. I love helping my patients develop the tools they need to cope with and process life's everyday challenges. I know the journey of being a woman of color is not always a smooth or linear one. I would love to support you on this journey through learning radical acceptance and how to maximize your own personal strengths in the process.
(669) 322-3313 View (669) 322-3313
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Renee Cordobes
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, PPS-SC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Jose, CA 95124
I provide a safe place to discuss those issues that may keep you stuck and unable to enjoy your life in the present moment. I am genuine and compassionate. I will listen and support you where you are, helping you to find the way that is right for you. I am not bound by one theory or set of tools. I focus on your strengths, taking the time to learn about your innate characteristics, designing creative yet practical ways to help you realize your dreams and live a full life.
I provide a safe place to discuss those issues that may keep you stuck and unable to enjoy your life in the present moment. I am genuine and compassionate. I will listen and support you where you are, helping you to find the way that is right for you. I am not bound by one theory or set of tools. I focus on your strengths, taking the time to learn about your innate characteristics, designing creative yet practical ways to help you realize your dreams and live a full life.
(408) 850-4308 View (408) 850-4308
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Numbiya Aziz
Verified Verified
San Jose, CA 95112
Most men will experience some form of impotence in their lifetime, and the likelihood of developing symptoms increases with age and declining health. Erectile dysfunction can be caused by a number of factors such as poor diet, lack of exercise, smoking, and clogged arteries due to heart problems, or old age. In normal, healthy men, erections are activated by arousal, which activates pleasure centers in the brain. The brain sends messages down the spinal column, ending in the penile arteries. Pressure/shockwave treatments supports athletic sports injuries that can also contribute to inflammation restricting blood flow in the body.
Most men will experience some form of impotence in their lifetime, and the likelihood of developing symptoms increases with age and declining health. Erectile dysfunction can be caused by a number of factors such as poor diet, lack of exercise, smoking, and clogged arteries due to heart problems, or old age. In normal, healthy men, erections are activated by arousal, which activates pleasure centers in the brain. The brain sends messages down the spinal column, ending in the penile arteries. Pressure/shockwave treatments supports athletic sports injuries that can also contribute to inflammation restricting blood flow in the body.
(408) 418-2148 View (408) 418-2148
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Madison Ledda- Simmons
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Verified Verified
San Jose, CA 95125
Nice to meet you! I am proud of you for reaching out for help and exploring your options for your mental health. One of the hardest parts about asking for help is asking for help! You are already taking a step in the right direction for yourself, your partner, your child, or your family. I believe in one step at a time and that not "one way" is the "right way." This is your therapeutic journey, and I will walk alongside you to support and listen to you and provide you with tools to start healing your past, present, and future. I strive to cultivate an environment for my clients that feel comfortable, calming, accepting, and open.
Nice to meet you! I am proud of you for reaching out for help and exploring your options for your mental health. One of the hardest parts about asking for help is asking for help! You are already taking a step in the right direction for yourself, your partner, your child, or your family. I believe in one step at a time and that not "one way" is the "right way." This is your therapeutic journey, and I will walk alongside you to support and listen to you and provide you with tools to start healing your past, present, and future. I strive to cultivate an environment for my clients that feel comfortable, calming, accepting, and open.
(408) 542-0427 View (408) 542-0427
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Shari Balbien
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
San Jose, CA 95128
Hi there! My name is Shari Balbien, and I am a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) based in Southern California and working with clients statewide via telehealth. I work with children as young as five years of age, adolescents, families, and couples struggling with anxiety, depression, relationship conflict, as well as issues related to trauma, self-esteem, and grief. I have found that my style and approach are a good match for young children, families, and couples, who may be dealing with anxiety, depression, trauma, and communication issues.
Hi there! My name is Shari Balbien, and I am a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) based in Southern California and working with clients statewide via telehealth. I work with children as young as five years of age, adolescents, families, and couples struggling with anxiety, depression, relationship conflict, as well as issues related to trauma, self-esteem, and grief. I have found that my style and approach are a good match for young children, families, and couples, who may be dealing with anxiety, depression, trauma, and communication issues.
(805) 855-1505 View (805) 855-1505
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Lillian Hayatghaib
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Verified Verified
San Jose, CA 95117
Shame can't survive if we can share our story with someone who responds with empathy and understanding. Healing is inherently relational. It is my belief that the longer a person is unable to repair broken attachment patterns and insecure attachment behaviors, the more likely it is that they will find these patterns and behaviors replicated in their adult relationships. My background in philosophy uniquely equips me to address existential concerns and the profound anxieties that accompany modern life, offering a powerful tool for navigating these challenges.
Shame can't survive if we can share our story with someone who responds with empathy and understanding. Healing is inherently relational. It is my belief that the longer a person is unable to repair broken attachment patterns and insecure attachment behaviors, the more likely it is that they will find these patterns and behaviors replicated in their adult relationships. My background in philosophy uniquely equips me to address existential concerns and the profound anxieties that accompany modern life, offering a powerful tool for navigating these challenges.
(408) 413-0049 View (408) 413-0049
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Marissa Dean
Pre-Licensed Professional
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
San Jose, CA 95117
Are you feeling disconnected from yourself and others? Are you longing to feel better in your life and body? In our sessions together, I invite you on a journey of self-exploration and healing, guided by my holistic and integrative approach. My passion lies in somatic practices, where I aim to help you forge a meaningful connection with yourself. This approach creates a nurturing space for both body and mind to come together, unveiling the paths to your inner truths. My warmth and sensitivity offer a sanctuary for growth, illuminated by thoughtful insights that pave the way toward understanding and transformation.
Are you feeling disconnected from yourself and others? Are you longing to feel better in your life and body? In our sessions together, I invite you on a journey of self-exploration and healing, guided by my holistic and integrative approach. My passion lies in somatic practices, where I aim to help you forge a meaningful connection with yourself. This approach creates a nurturing space for both body and mind to come together, unveiling the paths to your inner truths. My warmth and sensitivity offer a sanctuary for growth, illuminated by thoughtful insights that pave the way toward understanding and transformation.
(408) 869-5615 View (408) 869-5615
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Melissa Satram
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
San Jose, CA 95125
Do you ever struggle with feeling like you’re not enough? Do you feel like you have to prove yourself? Do you feel stuck and triggered by childhood trauma? The symptoms of trauma include anxiety, depression, high conflict relationships, occupational impairment, addiction, and much more. I believe therapy can help you develop a more self-awareness and actionable plan to alleviate these symptoms. I specialized in working with people who are willing to explore past, present, and future challenges and to find tools for personal growth.
Do you ever struggle with feeling like you’re not enough? Do you feel like you have to prove yourself? Do you feel stuck and triggered by childhood trauma? The symptoms of trauma include anxiety, depression, high conflict relationships, occupational impairment, addiction, and much more. I believe therapy can help you develop a more self-awareness and actionable plan to alleviate these symptoms. I specialized in working with people who are willing to explore past, present, and future challenges and to find tools for personal growth.
(408) 359-1686 View (408) 359-1686
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Rebecca Bernstein
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Jose, CA 95116  (Online Only)
You wake up each morning feeling stuck and alone. The anxious thoughts just won't go away. Perhaps they are related to things going on in your life, or maybe they feel like they are coming out of nowhere. Either way, these feelings overwhelm you and you're just not sure what to do about it anymore. You notice that your relationships, work and even your ability to care for yourself are starting to be affected. You set goals in an effort to make a positive change, but quickly give up because you just don't have the energy. You are starting to lose hope that you can get yourself out of this.
You wake up each morning feeling stuck and alone. The anxious thoughts just won't go away. Perhaps they are related to things going on in your life, or maybe they feel like they are coming out of nowhere. Either way, these feelings overwhelm you and you're just not sure what to do about it anymore. You notice that your relationships, work and even your ability to care for yourself are starting to be affected. You set goals in an effort to make a positive change, but quickly give up because you just don't have the energy. You are starting to lose hope that you can get yourself out of this.
(619) 966-4019 View (619) 966-4019
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Frederick H Kuttner
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, MA, LPCC
Verified Verified
San Jose, CA 95125
Not accepting new clients
Are you feeling depressed or anxious about your current life situation? Do you wonder if you can build a meaningful life, a life worth living? Are you grieving the loss of someone you love, or the loss of something you hoped to achieve? Are you in the middle of a life transition such as graduation, retirement, becoming a parent, or changing professions? I help people in these situations get in touch with what they really want so they can move forward with confidence.
Are you feeling depressed or anxious about your current life situation? Do you wonder if you can build a meaningful life, a life worth living? Are you grieving the loss of someone you love, or the loss of something you hoped to achieve? Are you in the middle of a life transition such as graduation, retirement, becoming a parent, or changing professions? I help people in these situations get in touch with what they really want so they can move forward with confidence.
(831) 480-3098 View (831) 480-3098
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Mary F McKenna LMFT
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
San Jose, CA 95125  (Online Only)
I have a passion for working with individual and couples who want a happier, more meaningful life.
We live in very challenging times, and that affects our mood, our sense of security and our capacity to deal with everyday life issues. Many of us are experiencing anxiety and depression which impact relationships. Are you finding that you and your partner get stuck in conflict or feeling distant from one another? Are you struggling with job or parenting issues? I can help you get to the root of the problem by offering guidance, help you find remedies, and create a plan of action to start you in a new direction.
I have a passion for working with individual and couples who want a happier, more meaningful life.
We live in very challenging times, and that affects our mood, our sense of security and our capacity to deal with everyday life issues. Many of us are experiencing anxiety and depression which impact relationships. Are you finding that you and your partner get stuck in conflict or feeling distant from one another? Are you struggling with job or parenting issues? I can help you get to the root of the problem by offering guidance, help you find remedies, and create a plan of action to start you in a new direction.
(831) 406-5849 View (831) 406-5849
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Vera Velini
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
San Jose, CA 95128  (Online Only)
You have just made an important step towards creating the life you desire to live. I specialize in finding one's happiness and peace whether it be within the life of the individual, within a relationship or within a family. My passion is working with individuals and couples who desire to create deepest loving relationships, live their life authentically, find their purpose, and realize their dreams. Regardless of the challenges you face, our programs are designed to help you create and experience positive changes that last a lifetime. (NOTE: Don't forget to ask us about our SPECIAL PACKAGES)
You have just made an important step towards creating the life you desire to live. I specialize in finding one's happiness and peace whether it be within the life of the individual, within a relationship or within a family. My passion is working with individuals and couples who desire to create deepest loving relationships, live their life authentically, find their purpose, and realize their dreams. Regardless of the challenges you face, our programs are designed to help you create and experience positive changes that last a lifetime. (NOTE: Don't forget to ask us about our SPECIAL PACKAGES)
(408) 837-0663 View (408) 837-0663
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Nikita Mahbubani
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
San Jose, CA 95125
I have found a strong connection and demonstrated effectiveness in working with diverse adults, families and couples facing various life challenges, recent adjustments, and social pressures, which may often take the form of anxiety, depression, grief, significant stressors or traumatic events.
Hello! My name is Nikita Mahbubani, and I am a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist (LMFT) based in Southern California. I provide therapy services to clients statewide through telehealth. My practice involves working with adults, families, and couples from diverse backgrounds, specializing in areas such as anxiety, depression, grief, relationship issues, family conflict, neurodivergence, and trauma. I integrate various therapeutic modalities, including Psychodynamic therapy, Attachment-based therapy, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, tailoring my approach to meet the unique needs of each individual.
I have found a strong connection and demonstrated effectiveness in working with diverse adults, families and couples facing various life challenges, recent adjustments, and social pressures, which may often take the form of anxiety, depression, grief, significant stressors or traumatic events.
Hello! My name is Nikita Mahbubani, and I am a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist (LMFT) based in Southern California. I provide therapy services to clients statewide through telehealth. My practice involves working with adults, families, and couples from diverse backgrounds, specializing in areas such as anxiety, depression, grief, relationship issues, family conflict, neurodivergence, and trauma. I integrate various therapeutic modalities, including Psychodynamic therapy, Attachment-based therapy, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, tailoring my approach to meet the unique needs of each individual.
(657) 571-7388 View (657) 571-7388
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Danielle Seybold
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
San Jose, CA 95126
Life can be hard, whether dealing with unexpected setbacks, longstanding problems, or just working hard to build a life of purpose and meaning. Some clients are dealing with stress, grief, and loss. Some clients are stressed by balancing a life that could best be described as “All Good Things, Just Too Many.” I believe our work is about more than treating dis-ease. It is about living fully, with ease, vitality, and wellness. Sometimes this starts with learning to deal with hard thoughts and feelings that can get in the way. It always involves getting clear about who you want to be and what matters most.
Life can be hard, whether dealing with unexpected setbacks, longstanding problems, or just working hard to build a life of purpose and meaning. Some clients are dealing with stress, grief, and loss. Some clients are stressed by balancing a life that could best be described as “All Good Things, Just Too Many.” I believe our work is about more than treating dis-ease. It is about living fully, with ease, vitality, and wellness. Sometimes this starts with learning to deal with hard thoughts and feelings that can get in the way. It always involves getting clear about who you want to be and what matters most.
(408) 617-8409 View (408) 617-8409
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Demetria Zappacosta-Iacocca
Drug & Alcohol Counselor, MA, LAADC
Verified Verified
San Jose, CA 95125
Addiction and Recovery Counseling is for anyone who feels that alcohol or drugs are affecting them negatively. As a Licensed Recovery Counselor I offer individuals, couples and families help to develop plans for reaching their recovery goals and making positive changes in their lives. Addiction and Recovery Counseling is an opportunity for families to learn about addiction and the behaviors that go along with it. I help families understand what role they play in their loved ones addiction and recovery.
Addiction and Recovery Counseling is for anyone who feels that alcohol or drugs are affecting them negatively. As a Licensed Recovery Counselor I offer individuals, couples and families help to develop plans for reaching their recovery goals and making positive changes in their lives. Addiction and Recovery Counseling is an opportunity for families to learn about addiction and the behaviors that go along with it. I help families understand what role they play in their loved ones addiction and recovery.
(408) 320-0867 View (408) 320-0867
Patricia Schuyler
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, DNP
Verified Verified
San Jose, CA 95113  (Online Only)
Putting off your mental health any longer is not an option. Enroll as a client today! WellPsyche providers can help you regain control of your life and function at your best. WellPsyche is a telehealth practice only. All WellPsyche provider appointments are via Zoom, ensuring you can receive medication management and psychotherapy from the comfort of home.
Putting off your mental health any longer is not an option. Enroll as a client today! WellPsyche providers can help you regain control of your life and function at your best. WellPsyche is a telehealth practice only. All WellPsyche provider appointments are via Zoom, ensuring you can receive medication management and psychotherapy from the comfort of home.
(408) 709-7973 View (408) 709-7973
Couples Counseling Therapists

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.