Photo of Jill Sara Rosenberg, Marriage & Family Therapist in Santa Fe, NM
Jill Sara Rosenberg
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Santa Fe, NM 87505
While I work with a range of populations, I particularly enjoy working with individuals who are struggling with self-esteem or shame, depression and anxiety, relationship issues, and those exploring sexuality, gender and other aspects of identity.
I know that the process of beginning therapy can be overwhelming because I’ve been there. It takes vulnerability and courage to ask for help. I also know that therapy works because I’ve seen it--in my own life and in the lives of my clients. I congratulate you on taking this significant step toward finding relief and reconnecting with your most authentic self. I’m so glad you’re here. My practice is grounded in my belief that the therapeutic relationship provides a unique opportunity to explore experiences and parts of ourselves that are hard to look at alone. We are all capable of healing, growth and transformation at any point.
While I work with a range of populations, I particularly enjoy working with individuals who are struggling with self-esteem or shame, depression and anxiety, relationship issues, and those exploring sexuality, gender and other aspects of identity.
I know that the process of beginning therapy can be overwhelming because I’ve been there. It takes vulnerability and courage to ask for help. I also know that therapy works because I’ve seen it--in my own life and in the lives of my clients. I congratulate you on taking this significant step toward finding relief and reconnecting with your most authentic self. I’m so glad you’re here. My practice is grounded in my belief that the therapeutic relationship provides a unique opportunity to explore experiences and parts of ourselves that are hard to look at alone. We are all capable of healing, growth and transformation at any point.
(213) 293-4497 View (213) 293-4497
Photo of Katelyn Kollinzas, Counselor in Santa Fe, NM
Katelyn Kollinzas
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Santa Fe, NM 87505
I specialize in working with couples and individuals who are experiencing interpersonal relationship challenges.
When we feel heard, seen, and understood, healing and growth are possible. I am here to create a safe space for you, or you and your partner, to explore and work with the struggles that are leading you to seek therapy. Most of us enter into partnership with the best intentions; we want to feel mutually satisfied, secure and supported in our relationship. After some time, old patterns take hold and we can find ourselves feeling disconnected, confused, or insecure in relationship. Therapy can help you get unstuck by offering an experience of being supported in ways that are uniquely tailored to help the growth of you and your partner.
I specialize in working with couples and individuals who are experiencing interpersonal relationship challenges.
When we feel heard, seen, and understood, healing and growth are possible. I am here to create a safe space for you, or you and your partner, to explore and work with the struggles that are leading you to seek therapy. Most of us enter into partnership with the best intentions; we want to feel mutually satisfied, secure and supported in our relationship. After some time, old patterns take hold and we can find ourselves feeling disconnected, confused, or insecure in relationship. Therapy can help you get unstuck by offering an experience of being supported in ways that are uniquely tailored to help the growth of you and your partner.
(505) 391-2924 View (505) 391-2924
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Elsa Backstrom
Counselor, MA, LPCC
Verified Verified
Santa Fe, NM 87507
I implement 80 minute sessions and work by employing the scientific precepts of Gottman Method, we will be using principles of the Sound Relationship House and PACT tenets to create structured diadic interventions.
My goals with couples counseling is to provide temporary services that increase the strength and vitality of your friendship while improving conflict resolution and general communication flow to a self-sustainable level. I treatment plan based on a total of 10 sessions:transitioning from weekly to bi-weekly, to monthly, to none. In counseling we will Modify conflict by: 1. SOFTENING START UP, 2.ACCEPTING YOUR PARTNERS PERSPECTIVE, 3. CONFLICT REPAIRS, 4. DE-ESCALATE QUARRELS. This work will continue to improve your relationship after the counseling completes. Please visit my website for more information
I implement 80 minute sessions and work by employing the scientific precepts of Gottman Method, we will be using principles of the Sound Relationship House and PACT tenets to create structured diadic interventions.
My goals with couples counseling is to provide temporary services that increase the strength and vitality of your friendship while improving conflict resolution and general communication flow to a self-sustainable level. I treatment plan based on a total of 10 sessions:transitioning from weekly to bi-weekly, to monthly, to none. In counseling we will Modify conflict by: 1. SOFTENING START UP, 2.ACCEPTING YOUR PARTNERS PERSPECTIVE, 3. CONFLICT REPAIRS, 4. DE-ESCALATE QUARRELS. This work will continue to improve your relationship after the counseling completes. Please visit my website for more information
(505) 835-1706 View (505) 835-1706
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Kevin Kluck
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Santa Fe, NM 87505
I am happy to offer in-person and HIPAA compliant Telehealth for clients. I am a family, couple, individual, and youth therapist who provides a safe environment for helping people. I help those who are seeking a more resilient life and stronger connection in relationships. Sometimes we struggle and need a helping hand to move through Anxiety, Depression, Grief, Family Conflict, Relationship Dynamics, Education, Career or a Life Change. I provide therapy using a strength-based approach with the belief that everyone has the ability to find change.
I am happy to offer in-person and HIPAA compliant Telehealth for clients. I am a family, couple, individual, and youth therapist who provides a safe environment for helping people. I help those who are seeking a more resilient life and stronger connection in relationships. Sometimes we struggle and need a helping hand to move through Anxiety, Depression, Grief, Family Conflict, Relationship Dynamics, Education, Career or a Life Change. I provide therapy using a strength-based approach with the belief that everyone has the ability to find change.
(505) 557-1439 View (505) 557-1439
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Rhonda Albin
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LISW, LCSW, ICADC, ACSW
Verified Verified
Santa Fe, NM 87507  (Online Only)
I am a experienced and creative psychotherapist who believes in your ability to heal yourself. I am practical, down to earth and have the insight to see beneath the surface. I specialize in working with couples practicing consenual non monagamy . I am allied with the queer community and have a compassionate understanding of the needs and positive outcomes that are achievable. I utilize many techniques but the relationship that we build together will allow you to create a new state of being that fits with identity . In utilize a variety of interventions reflecting affirming diverse practices that address underlying traumas.
I am a experienced and creative psychotherapist who believes in your ability to heal yourself. I am practical, down to earth and have the insight to see beneath the surface. I specialize in working with couples practicing consenual non monagamy . I am allied with the queer community and have a compassionate understanding of the needs and positive outcomes that are achievable. I utilize many techniques but the relationship that we build together will allow you to create a new state of being that fits with identity . In utilize a variety of interventions reflecting affirming diverse practices that address underlying traumas.
(954) 478-6073 View (954) 478-6073
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Naomi L Shtilman
Counselor, MA
Verified Verified
Santa Fe, NM 87501  (Online Only)
Qualified to provide individual, couples, and family therapy. My Master's in Clinical Psychotherapy emphasized the Psychodynamic approach, which means the therapeutic relationship is the catalyst for deeper healing. (It's the therapeutic modality of Attachment Theory). Practically speaking, our relationship is grist for the mill and practice so you can take what you learn in our connection out into the relationships of your life. My approach can be summed up as deepening self-awareness, developing life-affirming skills, and practicing intentional responses.
Qualified to provide individual, couples, and family therapy. My Master's in Clinical Psychotherapy emphasized the Psychodynamic approach, which means the therapeutic relationship is the catalyst for deeper healing. (It's the therapeutic modality of Attachment Theory). Practically speaking, our relationship is grist for the mill and practice so you can take what you learn in our connection out into the relationships of your life. My approach can be summed up as deepening self-awareness, developing life-affirming skills, and practicing intentional responses.
(505) 295-2334 View (505) 295-2334
Photo of Gretchen Wachs, Counselor in Santa Fe, NM
Gretchen Wachs
Counselor, LPCC, MA, EMDR
Verified Verified
Santa Fe, NM 87505
The depth of relationship, confidence and trust you build with your therapist is fundamental to the work of therapy. I am here to support and guide you in a process of discovery and wellness, helping you to build strength and clarity, overcome obstacles and develop skillful and creative ways to be in relationship and live well and authentically. My approach is eclectic, I offer EMDR and trauma focused therapy, depth psychology and expressive therapies. Our work together will help you heal from pain, trauma and abuse, relieve anxiety and depression, and work through relationship issues, life transitions and creative blocks.
The depth of relationship, confidence and trust you build with your therapist is fundamental to the work of therapy. I am here to support and guide you in a process of discovery and wellness, helping you to build strength and clarity, overcome obstacles and develop skillful and creative ways to be in relationship and live well and authentically. My approach is eclectic, I offer EMDR and trauma focused therapy, depth psychology and expressive therapies. Our work together will help you heal from pain, trauma and abuse, relieve anxiety and depression, and work through relationship issues, life transitions and creative blocks.
(505) 431-6428 View (505) 431-6428
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Carla Kleefeld
Clinical Mental Health Counselor, PhD, LPCC
Verified Verified
Santa Fe, NM 87505  (Online Only)
The therapeutic relationship is a unique and healing one and has the potential to transform our earliest relational patterns and unconscious attempts at repair. I bring my presence, deep, active listening, attentiveness, curiosity and positive regard to individuals and couples seeking therapy. Applying my extensive knowledge, training, and practice in attachment based research and depth-oriented approaches, I enjoy working with the imaginal, dreams as well as our relationship in the here and now as it may reflect the past.
The therapeutic relationship is a unique and healing one and has the potential to transform our earliest relational patterns and unconscious attempts at repair. I bring my presence, deep, active listening, attentiveness, curiosity and positive regard to individuals and couples seeking therapy. Applying my extensive knowledge, training, and practice in attachment based research and depth-oriented approaches, I enjoy working with the imaginal, dreams as well as our relationship in the here and now as it may reflect the past.
(505) 384-7609 View (505) 384-7609
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Brooke Roberts
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Santa Fe, NM 87505
I work with teens and adults to address a number of problems including anxiety, depression, relationship, peer, work, life direction, academic, and parental issues.
I am a psychologist that specializes in therapy for adolescents and adults. I enjoy working with those who are struggling from a number of issues and custom tailor my approach to each of my clients, pulling from research and the most effective treatment methods. If you are unsure of your needs, please feel free to call and clarify.
I work with teens and adults to address a number of problems including anxiety, depression, relationship, peer, work, life direction, academic, and parental issues.
I am a psychologist that specializes in therapy for adolescents and adults. I enjoy working with those who are struggling from a number of issues and custom tailor my approach to each of my clients, pulling from research and the most effective treatment methods. If you are unsure of your needs, please feel free to call and clarify.
(505) 431-4094 View (505) 431-4094
Photo of Cynthia C Fulreader, Counselor in Santa Fe, NM
Cynthia C Fulreader
Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Santa Fe, NM 87505
WELCOME to a unique opportunity to feel happier, improve relationships, heal wounds, find clarity, and move forward. Counseling is tailored to your priorities. Clients report feeling relieved in the first few sessions, more hopeful, empowered, and successful in relationships. Couples develop an understanding of how to move beyond conflict with new skills for their relationship. Families get practical guidance for parenting. Children & teens gain self-esteem, discuss family & school issues & more. Cynthia has been a been a licensed practicing therapist for 30+ years in Santa Fe. Option to meet in office, or outside in summer.
WELCOME to a unique opportunity to feel happier, improve relationships, heal wounds, find clarity, and move forward. Counseling is tailored to your priorities. Clients report feeling relieved in the first few sessions, more hopeful, empowered, and successful in relationships. Couples develop an understanding of how to move beyond conflict with new skills for their relationship. Families get practical guidance for parenting. Children & teens gain self-esteem, discuss family & school issues & more. Cynthia has been a been a licensed practicing therapist for 30+ years in Santa Fe. Option to meet in office, or outside in summer.
(505) 933-7363 View (505) 933-7363
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Laurie Pryor
Counselor, MA, LPCC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Santa Fe, NM 87505
Waitlist for new clients
I specialize in relationship issues, anxiety, and EMDR Therapy.
What changes do you want in your life? What's not working anymore? With my down-to-earth optimism and focus on self-care, I help you realize practical solutions that are authentic and heartfelt. I integrate various therapeutic modalities based on your needs, drawing largely from cognitive-behavioral, psychodynamic, mindfulness and neurobiological perspectives.
I specialize in relationship issues, anxiety, and EMDR Therapy.
What changes do you want in your life? What's not working anymore? With my down-to-earth optimism and focus on self-care, I help you realize practical solutions that are authentic and heartfelt. I integrate various therapeutic modalities based on your needs, drawing largely from cognitive-behavioral, psychodynamic, mindfulness and neurobiological perspectives.
(505) 322-6481 View (505) 322-6481
Photo of Carla Ann Kleefeld, Licensed Mental Health Counselor in Santa Fe, NM
Carla Ann Kleefeld
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, PhD, LPCC, LMHC
Verified Verified
Santa Fe, NM 87505  (Online Only)
I am a warm and engaged therapist and bring a deep curiosity and playfulness as well as deep listening and feeling to our process. I have over 30 years of training and experience in the field of clinical and depth psychology. Whether you are an individual or couple, struggling with communication issues or reevaluating your relationship needs and history, I bring an engaged and informed perspective to our work together. I am extensively trained in early attachment, relational trauma, sexuality and intimacy and bring a compassionate collaborative presence to the therapeutic process.
I am a warm and engaged therapist and bring a deep curiosity and playfulness as well as deep listening and feeling to our process. I have over 30 years of training and experience in the field of clinical and depth psychology. Whether you are an individual or couple, struggling with communication issues or reevaluating your relationship needs and history, I bring an engaged and informed perspective to our work together. I am extensively trained in early attachment, relational trauma, sexuality and intimacy and bring a compassionate collaborative presence to the therapeutic process.
(505) 257-6309 View (505) 257-6309
Photo of Marcie Telander-East River Counseling in Santa Fe, NM
Marcie Telander-East River Counseling
MA, NLC, CGP, DAPA, REAT
Verified Verified
Santa Fe, NM 87501
As an elder in therapy & spirituality worlds I draw ancient, perennial wisdom forward through cutting-edge knowledge to serve contemporary life & relationship issues while co-creating very specific healing with you for the future.
Together we will draw from a rich range of compassionate, holistic, action-oriented services that launch you into the enriched life, relationships, communication and confidence you are seeking. As a full-service, highly-experienced private practitioner I'm honored to support you, your partner, children, family--at the caring point where Nurture meets Nature. Always honoring your confidentiality while bringing together perennial wisdom and cutting-edge knowledge. For Life, Love and Letting go! 38 years serving the life-transforming needs of the fine folks of Gunnison Cty, CO, and residents of New Mexico.
As an elder in therapy & spirituality worlds I draw ancient, perennial wisdom forward through cutting-edge knowledge to serve contemporary life & relationship issues while co-creating very specific healing with you for the future.
Together we will draw from a rich range of compassionate, holistic, action-oriented services that launch you into the enriched life, relationships, communication and confidence you are seeking. As a full-service, highly-experienced private practitioner I'm honored to support you, your partner, children, family--at the caring point where Nurture meets Nature. Always honoring your confidentiality while bringing together perennial wisdom and cutting-edge knowledge. For Life, Love and Letting go! 38 years serving the life-transforming needs of the fine folks of Gunnison Cty, CO, and residents of New Mexico.
(970) 239-0276 View (970) 239-0276
Photo of Jacob Gotwals, Counselor in Santa Fe, NM
Jacob Gotwals
Counselor, MA
Verified Verified
Santa Fe, NM 87507  (Online Only)
I can help with relationship challenges like navigating dating, love, commitment, conflict, monogamy, polyamory, and breakups.
I specialize in relationship, sexual, and gender issues, trauma and attachment issues, and mindfulness. In our therapy relationship, you’ll experience connection, acceptance, safety, and trust; this can be healing in itself. We'll start by exploring and making sense of your challenges, compassionately and collaboratively. We can also use EMDR, guided imagery, and mindfulness to activate your mind’s natural ability to heal, going deeper than words, into realms of feeling, imagination, and focused attention. I believe you’ll find that I bring exceptional clarity, integrity, and creativity to our therapy work.
I can help with relationship challenges like navigating dating, love, commitment, conflict, monogamy, polyamory, and breakups.
I specialize in relationship, sexual, and gender issues, trauma and attachment issues, and mindfulness. In our therapy relationship, you’ll experience connection, acceptance, safety, and trust; this can be healing in itself. We'll start by exploring and making sense of your challenges, compassionately and collaboratively. We can also use EMDR, guided imagery, and mindfulness to activate your mind’s natural ability to heal, going deeper than words, into realms of feeling, imagination, and focused attention. I believe you’ll find that I bring exceptional clarity, integrity, and creativity to our therapy work.
(505) 336-0088 View (505) 336-0088
Photo of Terre Cohen Tripoli in Santa Fe, NM
Terre Cohen Tripoli
MA, LCPC, LPCC, LPC
Verified Verified
Santa Fe, NM 87501
Terre has expertise in depression, chronic thought and mood disorders and relationship issues; regardless of how that relationship is defined. Dysfunctional thoughts and emotions destroy us and those around us. Let her help you, through new thoughts and ideas, finally move towards a life that works for you rather than against you. Her practice is inspiring, motivational and directive when needed. She believes that we are all one and share in common the challenges of living life on life's terms; while still understanding that each of us brings our unique expression of these challenges into the session.
Terre has expertise in depression, chronic thought and mood disorders and relationship issues; regardless of how that relationship is defined. Dysfunctional thoughts and emotions destroy us and those around us. Let her help you, through new thoughts and ideas, finally move towards a life that works for you rather than against you. Her practice is inspiring, motivational and directive when needed. She believes that we are all one and share in common the challenges of living life on life's terms; while still understanding that each of us brings our unique expression of these challenges into the session.
(847) 908-3219 View (847) 908-3219
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Lance Lashley
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Santa Fe, NM 87501  (Online Only)
Hello, I'm Lance, and I'm here to support you on your journey towards greater well-being. As a therapist, I believe in the power of collaboration and empowerment. With a background in both Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), I offer a holistic approach to mental health, focusing on practical strategies and mindfulness techniques to manage emotions and improve overall quality of life. Whether you're facing anxiety, depression, or relationship struggles, I provide a non-judgmental space where you can explore your thoughts and feelings.
Hello, I'm Lance, and I'm here to support you on your journey towards greater well-being. As a therapist, I believe in the power of collaboration and empowerment. With a background in both Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), I offer a holistic approach to mental health, focusing on practical strategies and mindfulness techniques to manage emotions and improve overall quality of life. Whether you're facing anxiety, depression, or relationship struggles, I provide a non-judgmental space where you can explore your thoughts and feelings.
(505) 416-3179 View (505) 416-3179
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Chelsea Call
Counselor, MA, LPCC, ATR-BC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Santa Fe, NM 87505
Waitlist for new clients
My person-centered practice focuses on the therapeutic relationship as a vehicle to increase your self awareness and ability to heal through connection.
I work with those who are craving a new route in life, one of personal evolution, embodiment, and choice. Life’s journey can present challenges, resulting in difficulty. Having the space to safely process your experiences can help you grow a greater understanding of yourself and your relationships. As a trauma-informed clinician I prioritize safety, choice, and collaboration in our work together. I am a queer-identified, curious, humorous, collaborative, and warm therapist who believes in therapy as a healing and transformative practice.
My person-centered practice focuses on the therapeutic relationship as a vehicle to increase your self awareness and ability to heal through connection.
I work with those who are craving a new route in life, one of personal evolution, embodiment, and choice. Life’s journey can present challenges, resulting in difficulty. Having the space to safely process your experiences can help you grow a greater understanding of yourself and your relationships. As a trauma-informed clinician I prioritize safety, choice, and collaboration in our work together. I am a queer-identified, curious, humorous, collaborative, and warm therapist who believes in therapy as a healing and transformative practice.
(505) 591-1109 View (505) 591-1109
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The Center for Dynamic Practice
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Santa Fe, NM 87505
The best outcomes happen when trust is strong in the therapy relationship - we are dedicated to earning that trust, and supporting you along your healing journey.
We now accept NM Medicaid! Providing accessible, quality depth therapy for a wide range of concerns and issues, we aim to get to the root of the problem for lasting solutions and relief. We'd love to hear from you and learn how we can help.
The best outcomes happen when trust is strong in the therapy relationship - we are dedicated to earning that trust, and supporting you along your healing journey.
We now accept NM Medicaid! Providing accessible, quality depth therapy for a wide range of concerns and issues, we aim to get to the root of the problem for lasting solutions and relief. We'd love to hear from you and learn how we can help.
(505) 370-4651 View (505) 370-4651
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Ali Kantor
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MS, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Santa Fe, NM 87506
Others seek coaching when stuck in old patterns, looking to move forward in life challenges and setting professional, personal and relationship goals.
As a psychotherapist and Life Coach I am trained in clinical social work as well as in exercise physiology. I understand how the mind, body and emotions are interconnected. When we are physically attuned, we are able to access deeper parts of ourselves. These deeper parts may be limiting due to old beliefs, negative behavior patterns, confusing emotions, and often times a combination of all three. Also, I bring to my clinical practice over 28 years experience in fitness and coaching team sports. Together we can work to set and achieve clear, obtainable life goals.
Others seek coaching when stuck in old patterns, looking to move forward in life challenges and setting professional, personal and relationship goals.
As a psychotherapist and Life Coach I am trained in clinical social work as well as in exercise physiology. I understand how the mind, body and emotions are interconnected. When we are physically attuned, we are able to access deeper parts of ourselves. These deeper parts may be limiting due to old beliefs, negative behavior patterns, confusing emotions, and often times a combination of all three. Also, I bring to my clinical practice over 28 years experience in fitness and coaching team sports. Together we can work to set and achieve clear, obtainable life goals.
(505) 657-8382 View (505) 657-8382
Photo of Rachel Gerson, Counselor in Santa Fe, NM
Rachel Gerson
Counselor, MA, LPCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Santa Fe, NM 87505
Waitlist for new clients
I work with adults, young adults, and adolescents to address symptoms of anxiety, issues of self-worth and belonging, relationship issues, 2SLGBTQI+ needs, and phase of life transitions.
I welcome you as you are. Many of us have lost connection to ourselves, others, and the natural world. Through deep listening I facilitate a space for healing, to help you remember your connection to your wholeness. I provide a space to support the cultivation of self-acceptance through self-inquiry and curiosity to compassionately examine constricting beliefs and/or systems of oppression that impact our natural expression and aliveness. It is possible for you to recover lost or forgotten parts of self that have been exiled by judgement, shame, and pain to find yourself again. Together, we will excavate and uncover.
I work with adults, young adults, and adolescents to address symptoms of anxiety, issues of self-worth and belonging, relationship issues, 2SLGBTQI+ needs, and phase of life transitions.
I welcome you as you are. Many of us have lost connection to ourselves, others, and the natural world. Through deep listening I facilitate a space for healing, to help you remember your connection to your wholeness. I provide a space to support the cultivation of self-acceptance through self-inquiry and curiosity to compassionately examine constricting beliefs and/or systems of oppression that impact our natural expression and aliveness. It is possible for you to recover lost or forgotten parts of self that have been exiled by judgement, shame, and pain to find yourself again. Together, we will excavate and uncover.
(505) 391-4289 View (505) 391-4289
Relationship Issues Therapists
While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.