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Dr. Sharon Diane Forrest
Marriage & Family Therapist, EdD, MBA, BA, LMFT, PCC
Verified Verified
Sarasota, FL 34236
Are you overwhelmed by depression, guilt, anger, fear, alcoholism, drug addition, grief, or heartbreak and feel out of control of your life or relationships? My practice focuses on the individual, family, and marriage in a Christ-centered counseling setting. With a Doctorate in Education-Pastoral Counseling/ MBA in Business, I provide a unique form of therapy addressing your spiritual and professional needs collectively. I seek to assist you in re-shaping the circumstances that have temporarily gotten you off track. You may have experienced a setback but working together we can make this a SET UP for something GREAT!
Are you overwhelmed by depression, guilt, anger, fear, alcoholism, drug addition, grief, or heartbreak and feel out of control of your life or relationships? My practice focuses on the individual, family, and marriage in a Christ-centered counseling setting. With a Doctorate in Education-Pastoral Counseling/ MBA in Business, I provide a unique form of therapy addressing your spiritual and professional needs collectively. I seek to assist you in re-shaping the circumstances that have temporarily gotten you off track. You may have experienced a setback but working together we can make this a SET UP for something GREAT!
(941) 803-1243 View (941) 803-1243
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Lee Schlanger
Counselor, MA, LMHC, NCC, CCTP, MCAP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sarasota, FL 34231  (Online Only)
Lee Schlanger is a Florida State Licensed Mental Health Counselor currently living Sarasota, FL by way of New York City, NY. Lee has a passion for animals and doing anything outdoors, and is an avid sports fan. Lee has been working as a Mental Health Counselor since of 2016. Lee specializes in working with clients who are experiencing anxiety and depression as well as specializes in working with clients who have undergone grief, loss, and traumatic events, as well as substance abuse recovery, and more. Lee is also a Board Certified Tele-Mental Health Provider and specializes in Telehealth sessions and is Certified EMDR and Trauma.
Lee Schlanger is a Florida State Licensed Mental Health Counselor currently living Sarasota, FL by way of New York City, NY. Lee has a passion for animals and doing anything outdoors, and is an avid sports fan. Lee has been working as a Mental Health Counselor since of 2016. Lee specializes in working with clients who are experiencing anxiety and depression as well as specializes in working with clients who have undergone grief, loss, and traumatic events, as well as substance abuse recovery, and more. Lee is also a Board Certified Tele-Mental Health Provider and specializes in Telehealth sessions and is Certified EMDR and Trauma.
(941) 214-6132 View (941) 214-6132
Photo of Dale Thompson, LMHC, Counselor in Sarasota, FL
Dale Thompson, LMHC
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Sarasota, FL 34230
Are you struggling with Depression, Anxiety, Stress or Addictions? Are you in the middle of a Crisis? If so I am here to help. I regularly treat CEO's, Professionals, Executives, Elite Athletes, Pastors and other Therapists in addressing issues that they face. I am Identified as a Licensure Supervisor and have trained thousands of therapists for professional development since 1993. I specialize in treating Couples, Men, Male Teens and Women that prefer a male therapist and I have 30 years of experience as a professional counselor.
Are you struggling with Depression, Anxiety, Stress or Addictions? Are you in the middle of a Crisis? If so I am here to help. I regularly treat CEO's, Professionals, Executives, Elite Athletes, Pastors and other Therapists in addressing issues that they face. I am Identified as a Licensure Supervisor and have trained thousands of therapists for professional development since 1993. I specialize in treating Couples, Men, Male Teens and Women that prefer a male therapist and I have 30 years of experience as a professional counselor.
(941) 845-6590 View (941) 845-6590
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Curtis Schindeler
Counselor, PhD, ABD, MS, MHC, neuroth
Verified Verified
Sarasota, FL 34239
I believe that I offer something that is a bit different than most other practices. My partner and I, work together in a collaborative manner with an end goal of resolution. We have put together a practice that utilizes tools which others do not. Whether you or your loved one suffers from depression, sleeplessness, anxiety, pain, headaches, suicidal ideation, PTSD, ADHD, panic attacks or you are just having difficulty in your marriage or relationship we work together and have the tools that bring about actual resolution.
I believe that I offer something that is a bit different than most other practices. My partner and I, work together in a collaborative manner with an end goal of resolution. We have put together a practice that utilizes tools which others do not. Whether you or your loved one suffers from depression, sleeplessness, anxiety, pain, headaches, suicidal ideation, PTSD, ADHD, panic attacks or you are just having difficulty in your marriage or relationship we work together and have the tools that bring about actual resolution.
(941) 417-8113 View (941) 417-8113
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John Mann
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Sarasota, FL 34233
Hello, my name is John Mann and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker since 1980. I have experience working with mental health, adjustment disorders, relationship dynamics, self esteem, anxiety, depression, life change, trauma, relationship issues, family dynamics, and substance abuse issues with young adults, adults and older adults. I do not believe that people are “broken”, needing to be fixed by a professional. I believe that there are many approaches towards achieving a goal and that working together is the key to establishing an effective and sustainable treatment approach.
Hello, my name is John Mann and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker since 1980. I have experience working with mental health, adjustment disorders, relationship dynamics, self esteem, anxiety, depression, life change, trauma, relationship issues, family dynamics, and substance abuse issues with young adults, adults and older adults. I do not believe that people are “broken”, needing to be fixed by a professional. I believe that there are many approaches towards achieving a goal and that working together is the key to establishing an effective and sustainable treatment approach.
(941) 241-2261 View (941) 241-2261
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Crystal L Brooks
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CIMHP
Verified Verified
Sarasota, FL 34239
Waitlist for new clients
I specialize in working with those living with chronic illness and wellness needs. My own personal experience led me to this professional journey to help those facing issues concerning chronic disease, weight management, anxiety, depression, self-esteem, and self-care. In addition, I have a degree in nutrition and work with clients about their relationship with food and nutrition. Many issues we face with our well-being affect our relationships as well. Our well-being affects those we live and work with. I believe in creating healthy boundaries and learning effective communication habits in order to grow, thrive, and be well.
I specialize in working with those living with chronic illness and wellness needs. My own personal experience led me to this professional journey to help those facing issues concerning chronic disease, weight management, anxiety, depression, self-esteem, and self-care. In addition, I have a degree in nutrition and work with clients about their relationship with food and nutrition. Many issues we face with our well-being affect our relationships as well. Our well-being affects those we live and work with. I believe in creating healthy boundaries and learning effective communication habits in order to grow, thrive, and be well.
(941) 214-2072 View (941) 214-2072
Photo of Ann Taylor, Counselor in Sarasota, FL
Ann Taylor
Counselor, EdD, LMHC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Sarasota, FL 34239
Bipolar disorder, persistent depression, severe anxiety, long lasting grief, traumatic events and other issues are resolved at our center regularly.
Change is hard and not all therapy provides the same opportunity for healing. At The Center for Integrated Therapies we use the newest in research based treatment to provide the conduit for healing. Dr. Ann Taylor is our Clinical Director who leads a team of therapists who provide the latest in high quality clinical care. Through Dialectical Behavior Therapy and Neurofeedback, she provides a gold standard of treatment that encompasses skills training that include distress tolerance, emotion regulation, interpersonal effectiveness and mindfulness.
Bipolar disorder, persistent depression, severe anxiety, long lasting grief, traumatic events and other issues are resolved at our center regularly.
Change is hard and not all therapy provides the same opportunity for healing. At The Center for Integrated Therapies we use the newest in research based treatment to provide the conduit for healing. Dr. Ann Taylor is our Clinical Director who leads a team of therapists who provide the latest in high quality clinical care. Through Dialectical Behavior Therapy and Neurofeedback, she provides a gold standard of treatment that encompasses skills training that include distress tolerance, emotion regulation, interpersonal effectiveness and mindfulness.
(941) 999-3594 View (941) 999-3594
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Tanya Ruiz
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, Therapy, QS-CSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sarasota, FL 34230  (Online Only)
Accepting New Clients -Treating Depression, Anxiety, Trauma, Bipolar or troubled relationships. Together we will unstuck life by finding the balance you are looking for. You deserve to be heard. Life can be overwhelming. It is time to take care of YOU. I am glad you are taking the first steps to feel better and resolve the concerns that have been bothering you and keeping you away from living the meaningful happier life you want to live. Perhaps you've been struggling with depression, anxiety, grief or troubled marital relationships? Maybe you've had a crisis and need help to get back on track, let's start to rebuild you back up.
Accepting New Clients -Treating Depression, Anxiety, Trauma, Bipolar or troubled relationships. Together we will unstuck life by finding the balance you are looking for. You deserve to be heard. Life can be overwhelming. It is time to take care of YOU. I am glad you are taking the first steps to feel better and resolve the concerns that have been bothering you and keeping you away from living the meaningful happier life you want to live. Perhaps you've been struggling with depression, anxiety, grief or troubled marital relationships? Maybe you've had a crisis and need help to get back on track, let's start to rebuild you back up.
(321) 607-3562 View (321) 607-3562
Photo of Miyuki Pilger, Counselor in Sarasota, FL
Miyuki Pilger
Counselor, MA, LPC, CRC, EMDR
Verified Verified
Sarasota, FL 34243  (Online Only)
I am most passionate to serve clients with a wide variety of mental health challenges who are "lost", "stuck", or simply want someone to listen to their issues and understand. While all of my post-secondary education and most of my life have been in the US, I was born and raised in Japan, lived in China for 2 years, and worked in a multi-cultural global corporation for many years, all of which equipped me to work with culturally and age diverse clients.
I am most passionate to serve clients with a wide variety of mental health challenges who are "lost", "stuck", or simply want someone to listen to their issues and understand. While all of my post-secondary education and most of my life have been in the US, I was born and raised in Japan, lived in China for 2 years, and worked in a multi-cultural global corporation for many years, all of which equipped me to work with culturally and age diverse clients.
(947) 777-0255 View (947) 777-0255
Photo of Tonine E Garberino, Counselor in Sarasota, FL
Tonine E Garberino
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
Sarasota, FL 34233
I am a Licensed Mental Health Therapist with many years of experience. I have worked with adults, children and adolescents in several venues. My goal is to meet people where they are and bring them along their journey to attain their desired outcome.
I am a Licensed Mental Health Therapist with many years of experience. I have worked with adults, children and adolescents in several venues. My goal is to meet people where they are and bring them along their journey to attain their desired outcome.
(941) 877-6798 View (941) 877-6798
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MindSol Wellness Center of Sarasota
Counselor, LMHC, CAP, CCTP, EdD
Verified Verified
Sarasota, FL 34236
We rely on modern therapeutic techniques that give clients the tools to understand and address their mental and emotional health. We offer individual and group therapy, but even in group counseling, our goal is to help each participant achieve personal insight. Sarasota’s premier therapist, counseling, and psychotherapy center. We believe in giving clients the tools to understand, question, and process their own emotions, thoughts, and behavior. In therapeutic terms, we rely on object relations and psychodynamic theoretical frameworks. In practice, this means that each patient is empowered to address his or her own mental health.
We rely on modern therapeutic techniques that give clients the tools to understand and address their mental and emotional health. We offer individual and group therapy, but even in group counseling, our goal is to help each participant achieve personal insight. Sarasota’s premier therapist, counseling, and psychotherapy center. We believe in giving clients the tools to understand, question, and process their own emotions, thoughts, and behavior. In therapeutic terms, we rely on object relations and psychodynamic theoretical frameworks. In practice, this means that each patient is empowered to address his or her own mental health.
(941) 698-6585 View (941) 698-6585
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Daniel J Van Ingen
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sarasota, FL 34233
Do you need help in coping? Over the past 20 years Dr. Dan provided compassionate solutions in therapy. He's been dubbed the Sarasota Parenting Doctor as author of three parenting books. As a therapist, his three specialty areas are anxiety, psychological burnout, and sports psychology. In recent years, his work in sports psychology has included a sky diving therapy group. He's worked with hall of famers, D 1 football players, olympic hopefuls, world champion power lifters, CrossFit national champions, professional/college/HS athletes in all sports, see DrDanSports.com. If you parent an athlete, contact him. DrDanSports.com
Do you need help in coping? Over the past 20 years Dr. Dan provided compassionate solutions in therapy. He's been dubbed the Sarasota Parenting Doctor as author of three parenting books. As a therapist, his three specialty areas are anxiety, psychological burnout, and sports psychology. In recent years, his work in sports psychology has included a sky diving therapy group. He's worked with hall of famers, D 1 football players, olympic hopefuls, world champion power lifters, CrossFit national champions, professional/college/HS athletes in all sports, see DrDanSports.com. If you parent an athlete, contact him. DrDanSports.com
(941) 584-4493 View (941) 584-4493
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Integral Path Associates, LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, ACM-SW
Verified Verified
Sarasota, FL 34236
Our practice helps individuals to cope with stress, conflict, crisis and trauma in different ways. We help you to create your own path; helping you to improve your overall mental and physical health so that you may find peace and purpose in life.
Our practice helps individuals to cope with stress, conflict, crisis and trauma in different ways. We help you to create your own path; helping you to improve your overall mental and physical health so that you may find peace and purpose in life.
(941) 214-4942 View (941) 214-4942
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Rachel Thorpe
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, DAPA, LICSW
Verified Verified
Sarasota, FL 34233
Hello there, and welcome to my profile. My decision to work in this field was fueled by my observations of my mom's experiences with mental health treatment. As a result, I have strong compassion for people and I approach treatment differently. I am constantly looking for new and effective treatments that can be pleasant and enjoyable. I am a huge animal lover and I believe that animals enrich our lives and trigger our natural compassion for others. This is why I incorporate animals in my practice. There is nothing more uplifting than to be greeted by two wagging tails.
Hello there, and welcome to my profile. My decision to work in this field was fueled by my observations of my mom's experiences with mental health treatment. As a result, I have strong compassion for people and I approach treatment differently. I am constantly looking for new and effective treatments that can be pleasant and enjoyable. I am a huge animal lover and I believe that animals enrich our lives and trigger our natural compassion for others. This is why I incorporate animals in my practice. There is nothing more uplifting than to be greeted by two wagging tails.
(941) 803-1263 View (941) 803-1263
Photo of Lisiane Fidalgo, Counselor in Sarasota, FL
Lisiane Fidalgo
Counselor, LMHC, MA
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Sarasota, FL 34231
Have you had a really bad experience and just want to feel better? My goal is to help you get relief as quickly as possible. I'm offering Trauma Intensives which help you find relief in a few hours as opposed to weeks and months. Many individuals have found the therapies I utilize to be life changing. As an example, clients have found relief utilizing Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART) in one or two sessions. I'm also excited to be providing my clients with the option of Ketamine Assisted Therapy, possibly at the comfort of their own home, as well as Traumatic Incident Reduction and Psychedelic Integration.
Have you had a really bad experience and just want to feel better? My goal is to help you get relief as quickly as possible. I'm offering Trauma Intensives which help you find relief in a few hours as opposed to weeks and months. Many individuals have found the therapies I utilize to be life changing. As an example, clients have found relief utilizing Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART) in one or two sessions. I'm also excited to be providing my clients with the option of Ketamine Assisted Therapy, possibly at the comfort of their own home, as well as Traumatic Incident Reduction and Psychedelic Integration.
(941) 205-7244 View (941) 205-7244
Photo of Lauren Gavron, Psychologist in Sarasota, FL
Lauren Gavron
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Sarasota, FL 34236
Dr. Gavron performs neuropsychological testing for adults with such conditions as dementia, vascular disorders, movement disorders and other neurodegenerative disorders, traumatic brain injury, seizure disorders, learning disabilities, neuropsychiatric disorders, infectious disease affecting the CNS, neurodevelopmental disorders, metabolic disease and neurological effects of medical disorders or treatment. She also conducts attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) evaluations in the pediatric and adult populations and provides individual cognitive training and rehabilitation.
Dr. Gavron performs neuropsychological testing for adults with such conditions as dementia, vascular disorders, movement disorders and other neurodegenerative disorders, traumatic brain injury, seizure disorders, learning disabilities, neuropsychiatric disorders, infectious disease affecting the CNS, neurodevelopmental disorders, metabolic disease and neurological effects of medical disorders or treatment. She also conducts attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) evaluations in the pediatric and adult populations and provides individual cognitive training and rehabilitation.
(941) 213-7358 View (941) 213-7358
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K. D. Ferrari
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW, MSW
Verified Verified
Sarasota, FL 34239  (Online Only)
I'm Dr. Kate Ferrari and am here to assist you with difficulties you may be encountering in your life through a compassionate, non-judgmental approach. Regardless of the problems you are experiencing, my goal is to provide support, work with you to set goals for your future and develop tools to reach them. I believe in a holistic perspective to mental well-being, and am a proponent of neurodiversity, who will help you on your personal path towards the life you would like to live. Please note that all services are provided virtually and are tailored to fit your individual needs.
I'm Dr. Kate Ferrari and am here to assist you with difficulties you may be encountering in your life through a compassionate, non-judgmental approach. Regardless of the problems you are experiencing, my goal is to provide support, work with you to set goals for your future and develop tools to reach them. I believe in a holistic perspective to mental well-being, and am a proponent of neurodiversity, who will help you on your personal path towards the life you would like to live. Please note that all services are provided virtually and are tailored to fit your individual needs.
(305) 575-2458 View (305) 575-2458
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Dr. Marian Smith
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sarasota, FL 34231
In today's world of stress and global issues, I want you to know that I am walking this journey with you. I have over 20 years experience in mental health across both community and inpatient settings. I own a private practice in Maumelle, Arkansas (Comprehensive Health Psychology & Testing) and provide tele-mental health across most state lines with licensure in Florida, Missouri, and PSYPACT credential. My treatment focus is strength-based on health and behavior change. I take an inquisitive and insight oriented approach, which I believe can empower you to obtain your best physical, mental, and emotional health.
In today's world of stress and global issues, I want you to know that I am walking this journey with you. I have over 20 years experience in mental health across both community and inpatient settings. I own a private practice in Maumelle, Arkansas (Comprehensive Health Psychology & Testing) and provide tele-mental health across most state lines with licensure in Florida, Missouri, and PSYPACT credential. My treatment focus is strength-based on health and behavior change. I take an inquisitive and insight oriented approach, which I believe can empower you to obtain your best physical, mental, and emotional health.
(501) 271-8121 View (501) 271-8121
Photo of Mary Moonen, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Sarasota, FL
Mary Moonen
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CAP
Verified Verified
Sarasota, FL 34232  (Online Only)
Many times when people call, they have concerns including: Mental Health issues, Addiction, Family, Couples,Relationships,Problems, Work Stress, Medical Conditions, Trauma, Loss, Grief, or everyday stressors. I will treat you with utmost dignity, and respect, honoring your cultural/ religious values. My creative approaches are what my clients like the best. I have used music, appropriate use of humor, and other artisitc ways to help people express themselves. As a TEAM, we will work TOGETHER to identify, set and achieve your goals, and I give you tangible strategies to reach them.
Many times when people call, they have concerns including: Mental Health issues, Addiction, Family, Couples,Relationships,Problems, Work Stress, Medical Conditions, Trauma, Loss, Grief, or everyday stressors. I will treat you with utmost dignity, and respect, honoring your cultural/ religious values. My creative approaches are what my clients like the best. I have used music, appropriate use of humor, and other artisitc ways to help people express themselves. As a TEAM, we will work TOGETHER to identify, set and achieve your goals, and I give you tangible strategies to reach them.
(941) 962-6784 View (941) 962-6784
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Changing Phases
Counselor, LCPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sarasota, FL 34232
My outlook on life is that we are all on a journey. Some people move faster than others. Some need a helping hand along the way; but we can all arrive to where we are going, where we want to be…every single one of us. I am here to help motivate when you lack motivation. I am here to listen when you feel unheard. I am here to push when you feel weak, or pull when you don’t feel strong enough. I’m also here to sit with you when you aren’t ready or feel unable to make a decision. I am here at your pace.
My outlook on life is that we are all on a journey. Some people move faster than others. Some need a helping hand along the way; but we can all arrive to where we are going, where we want to be…every single one of us. I am here to help motivate when you lack motivation. I am here to listen when you feel unheard. I am here to push when you feel weak, or pull when you don’t feel strong enough. I’m also here to sit with you when you aren’t ready or feel unable to make a decision. I am here at your pace.
(224) 218-5276 View (224) 218-5276
Depression Therapists

What is the goal of therapy for depression?

Therapy for depression has several major goals. One is to relieve the mental pain of depression, which distorts feeling and thinking so that sufferers cannot see beyond their current state of mind or envision feeling better. Another is to give people the mental tools to recognize and correct the kinds of distorted thinking that turn a problem into a catastrophe and lead to despair. Therapy also teaches people how to process negative emotions in constructive ways, so they have more control over their own emotional reactivity. And it helps people regain the ability to see themselves positively, the motivation to do things, and the capacity for pleasure.

What happens in therapy for depression?

Perhaps most important, no matter the type of therapy, patients form an alliance with the therapist; that connection is therapeutic in itself, plus it becomes an instrument of change. Patients learn to identify and to challenge their own erroneous beliefs and thoughts that amplify the effects of negative experiences. They learn to identify situations in which they are especially vulnerable. And they learn new patterns of thinking and behaving. They may be given “homework” assignments in which they practice their developing skills. In addition, good therapists regularly monitor patients to assess whether and how much the condition is improving.

What therapy types help with depression?

Several types of short-term therapy have been found effective, each targeting one or more areas of dysfunction. Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) helps clients challenge their negative thoughts and beliefs, learn new behavioral strategies, and curb reactivity to distressing situations. Behavioral activation (BA) is a form of therapy often used in conjunction with CBT; it focuses on engagement in rewarding activity as a pathway to changing negative feelings and disturbed mood. Another widely used approach is interpersonal therapy (IPT), which targets the social difficulties that both give rise to and get exacerbated by depression. Therapists may combine approaches as needed.

Can therapy for depression be done online?

Studies have found that online therapy can be highly effective for treating depression, although it may be more challenging to build a good therapist-patient alliance on screen than in person—at least at first. However, online therapy can offer considerable advantages. Accessibility and convenience are tops among them. Some people actually find it easier to talk about problems online than in person. While online therapy typically limits visibility of facial expression and body gestures that give important nonverbal cues to a patient’s state of mind, it can give therapists a glimpse into a patient’s world and life, providing information that can be highly useful in guiding therapy.

How effective is therapy for depression?

Many studies show that therapy is highly effective provided that patients complete the prescribed course of therapy, commonly 16 to 20 sessions. Over the long term, it is more effective than medication and the effects are more enduring. As a result, psychotherapy has the power not just to relieve current suffering but to prevent future episodes of the disorder. Therapy reverses the dysfunction in neural circuitry that disposes individuals to a negative view of themselves, the world, and their future and they acquire coping techniques, problem-solving skills, and understanding of their own vulnerabilities that are useful over the course of a lifetime.