Therapists in Wilmington, DE

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Dr. Kathryn Ellis
Occupational Therapist, AASECT-, SC, OTD, OTR/L
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Wilmington, DE 19802
Sex Therapy for Better Sex. Get curious, have fun, change your approach, and make difficult conversations easier. Tired of the traditional medical model that looks at issues with sex as something to “fix”? I offer nonjudgemental “come as you are” sex counseling where we don’t try to fix you. You’ll develop different techniques and strategies that work specifically for you. I specialize in low desire and lack of sexual enjoyment with common factors including postpartum, menopause, erectile dysfunction, cancer, physical disabilities, depression, anxiety, PTSD, veterans health, religious trauma, sexual trauma. Check out my website.
Sex Therapy for Better Sex. Get curious, have fun, change your approach, and make difficult conversations easier. Tired of the traditional medical model that looks at issues with sex as something to “fix”? I offer nonjudgemental “come as you are” sex counseling where we don’t try to fix you. You’ll develop different techniques and strategies that work specifically for you. I specialize in low desire and lack of sexual enjoyment with common factors including postpartum, menopause, erectile dysfunction, cancer, physical disabilities, depression, anxiety, PTSD, veterans health, religious trauma, sexual trauma. Check out my website.
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Mark Wolfe
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MEd, MSW
Verified Verified
Wilmington, DE 19809  (Online Only)
I am a psychotherapist who specializes in providing individual, relational, and sex therapy. I work with my clients to create safe, affirming space that allows them to explore the most challenging parts of their lives while celebrating and building upon their strengths. My approach to therapy is integrative and based on the specific needs and goals of the people I am working with, though my treatment methodology is grounded in psychodynamic, mindfulness based, and emotionally focused theories of therapeutic support. I work with individuals and couples who struggle with a variety of emotional, relational and sexual issues.
I am a psychotherapist who specializes in providing individual, relational, and sex therapy. I work with my clients to create safe, affirming space that allows them to explore the most challenging parts of their lives while celebrating and building upon their strengths. My approach to therapy is integrative and based on the specific needs and goals of the people I am working with, though my treatment methodology is grounded in psychodynamic, mindfulness based, and emotionally focused theories of therapeutic support. I work with individuals and couples who struggle with a variety of emotional, relational and sexual issues.
(484) 424-7301 View (484) 424-7301
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Edward Angelini-Cooke
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW, MEd
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Wilmington, DE 19809
My areas of expertise include individual and couples therapy involving topics of sexuality and gender journeys, sex therapy, sexual disorders/dysfunction, BDSM/kink, relationship therapy, related depression and/or anxiety, and trauma.
Sometimes we find ourselves lost and need help getting back on the path to our best selves. Therapy can assist you on getting back on that path through collaborative self discovery. I believe people are the experts of their own experiences and together we can find and repair tools that are going to get you to where you want to go.
My areas of expertise include individual and couples therapy involving topics of sexuality and gender journeys, sex therapy, sexual disorders/dysfunction, BDSM/kink, relationship therapy, related depression and/or anxiety, and trauma.
Sometimes we find ourselves lost and need help getting back on the path to our best selves. Therapy can assist you on getting back on that path through collaborative self discovery. I believe people are the experts of their own experiences and together we can find and repair tools that are going to get you to where you want to go.
(302) 286-9514 View (302) 286-9514
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Dr. Debra Laino
DHS, MEd, MS, ACS, ABS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Wilmington, DE 19805
My specialty is in Holistic Sex Therapy and Relationship Therapy/Coaching. I have over 20 years of experience working with individuals and couples. I treat a variety of issues from sexual function and dysfunction, relationship issues (communication, sexuality, anger, divorce, touch, and much more) to life coaching. I look at the whole person as humans are depthful and layered beings. I am a member of various professional organizations such as AASECT, ACS, and ABS. I am Board Certified by three professional Boards, The American College of Sexologists and The American Board of Sexologists and AASECT as a Sexuality Educator.
My specialty is in Holistic Sex Therapy and Relationship Therapy/Coaching. I have over 20 years of experience working with individuals and couples. I treat a variety of issues from sexual function and dysfunction, relationship issues (communication, sexuality, anger, divorce, touch, and much more) to life coaching. I look at the whole person as humans are depthful and layered beings. I am a member of various professional organizations such as AASECT, ACS, and ABS. I am Board Certified by three professional Boards, The American College of Sexologists and The American Board of Sexologists and AASECT as a Sexuality Educator.
(302) 751-0990 View (302) 751-0990
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Dr. Margo Lewis-Jah
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW, MEd, MOML
Verified Verified
Wilmington, DE 19804
D with a concentration in Human Sexuality.
Congratulations on exploring the option of psychotherapy. My treatment approach is strengths based, respecting each person's self-determination for achieving a state of emotional health. Strong therapeutic relationships can create healing and generate the ability to change. By applying various therapeutic techniques tailored to your individual needs, you will gain an understanding of behavior patterns or skewed cognitions that may be limiting you from experiencing a fulfilling and meaningful relationship with self or others.
D with a concentration in Human Sexuality.
Congratulations on exploring the option of psychotherapy. My treatment approach is strengths based, respecting each person's self-determination for achieving a state of emotional health. Strong therapeutic relationships can create healing and generate the ability to change. By applying various therapeutic techniques tailored to your individual needs, you will gain an understanding of behavior patterns or skewed cognitions that may be limiting you from experiencing a fulfilling and meaningful relationship with self or others.
(302) 407-0662 View (302) 407-0662
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Steve K. D. Eichel
Psychologist, PhD, ABPP, CST
Verified Verified
Wilmington, DE 19808
Please Note! I do not take insurance. My practice is currently limited to sex therapy, treatment of sexual trauma, and treatment of coercion/cult-related issues. I see patients Mondays through Wed. I work intensively with shame-based disorders, including addiction, trauma, sexual dysfunction and acting-out behaviors. I see many adolescents who struggle with identity and guarded secrets. I have been extensively trained in adult, adolescent and child psychology. I am licensed and Board-certified, and I am credentialed in addictions, hypnosis, EMDR, and am a Certified Sex Therapist (AASECT).
Please Note! I do not take insurance. My practice is currently limited to sex therapy, treatment of sexual trauma, and treatment of coercion/cult-related issues. I see patients Mondays through Wed. I work intensively with shame-based disorders, including addiction, trauma, sexual dysfunction and acting-out behaviors. I see many adolescents who struggle with identity and guarded secrets. I have been extensively trained in adult, adolescent and child psychology. I am licensed and Board-certified, and I am credentialed in addictions, hypnosis, EMDR, and am a Certified Sex Therapist (AASECT).
(302) 570-0983 View (302) 570-0983
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Chris Wilson
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, CSTS, CST, CHES
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Wilmington, DE 19801
I specialize in sex therapy, LGBTQ+ issues, and men's issues.
I am the Director of the Center for Healthier Relationships, Individuals & Sexualities. I have an amazing team of therapists, from low fee interns to therapists with years of experience. The team specializes in working with LGBTQ+ populations and is compromised of members of the community. The team has a variety of specialities, including sex therapy, addiction, behavioral modification, couples intimacy concerns, and increasing effective communication.
I specialize in sex therapy, LGBTQ+ issues, and men's issues.
I am the Director of the Center for Healthier Relationships, Individuals & Sexualities. I have an amazing team of therapists, from low fee interns to therapists with years of experience. The team specializes in working with LGBTQ+ populations and is compromised of members of the community. The team has a variety of specialities, including sex therapy, addiction, behavioral modification, couples intimacy concerns, and increasing effective communication.
(484) 228-7203 View (484) 228-7203
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Resilio Counseling Group
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MEd, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Wilmington, DE 19801  (Online Only)
To achieve your goals, we are specialized in Exposure and Relapse and Prevention Therapy (ExRP), Dialectical Behavior Therapy - Informed (DBT-Informed), and Relationship and Sex Therapy.
The Resilio Counseling Group, LLC was created with resilience as its core value to help heal, change, and improve lives. Through each therapeutic framework we offer, we leverage the innate resilience within each client to overcome a painful past, a set of overwhelming circumstances, or the hopelessness of facing a new day - all in the service of guiding you towards accomplishing your envisioned goals. We focus on what you want to achieve, instead of overly dwelling on a past which may be hijacking your future. Our goal is to provide you the tools to build the life that you want and spare you a lifetime of therapy.
To achieve your goals, we are specialized in Exposure and Relapse and Prevention Therapy (ExRP), Dialectical Behavior Therapy - Informed (DBT-Informed), and Relationship and Sex Therapy.
The Resilio Counseling Group, LLC was created with resilience as its core value to help heal, change, and improve lives. Through each therapeutic framework we offer, we leverage the innate resilience within each client to overcome a painful past, a set of overwhelming circumstances, or the hopelessness of facing a new day - all in the service of guiding you towards accomplishing your envisioned goals. We focus on what you want to achieve, instead of overly dwelling on a past which may be hijacking your future. Our goal is to provide you the tools to build the life that you want and spare you a lifetime of therapy.
(415) 988-1411 View (415) 988-1411
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Marc L Messner
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, M Ed
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Wilmington, DE 19808
Accepting New Clients: I believe my clients are experts on themselves; sometimes they just need someone else to help them problem solve and listen. My Master of Education degree from Widener University, focuses on human sexuality, so my specialization is sex and relational therapy. However, I also work with individuals for concerns including anxiety, depression, and ADHD.
Accepting New Clients: I believe my clients are experts on themselves; sometimes they just need someone else to help them problem solve and listen. My Master of Education degree from Widener University, focuses on human sexuality, so my specialization is sex and relational therapy. However, I also work with individuals for concerns including anxiety, depression, and ADHD.
(302) 205-0639 View (302) 205-0639
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Teresa Johnson
Psychologist, PhD, CST, ABS, BCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Wilmington, DE 19801  (Online Only)
As an AASECT certified sex therapist, I specialize in helping couples who have a solid loving relationship and are seeking support to deepen emotional and sexual intimacy.
Are you looking for a path toward more fulfillment personally and in your relationships? Engaging in a rich and meaningful life requires knowing ourselves deeply and acting on intentional choices guided by our core values, feelings, and desires. Our relationships can become more intimate as we develop both clarity about our needs and courage to be vulnerable with those we trust to meet us on this level. I love supporting women in deepening the capacity for presence, emotional intimacy, and pleasure through mindfulness, self-compassion, and self-acceptance.
As an AASECT certified sex therapist, I specialize in helping couples who have a solid loving relationship and are seeking support to deepen emotional and sexual intimacy.
Are you looking for a path toward more fulfillment personally and in your relationships? Engaging in a rich and meaningful life requires knowing ourselves deeply and acting on intentional choices guided by our core values, feelings, and desires. Our relationships can become more intimate as we develop both clarity about our needs and courage to be vulnerable with those we trust to meet us on this level. I love supporting women in deepening the capacity for presence, emotional intimacy, and pleasure through mindfulness, self-compassion, and self-acceptance.
(603) 865-1934 View (603) 865-1934
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Erin O'Brien
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Wilmington, DE 19806
Licensed in both PA and DE, my approach is integrative, intersectional, developmental, and contextual with a belief in the value of connection and the power of possibility. I understand that we are heavily shaped by our relationships, family experiences, and positionality in the world with regard to race, culture, class, gender identity, sexuality, etc. My practice is relationship and sexual intimacy focused, and I've deepened my lens to include training in the Developmental Model of Couples Therapy, in addition to past experience with PACT, Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, Gottman Method, and IMAGO.
Licensed in both PA and DE, my approach is integrative, intersectional, developmental, and contextual with a belief in the value of connection and the power of possibility. I understand that we are heavily shaped by our relationships, family experiences, and positionality in the world with regard to race, culture, class, gender identity, sexuality, etc. My practice is relationship and sexual intimacy focused, and I've deepened my lens to include training in the Developmental Model of Couples Therapy, in addition to past experience with PACT, Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, Gottman Method, and IMAGO.
(302) 570-2130 View (302) 570-2130
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Erin McKeague
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Wilmington, DE 19807
In addition to obtaining a Doctorate in Psychology, I obtained a Master's degree in Human Sexuality.
Therapy is a collaborative process that promotes healing, change, and growth, and the therapy relationship is the foundation for this process. Given this, my goal is to provide you with a safe space in which we work together to meet your needs and goals for treatment. Whether you are struggling with relationship issues, grief/loss, low self-esteem, depression, or anxiety; you feel unfulfilled, lonely, or in need of support and coping skills; or you are in the midst of a life transition that you need help navigating, we can address these in therapy.
In addition to obtaining a Doctorate in Psychology, I obtained a Master's degree in Human Sexuality.
Therapy is a collaborative process that promotes healing, change, and growth, and the therapy relationship is the foundation for this process. Given this, my goal is to provide you with a safe space in which we work together to meet your needs and goals for treatment. Whether you are struggling with relationship issues, grief/loss, low self-esteem, depression, or anxiety; you feel unfulfilled, lonely, or in need of support and coping skills; or you are in the midst of a life transition that you need help navigating, we can address these in therapy.
(215) 607-8573 View (215) 607-8573
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Marla R Cobin
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW, MEd
Verified Verified
Wilmington, DE 19806
My doctorate in sexuality gives me the background and ability to specialize in the areas of general sexuality, sexual orientation, gender identity, and sexual dysfunction.
Hello! Thanks for looking at my profile. Feel free to send a message if you'd like to schedule a free 30 minute consult. Finding a good fit is so important in choosing a therapist. The relationship is critical. I work with adolescents and adults, specializing in women, girls, and queer, gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender and nonbinary folks. I practice decolonizing and liberation focused therapy. My areas of focus include sexuality and trauma. I consider myself a client centered, relational, and culturally sensitive psychotherapist. I am board certified in teletherapy. I am licensed in Pennsylvania and Delaware.
My doctorate in sexuality gives me the background and ability to specialize in the areas of general sexuality, sexual orientation, gender identity, and sexual dysfunction.
Hello! Thanks for looking at my profile. Feel free to send a message if you'd like to schedule a free 30 minute consult. Finding a good fit is so important in choosing a therapist. The relationship is critical. I work with adolescents and adults, specializing in women, girls, and queer, gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender and nonbinary folks. I practice decolonizing and liberation focused therapy. My areas of focus include sexuality and trauma. I consider myself a client centered, relational, and culturally sensitive psychotherapist. I am board certified in teletherapy. I am licensed in Pennsylvania and Delaware.
(484) 209-1254 View (484) 209-1254
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Thuydy Nguyen
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Wilmington, DE 19801  (Online Only)
In addition to treating mental health and relationship issues, I am kink knowledgeable and sex positive therapist.
Are you limited by not knowing your true self or do you have troubles communicating with others? Do you question your role in a relationship, or have you ever thought: “How can I openly communicate my partner about my needs, wants, and deep desires?” I know that finding and understanding the “true you” while trying to relate with others is a difficult process to do by alone. Together, therapy can help you to develop resiliency through creating new tools to accommodate your new lifestyle while adjusting to the new ways of connecting with yourself and others.
In addition to treating mental health and relationship issues, I am kink knowledgeable and sex positive therapist.
Are you limited by not knowing your true self or do you have troubles communicating with others? Do you question your role in a relationship, or have you ever thought: “How can I openly communicate my partner about my needs, wants, and deep desires?” I know that finding and understanding the “true you” while trying to relate with others is a difficult process to do by alone. Together, therapy can help you to develop resiliency through creating new tools to accommodate your new lifestyle while adjusting to the new ways of connecting with yourself and others.
(904) 637-1152 View (904) 637-1152
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Seph Valoren
Pre-Licensed Professional, LSW
Verified Verified
Wilmington, DE 19801  (Online Only)
I am a resident clinician who has worked in community mental health for more than 10 years in environments as varied as hospice care, juvenile group homes, sexual assault crisis support, and justice-involved individuals. I was raised in a working-class home in northern California and became involved in politics, environmental activism, and community organizing at a young age. These experiences complement my formal education in behavioral science and social work, focusing on clinical therapeutic applications with clients identifying with LGBTQ+, kink, ethical non-monogamy, and ‘geek’ culture.
I am a resident clinician who has worked in community mental health for more than 10 years in environments as varied as hospice care, juvenile group homes, sexual assault crisis support, and justice-involved individuals. I was raised in a working-class home in northern California and became involved in politics, environmental activism, and community organizing at a young age. These experiences complement my formal education in behavioral science and social work, focusing on clinical therapeutic applications with clients identifying with LGBTQ+, kink, ethical non-monogamy, and ‘geek’ culture.
(717) 910-6987 View (717) 910-6987
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Leland G. Orlov, Ph.D.
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Wilmington, DE 19808
I offer a unique blend of longevity as a therapist as well as an integration of the latest trends in treatment. My own life experiences have included several challenging medical and family issues. Learning to deal with these effectively has expanded my awareness on many levels and has made me a more compassionate and creative therapist. I am very comfortable working with children, adolescents, families and stepfamilies, single adults, married couples and committed partners, and seniors.
I offer a unique blend of longevity as a therapist as well as an integration of the latest trends in treatment. My own life experiences have included several challenging medical and family issues. Learning to deal with these effectively has expanded my awareness on many levels and has made me a more compassionate and creative therapist. I am very comfortable working with children, adolescents, families and stepfamilies, single adults, married couples and committed partners, and seniors.
(302) 319-2493 View (302) 319-2493
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Walter J. Ciecko
Psychologist, PhD, BCB
Verified Verified
Wilmington, DE 19803
As a licensed psychologist with over 30 years experience, relationship therapy has always been a specialty of mine. I work with couples, individuals, groups, and families to increase their satisfaction, pleasure, and passion in their intimate relationships. I provide training and education through workshops and individuals sessions.
As a licensed psychologist with over 30 years experience, relationship therapy has always been a specialty of mine. I work with couples, individuals, groups, and families to increase their satisfaction, pleasure, and passion in their intimate relationships. I provide training and education through workshops and individuals sessions.
(302) 319-2917 View (302) 319-2917
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Joseph Howard Wright
Psychologist
Verified Verified
Wilmington, DE 19808
A moment ago, you were doing fine. Sitting at your desk, completing an assignment-when out of nowhere it hits. A tidal wave of anxiety crashes over you as you start to panic. Your mind races, your palms sweat, and every muscle in your body tenses up. Tring to calm down and tell yourself that it will pass is no use. The overwhelming sense of impending doom is impossible to shake. You're so sick and tired of your life being hijacked by uncontrollable emotions and painful memories. You know that unless you do something different, things will only continue to get worse. But you don't know how to make a change. It all feels so helpless!
A moment ago, you were doing fine. Sitting at your desk, completing an assignment-when out of nowhere it hits. A tidal wave of anxiety crashes over you as you start to panic. Your mind races, your palms sweat, and every muscle in your body tenses up. Tring to calm down and tell yourself that it will pass is no use. The overwhelming sense of impending doom is impossible to shake. You're so sick and tired of your life being hijacked by uncontrollable emotions and painful memories. You know that unless you do something different, things will only continue to get worse. But you don't know how to make a change. It all feels so helpless!
(302) 503-6582 View (302) 503-6582
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Jenna Elizabeth Montalbano
MS CMH, LACMH, CTP, ICADC, CYMHC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Wilmington, DE 19808
An ideal client, is an unideal person. If humans were perfect they wouldn't need therapy. I work with individuals, couples & families with a range of issues. I help people address unskilled thoughts, emotions &/or behaviors, helping them let go of things that are no longer serving them. If an individual desires to grow by developing their sense of awareness, while developing skills to help them lower their stress levels & address their issues, I can help. I work with all mental health conditions, or stress related issues. No issue is too small or too big for therapy. I am here to support others in their goals & personal growth.
An ideal client, is an unideal person. If humans were perfect they wouldn't need therapy. I work with individuals, couples & families with a range of issues. I help people address unskilled thoughts, emotions &/or behaviors, helping them let go of things that are no longer serving them. If an individual desires to grow by developing their sense of awareness, while developing skills to help them lower their stress levels & address their issues, I can help. I work with all mental health conditions, or stress related issues. No issue is too small or too big for therapy. I am here to support others in their goals & personal growth.
(302) 308-4931 View (302) 308-4931
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Integrative Psychology Group, LLC
Verified Verified
Wilmington, DE 19803
Staff at Integrative Psychology Group, LLC provide a supportive, collaborative and compassionate approach that will empower and support you in dealing with your unique circumstances. A developmental perspective helps us know where to start. We work with you to understand the relationship between your challenges, emotions, learning and behavior. Are there areas in your life that you are struggling to understand? Have you experienced a death or loss, or have you been diagnosed with a terminal illness? Are your relationships in jeopardy or your family in turmoil? Or maybe you are trying to figure out why you, or your child, are having trouble learning, or maintaining attention. Do you need help with parenting and behavioral management of your child? Do you, or your child, need to be evaluated for ADHD, or a learning disability? Whatever the situation may be, we are here to help. Therapeutic goals are established to address your individual needs; and treatment is both person centered and evidence based. For families dealing with the educational needs of their children, comprehensive assessment and accurate diagnosis give you the answers you need. Please contact us, we are committed to helping individuals, children, adolescents, adults and families with special needs.
Staff at Integrative Psychology Group, LLC provide a supportive, collaborative and compassionate approach that will empower and support you in dealing with your unique circumstances. A developmental perspective helps us know where to start. We work with you to understand the relationship between your challenges, emotions, learning and behavior. Are there areas in your life that you are struggling to understand? Have you experienced a death or loss, or have you been diagnosed with a terminal illness? Are your relationships in jeopardy or your family in turmoil? Or maybe you are trying to figure out why you, or your child, are having trouble learning, or maintaining attention. Do you need help with parenting and behavioral management of your child? Do you, or your child, need to be evaluated for ADHD, or a learning disability? Whatever the situation may be, we are here to help. Therapeutic goals are established to address your individual needs; and treatment is both person centered and evidence based. For families dealing with the educational needs of their children, comprehensive assessment and accurate diagnosis give you the answers you need. Please contact us, we are committed to helping individuals, children, adolescents, adults and families with special needs.
(302) 715-0076 View (302) 715-0076
Sex Therapy

Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.