Gottman Method Therapists in Cumberland County, PA

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Todd Drazien
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lemoyne, PA 17043  (Online Only)
I have been trained in the Gottman method, IMAGO, EFT, conflict resolution and sex therapy.
Being in a relationship can be very challenging and can have an enormous impact on your health. It’s no surprise that the divorce rate in the US is over 50%; but it doesn’t have to be. Most marital issues are resolvable. Whether it’s improving your communication, recovering from infidelity, finding that long lost spark or rekindling your emotional and physical connection - I can help you with all of this. I’ve been working in the mental health field for over 25 years. I have a vast amount of experience and training in marital counseling that I would love to share with you.
I have been trained in the Gottman method, IMAGO, EFT, conflict resolution and sex therapy.
Being in a relationship can be very challenging and can have an enormous impact on your health. It’s no surprise that the divorce rate in the US is over 50%; but it doesn’t have to be. Most marital issues are resolvable. Whether it’s improving your communication, recovering from infidelity, finding that long lost spark or rekindling your emotional and physical connection - I can help you with all of this. I’ve been working in the mental health field for over 25 years. I have a vast amount of experience and training in marital counseling that I would love to share with you.
(717) 306-9058 View (717) 306-9058
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Andrea J Geesaman
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
Shippensburg, PA 17257
I am passionate about assisting others in developing a deeper understanding of themselves and am dedicated to helping my clients lead productive, well-balanced, emotionally enriched lives.
I am passionate about assisting others in developing a deeper understanding of themselves and am dedicated to helping my clients lead productive, well-balanced, emotionally enriched lives.
(717) 850-4384 View (717) 850-4384
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Mark Verber
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
Verified Verified
Camp Hill, PA 17011
Do you miss your relationship as it once was? You’re likely feeling stuck between two unimaginable fates- struggling with the way things currently are, but you don’t want the relationship to end either. You don’t want to give in or give up. Yet, the more you struggle against the pattern that has developed, the more stuck you seem to get. Communication is not productive or non-existent- leaving you frustrated. Conflict is ever-present or unresolved- leaving you angry. Intimacy is absent or distant- leaving you feeling alone. When your relationship suffers, everything suffers.
Do you miss your relationship as it once was? You’re likely feeling stuck between two unimaginable fates- struggling with the way things currently are, but you don’t want the relationship to end either. You don’t want to give in or give up. Yet, the more you struggle against the pattern that has developed, the more stuck you seem to get. Communication is not productive or non-existent- leaving you frustrated. Conflict is ever-present or unresolved- leaving you angry. Intimacy is absent or distant- leaving you feeling alone. When your relationship suffers, everything suffers.
(717) 384-2890 View (717) 384-2890
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Lynn Brooks
MS, MFT
Verified Verified
Lemoyne, PA 17043
Is now the time for you? Life is a journey and can be both rewarding and challenging. If you decide to make yourself a priority and come in for therapy, I will provide you with a relaxed, safe environment which nurtures positive growth. I will coach, encourage and support you on your personal process and journey. It is important to focus on your strengths and help empower you with awareness and resources. You matter and there is HOPE for you. Where there is hope, there is healing and new beginnings are ignited.
Is now the time for you? Life is a journey and can be both rewarding and challenging. If you decide to make yourself a priority and come in for therapy, I will provide you with a relaxed, safe environment which nurtures positive growth. I will coach, encourage and support you on your personal process and journey. It is important to focus on your strengths and help empower you with awareness and resources. You matter and there is HOPE for you. Where there is hope, there is healing and new beginnings are ignited.
(717) 516-5032 View (717) 516-5032
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Pamela Moran Treatment and Consulting
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LSW
Verified Verified
Lemoyne, PA 17043
Waitlist for new clients
My current focus is in working with those diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD - Bravery, Perseverance, Determination) or have the symptoms of BPD (fear of abandonment, fear of being alone, low self esteem, lack of sense of self, mood swings, splitting, anger, emptiness, impulsivity, and lack of organization and structure), parents of those diagnosed with BPD, and all issues of high conflict divorce including Co-parenting, Reunification, and Custody Evaluation. I also enjoy couples work & use a Polarity framework. Treatments are Relationally-Focused, Trauma-Informed, and Evidence-Based.
My current focus is in working with those diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD - Bravery, Perseverance, Determination) or have the symptoms of BPD (fear of abandonment, fear of being alone, low self esteem, lack of sense of self, mood swings, splitting, anger, emptiness, impulsivity, and lack of organization and structure), parents of those diagnosed with BPD, and all issues of high conflict divorce including Co-parenting, Reunification, and Custody Evaluation. I also enjoy couples work & use a Polarity framework. Treatments are Relationally-Focused, Trauma-Informed, and Evidence-Based.
(717) 417-4293 View (717) 417-4293
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Sanctuary Christian Counseling
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LPC, LSW, PhD, MA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Shippensburg, PA 17257
Waitlist for new clients
It's hard to make the tough decision to come to therapy! By the time you've gotten to this point, your pain is serious, and you long to be heard and understood, to figure things out and to feel whole and XXXXX again. We love making a difference in clients' lives, helping them to gain insight and work through difficult issues with the aim of enhancing the quality of their experiences. We know you are brave, and we also know how to help you feel better.
It's hard to make the tough decision to come to therapy! By the time you've gotten to this point, your pain is serious, and you long to be heard and understood, to figure things out and to feel whole and XXXXX again. We love making a difference in clients' lives, helping them to gain insight and work through difficult issues with the aim of enhancing the quality of their experiences. We know you are brave, and we also know how to help you feel better.
(717) 862-4181 View (717) 862-4181
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Judd L Kulas
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, NCC, LPC
Verified Verified
Carlisle, PA 17013
You probably already know at least some of what you wish were different in your life. Often the things we wish were different we have wanted to change for months, years, or even decades. Counseling often has a balanced focus on helping you learn how to cope with present day symptoms while at times looking back to become free from old patterns of responding. Those old patterns that at one time may have been necessary in order to survive, now may be the very thing limiting your ability to thrive and realize your potential. Click on the "website" button to the left to read more about me, my approach, and my specialties.
You probably already know at least some of what you wish were different in your life. Often the things we wish were different we have wanted to change for months, years, or even decades. Counseling often has a balanced focus on helping you learn how to cope with present day symptoms while at times looking back to become free from old patterns of responding. Those old patterns that at one time may have been necessary in order to survive, now may be the very thing limiting your ability to thrive and realize your potential. Click on the "website" button to the left to read more about me, my approach, and my specialties.
(223) 215-3973 View (223) 215-3973
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Jennie Sheffe
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, NCC®
Verified Verified
Carlisle, PA 17015
Anxiety does not allow your brain to have an "off" button. You are always on edge, feeling tense, alert, exhausted, even when you try to relax. You are always waiting for the other shoe to drop, and find yourself nagged by inner accusations that you are not enough. You wonder, “What is wrong with me?” "Why can't I calm down?" "How do other women do this?" You've lost yourself somewhere in your quest to measure up. What if I told you that you are not alone in this struggle? Feeling this way is optional, and there is a way to be more of who you want to be, to be more of yourself.
Anxiety does not allow your brain to have an "off" button. You are always on edge, feeling tense, alert, exhausted, even when you try to relax. You are always waiting for the other shoe to drop, and find yourself nagged by inner accusations that you are not enough. You wonder, “What is wrong with me?” "Why can't I calm down?" "How do other women do this?" You've lost yourself somewhere in your quest to measure up. What if I told you that you are not alone in this struggle? Feeling this way is optional, and there is a way to be more of who you want to be, to be more of yourself.
(717) 229-0537 View (717) 229-0537
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Kelly Bishop
Counselor, LPC, LCPC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Mechanicsburg, PA 17055
Now Accepting New Patients for In Person ONLY in PA. The journey through life is full of ups and downs and sometimes those downs can create barriers that make us feel stuck and can impact our ability to enjoy the ups. Though it might not feel like it, you have the power and strength to overcome those struggles; it just might take a little help, and hey, we ALL can use a little help navigating the curveballs of life! My mission is to provide that guidance to help unlock the answers within you to create that change you’ve been wishing for.
Now Accepting New Patients for In Person ONLY in PA. The journey through life is full of ups and downs and sometimes those downs can create barriers that make us feel stuck and can impact our ability to enjoy the ups. Though it might not feel like it, you have the power and strength to overcome those struggles; it just might take a little help, and hey, we ALL can use a little help navigating the curveballs of life! My mission is to provide that guidance to help unlock the answers within you to create that change you’ve been wishing for.
(717) 357-8230 View (717) 357-8230
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Chris Givler
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MDiv
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Mechanicsburg, PA 17055
If you are a couple looking for help, or if you are an adult struggling with ADHD, then I can help. I work with couples to help them move from feeling unloved, unimportant, lonely, and unheard to connecting and feeling loved, wanted, and heard. I help those with ADHD identify what causes stress and keeps them stuck. Then we work together to find ways to move forward and to address symptoms that get in the way of success and accomplishment. I work with premarital couples to help them identify potential problems and to gain skills to have strong, connected marriages. I am a certified facilitator of the Prepare/Enrich Program.
If you are a couple looking for help, or if you are an adult struggling with ADHD, then I can help. I work with couples to help them move from feeling unloved, unimportant, lonely, and unheard to connecting and feeling loved, wanted, and heard. I help those with ADHD identify what causes stress and keeps them stuck. Then we work together to find ways to move forward and to address symptoms that get in the way of success and accomplishment. I work with premarital couples to help them identify potential problems and to gain skills to have strong, connected marriages. I am a certified facilitator of the Prepare/Enrich Program.
(717) 925-2885 View (717) 925-2885
David R Miller
Psychologist, PhD, MSPHARM
Verified Verified
Carlisle, PA 17013
Waitlist for new clients
Hello. I have over 20 yrs of clinical experience with children, teens, and adults. I grew up in central Pennsylvania and attended Penn State for undergraduate schooling. I then earned a Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology from Central Michigan University and later a masters degree in Psychopharmacology from Argosy University. I also completed a two year fellowship in Clinical Child Psychology to work with children, teens, and families. I enjoy working with all age groups. Whether you are a parent wanting support for your child or teenager or an adult I would be happy to help you.
Hello. I have over 20 yrs of clinical experience with children, teens, and adults. I grew up in central Pennsylvania and attended Penn State for undergraduate schooling. I then earned a Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology from Central Michigan University and later a masters degree in Psychopharmacology from Argosy University. I also completed a two year fellowship in Clinical Child Psychology to work with children, teens, and families. I enjoy working with all age groups. Whether you are a parent wanting support for your child or teenager or an adult I would be happy to help you.
(717) 954-0293 View (717) 954-0293
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Colleen Torrey
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Mechanicsburg, PA 17050  (Online Only)
Are you a neurodivergent woman who feels like you’re living in a world that wasn’t made for you? The parts about yourself that you love—your interest in new hobbies, your tendency to daydream—make you feel like you don’t quite belong. You often feel bored, distracted, and disconnected from others, often analyzing social situations to try and pinpoint where you went wrong. You spend so much time masking your ADHD or autism that you’re not entirely sure who you really are anymore. You want to find a way to go through life that doesn’t force you to change, but instead celebrates the real, authentic version of you.
Are you a neurodivergent woman who feels like you’re living in a world that wasn’t made for you? The parts about yourself that you love—your interest in new hobbies, your tendency to daydream—make you feel like you don’t quite belong. You often feel bored, distracted, and disconnected from others, often analyzing social situations to try and pinpoint where you went wrong. You spend so much time masking your ADHD or autism that you’re not entirely sure who you really are anymore. You want to find a way to go through life that doesn’t force you to change, but instead celebrates the real, authentic version of you.
(267) 313-5683 View (267) 313-5683
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Michelle Braceras
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, MA, EdM
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Camp Hill, PA 17011  (Online Only)
We all have a story to tell. We are made of thousands of them– from the haiku to the novel. Whether you feel like you’re spinning in circles or out of ideas, therapy can offer a fresh perspective through a clear lens. It can help wipe the fog off your glasses with the help of an objective outlook. You may feel like you are seeing Signs. Or hearing Sirens. Maybe from a direct Trauma. Or things are manifesting subtly throughout the fabric of your relationships. Whatever it is, you don't need to manage Your Story alone. You are worth it.
We all have a story to tell. We are made of thousands of them– from the haiku to the novel. Whether you feel like you’re spinning in circles or out of ideas, therapy can offer a fresh perspective through a clear lens. It can help wipe the fog off your glasses with the help of an objective outlook. You may feel like you are seeing Signs. Or hearing Sirens. Maybe from a direct Trauma. Or things are manifesting subtly throughout the fabric of your relationships. Whatever it is, you don't need to manage Your Story alone. You are worth it.
(717) 896-6462 View (717) 896-6462
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Mary Davis Harfst
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, ACSW
Verified Verified
Shippensburg, PA 17257
When life seems to be getting the best of you, stop and take the time to get a fresh perspective. Overwhelmed by transition issues, individual personal struggles, relational tensions, family issues, or a more chronic condition, like Depression, Anxiety or OCD, help is only a phone call away. Recognizing your need and reaching out is the hardest part. You're half way there and you are not alone. Together we will identify barriers and build skills that will allow you to continue your journey with tools to address life's common challenges.
When life seems to be getting the best of you, stop and take the time to get a fresh perspective. Overwhelmed by transition issues, individual personal struggles, relational tensions, family issues, or a more chronic condition, like Depression, Anxiety or OCD, help is only a phone call away. Recognizing your need and reaching out is the hardest part. You're half way there and you are not alone. Together we will identify barriers and build skills that will allow you to continue your journey with tools to address life's common challenges.
(717) 983-4655 View (717) 983-4655
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Maria T Myers
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Camp Hill, PA 17011
Change can be difficult. At times, not changing can be harder. Deciding to explore therapy is a wonderful first step. I can help you set and accomplish goals to determine how to move from that difficult place, to where you want to be.
Change can be difficult. At times, not changing can be harder. Deciding to explore therapy is a wonderful first step. I can help you set and accomplish goals to determine how to move from that difficult place, to where you want to be.
(717) 484-9059 View (717) 484-9059
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Olga I. Baron-Lamma
MAMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Carlisle, PA 17013
You wonder what happened - the two of you planned a wonderful life together, but you're feeling confused and disconnected. You know that you love one another. You tried to bridge the gap but your efforts seem to fall through the cracks. You would like to be able to show your care and appreciation without feeling rejected. You want to feel that you can communicate your needs and wants and love well without causing a fight.
You wonder what happened - the two of you planned a wonderful life together, but you're feeling confused and disconnected. You know that you love one another. You tried to bridge the gap but your efforts seem to fall through the cracks. You would like to be able to show your care and appreciation without feeling rejected. You want to feel that you can communicate your needs and wants and love well without causing a fight.
(223) 217-2025 View (223) 217-2025
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Donna J Cardinal
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, BASW, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Carlisle, PA 17013  (Online Only)
There are times in life when you may need someone to talk to. Do you long for a greater sense of balance in your life? Therapy can help you with making difficult decisions, changing problematic behaviors and reducing symptoms of depression and anxiety. I am Donna J Cardinal. I am a licensed clinical social worker. I provide individual, couples and family counseling. I am accepting new clients.
There are times in life when you may need someone to talk to. Do you long for a greater sense of balance in your life? Therapy can help you with making difficult decisions, changing problematic behaviors and reducing symptoms of depression and anxiety. I am Donna J Cardinal. I am a licensed clinical social worker. I provide individual, couples and family counseling. I am accepting new clients.
(717) 502-9741 View (717) 502-9741
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Andrea Love-Sanders
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA
Verified Verified
Mechanicsburg, PA 17055
Have you been considering beginning therapy for some time? Do you need to talk to someone about any troubles you are currently experiencing or from the past? Do you sense that you're having a bad day but don't know why? Do you and your partner have relationship issues?
Have you been considering beginning therapy for some time? Do you need to talk to someone about any troubles you are currently experiencing or from the past? Do you sense that you're having a bad day but don't know why? Do you and your partner have relationship issues?
(717) 493-8667 View (717) 493-8667
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Cognitive Behavior Institute
Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Verified Verified
Mechanicsburg, PA 17050
Welcome to Cognitive Behavior Institute! We are committed to providing the best care possible through established treatment methods. These treatment methods are proven to be effective for a wide range of mental health diagnoses and psychological distresses. Cognitive Behavior Institute (CBI) is proud to employ adept licensed clinicians, board-certified psychiatrists, and compassionate administrative staff with diverse experience in their respective fields.
Welcome to Cognitive Behavior Institute! We are committed to providing the best care possible through established treatment methods. These treatment methods are proven to be effective for a wide range of mental health diagnoses and psychological distresses. Cognitive Behavior Institute (CBI) is proud to employ adept licensed clinicians, board-certified psychiatrists, and compassionate administrative staff with diverse experience in their respective fields.
(717) 539-5807 View (717) 539-5807
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Bethany Swartz
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Mechanicsburg, PA 17055
life can be a challenge. We all go through difficult experiences and have complex thoughts and feelings. I am here to sit with you during those difficult times. I will join you in the darkness and guide you to the light. If you need support, resources, strength, growth, or healing call on me to be there for you. Step by step we will work together to create your ideal life.
life can be a challenge. We all go through difficult experiences and have complex thoughts and feelings. I am here to sit with you during those difficult times. I will join you in the darkness and guide you to the light. If you need support, resources, strength, growth, or healing call on me to be there for you. Step by step we will work together to create your ideal life.
(272) 359-7221 View (272) 359-7221

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Gottman Method Therapists

How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.