Photo of Ian Kerner, Marriage & Family Therapist in 10011, NY
Ian Kerner
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, CSC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New York, NY 10011
When it comes to sex and relationship problems, many of us lead lives of quiet desperation. Sometimes you can be lying in bed next to someone and feel a million miles apart. I am a licensed psychotherapist, specializing in couple therapy and sex therapy. I am the New York Times best-selling author of "She Comes First," and I regularly contribute to major publications such as The Atlantic, The Economist and CNN Health amongst others. Talking about sex and relationships is hard, but self-silencing is even harder. My approach is solutions-oriented, with an emphasis on honest communication, and I give homework in between sessions.
When it comes to sex and relationship problems, many of us lead lives of quiet desperation. Sometimes you can be lying in bed next to someone and feel a million miles apart. I am a licensed psychotherapist, specializing in couple therapy and sex therapy. I am the New York Times best-selling author of "She Comes First," and I regularly contribute to major publications such as The Atlantic, The Economist and CNN Health amongst others. Talking about sex and relationships is hard, but self-silencing is even harder. My approach is solutions-oriented, with an emphasis on honest communication, and I give homework in between sessions.
(646) 791-4319 View (646) 791-4319
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Rande Brown
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New York, NY 10011
Schooled in both Eastern and Western psychology, I bring a contemplative, fluid perspective to the exploration of the human mind and the alleviation of suffering. Using a psychoanalytic, interpersonal approach, I help my clients make meaning from experience and expand their understanding of self. Together we find pathways that lead beyond old limitations and engraved patterns of behavior towards a life of greater freedom and ease. I am strong but gentle, and able to contain a great deal of distress.
Schooled in both Eastern and Western psychology, I bring a contemplative, fluid perspective to the exploration of the human mind and the alleviation of suffering. Using a psychoanalytic, interpersonal approach, I help my clients make meaning from experience and expand their understanding of self. Together we find pathways that lead beyond old limitations and engraved patterns of behavior towards a life of greater freedom and ease. I am strong but gentle, and able to contain a great deal of distress.
(646) 791-2826 View (646) 791-2826
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Shelley Messing
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, BCD, MSW
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10011
I am a licensed clinical social worker, with over 35 years of experience. I have a variety of clinical interests and areas of specialization, including the treatment of trauma and PTSD; couples therapy with heterosexual, gay and lesbian couples; analytic work "launching" young adults; Ericksonian hypnosis; EMDR;Sensorimotor Psychotherapy; adolescent and family therapy; and in-depth analytic work with individuals who are feeling stuck in repetitive patterns or dynamics left over from childhood, and want to change. I have led ongoing therapy groups for women with interpersonal trauma histories for over 30 years.
I am a licensed clinical social worker, with over 35 years of experience. I have a variety of clinical interests and areas of specialization, including the treatment of trauma and PTSD; couples therapy with heterosexual, gay and lesbian couples; analytic work "launching" young adults; Ericksonian hypnosis; EMDR;Sensorimotor Psychotherapy; adolescent and family therapy; and in-depth analytic work with individuals who are feeling stuck in repetitive patterns or dynamics left over from childhood, and want to change. I have led ongoing therapy groups for women with interpersonal trauma histories for over 30 years.
(646) 480-7155 View (646) 480-7155
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Michael Morrison
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10011  (Online Only)
The ideal client for me is a young, mature, or elder adult who is motivated by their suffering or by their character to learn something new about themselves, to resolve some issue which is causing them anguish or anxiety, or both. Therapy is as much an educational process as a healing process. Both learning and healing are key elements of successful therapeutic collaboration. I am suited to treat any of the specialties designated in my profile. I have network of colleagues through which I make referrals for issues that require specialists' attention such as severe addictive issues or veterans' PTSD.
The ideal client for me is a young, mature, or elder adult who is motivated by their suffering or by their character to learn something new about themselves, to resolve some issue which is causing them anguish or anxiety, or both. Therapy is as much an educational process as a healing process. Both learning and healing are key elements of successful therapeutic collaboration. I am suited to treat any of the specialties designated in my profile. I have network of colleagues through which I make referrals for issues that require specialists' attention such as severe addictive issues or veterans' PTSD.
(646) 760-1389 View (646) 760-1389
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Arlene Neuman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New York, NY 10011
I am a licensed psychotherapist and have been in practice for over 25 years. My specialty is anxiety management, depression, self esteem issues,relationship difficulties, ( including marital, family, work and friendships). My work also includes working with individuals struggling with various addictions, life cycle transitions, disenchantment, and personal growth. Various approaches are used, depending on the problem presented. My style is interactive and direct . You you can expect clear and honest feedback. I am currently on the faculty of the National Institute of the Psychotherapies and have supervised and taught at various training programs and institutes in NYC.
I am a licensed psychotherapist and have been in practice for over 25 years. My specialty is anxiety management, depression, self esteem issues,relationship difficulties, ( including marital, family, work and friendships). My work also includes working with individuals struggling with various addictions, life cycle transitions, disenchantment, and personal growth. Various approaches are used, depending on the problem presented. My style is interactive and direct . You you can expect clear and honest feedback. I am currently on the faculty of the National Institute of the Psychotherapies and have supervised and taught at various training programs and institutes in NYC.
(646) 600-9264 View (646) 600-9264
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Sibel Ozcan-Basar
Counselor, LMHC, EdM, MA
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10011  (Online Only)
I am a New York State licensed psychotherapist experienced in working with new and expecting mothers/birthing people who are dealing with perinatal mood and anxiety disorders, such as depression, anxiety, obsessive-compulsive disorder and panic disorder. I'm also working with women who have experienced loss or miscarriage and deal with fertility challenges. I received a dual Master’s degree in Counseling Psychology at Columbia University and have been in the field since 2015.
I am a New York State licensed psychotherapist experienced in working with new and expecting mothers/birthing people who are dealing with perinatal mood and anxiety disorders, such as depression, anxiety, obsessive-compulsive disorder and panic disorder. I'm also working with women who have experienced loss or miscarriage and deal with fertility challenges. I received a dual Master’s degree in Counseling Psychology at Columbia University and have been in the field since 2015.
(551) 261-7296 View (551) 261-7296
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Bob Raymond
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10011
Life is a series of transitions. We often need help in moving from a place of discomfort to a place of calmness, safety, and satisfaction. The process of psychotherapy can help you get to that better place. I work with individuals, couples, and families with a focus on achieving self-understanding for the purpose of changing situations which are stressful and unpleasant. My practice is all inclusive, treating those seemingly well adjusted yet with nagging underlying dissatisfactions to those experiencing extreme distress, alienation, and shame.
Life is a series of transitions. We often need help in moving from a place of discomfort to a place of calmness, safety, and satisfaction. The process of psychotherapy can help you get to that better place. I work with individuals, couples, and families with a focus on achieving self-understanding for the purpose of changing situations which are stressful and unpleasant. My practice is all inclusive, treating those seemingly well adjusted yet with nagging underlying dissatisfactions to those experiencing extreme distress, alienation, and shame.
(646) 760-1358 View (646) 760-1358
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Hank Flacks
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10011
Psychotherapy is a process of discovering the causes of entrenched behaviors that are obstacles to achievement of your goals. Over thirty years of experience gives me the expertise to help you sort through troubling behaviors or distorted beliefs about yourself and discuss what you feel might be missing in your life. Psychotherapy can help remove dysfunctional behaviors and habits that impede personal and career success so that you have a better chance of leading a rewarding life. If you commit to the process of this work I'm confident I can help you accomplish goals which you set for our work together.
Psychotherapy is a process of discovering the causes of entrenched behaviors that are obstacles to achievement of your goals. Over thirty years of experience gives me the expertise to help you sort through troubling behaviors or distorted beliefs about yourself and discuss what you feel might be missing in your life. Psychotherapy can help remove dysfunctional behaviors and habits that impede personal and career success so that you have a better chance of leading a rewarding life. If you commit to the process of this work I'm confident I can help you accomplish goals which you set for our work together.
(646) 760-4562 View (646) 760-4562
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Josh Dodes
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW
Verified Verified
17 Endorsed
New York, NY 10011  (Online Only)
Deciding to begin psychotherapy is one of the kindest and most important choices you can make for yourself. It can be a turning point in your life, but it can also feel scary to talk to someone you don't know well. I work with individuals and couples, providing a warm, safe, confidential environment where I will listen carefully and where we will work together to understand and resolve the issues you are struggling with--both in terms of how they affect your current life and in terms of how they became issues in the first place.
Deciding to begin psychotherapy is one of the kindest and most important choices you can make for yourself. It can be a turning point in your life, but it can also feel scary to talk to someone you don't know well. I work with individuals and couples, providing a warm, safe, confidential environment where I will listen carefully and where we will work together to understand and resolve the issues you are struggling with--both in terms of how they affect your current life and in terms of how they became issues in the first place.
(646) 495-9705 View (646) 495-9705
Photo of Jonathan Michael Wormhoudt, Psychologist in 10011, NY
Jonathan Michael Wormhoudt
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10011
If you're affected by daily stresses of life, significant issues related to depression, anxiety or interpersonal relationships, I am a New York licensed psychologist and certified psychoanalyst that will help you resolve these problems. Clients gain insight into what's troubling them so that they can manage their issues more effectively. I work in an intimate setting, situated in a comfortable environment overlooking a private garden. It is a safe and confidential space. I work with people who are having difficulty developing and or maintaining significant relationships, experiencing depression, anxiety, low self esteem, feelings of being unlovable, or "just getting by" rather than thriving.
If you're affected by daily stresses of life, significant issues related to depression, anxiety or interpersonal relationships, I am a New York licensed psychologist and certified psychoanalyst that will help you resolve these problems. Clients gain insight into what's troubling them so that they can manage their issues more effectively. I work in an intimate setting, situated in a comfortable environment overlooking a private garden. It is a safe and confidential space. I work with people who are having difficulty developing and or maintaining significant relationships, experiencing depression, anxiety, low self esteem, feelings of being unlovable, or "just getting by" rather than thriving.
(646) 798-8385 View (646) 798-8385
Photo of Louise Lasson, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in 10011, NY
Louise Lasson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New York, NY 10011
Not accepting new clients
I am currently only accepting therapists and practitioners seeking IFS consultation. Feeling stuck, such as repeatedly finding yourself in unsatisfying or even toxic relationships, is a common reason people come to therapy. For example, a person who grew up with a raging parent. In order for that child to survive, s/he would have to "turn off" that part of themselves that signals danger or else risk constant emotional overload. Now, as an adult, that person engages in unhealthy relationships because they never turned their danger signal back on. I am currently unable to accept any new Metroplus/Affinity/Beacon clients.
I am currently only accepting therapists and practitioners seeking IFS consultation. Feeling stuck, such as repeatedly finding yourself in unsatisfying or even toxic relationships, is a common reason people come to therapy. For example, a person who grew up with a raging parent. In order for that child to survive, s/he would have to "turn off" that part of themselves that signals danger or else risk constant emotional overload. Now, as an adult, that person engages in unhealthy relationships because they never turned their danger signal back on. I am currently unable to accept any new Metroplus/Affinity/Beacon clients.
(646) 600-5143 View (646) 600-5143
Photo of Cenk Cokuslu, Licensed Psychoanalyst in 10011, NY
Cenk Cokuslu
Licensed Psychoanalyst, LP, NCPsyA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
New York, NY 10011
I consider therapy as a journey during which one may eventually reach shores of clarity, insight, self-understanding, and transformation. As one sets sail towards the stormy waters of the emotional realm, one gradually discovers the new geographies of conflicted feeling states, ambiguous thinking patterns, and problematically repetitive behaviors in the forgotten coordinates of the inner world buoying at the intersection of the past, the present, and the future.
I consider therapy as a journey during which one may eventually reach shores of clarity, insight, self-understanding, and transformation. As one sets sail towards the stormy waters of the emotional realm, one gradually discovers the new geographies of conflicted feeling states, ambiguous thinking patterns, and problematically repetitive behaviors in the forgotten coordinates of the inner world buoying at the intersection of the past, the present, and the future.
(347) 427-5867 View (347) 427-5867
Photo of Stephane Ohayon, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in 10011, NY
Stephane Ohayon
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10011
An effective mental health counselor is a social anthropologist at heart with a profound knowledge of ethnicity, sociology, race, religious and/or spiritual denominations,family dynamics and how economics influence and determine emotional conflicts. Fluent in French, Spanish and English, well-travelled and well-versed in the arts and literature of other countries and with a subtancial background in psychology and psychoanalysis I approach emotional issues with flexibility and relevance to the individual patient. I delve into the client's self and biographical life to mobilize hidden forces, unused energies to assist him/her in the struggle to prevail.
An effective mental health counselor is a social anthropologist at heart with a profound knowledge of ethnicity, sociology, race, religious and/or spiritual denominations,family dynamics and how economics influence and determine emotional conflicts. Fluent in French, Spanish and English, well-travelled and well-versed in the arts and literature of other countries and with a subtancial background in psychology and psychoanalysis I approach emotional issues with flexibility and relevance to the individual patient. I delve into the client's self and biographical life to mobilize hidden forces, unused energies to assist him/her in the struggle to prevail.
(212) 300-5971 View (212) 300-5971
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Gregory Kushnick
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
New York, NY 10011
I want to help you gain a greater sense of control over difficult thoughts and feelings. Clients often begin therapy requesting concrete tools to walk away with from each session. This is something I offer through through my enhanced cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) approach, with a dual focus on techniques for altering unhealthy thoughts and behavior, and for improving insight, awareness, and mindfulness. I have a long track record of creating powerful results for my clients.
I want to help you gain a greater sense of control over difficult thoughts and feelings. Clients often begin therapy requesting concrete tools to walk away with from each session. This is something I offer through through my enhanced cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) approach, with a dual focus on techniques for altering unhealthy thoughts and behavior, and for improving insight, awareness, and mindfulness. I have a long track record of creating powerful results for my clients.
(917) 652-6914 View (917) 652-6914
Photo of Brennan Pedersen, Licensed Psychoanalyst in 10011, NY
Brennan Pedersen
Licensed Psychoanalyst, MA, LP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New York, NY 10011
Putting thoughts and emotions into words can have surprising and powerful results. There is a freedom in saying out loud what we have withheld or only said or ourselves. We begin to see our world from new perspectives, develop new ways of being in the world, and begin to make new choices. The purpose of a therapist is to be the person in your life undergoing this process with you, as a companion and guide. This is how I understand my work.
Putting thoughts and emotions into words can have surprising and powerful results. There is a freedom in saying out loud what we have withheld or only said or ourselves. We begin to see our world from new perspectives, develop new ways of being in the world, and begin to make new choices. The purpose of a therapist is to be the person in your life undergoing this process with you, as a companion and guide. This is how I understand my work.
(332) 263-4474 View (332) 263-4474
Photo of Jed Turnbull, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in 10011, NY
Jed Turnbull
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW, CHT
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10011
Any form of psychotherapy must be guided by one overarching purpose: to help you achieve your goals. Treatment alleviates distress and results in greater inner strength. Accordingly, therapy must be a constructive experience, and as work proceeds, you'll experience advances in your sense of well-being. On the whole, expect an upward trend of hope and greater self-esteem. Your capacity for intimacy with others and your sense of fulfillment will increase, concomitant with a decrease in suffering and pain. Psychotherapy helps to establish a profound, meaningful and healthy sense of connectedness with your world and those in it.
Any form of psychotherapy must be guided by one overarching purpose: to help you achieve your goals. Treatment alleviates distress and results in greater inner strength. Accordingly, therapy must be a constructive experience, and as work proceeds, you'll experience advances in your sense of well-being. On the whole, expect an upward trend of hope and greater self-esteem. Your capacity for intimacy with others and your sense of fulfillment will increase, concomitant with a decrease in suffering and pain. Psychotherapy helps to establish a profound, meaningful and healthy sense of connectedness with your world and those in it.
(917) 746-5189 View (917) 746-5189
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Howard S Cohn
BA, MS
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10011
Life gives us challenges. These challenges can include anxiety, depression, difficulties in relationships, or just feeling stuck in life. However, we do not have to face these challenges alone. Through collaboration, we together can create an individualized and comprehensive plan to help you create an identity of your own, integrate positive practices into your daily interactions, and grow to live a happy and healthy life. email address:hcohn144@aol.com 917 414 7949 Mailing address United States P.O. Box 150294 Kew Gardens, New York 11415
Life gives us challenges. These challenges can include anxiety, depression, difficulties in relationships, or just feeling stuck in life. However, we do not have to face these challenges alone. Through collaboration, we together can create an individualized and comprehensive plan to help you create an identity of your own, integrate positive practices into your daily interactions, and grow to live a happy and healthy life. email address:hcohn144@aol.com 917 414 7949 Mailing address United States P.O. Box 150294 Kew Gardens, New York 11415
(646) 859-1322 View (646) 859-1322
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Logan Jones
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
11 Endorsed
New York, NY 10011
Do you want to become the authority in your life? It's not uncommon for high-achieving individuals to struggle with anxiety, imposter syndrome, or finding fulfillment and purpose. I provide therapy for entrepreneurs, creatives, and achievement-oriented individuals. Therapy should be a collaborative, exciting, and rewarding experience. It's the active process of looking deep within and gaining clarity about who you are and what you want. My approach is practical, grounded, and highly engaged. My clients feel more grounded and self-assured as a result of our work together.
Do you want to become the authority in your life? It's not uncommon for high-achieving individuals to struggle with anxiety, imposter syndrome, or finding fulfillment and purpose. I provide therapy for entrepreneurs, creatives, and achievement-oriented individuals. Therapy should be a collaborative, exciting, and rewarding experience. It's the active process of looking deep within and gaining clarity about who you are and what you want. My approach is practical, grounded, and highly engaged. My clients feel more grounded and self-assured as a result of our work together.
(646) 798-8354 View (646) 798-8354
Photo of Alison Cunningham-Goldberg Psychotherapist, Art Therapist in 10011, NY
Alison Cunningham-Goldberg Psychotherapist
Art Therapist, MPS, LCAT, ATR-BC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
New York, NY 10011
Alison's practice consists of professionals from diverse backgrounds, who are navigating careers, balancing family, friends, within the challenges of daily living. Alison has successfully provided treatment for individuals who have had adverse childhood experiences which can manifest in adulthood as depression, anxiety, ptsd, or having trouble setting goals for the future. Alison has extensive experience working with children, adolescence and young adults that identify as neuro-diverse.
Alison's practice consists of professionals from diverse backgrounds, who are navigating careers, balancing family, friends, within the challenges of daily living. Alison has successfully provided treatment for individuals who have had adverse childhood experiences which can manifest in adulthood as depression, anxiety, ptsd, or having trouble setting goals for the future. Alison has extensive experience working with children, adolescence and young adults that identify as neuro-diverse.
(332) 239-1529 View (332) 239-1529
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Ezra Feinberg, PsyD
Psychologist, PsyD, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New York, NY 10011
Through careful listening and an empathic, honest approach I can help you feel better about yourself and your life. You may feel stuck in a job or relationship. You may want more from life but not know how to get it. You may be struggling with with the difficulties of parenthood or marriage. I can help with artistic, creative, or intellectual struggles, body issues, sexual problems, substance issues, imbalances of life and work, impulse control, past trauma, or even just a general lack of inspiration or motivation in life.
Through careful listening and an empathic, honest approach I can help you feel better about yourself and your life. You may feel stuck in a job or relationship. You may want more from life but not know how to get it. You may be struggling with with the difficulties of parenthood or marriage. I can help with artistic, creative, or intellectual struggles, body issues, sexual problems, substance issues, imbalances of life and work, impulse control, past trauma, or even just a general lack of inspiration or motivation in life.
(917) 284-6325 View (917) 284-6325
Sexual Addiction Therapists

When should someone seek treatment for sex addiction?

People should seek treatment for sex addiction if they cannot control their sexual thoughts or behaviours to the point that it disrupts their ability to function in daily life, for example by threatening their finances, career, or relationships. This may include spending an excessive amount of time obsessing over sex, planning sex, watching pornography, or masturbating, as well as consistently engaging in risky sexual activities, using sex to escape distressing feelings, or attempting yet failing to control sexual behavior.

What are the most common treatment options for sex addiction?

Psychotherapy is the most common treatment for sex addiction; therapy helps patients better understand their compulsive thoughts and behaviors and develop strategies to manage their desires. Therapy may be supplemented by medications, such as antidepressants, mood stabilizers, anti-androgens, and the alcohol and substance use medication Naltrexone, as well as support groups, such as 12-step programs.

How long does therapy take for sex addiction?

Recovering from compulsive behavior takes time and effort. There’s no precise timeline for treatment, but research suggests 12 therapy sessions may be enough to see change. Treatment for sexual compulsions requires honesty in therapy, a commitment to understanding triggers and developing coping skills, and potential lifestyle changes such as cutting out alcohol or drugs.

What if sex addiction is left untreated?

Compulsive sexual behavior can have serious repercussions if left unaddressed. For example, if sexual obsessions consume the vast majority of a person’s time, they may lose their job. If they can’t stop paying for sex, their finances may suffer. If they’re dishonest in their relationships, their partner may leave them. If they consistently feel shame, they may struggle with anxiety, depression, or loneliness. Therapy can help people develop the tools to manage sexual thoughts and behaviors that feel uncontrollable.