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Asha Gray
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Alexandria, VA 22314
I have years of experience providing sex therapy to individual's and couples seeking sexual & gender identity growth.
Have you felt out of sync, unable to communicate clearly, frustrated and wanting to try something different but unhappy with what you've tried? I enjoy helping folks learn new ways of communicating, finding new perspectives to barriers and working through individual or relationship struggles to have their needs and wants met. If you are having difficulty making it through your everyday, dealing with the stresses of life, or managing anxiety, depression or ADHD; I can help. I will help you learn new coping skills using your own personal strengths to assist you with enhancing your quality of life while building self-compassion.
I have years of experience providing sex therapy to individual's and couples seeking sexual & gender identity growth.
Have you felt out of sync, unable to communicate clearly, frustrated and wanting to try something different but unhappy with what you've tried? I enjoy helping folks learn new ways of communicating, finding new perspectives to barriers and working through individual or relationship struggles to have their needs and wants met. If you are having difficulty making it through your everyday, dealing with the stresses of life, or managing anxiety, depression or ADHD; I can help. I will help you learn new coping skills using your own personal strengths to assist you with enhancing your quality of life while building self-compassion.
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The Pincus Center
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW, CST
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Alexandria, VA 22314
The Pincus Center specializes in sex positive therapy for individuals and relationships.
The Pincus Center specializes in working with clients to build a life filled with pleasure and joy. We will help you to find your inner voice, establish your own goals and find a path that works for you. There is no one true way to do therapy or to live your life. We will help you find the tools to ride the waves of emotions that we all experience instead of being pulled under. We can't make everything perfect but we can make it better. We focus on issues around body acceptance, sexual freedom, neurodiversity, shame, low desire, sexual functioning issues and a wide variety of other mental health issues.
The Pincus Center specializes in sex positive therapy for individuals and relationships.
The Pincus Center specializes in working with clients to build a life filled with pleasure and joy. We will help you to find your inner voice, establish your own goals and find a path that works for you. There is no one true way to do therapy or to live your life. We will help you find the tools to ride the waves of emotions that we all experience instead of being pulled under. We can't make everything perfect but we can make it better. We focus on issues around body acceptance, sexual freedom, neurodiversity, shame, low desire, sexual functioning issues and a wide variety of other mental health issues.
(202) 499-2602 View (202) 499-2602
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Christopher Boler
Resident in Counseling, MSEd
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Alexandria, VA 22314  (Online Only)
My specialties include LGBTQ+ and BIPOC communities, attachment work, people living with HIV, gender exploration, sex therapy, trauma, life adjustments, depression/anxiety, perfectionism and other mental health concerns.
Are some of your past coping skills not having the same effect? In our sessions, we will focus on being present with our mind and body. Through this gained awareness, we will co-construct meaningful experiences. Sometimes we may need the space or support to tune into our needs, body and its reactions. Therapy can be a place to learn and cultivate that. I use an integrative approach to counseling and therapy. This way, I tailor make our treatment to meet your goals. I'm trained in LGBTQ+ affirming counseling, CBT, Person Centered, Gestalt and Narrative Therapies.
My specialties include LGBTQ+ and BIPOC communities, attachment work, people living with HIV, gender exploration, sex therapy, trauma, life adjustments, depression/anxiety, perfectionism and other mental health concerns.
Are some of your past coping skills not having the same effect? In our sessions, we will focus on being present with our mind and body. Through this gained awareness, we will co-construct meaningful experiences. Sometimes we may need the space or support to tune into our needs, body and its reactions. Therapy can be a place to learn and cultivate that. I use an integrative approach to counseling and therapy. This way, I tailor make our treatment to meet your goals. I'm trained in LGBTQ+ affirming counseling, CBT, Person Centered, Gestalt and Narrative Therapies.
(571) 418-6281 View (571) 418-6281
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Victoria (Torie) Rohr
Resident in Counseling, LGPC, LPC-R, NCC
Verified Verified
Alexandria, VA 22314
Waitlist for new clients
I have a passion for working with clients in areas that include sexuality, gender, ethical non-monogamy, kink, sexuality and religion, and women’s issues.
As a therapist, my number one goal is to provide a safe space where my clients feel comfortable sharing their issues and concerns as well as exploring possible solutions with me. I strive to provide an environment where you feel safe and valued regardless of your gender, sexuality, race, ethnicity, religion, ability, socioeconomic status, size, or neurodiversity. Whether you are looking to work through relationship concerns, feel stuck and are looking to make a change, or want a safe space to process your unique situation, my door is open.
I have a passion for working with clients in areas that include sexuality, gender, ethical non-monogamy, kink, sexuality and religion, and women’s issues.
As a therapist, my number one goal is to provide a safe space where my clients feel comfortable sharing their issues and concerns as well as exploring possible solutions with me. I strive to provide an environment where you feel safe and valued regardless of your gender, sexuality, race, ethnicity, religion, ability, socioeconomic status, size, or neurodiversity. Whether you are looking to work through relationship concerns, feel stuck and are looking to make a change, or want a safe space to process your unique situation, my door is open.
(703) 750-8195 View (703) 750-8195
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Madison Tincha
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, LGPC, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Alexandria, VA 22314  (Online Only)
Do you find yourself attracted to the same kind of relationships or partners? Are you stuck in the same patterns and stories? I believe I can help you. I work with adult individuals and couples struggling with various relationship issues including the early stages of dating, maintaining secure relationships, attachment trauma/issues, anxiety, and self-esteem. Additionally, I am passionate about integrative couples and sex therapy. I provide support in areas such as infidelity, sexual dissatisfaction, sexual trauma, and sexual disorders. I hope to foster a sex-positive environment that is free of judgment.
Do you find yourself attracted to the same kind of relationships or partners? Are you stuck in the same patterns and stories? I believe I can help you. I work with adult individuals and couples struggling with various relationship issues including the early stages of dating, maintaining secure relationships, attachment trauma/issues, anxiety, and self-esteem. Additionally, I am passionate about integrative couples and sex therapy. I provide support in areas such as infidelity, sexual dissatisfaction, sexual trauma, and sexual disorders. I hope to foster a sex-positive environment that is free of judgment.
(571) 470-5460 View (571) 470-5460
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A Therapeutic Alliance
LICSW, LCSW, LMSW, CST, LGSW
Verified Verified
Alexandria, VA 22314
Discussion topics include: Behavioral challenges at each developmental stage of growth; Handling transitions; How to talk to your straight or LGBTQ teen; and Talking about sex in an honest and responsible way, beyond abstinence.
Using a client-centered approach, our Clinicians help Clients understand and work through problems of everyday living, including relationship issues, work-life balance and self care issues, the impact of traumatic experiences past and present, and issues which affect day-to-day living. Connecting the dots of your inner experience and your outward struggles can be a powerful motivator for change. Together, we keep close track of your goals for therapy and your satisfaction with the results.
Discussion topics include: Behavioral challenges at each developmental stage of growth; Handling transitions; How to talk to your straight or LGBTQ teen; and Talking about sex in an honest and responsible way, beyond abstinence.
Using a client-centered approach, our Clinicians help Clients understand and work through problems of everyday living, including relationship issues, work-life balance and self care issues, the impact of traumatic experiences past and present, and issues which affect day-to-day living. Connecting the dots of your inner experience and your outward struggles can be a powerful motivator for change. Together, we keep close track of your goals for therapy and your satisfaction with the results.
(571) 882-9743 View (571) 882-9743
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Katie Shepherd
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW, CST
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Alexandria, VA 22314  (Online Only)
I am dedicated to helping people realize their personal and relational potential. My expertise and passion is in sex and relationship therapy, and LGBTQ, kink, and polyamory friendly work. I specialize in issues of trauma, sexual assault and abuse, and domestic violence. I assist people in understanding their unhelpful thinking patterns, navigating healthy relationship dynamics, and difficulties in communication.
I am dedicated to helping people realize their personal and relational potential. My expertise and passion is in sex and relationship therapy, and LGBTQ, kink, and polyamory friendly work. I specialize in issues of trauma, sexual assault and abuse, and domestic violence. I assist people in understanding their unhelpful thinking patterns, navigating healthy relationship dynamics, and difficulties in communication.
(703) 454-8330 View (703) 454-8330
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Lisa G Gordon
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST, CSCT
Verified Verified
Alexandria, VA 22314
I have helped hundreds of individuals and couples who struggle with communication, resentment, life changes/transitions, illness, infidelity, and sex.
It's not easy to reach out for help, I am impressed by your courage! I've no doubt that by now, you've already tried numerous times and ways to make the changes in your life you long for. I have over 30 years' experience helping individual adults and couples succeed in getting past their familiar "stuck points," and experience a new sense of motivation, joy, and connection. Whether you feel overwhelmed with anxiety, weighed down with sadness or grief, or have asked yourself "Is this as good as it gets?" about your relationship, marriage, or sex life, I can help bring new vision, energy, hope, and movement to your life!
I have helped hundreds of individuals and couples who struggle with communication, resentment, life changes/transitions, illness, infidelity, and sex.
It's not easy to reach out for help, I am impressed by your courage! I've no doubt that by now, you've already tried numerous times and ways to make the changes in your life you long for. I have over 30 years' experience helping individual adults and couples succeed in getting past their familiar "stuck points," and experience a new sense of motivation, joy, and connection. Whether you feel overwhelmed with anxiety, weighed down with sadness or grief, or have asked yourself "Is this as good as it gets?" about your relationship, marriage, or sex life, I can help bring new vision, energy, hope, and movement to your life!
(571) 248-7861 View (571) 248-7861
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Sara Burleson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LGSW, MSW
Verified Verified
Alexandria, VA 22314  (Online Only)
I'm deeply committed to creating an inclusive and affirming space for all individuals, including members of the LGBTQIA+ community, the kink community, and sex workers. With a sex-positive and affirming approach, I offer support and guidance to clients exploring their identities, relationships, sexual experiences, and lifestyle changes. Whether you're navigating questions of gender identity, sexual orientation, ethical non-monogamy, kink dynamics, or seeking sex therapy, I provide a non-judgmental environment where you can explore these aspects of yourself openly and authentically.
I'm deeply committed to creating an inclusive and affirming space for all individuals, including members of the LGBTQIA+ community, the kink community, and sex workers. With a sex-positive and affirming approach, I offer support and guidance to clients exploring their identities, relationships, sexual experiences, and lifestyle changes. Whether you're navigating questions of gender identity, sexual orientation, ethical non-monogamy, kink dynamics, or seeking sex therapy, I provide a non-judgmental environment where you can explore these aspects of yourself openly and authentically.
(571) 496-8658 View (571) 496-8658
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Rachael Stern
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
Alexandria, VA 22314
Rachael is deeply committed to an anti-racist, HAES celebratory, anti-ableist, sex positive practice and looks forward to celebrating whatever your fullest self looks like.
The status quo tells us we can’t trust ourselves, our knowing, or our bodies. Rachael believes that our innate knowing - when we can access it, is not only the gold we seek, but the light we shine for ourselves and in the world around us. From experience with eating disorders, self-injury, trauma, chronic pain, couples and larger family systems and the LGBTQIA umbrella to professional work in issue focused non-profits/campaigns (and even performing), Rachael is deeply in tune with the political and social ecosystems that our intersectional identities transverse on a moment to moment basis
Rachael is deeply committed to an anti-racist, HAES celebratory, anti-ableist, sex positive practice and looks forward to celebrating whatever your fullest self looks like.
The status quo tells us we can’t trust ourselves, our knowing, or our bodies. Rachael believes that our innate knowing - when we can access it, is not only the gold we seek, but the light we shine for ourselves and in the world around us. From experience with eating disorders, self-injury, trauma, chronic pain, couples and larger family systems and the LGBTQIA umbrella to professional work in issue focused non-profits/campaigns (and even performing), Rachael is deeply in tune with the political and social ecosystems that our intersectional identities transverse on a moment to moment basis
(301) 591-6283 View (301) 591-6283
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Margaret Moira Kappler
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Alexandria, VA 22314  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Not Accepting New Patients. Please reach out and see if there is another good fit at the practice. HMT has many wonderful clinicians! I am comfortable working with many different populations with varying levels of issues. Depression, anxiety, trauma, substance use, and military specific stressors are a small cross-section of the issues I treat. I am a sex-positive, kink informed and trauma informed clinician. I am a laid-back person with a robust, and admittedly sometimes immature, sense of humor who is a big believer in radical acceptance. You can expect these things, and many more during our sessions.
Not Accepting New Patients. Please reach out and see if there is another good fit at the practice. HMT has many wonderful clinicians! I am comfortable working with many different populations with varying levels of issues. Depression, anxiety, trauma, substance use, and military specific stressors are a small cross-section of the issues I treat. I am a sex-positive, kink informed and trauma informed clinician. I am a laid-back person with a robust, and admittedly sometimes immature, sense of humor who is a big believer in radical acceptance. You can expect these things, and many more during our sessions.
(540) 845-6940 View (540) 845-6940
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Dr. Tracy Blanchard, LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPC, NCC, CHST
Verified Verified
Alexandria, VA 22314
Are you struggling with depression, anxiety or emotional triggers from your past? Are your relationships less fulfilling than you want them to be? Have feelings of resentment from past difficulties negatively affected the closeness of your relationship or sex life? Are you in "gridlock," repeating patterns? If you answered yes to any of these questions, we can create a customized plan to help you. Combining my specialized training with your desire to change, we will work together to develop an integrated approach to enhance your relationships and emotional health. Specialties include emotional triggers, clinical sexology, Individual, relationship and couples work.
Are you struggling with depression, anxiety or emotional triggers from your past? Are your relationships less fulfilling than you want them to be? Have feelings of resentment from past difficulties negatively affected the closeness of your relationship or sex life? Are you in "gridlock," repeating patterns? If you answered yes to any of these questions, we can create a customized plan to help you. Combining my specialized training with your desire to change, we will work together to develop an integrated approach to enhance your relationships and emotional health. Specialties include emotional triggers, clinical sexology, Individual, relationship and couples work.
(703) 215-9168 View (703) 215-9168
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Yasmine Kaidbey
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Alexandria, VA 22314  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
I believe that we all strive to be more authentic in our lives but sometimes get lost along the way. Together, you and I will explore your concerns at your pace and try to get more clarity. I work with individuals and how they view themselves, others, and their world. I am committed to working with you to foster greater insight and improve your agency in your life. I also collaborate with people in relationships to help them reconnect and communicate better. I'm also getting trained in sex therapy, as well as couples' therapy.
I believe that we all strive to be more authentic in our lives but sometimes get lost along the way. Together, you and I will explore your concerns at your pace and try to get more clarity. I work with individuals and how they view themselves, others, and their world. I am committed to working with you to foster greater insight and improve your agency in your life. I also collaborate with people in relationships to help them reconnect and communicate better. I'm also getting trained in sex therapy, as well as couples' therapy.
(703) 750-8754 View (703) 750-8754
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Dianne B Modell
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CIRT, CMT
Verified Verified
Alexandria, VA 22314
You will feel deeply listened to in safety. I use an Integrative, collaborative approach to meet you where you. are I work with, depression, inner conflict, grief, loss, anxiety, finding Advanced certificates, ie, Somatic healing, Certified Imago Relationship training: teaching individuals/couples trust-building, communication, conflict tools,re-romanticizing, enhancing sexuality, "pleasure bonding" to fuel the hard work. I work with Cancer Recovery. My Groups: focus on support, empowerment, self actualization, relationship challenges; emotionally corrective experience. In all my work, I emphasize inner guidance, authenticity.
You will feel deeply listened to in safety. I use an Integrative, collaborative approach to meet you where you. are I work with, depression, inner conflict, grief, loss, anxiety, finding Advanced certificates, ie, Somatic healing, Certified Imago Relationship training: teaching individuals/couples trust-building, communication, conflict tools,re-romanticizing, enhancing sexuality, "pleasure bonding" to fuel the hard work. I work with Cancer Recovery. My Groups: focus on support, empowerment, self actualization, relationship challenges; emotionally corrective experience. In all my work, I emphasize inner guidance, authenticity.
(703) 468-8859 View (703) 468-8859
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Sunstone Counseling
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
27 Endorsed
Alexandria, VA 22314
In my clinical practice, Sunstone Counseling, I help clients overcome a variety of concerns related to the symptoms of anxiety, panic disorder, depression, bipolar disorder, grief/loss, suicidal ideation, shame, low self-esteem, body image, betrayal, and relationship issues. I specialize in women’s issues (pregnancy, perinatal mood disorders, becoming a new mom, and sexuality issues) and couples work (premarital counseling, new parents, low/no sex, repair after an affair, and second marriages – to name a few). I completed Brené Brown’s Daring Way training and am a Certified Daring Way Facilitator.
In my clinical practice, Sunstone Counseling, I help clients overcome a variety of concerns related to the symptoms of anxiety, panic disorder, depression, bipolar disorder, grief/loss, suicidal ideation, shame, low self-esteem, body image, betrayal, and relationship issues. I specialize in women’s issues (pregnancy, perinatal mood disorders, becoming a new mom, and sexuality issues) and couples work (premarital counseling, new parents, low/no sex, repair after an affair, and second marriages – to name a few). I completed Brené Brown’s Daring Way training and am a Certified Daring Way Facilitator.
(540) 947-1929 View (540) 947-1929
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Dr. Danielle Armour
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW, CST
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Alexandria, VA 22314  (Online Only)
I specialize in sexual health, intimacy, and relationships, especially the one we have with self. I am passionate about helping you (and yours) enrich your lives—by empowering you to unpack what’s preventing you from fully embracing all of life’s pleasures. I believe that we all have the intrinsic ability to heal ourselves. In my practice, psychotherapy is a journey of self healing, with me as your guide. Connection is one of our most powerful tools, and through connecting with me, together, we will cultivate transformation and uncover the peace that lies within you.
I specialize in sexual health, intimacy, and relationships, especially the one we have with self. I am passionate about helping you (and yours) enrich your lives—by empowering you to unpack what’s preventing you from fully embracing all of life’s pleasures. I believe that we all have the intrinsic ability to heal ourselves. In my practice, psychotherapy is a journey of self healing, with me as your guide. Connection is one of our most powerful tools, and through connecting with me, together, we will cultivate transformation and uncover the peace that lies within you.
(804) 531-5166 View (804) 531-5166
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Harley Jones
Resident in Counseling, MA, MEd, NCC
Verified Verified
Alexandria, VA 22314  (Online Only)
In therapy and beyond, I believe in the power of self-expression to help us grow and experience the best that life has to offer. I see therapy as a place to better get to know ourselves, process experiences and emotions, and hear a different perspective about challenges that we may struggle to see clearly. Therapy can be many things: a place to clarify our identity, strengthen communication skills, change habits, or support mindfulness in our everyday lives.
In therapy and beyond, I believe in the power of self-expression to help us grow and experience the best that life has to offer. I see therapy as a place to better get to know ourselves, process experiences and emotions, and hear a different perspective about challenges that we may struggle to see clearly. Therapy can be many things: a place to clarify our identity, strengthen communication skills, change habits, or support mindfulness in our everyday lives.
(540) 845-6940 x1 View (540) 845-6940 x1
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Sophie Conklin
Supervisee in Clinical Social Work, MSW
Verified Verified
Alexandria, VA 22314  (Online Only)
Hi, my name is Sophie Conklin. I work with A Rhaea Hope Mental Health Agency to provide therapy to those seeking counseling regarding but not limited to: LGBTQ+ topics, Women's Issues, Sexual Assault, Domestic Violence, Trauma Recovery, Relationship Issues (romantic or plutonic), Anxiety, and Depression. I also work with clients on subjects like Body Image, Self Esteem, Stress, and PTSD. If you're seeking to arrive at tranquility or a content state of mind and body, I would love to take steps together to enhance your prosperity.
Hi, my name is Sophie Conklin. I work with A Rhaea Hope Mental Health Agency to provide therapy to those seeking counseling regarding but not limited to: LGBTQ+ topics, Women's Issues, Sexual Assault, Domestic Violence, Trauma Recovery, Relationship Issues (romantic or plutonic), Anxiety, and Depression. I also work with clients on subjects like Body Image, Self Esteem, Stress, and PTSD. If you're seeking to arrive at tranquility or a content state of mind and body, I would love to take steps together to enhance your prosperity.
(571) 570-9503 View (571) 570-9503
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Leah McNeil
Pre-Licensed Professional
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Alexandria, VA 22314
Currently have openings for new clients! Whether you are questioning your identity, struggling with body image or self-esteem, or going through transitions in life, you have made a powerful first step by being here. As a Therapist, I strive to create a safe, non-judgmental, and collaborative environment where growth can be fostered. I primarily use a person-centered, DBT, and CBT-based approach to meet my clients where they are, celebrate individualism, and work toward their goals.
Currently have openings for new clients! Whether you are questioning your identity, struggling with body image or self-esteem, or going through transitions in life, you have made a powerful first step by being here. As a Therapist, I strive to create a safe, non-judgmental, and collaborative environment where growth can be fostered. I primarily use a person-centered, DBT, and CBT-based approach to meet my clients where they are, celebrate individualism, and work toward their goals.
(571) 440-7703 View (571) 440-7703
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Emily Dowling
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Alexandria, VA 22314  (Online Only)
All your effort to manage stress without support has left you exhausted and irritable. The past is still a source of pain that continues to flare up in the present. Your key relationships aren't fulfilling, disconnection has somehow become the norm, and you're stuck in a vicious circle of miscommunication and loneliness. Maybe your relationships have never felt secure and you're afraid this means you're broken. It's difficult to believe, but your relationships can become a source of safety, strength, and healing. Whether it's with yourself or with a loved one, I'm ready to support you in finding out what's possible.
All your effort to manage stress without support has left you exhausted and irritable. The past is still a source of pain that continues to flare up in the present. Your key relationships aren't fulfilling, disconnection has somehow become the norm, and you're stuck in a vicious circle of miscommunication and loneliness. Maybe your relationships have never felt secure and you're afraid this means you're broken. It's difficult to believe, but your relationships can become a source of safety, strength, and healing. Whether it's with yourself or with a loved one, I'm ready to support you in finding out what's possible.
(571) 366-3753 View (571) 366-3753
Sex Therapy

Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.